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Why do single guys get offended so easily when woman aren't interested,like it's not the end of the world, accept it and move on with your life, I only ever send 1 measege and if it's not replied to or it's deleted then clearly the woman isn't interested, it not rocket science but I don't think messaging her 10x and hoping for a response is gonna change her mind lol. |
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By *ustBoWoman 38 weeks ago
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Most guys don't do that on here. And for the few that do then it's just as easy to just block them.
I also find virtue signalling to be about as on point as the few who do pester tho. But that's just me.
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I'll reply with a question.
Why do women and couples get so offended when single men turn them down?
Not all of them do but then again neither do all men?
It's often claimed on here that men think they are entitled to a shag or even a reply.
Then again some women and couples think that all men should be grateful for any attention at all and therefore should always say yes to any and all offers.
Entitlement is entitlement regardless of gender or the reasons behind it.
Some people can't take rejection and react badly
Some people aren't used to being told no and react badly. |
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By *hilloutMan 38 weeks ago
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"I'll reply with a question.
Why do women and couples get so offended when single men turn them down?
Not all of them do but then again neither do all men?
It's often claimed on here that men think they are entitled to a shag or even a reply.
Then again some women and couples think that all men should be grateful for any attention at all and therefore should always say yes to any and all offers.
Entitlement is entitlement regardless of gender or the reasons behind it.
Some people can't take rejection and react badly
Some people aren't used to being told no and react badly. "
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By *nnCeeWoman 38 weeks ago
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Many people get upset, whoever they are.
Depends how comfortable you are with rejection, and what you infer that to mean about yourself...
If you're constantly turned down, it's not going to make you feel great about yourself, is it?
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Does not just apply to men.
If you take the numbers of men to women on this site then more men will appear to be offended by rejection.
However if you had a way to work it out has a percentage based on gender it could be equal how people feel about rejection.
1000 men 100 get offended/upset.
100 women 10 get offended/upset.
Both is 10% for example.
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"Most guys don't do that on here. And for the few that do then it's just as easy to just block them.
I also find virtue signalling to be about as on point as the few who do pester tho. But that's just me.
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Great shout. And no that's not a covert VS from me. You've just stole my thoughts. |
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I send five messages minimum right off the bat. If I then get a negative response or no response at all I immediately send 200 messages filled with the most abusive language I can think of. I do this because I am convinced that if I want a woman to do as I say the best way to achieve that is to be unspeakably unpleasant to them. Works every time! |
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"I think I might get a bit spiky at constant rejection. "
Yeah. I'm quite happy to say I get why they're upset, but it doesn't mean that behaving that way is appropriate.
I'm a big fan of writing things down and destroying them before they get out. Delete is sufficient for Fab frustration. Burning actual paper for something more intense. My feelings at the end of my marriage might have developed a carbon footprint  |
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By *lder.Woman 38 weeks ago
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"I think I might get a bit spiky at constant rejection.
Yeah. I'm quite happy to say I get why they're upset, but it doesn't mean that behaving that way is appropriate.
I'm a big fan of writing things down and destroying them before they get out. Delete is sufficient for Fab frustration. Burning actual paper for something more intense. My feelings at the end of my marriage might have developed a carbon footprint "
Ive found a few of my notebooks from more 'interesting times' I need to start a bonfire  |
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"Why do single guys get offended so easily when woman aren't interested,like it's not the end of the world, accept it and move on with your life, I only ever send 1 measege and if it's not replied to or it's deleted then clearly the woman isn't interested, it not rocket science but I don't think messaging her 10x and hoping for a response is gonna change her mind lol. "
Why do some women get offended by single men having profile cock pics? People get easily offended nowadays! |
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"I think I might get a bit spiky at constant rejection.
Yeah. I'm quite happy to say I get why they're upset, but it doesn't mean that behaving that way is appropriate.
I'm a big fan of writing things down and destroying them before they get out. Delete is sufficient for Fab frustration. Burning actual paper for something more intense. My feelings at the end of my marriage might have developed a carbon footprint
Ive found a few of my notebooks from more 'interesting times' I need to start a bonfire "
oh it feels so good. do it! |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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Life huh.. Sucks.
Single women... Are perfect. No.They too can be just like single males.
