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By *ea monkey OP Man 46 weeks ago
Manchester (he/him) |
After a comment from one of my partners over the weekend, I’ve been left mulling and it’s percolated through into the steamy brew of a rumination and a question. Now I know that this isn’t the best place for this question but for those of you that are into the spicier side of sex, I’ve got a poser;
Do you think that it’s possible and reasonable to have several kink dynamics with different people at the same time? |
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Of course it is.
I think if you're doing that 24/7 TPE thing then it's unreasonable to try to have other partners expected to work around that.
But personally, what I do with one person is absolutely nothing to do with another  |
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Yes it is possible and I have this, I have a primary who is my partner and my collared sub and also a kinky play partner as well, both sexual, both fulfill my kink needs and wants, being poly this kind of thing is quite normal in the kink world |
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Iam a bit stuck for room ,three maybe 4 is the safe limit. Sometimes people think they know themselves before they come to me and can offer resistance, but are easily corrected and happier, celebrity types are the worst. |
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Definitely! What I enjoy with one partner, holds no joy for me with other partners.
But maybe that's because my kink is (to some extent) pleasing, and seeing my partner aroused. What turns him on - whomever he is at the time - gets me turned on. |
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In principal, yes of course. To me, I don't think the notion is any different from having multiple partners.
In practice, I guess it depends on what that kink dynamic is and whether it may affect other partners in ways they are uncomfortable with e.g. seeing marks on you left by another person. For me it all comes back to the same thing, communication - what works for one partner may not work for another. But that's down to the individuals concerned to work out, I don't think there's a one size fits all.
Mrs TMN x |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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"After a comment from one of my partners over the weekend, ….."
Gentle boast.  haha.
And answering your question.
Yes. And I think that’s why I leant towards an open relationship. There are some things I know I can’t or don’t want to do with someone, and I could with someone else.
Eg - I’m not going to be submissive to someone I want to bang like a fucktoy. … 
But I think if I found someone that wanted everything with me, and I want it ALL with them, that would feel pretty special.  |
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"In principal, yes of course. To me, I don't think the notion is any different from having multiple partners.
In practice, I guess it depends on what that kink dynamic is and whether it may affect other partners in ways they are uncomfortable with e.g. seeing marks on you left by another person. For me it all comes back to the same thing, communication - what works for one partner may not work for another. But that's down to the individuals concerned to work out, I don't think there's a one size fits all.
Mrs TMN x"
You've said it perfectly
J |
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