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Rejection sensitivity and I become pretty brutal and short tempered when I'm tired/unwell. Physically I will not start.
I like to think that being self aware of the imperfections makes me at least not a total prick... |
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I have a bit more belly than I’d like. But don’t most of us? And I get self-conscious about spots showing up where my glasses rub on the bridge of my nose. They really bug me.
Huh. That’s quite specific of me I suppose. |
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Lots but there is no point dwelling on them.
I cannot remove my scars or my stretchmarks etc. I cannot make my boobs grow or my frown lines disappear etc.
I can work to have a fit and healthy body, so that is what I do.
Instead of berating my legs for being short, I am proud of them as they will keep running for me when I am tired.
Instead of being down about my belly I am proud of it for having enough muscles to do 6mins of plank work without failing on me etc.
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"Instead of berating my legs for being short, I am proud of them as they will keep running for me when I am tired."
"Well that’s a lie, my mum always said that I’m perfect and I’ve got the best face ever for radio  "
I am loving these two completely different ways of having a positive mental attitude.
Both are valid! Both work! |
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"Instead of berating my legs for being short, I am proud of them as they will keep running for me when I am tired.Well that’s a lie, my mum always said that I’m perfect and I’ve got the best face ever for radio
I am loving these two completely different ways of having a positive mental attitude.
Both are valid! Both work!"
PMA PMA it’s the only way |
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"I have a bit more belly than I’d like. But don’t most of us? And I get self-conscious about spots showing up where my glasses rub on the bridge of my nose. They really bug me.
Huh. That’s quite specific of me I suppose. "
I get annoyed at those bumps too. Got them front and centre this evening. |
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By *ornycougaWoman 48 weeks ago
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No arse. Stomach looks like a deflated balloon. Lost muscle tone on my legs after sickness last year. But hey I have had 3 kids and I've past my half century so it could be worse. I try and focus on the positives than the negatives or my insecurities become debilitating so let's all love the skin we are in  |
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"Instead of berating my legs for being short, I am proud of them as they will keep running for me when I am tired.Well that’s a lie, my mum always said that I’m perfect and I’ve got the best face ever for radio
I am loving these two completely different ways of having a positive mental attitude.
Both are valid! Both work!"
Wish mine involved less sweat though!
Beaver |
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"I have a bit more belly than I’d like. But don’t most of us? And I get self-conscious about spots showing up where my glasses rub on the bridge of my nose. They really bug me.
Huh. That’s quite specific of me I suppose. "
Second the glasses thing... bloody irritating but not as irritating as bring so bloody short sighted |
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"I woke up at 2am, took some chocolate cake back to bed, ate half, went back to sleep and finished the rest for breakfast.
I'm the stuff of dreams "
Honestly that sounds like an amazingly good time to me. Not gonna lie, that is the stuff of dreams
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"I woke up at 2am, took some chocolate cake back to bed, ate half, went back to sleep and finished the rest for breakfast.
I'm the stuff of dreams
Honestly that sounds like an amazingly good time to me. Not gonna lie, that is the stuff of dreams
MrsAbz"
Yeah, no sympathy here. Just mild jealousy.  |
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"I woke up at 2am, took some chocolate cake back to bed, ate half, went back to sleep and finished the rest for breakfast.
I'm the stuff of dreams "
My bedside top drawer is full if snacks for such occasions |
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"I woke up at 2am, took some chocolate cake back to bed, ate half, went back to sleep and finished the rest for breakfast.
I'm the stuff of dreams
My bedside top drawer is full if snacks for such occasions "
Now you’re talking my language |
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"I woke up at 2am, took some chocolate cake back to bed, ate half, went back to sleep and finished the rest for breakfast.
I'm the stuff of dreams
My bedside top drawer is full if snacks for such occasions "
Have you considered a mini fridge for choc ices? |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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The chances are, if I realy fancy someone, I’m going to be kissing each and ever part of her she thinks isn’t perfect.
What I think is imperfect, I pray and hope someone sees it as just me. |
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Small tits. Loose skin on my belly. My whole personality. Scars on my neck and inner thigh. Big ol varicose vein on my knee. Ugly stubby little toes. My nose and ears are too big for my other features. My eyes are small. My hands and shoulders are big and manly. Years of abuse mean my hair is flat and flaccid. Too moody. Too hormonal. Too prone to people pleasing.
The list goes on.
But overall, I'm still hot  |
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"Small tits. Loose skin on my belly. My whole personality. Scars on my neck and inner thigh. Big ol varicose vein on my knee. Ugly stubby little toes. My nose and ears are too big for my other features. My eyes are small. My hands and shoulders are big and manly. Years of abuse mean my hair is flat and flaccid. Too moody. Too hormonal. Too prone to people pleasing.
The list goes on.
But overall, I'm still hot "
I found you a great conversationalist |
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"Small tits. Loose skin on my belly. My whole personality. Scars on my neck and inner thigh. Big ol varicose vein on my knee. Ugly stubby little toes. My nose and ears are too big for my other features. My eyes are small. My hands and shoulders are big and manly. Years of abuse mean my hair is flat and flaccid. Too moody. Too hormonal. Too prone to people pleasing.