At a life disco. Single males and females get disappointed you know it's life.
Rejection for both sexes is hard for many. It is like we owe them something for being here. We don't owe anyone anything harsh as it sounds. |
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"Life huh.. Sucks.
Single women... Are perfect. No.They too can be just like single males.
At a life disco. Single males and females get disappointed you know it's life.
Rejection for both sexes is hard for many. It is like we owe them something for being here. We don't owe anyone anything harsh as it sounds. "
Na it's not harsh, it's reality. |
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Reason I put the post up in the first place is because I've seen on quite a few woman's profiles saying that some guys get abusive on the messages when they don't get a response etc and send like 20 messages to there inbox and get pissie when they don't get a response. |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"Reason I put the post up in the first place is because I've seen on quite a few woman's profiles saying that some guys get abusive on the messages when they don't get a response etc and send like 20 messages to there inbox and get pissie when they don't get a response. "
But that’s just their experience from those specific guys!!!!
And I support them getting pissed at them type of guys.
I actually support an idea that the website should have a questionnaire of around half a dozen questions of yes and no possible answers that cover how FabSwingers would like people to act with respect to everyone, so they are clued up that online abuse is wrong and isn’t tolerated before they create a profile.
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"Why do single guys get offended so easily when woman aren't interested,like it's not the end of the world, accept it and move on with your life, I only ever send 1 measege and if it's not replied to or it's deleted then clearly the woman isn't interested, it not rocket science but I don't think messaging her 10x and hoping for a response is gonna change her mind lol. "
Well said Eddie |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"Send enough and you'll wear them down eventually.
It's science.
Wow! What an awfully bullish attitude. I bet you are mister popular with the ladies? "
Think he meant it as a joke no? Haha |
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"Send enough and you'll wear them down eventually.
It's science.
Wow! What an awfully bullish attitude. I bet you are mister popular with the ladies? "
Wait! Just checked and you only have 1 veri in 9 months! Technique is obviously not working for you then hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"Life huh.. Sucks.
Single women... Are perfect. No.They too can be just like single males.
At a life disco. Single males and females get disappointed you know it's life.
Rejection for both sexes is hard for many. It is like we owe them something for being here. We don't owe anyone anything harsh as it sounds.
Na it's not harsh, it's reality. "
That is me all over Ms sexy Reality  |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"Reason I put the post up in the first place is because I've seen on quite a few woman's profiles saying that some guys get abusive on the messages when they don't get a response etc and send like 20 messages to there inbox and get pissie when they don't get a response. "
If those women took personal responsibility and closed their filters and messaged the guys they like themselves, It would solve the problem they're complaining about on their profiles. They have a solution, they choose not to use it. I wouldn't go being a white Knight on their behalf. But thats just me. |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"Send enough and you'll wear them down eventually.
It's science.
Wow! What an awfully bullish attitude. I bet you are mister popular with the ladies? "
I was quite clearly taking the piss. |
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"Why do single guys get offended so easily when woman aren't interested,like it's not the end of the world, accept it and move on with your life, I only ever send 1 measege and if it's not replied to or it's deleted then clearly the woman isn't interested, it not rocket science but I don't think messaging her 10x and hoping for a response is gonna change her mind lol. "
Where did you park your horse dude? |
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"Why do single guys get offended so easily when woman aren't interested,like it's not the end of the world, accept it and move on with your life, I only ever send 1 measege and if it's not replied to or it's deleted then clearly the woman isn't interested, it not rocket science but I don't think messaging her 10x and hoping for a response is gonna change her mind lol.
Where did you park your horse dude? "
In a tree hahahah lol |
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By *ustBoWoman 38 weeks ago
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"Reason I put the post up in the first place is because I've seen on quite a few woman's profiles saying that some guys get abusive on the messages when they don't get a response etc and send like 20 messages to there inbox and get pissie when they don't get a response. "
Well then why haven't they blocked them after the first few. And use filters. The tools are there for people to use if they want to. But many prefer to complain about it rather than being pro active about things themselves. But then I suppose it works because people like you op then fall for the poor me updates they put up and give them all the attention they so seek .And all that does is get them more messages from people claiming they are not like those guys until a few messages later when they sometimes just prove they are  |
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"Reason I put the post up in the first place is because I've seen on quite a few woman's profiles saying that some guys get abusive on the messages when they don't get a response etc and send like 20 messages to there inbox and get pissie when they don't get a response.
