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When you send a message to someone who's profile you don't fit with words to the effect of I just wanted to tell you fill in the blank.
What am i supposed to do with this message? Delete and just glow in the praise from a random in the internet? Message back thank you?
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"When you send a message to someone who's profile you don't fit with words to the effect of I just wanted to tell you fill in the blank.
What am i supposed to do with this message? Delete and just glow in the praise from a random in the internet? Message back thank you?
Men what are you expecting?"
I feel this is a 'case by case' kind of thing.
I generally don't message people if I don't fit their criteria but, sometimes I have a question or, have seen a status by them that I feel I'd like to weigh in on.
I never expect a response, though they're almost always appreciated. |
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"When you send a message to someone who's profile you don't fit with words to the effect of I just wanted to tell you fill in the blank.
What am i supposed to do with this message? Delete and just glow in the praise from a random in the internet? Message back thank you?
Men what are you expecting?
I feel this is a 'case by case' kind of thing.
I generally don't message people if I don't fit their criteria but, sometimes I have a question or, have seen a status by them that I feel I'd like to weigh in on.
I never expect a response, though they're almost always appreciated."
I understand this a bit more. But when its just a compliment i don't see the point. |
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"When you send a message to someone who's profile you don't fit with words to the effect of I just wanted to tell you fill in the blank.
What am i supposed to do with this message? Delete and just glow in the praise from a random in the internet? Message back thank you?
Men what are you expecting?
I feel this is a 'case by case' kind of thing.
I generally don't message people if I don't fit their criteria but, sometimes I have a question or, have seen a status by them that I feel I'd like to weigh in on.
I never expect a response, though they're almost always appreciated.
I understand this a bit more. But when its just a compliment i don't see the point. "
It's just that, a compliment. No hidden agenda I guess. |
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By *batMan 39 weeks ago
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I guess it might be a bigger problem depending on the volume of such messages, but it's sometimes nice when a complete stranger says something nice about/to you.
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"When you send a message to someone who's profile you don't fit with words to the effect of I just wanted to tell you fill in the blank.
What am i supposed to do with this message? Delete and just glow in the praise from a random in the internet? Message back thank you?
Men what are you expecting?"
As a man if I received random compliments it would mean a lot/really make my day even if it's just someone who's trying to get in my pants. As a woman you probably get loads so the effect isn't the same but sometimes you see someone on here who's otherworldly gorgeous or sexy & you just want to let them know that. Not really expecting them to reply back but just complimenting because you want them to know you find them nice
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"When you send a message to someone who's profile you don't fit with words to the effect of I just wanted to tell you fill in the blank.
What am i supposed to do with this message? Delete and just glow in the praise from a random in the internet? Message back thank you?
Men what are you expecting?"
If it was me a man receiving the compliment I probably would say thanks as it's a rarity to recieve any
If I sent a compliment I wouldn't be expecting a reply back |
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It's a tough one this.
I recently got a compliment from someone 250+ miles away.
I did send a thanks have a great day in return, but then he started can we chat, what you into..
So I said no thanks, you're way too far away and I was being polite, then blocked him.
If you do respond, many will try to push for more in my experience and that's why they do it. |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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Expect? Nothing.
Sometimes we just like to pay a compliment. Sometimes they are well received, some people get a bit vinegary about them but there's no expectation for a response. |
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"It's a tough one this.
I recently got a compliment from someone 250+ miles away.
I did send a thanks have a great day in return, but then he started can we chat, what you into..
So I said no thanks, you're way too far away and I was being polite, then blocked him.
If you do respond, many will try to push for more in my experience and that's why they do it. "
I'm 240+. Is the 10 miles a deal-breaker? |
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"It's a tough one this.
I recently got a compliment from someone 250+ miles away.
I did send a thanks have a great day in return, but then he started can we chat, what you into..
So I said no thanks, you're way too far away and I was being polite, then blocked him.
If you do respond, many will try to push for more in my experience and that's why they do it.
I'm 240+. Is the 10 miles a deal-breaker?"
Yep it is, when I'm meeting it's locals only and I do say that in my bio.
I tend to find people miles away want to cam or sex chat and that's not for me at all. |
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If I see a profile that intrigues me or pics that stand out I often send a message to compliment them.
People send us messages to compliment us on certain pics - we just see it as that.
I mean some will then try and slide into your DM’s with a sleazy comment but generally it’s nice to receive the compliment.
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"It's a tough one this.
I recently got a compliment from someone 250+ miles away.
I did send a thanks have a great day in return, but then he started can we chat, what you into..
So I said no thanks, you're way too far away and I was being polite, then blocked him.
If you do respond, many will try to push for more in my experience and that's why they do it.
I'm 240+. Is the 10 miles a deal-breaker?
Yep it is, when I'm meeting it's locals only and I do say that in my bio.
I tend to find people miles away want to cam or sex chat and that's not for me at all. "
I was actually joking btw. I rarely travel outside the den |
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"It's a tough one this.
I recently got a compliment from someone 250+ miles away.
I did send a thanks have a great day in return, but then he started can we chat, what you into..
So I said no thanks, you're way too far away and I was being polite, then blocked him.
If you do respond, many will try to push for more in my experience and that's why they do it.
I'm 240+. Is the 10 miles a deal-breaker?
Yep it is, when I'm meeting it's locals only and I do say that in my bio.
I tend to find people miles away want to cam or sex chat and that's not for me at all.
I was actually joking btw. I rarely travel outside the den"
Ha ha sorry, I missed that  |
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Men what are you expecting?"
If i send compliment, for me personally thats all the intention is Just that, a compliment.
It is nice/polite to get a thankyou back. But dont expect it as unfortunately some have alternative motives. Again the few spoil it for the many on here.
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"When you send a message to someone who's profile you don't fit with words to the effect of I just wanted to tell you fill in the blank.
What am i supposed to do with this message? Delete and just glow in the praise from a random in the internet? Message back thank you?
Men what are you expecting?
As a man if I received random compliments it would mean a lot/really make my day even if it's just someone who's trying to get in my pants. As a woman you probably get loads so the effect isn't the same but sometimes you see someone on here who's otherworldly gorgeous or sexy & you just want to let them know that. Not really expecting them to reply back but just complimenting because you want them to know you find them nice
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Yes that has shed some light on it. Because the man would like it he thinks the woman will too. |
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"When you send a message to someone who's profile you don't fit with words to the effect of I just wanted to tell you fill in the blank.
What am i supposed to do with this message? Delete and just glow in the praise from a random in the internet? Message back thank you?
Men what are you expecting?"
A blowjob |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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"When you send a message to someone who's profile you don't fit with words to the effect of I just wanted to tell you fill in the blank.
What am i supposed to do with this message? Delete and just glow in the praise from a random in the internet? Message back thank you?
Men what are you expecting?"
You'd need to ask the guys who sent the message...anyone else is saying why they do itand their expectation(s) we're individuals and may have completely different reasons for sending such a message
Whats the old saying 'its nice to be nice' maybe it was just that  |
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