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Definitely not for me!
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I've been looking at this swingers world but definitely not for me!
Well I mean I won't be comfortable to know that someone sticked his dick in my wife and after I have to do it, no I can't and I'll never can.
Also seen a video with a couple where his wife were rimming and another guy, well I'll never kiss my partner if she would do something like that.
Anyway I know that in the end is about boundaries and stuff but is that so much you can loose and nearly nothing to gain from this game.
I think is definitely not for me
At least I had a look around chat with a few people (weird) but I can't be part of this world as I don't want to regret it later! |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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It isn’t for all
But also years and years ago I was the same before fab
But my eye have been opened wide
To say I was convennul is a understatement
But after reflecting on past mistakes and stuff
And what could have been different if say my eyes were this wide open back then to now
I have realised realship are much more than sex
I have came to the realisation that maybe I can’t forfill someone’s total desires all by my self
I have also came to the realseshoin everyone has a past everone has been sexually active so why get hung up on who done what with who bl bl
just something I would like to point out
You sed you wouldn’t kiss your partner if she had rimmed another guy ever again
Someone you get in to a relationship with may all ready have done previous to meeting you
And now you put them in a position off them not being able to be open with you
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Personally, if you are unable to have sex with your wife because she has had sex with someone else, it does imply that the crux of acceptance lies with you and how you process that. Not saying it is right or wrong. There is no such thing. However if that autonomy was negotiated and blessed in advance, then she is in the clear.
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As for rimming and kissing afterwards, most would brush and gargle. There are always solutions  |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"I've been looking at this swingers world but definitely not for me!
Well I mean I won't be comfortable to know that someone sticked his dick in my wife and after I have to do it, no I can't and I'll never can.
Also seen a video with a couple where his wife were rimming and another guy, well I'll never kiss my partner if she would do something like that.
Anyway I know that in the end is about boundaries and stuff but is that so much you can loose and nearly nothing to gain from this game.
I think is definitely not for me
At least I had a look around chat with a few people (weird) but I can't be part of this world as I don't want to regret it later! "
We all have our reasons, and we are not here to persuade you.
Thanks for sharing.  |
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"I've been looking at this swingers world but definitely not for me!
Well I mean I won't be comfortable to know that someone sticked his dick in my wife and after I have to do it, no I can't and I'll never can.
Also seen a video with a couple where his wife were rimming and another guy, well I'll never kiss my partner if she would do something like that.
Anyway I know that in the end is about boundaries and stuff but is that so much you can loose and nearly nothing to gain from this game.
I think is definitely not for me
At least I had a look around chat with a few people (weird) but I can't be part of this world as I don't want to regret it later! "
its good to realise early you just don't know what we've been up to, even if we are honest in our profiles....... So much is unknown  |
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Well it isn't for you that's fine cheating isn't for me - you can't watch your wife be pounded and go in but your happy to go around pounding others then back to your wife.
Gotta love the double standards here.
I hope she finds your profile & sets one up of her own and has the time of her life.
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Interesting to contrast this post and your profile OP. You seem conflicted or at least contradictory.
You're cheating on your wife. And part of your profile says "I'm not judging anyone's choices".
Then your post has a pop at swingers and other people's sexual preferences.
I'd respectfully suggest you go away and have a long hard hard look at yourself and what you want from your life.
Because rn you appear deeply unhappy. And I'd not wish that on anyone. |
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By *eyeYCouple 38 weeks ago
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Assume this is a touch of attention seeking.
Anyone reverse searched OP's images?
Frankly, hypocrisy.. Your good lady (if she exists of course) is not allowed to explore her desires whilst you indulge yours seemingly behind her back..
But, feel you're correct in this lifestyle isn't for you and very good luck in the future x |
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"I've been looking at this swingers world but definitely not for me!
Well I mean I won't be comfortable to know that someone sticked his dick in my wife and after I have to do it, no I can't and I'll never can.
Also seen a video with a couple where his wife were rimming and another guy, well I'll never kiss my partner if she would do something like that.
Anyway I know that in the end is about boundaries and stuff but is that so much you can loose and nearly nothing to gain from this game.
I think is definitely not for me
At least I had a look around chat with a few people (weird) but I can't be part of this world as I don't want to regret it later! "
where a condom and don't do oral sorted  |
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"I've been looking at this swingers world but definitely not for me!
Well I mean I won't be comfortable to know that someone sticked his dick in my wife and after I have to do it, no I can't and I'll never can.
Also seen a video with a couple where his wife were rimming and another guy, well I'll never kiss my partner if she would do something like that.
Anyway I know that in the end is about boundaries and stuff but is that so much you can loose and nearly nothing to gain from this game.
I think is definitely not for me
At least I had a look around chat with a few people (weird) but I can't be part of this world as I don't want to regret it later! "
Judgemental attitudes have no place in the swingers world so maybe you're right, maybe swinging isn't for you
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"Well it isn't for you that's fine cheating isn't for me - you can't watch your wife be pounded and go in but your happy to go around pounding others then back to your wife.
Gotta love the double standards here.
I hope she finds your profile & sets one up of her own and has the time of her life.
Mrs "
Well said
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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So you are happy to go and be all over another woman, put your dick in her, have her fanny in your face, then go back to your wife who has no idea what you're up to, yet you wouldn't your wife doing that with another man...hmmmmm. Strange logic there mate!
It's much better to swing than it is to cheat, just saying. |
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"So you are happy to go and be all over another woman, put your dick in her, have her fanny in your face, then go back to your wife who has no idea what you're up to, yet you wouldn't your wife doing that with another man...hmmmmm. Strange logic there mate!
It's much better to swing than it is to cheat, just saying."
Urgh fanny in face. I miss it  |
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"So you are happy to go and be all over another woman, put your dick in her, have her fanny in your face, then go back to your wife who has no idea what you're up to, yet you wouldn't your wife doing that with another man...hmmmmm. Strange logic there mate!
It's much better to swing than it is to cheat, just saying.
Urgh fanny in face. I miss it "
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