Well then why haven't they blocked them after the first few. And use filters. The tools are there for people to use if they want to. But many prefer to complain about it rather than being pro active about things themselves. But then I suppose it works because people like you op then fall for the poor me updates they put up and give them all the attention they so seek .And all that does is get them more messages from people claiming they are not like those guys until a few messages later when they sometimes just prove they are "
But, but, but ......... |
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"Reason I put the post up in the first place is because I've seen on quite a few woman's profiles saying that some guys get abusive on the messages when they don't get a response etc and send like 20 messages to there inbox and get pissie when they don't get a response.
Well then why haven't they blocked them after the first few. And use filters. The tools are there for people to use if they want to. But many prefer to complain about it rather than being pro active about things themselves. But then I suppose it works because people like you op then fall for the poor me updates they put up and give them all the attention they so seek .And all that does is get them more messages from people claiming they are not like those guys until a few messages later when they sometimes just prove they are "
Yess ......poor me ......oh no .....hahahahaha lol
Just trying to create a conversation dude, chill hahahaha |
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By *ustBoWoman 38 weeks ago
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"Reason I put the post up in the first place is because I've seen on quite a few woman's profiles saying that some guys get abusive on the messages when they don't get a response etc and send like 20 messages to there inbox and get pissie when they don't get a response.
Well then why haven't they blocked them after the first few. And use filters. The tools are there for people to use if they want to. But many prefer to complain about it rather than being pro active about things themselves. But then I suppose it works because people like you op then fall for the poor me updates they put up and give them all the attention they so seek .And all that does is get them more messages from people claiming they are not like those guys until a few messages later when they sometimes just prove they are
Yess ......poor me ......oh no .....hahahahaha lol
Just trying to create a conversation dude, chill hahahaha "
Dude really  how old are you
I replied to your post it's not my fault you don't like the answer |
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"Reason I put the post up in the first place is because I've seen on quite a few woman's profiles saying that some guys get abusive on the messages when they don't get a response etc and send like 20 messages to there inbox and get pissie when they don't get a response.
Well then why haven't they blocked them after the first few. And use filters. The tools are there for people to use if they want to. But many prefer to complain about it rather than being pro active about things themselves. But then I suppose it works because people like you op then fall for the poor me updates they put up and give them all the attention they so seek .And all that does is get them more messages from people claiming they are not like those guys until a few messages later when they sometimes just prove they are
Yess ......poor me ......oh no .....hahahahaha lol
Just trying to create a conversation dude, chill hahahaha
Dude really how old are you
I replied to your post it's not my fault you don't like the answer "
Also I find everyone's different opinions interesting, also I joke around alot, I don't take things to seriously, life's to short |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"Send enough and you'll wear them down eventually.
It's science.
It's not the Shawshank Redemption  "
Is that the one with Julia Roberts and Denzel Washington? |
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By *r_reusMan 38 weeks ago
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"Send enough and you'll wear them down eventually.
It's science.
It's not the Shawshank Redemption
Is that the one with Julia Roberts and Denzel Washington?"
Yes, where Washington spends 20 years trying to escape from prison by using Julia Roberts to gradually cut a hole through his cell wall |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"Reason I put the post up in the first place is because I've seen on quite a few woman's profiles saying that some guys get abusive on the messages when they don't get a response etc and send like 20 messages to there inbox and get pissie when they don't get a response.
If those women took personal responsibility and closed their filters and messaged the guys they like themselves, It would solve the problem they're complaining about on their profiles. They have a solution, they choose not to use it. I wouldn't go being a white Knight on their behalf. But thats just me. "
Oh we do filter the dregs but never mind I use the block. |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"Send enough and you'll wear them down eventually.
It's science.
It's not the Shawshank Redemption
Is that the one with Julia Roberts and Denzel Washington?
Yes, where Washington spends 20 years trying to escape from prison by using Julia Roberts to gradually cut a hole through his cell wall "
She is very angular, probably the best person to use. |
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By *r_reusMan 38 weeks ago
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"Send enough and you'll wear them down eventually.
It's science.
It's not the Shawshank Redemption
Is that the one with Julia Roberts and Denzel Washington?