The list goes on.
But overall, I'm still hot
I found you a great conversationalist "
Oh I can waffle for days.
I don't think my imperfections outweigh my good points. And the people who do think that aren't my people anyway. So it's all good |
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I have a few battle-worn scars. In particular I have abrasions and scars on the soles of my feet, attributed to the fragments and shards from the porcelain hearts the line the boulevard of broken dreams. |
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"I have a few battle-worn scars. In particular I have abrasions and scars on the soles of my feet, attributed to the fragments and shards from the porcelain hearts the line the boulevard of broken dreams."
Smooth talking bastard  |
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'Imperfections' are what make us uniquely ourselves. They set us apart from the next person, and should be embraced. Without these differences, we'd all be identical clones. And who needs another one of me in the world!! |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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theres not enough paper in the world for me to put mine down but perfection is impssible if we can be kind and our best version of u then i think thats the best we can do |
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By *C79Man 48 weeks ago
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I definitely suffer with the mental image I have of myself. Never liked it never will. I could easily reel off a list of physical things but I also suffer with back pain and a constant, involuntary clenching of my neck/throat muscles. 100% of people would have no idea without being told |
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boob gap
Stretch marks
Mum tum
Bingo wings
A lot of wobbly bits
A mole which sits below my boobs, I usually blur it out of pictures or hide it.
My hair I wanted to grow it for years and now I have, I hate how flat and frizzy it is
Eye bags
Bum - hate how it looks at the moment.
But other than that absolutely nothing |
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"Big arse, boobs, menopause belly"
I'm not sure I'd class those as imperfections, in my humble opinion.
To be honest, my belly is more rotund than I'd like, mainly due to IBS, and my back is a pitted due to bad acne as a youngster, but I see imperfections as a trait of what makes us human. It's taken me a long time to love what I've got (or haven't got), and I feel happier and more attractive for it |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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I have stretch marks on my hips, my ears stick out a little, I have acne scars on my face and dry skin, I wear glasses, have shit hair, bad knees, I don’t have a flat stomach, I’m a grumpy little shit most of the time and my nose has a little bump on it from when I misjudged how much room I had and whacked it off a wardrobe.
Other than that I’m a real catch |
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I’ve said this a few times before so sorry for being boring. Everything.
There is literally not one thing I like about myself. I’ve got a weird disproportionate body that’s also crap at being a body and keeps breaking. I’m currently covered in psoriasis requiring hostipal treatment. I look weird and my brain is a fucking wrongun. And because I’m injured and can’t train but still love shite food, I’m getting chunky.
Some of these are temporary. But I’ve never liked me and would change everything in a heartbeat.
All that said - I am who I am and won’t ever change. So, people can take me for who I am or poke it
#owningmyimperfections |
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Wonky nose, one eye is lower than the other, and I have small hands for my height. Like I've met women with bigger hands than me. Doesn't bother me though. My nan says I'm handsome so it must be true! |
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Faulty brain
Really faulty eyes
Very overweight, although I've always hated my stomach even when I wasn't
Fat thighs
No eyebrows because I keep pulling them out through stress
Oh well I am what I am |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Rejection sensitivity and I become pretty brutal and short tempered when I'm tired/unwell. Physically I will not start.
I like to think that being self aware of the imperfections makes me at least not a total prick..."
Wow you are stunning x |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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Imperfections or gifts that make us different
There are things about me I’d change in a heart beat but they are what I was given and make me who I am so tough one to answer for me |
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Really awful saggy belly. 3 caesarians didn't help. I find it hard to be naked. People think I'm so confident , which I am at face level but not so on a deeper level . Still loving myself in the process though |
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"I’ve said this a few times before so sorry for being boring. Everything.
There is literally not one thing I like about myself. I’ve got a weird disproportionate body that’s also crap at being a body and keeps breaking. I’m currently covered in psoriasis requiring hostipal treatment. I look weird and my brain is a fucking wrongun. And because I’m injured and can’t train but still love shite food, I’m getting chunky.
Some of these are temporary. But I’ve never liked me and would change everything in a heartbeat.
All that said - I am who I am and won’t ever change. So, people can take me for who I am or poke it
#owningmyimperfections"
Psoriasis is the worst! |
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Fat, wobbly, saggy, stretch marks, nose too wide, hair too curly, boobs too small, feet too big, too tall to be "cute", arse too wide. We are our own worst critics. |
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By *ags73Man 48 weeks ago
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"Fat, wobbly, saggy, stretch marks, nose too wide, hair too curly, boobs too small, feet too big, too tall to be "cute", arse too wide. We are our own worst critics. "
Really? Oh goodness no. |
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Proper broken nose and a few scars and lost a half inch off my left leg through a bad break, so slightly tilted! A bone graft scar and massive tinnitus.
Been in the wars but there are plenty worse off than me. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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Big nose, quite bushy eyebrows, not that tall, slim build that makes it tough to build muscle no matter how hard I train, don't exactly have the manliest voice either. |
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