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By (user no longer on site) OP 49 weeks ago
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Just to bring some perspective, because we’ve not had a guy complain for awhile to highlight how many messages we get.
If a single guy was to create a profile in here, it could be a new profile, or a guy who used to be in a couple.
How many messages per day would he expect to receive?
As a guideline, maybe you’re able to describe how many first messages you get per week?
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Having recently rejoined I can confirm that over that time so far I have received 2 winks from women and 1 message from a couple, both have lead to silence, thankfully though I do have a few people who i’ve kept in touch with over the many years of swinging and they’re always happy to come over for an evening of nocturnal pleasure.
As a rule I won’t message first anymore, as most couples say in their profile “single males we’ll find you” so I leave them to it and hope someone likes what they see in my profile and messages me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 49 weeks ago
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As a rule I won’t message first anymore, as most couples say in their profile “single males we’ll find you” so I leave them to it and hope someone likes what they see in my profile and messages me "
That’s awesome, and exactly how I do things, I think a lot is to be said about respecting somebody’s wishes.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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Well that depends
On his preferences
It could be low 1-2
Or it could be high like 30-40-50
I mean if he’s bisexual and doesn’t care about if people are fab straight then he could have lots
See you didn’t passficly say if it was a single guy tallered to woman only |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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See you didn’t passficly say if it was a single guy tallered to woman only
You’re right, I didn’t. I just said single male.  "
Yip so it could be high or it could be low depending on his preference and what he conditions are
Like fab stright is a go marred guys playing away from home a go inbox though the roof
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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Having rejoined 2 weeks ago, I can say from my experience that it depends on how much you engage with people.
I have been fairly active and get a couple of messages a day, mainly from people I have started to regularly communicate with.
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"Single men don't get messaged first by women "
Of course they do.
I haven't sent a first contact message since January 2020 and every conversation in the last 4 years has been started by women contacting me.
I average one new message every couple of months. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 49 weeks ago
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"Just to bring some perspective, because we’ve not had a guy complain for awhile
Are we defining a while in seconds or minutes? "
Haha.
It’s a little longer than in ‘some time’. |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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Ok so I took a break from fab and had 4 unreads. Got back into it 23 Feb and I’m currently on 141 unreads. So maybe I just look like a new profile cause I was hidden for a few weeks. |
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"Single men don't get messaged first by women "
Of course not all men do, but I can confirm it happens. The conversations started by women tend to be the ones that actually lead somewhere. If I send the first message it will usually be read and ignored or unread. The few that do reply often fizzle out. Not complaining, just saying what usually happens. The best tactic is to make your profile irresistible like mine so they're drawn in like a tractor beam |
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Well, its a tricky one isn't it? The ratio to men to women is a huge one so trying to stand out from the crowd for a newbie to the site can be a hard one.. from my own experience when I first started on this site it certainly wasn't easy but like someone said in this thread before, it's how you engage with people that counts |
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By *r TriomanMan 49 weeks ago
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It's very rare that I get a first message from an MF couple or single woman but it does happen; maybe it would happen more if men weren't so keen to message first? Maybe we should be like many couples and single women and just wait to be contacted? |
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That's a relief, I was wondering what I was doing wrong . Weekly one or two off a SF/ Couple. Mainly at the weekend when they have come back from a pub /club and want a threesome or cuckold scenario. |
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Yip so it could be high or it could be low depending on his preference and what he conditions are
Like fab stright is a go marred guys playing away from home a go inbox though the roof
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There we have it ladies and gentlemen! For the next single guy moaning about cobwebs in his inbox......this will be the advice, get yourself some lingerie and lippy! You'll be knee deep in clunge! Oops sorry, cock! |
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By *TG3Man 49 weeks ago
Dorchester |
"Just to bring some perspective, because we’ve not had a guy complain for awhile to highlight how many messages we get.
If a single guy was to create a profile in here, it could be a new profile, or a guy who used to be in a couple.
How many messages per day would he expect to receive?
As a guideline, maybe you’re able to describe how many first messages you get per week?
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So newly joined guy would get none especially if he didn't have pics and a decent write up a couple with pics 462 a couple with only dick pics none a couple with pics and a decent write up 573 |
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