Yes, where Washington spends 20 years trying to escape from prison by using Julia Roberts to gradually cut a hole through his cell wall
She is very angular, probably the best person to use."
Well Christina Angulera was originally considered for the role for that reason, but wasn't available at the time as she was trying to promote her debut single 'Hit Me Baby One More Time' |
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Lmao, hope this has the ladies of fab throwing their knickers at you.
It’s either genius or madness but hey I like it as a curveball attempt at getting a meet
Let me know if white knighting works and I’ll saddle up and try it myself |
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"Lmao, hope this has the ladies of fab throwing their knickers at you.
It’s either genius or madness but hey I like it as a curveball attempt at getting a meet
Let me know if white knighting works and I’ll saddle up and try it myself "
I have no idea what that is even supposed to mean lol haha |
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"Send enough and you'll wear them down eventually.
It's science.
It's not the Shawshank Redemption
Is that the one with Julia Roberts and Denzel Washington?"
The one where he asks her out and she says no and then he sent her letters every day?
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"Lmao, hope this has the ladies of fab throwing their knickers at you.
It’s either genius or madness but hey I like it as a curveball attempt at getting a meet
Let me know if white knighting works and I’ll saddle up and try it myself
I have no idea what that is even supposed to mean lol haha"
Galloping in to save the maidens from the baddies. |
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"Lmao, hope this has the ladies of fab throwing their knickers at you.
It’s either genius or madness but hey I like it as a curveball attempt at getting a meet
Let me know if white knighting works and I’ll saddle up and try it myself
I have no idea what that is even supposed to mean lol haha
Galloping in to save the maidens from the baddies. "
It's every man for himself, I'm saving na one hahah stay in distress I'm saving myself hahahaha lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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Hmmm... Not interested a great immunity to it at times it helps me sort the tea leaves.
Talking of tea anyone fancy a cup of tea.. Answer only not interested |
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"Hmmm... Not interested a great immunity to it at times it helps me sort the tea leaves.
Talking of tea anyone fancy a cup of tea.. Answer only not interested "
Ummmm do we get biscuits as well ? lol |
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"I ment to write why do some single guys, not why do single guys lol oops "
Nice bit of back tracking there Op, the thread not going as you hoped
In answer to your question......
The women always answer the 10th message
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"Lmao, hope this has the ladies of fab throwing their knickers at you.
It’s either genius or madness but hey I like it as a curveball attempt at getting a meet
Let me know if white knighting works and I’ll saddle up and try it myself
I have no idea what that is even supposed to mean lol haha
Galloping in to save the maidens from the baddies. "
Time to saddle up
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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This isn't real life. The person rejecting you is judging you on a few lines of text and a few pictures.
It's nothing personal, either the person has had simular profiles turn them off or you just arnt a bit of them.
Some people are entitled and think "how dare you turn me down"
Some have maybe been turned down that many times its really affecting them.
It's all relative.
Either way, this isn't real life.
If you were being constantly rejected in real life, then I'd do a bit of soul searching. |
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"I ment to write why do some single guys, not why do single guys lol oops
Nice bit of back tracking there Op, the thread not going as you hoped
In answer to your question......
The women always answer the 10th message
Mr "
I wasn't really hoping for anything tbh, I was just curious about what people thought, everyone's entitled to there opinions
I don't really know what you mean by not going my way, I didn't have expectations when I put the post up tbh. |
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"I'll reply with a question.
Why do women and couples get so offended when single men turn them down?
Not all of them do but then again neither do all men?
It's often claimed on here that men think they are entitled to a shag or even a reply.
Then again some women and couples think that all men should be grateful for any attention at all and therefore should always say yes to any and all offers.
Entitlement is entitlement regardless of gender or the reasons behind it.
Some people can't take rejection and react badly
Some people aren't used to being told no and react badly. "
Word brother, word! |
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By *otSoPoshWoman 38 weeks ago
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"I send five messages minimum right off the bat. If I then get a negative response or no response at all I immediately send 200 messages filled with the most abusive language I can think of. I do this because I am convinced that if I want a woman to do as I say the best way to achieve that is to be unspeakably unpleasant to them. Works every time!"
21 abusive messages is the charm. Just FYI. |
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