I would say the only thing I have tried that I probably would never consider before was being spanked in front of a group of people - I never really thought I would enjoy pain but it was definitely quite exhilarating.
Everything else I wanted to do anyway! |
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"Has being on Fab changed you in anyway?
Are there things you've explored/experienced that you didn't think you ever would? That the old you would be certain you'd say no to this?
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Coming onto fab led me to my first time at a swinger's club, I was in total shock the first time, a room full of people fucking away, most teenage boys fantasy.
It has changed me as I am not shy about wanting to fulfil my desires. I was taught like many others to be ashamed of such feelings growing up.
So it's been a good experience.
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I love myself a little bit more.
I love people a little bit less.
That is possibly a little bit dark of me. But I am far far less trusting. A lot more cynical.
I was never a romantic & im so glad of that. |
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I want to say it hasn’t changed me, I think I’ve always been a pervert, but it probably has.
Without wanting to sound cheesy I’ve never been more conscious of how a woman should be treated. That could be an age thing with me.
Cherry says she is probably more of a pervert, but has found a home for that and has met pervert friends to be amongst.
We both met on here having had some experience so it probably hasn’t changed us as a couple.
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"Has being on Fab changed you in anyway?
Are there things you've explored/experienced that you didn't think you ever would? That the old you would be certain you'd say no to this?
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I have definitely ticked off my 'fuck it' list over the years, thank you Fab 
But I don't think I have changed....I'm still just little old me  |
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It’s changed us sexually - we’ve both delved down rabbit holes and explored new ways of play/BDSM and the numbers of people we like to play with.
We’ve had the best of both a single female and single male and they’ve raised the bar so we’ve become accustomed to a great connection and that’s hard to replicate then.
But the great thing about this is we don’t need others for a fantastic sex life; so it’s all a bonus if it happens.
This lifestyle has open our eyes and minds.
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I think it has.
It’s allowed me to be more open about what I want, so I guess it’s helped my confidence a bit too.
I’ve done things that if someone had suggested to me a few years ago i would have immediately said no, but I’m so glad now that I got to experience those things. |
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"I love myself a little bit more.
I love people a little bit less.
That is possibly a little bit dark of me. But I am far far less trusting. A lot more cynical.
I was never a romantic & im so glad of that."
I couldn’t have said this better. Exactly this  Xx |
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By *a LunaWoman 40 weeks ago
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Only in that I’ve come to appreciate that actually I’m more of a relationship kind of gal than a casual sex gal, and if I do have casual sex I prefer it to happen organically and be spontaneous rather than pre planning it.
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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I've just been thinking about this Meli! Certainly the pre-pandemic me would loathe the idea of going to big socials and clubs with people I don't know and would go with the mindset that I wouldn't have a good time. But doing that through Fab has made a huge impact on my social life and being more proactive with it instead of waiting for things to happen and being left behind.
Sexually, I think I've surprised myself with how open-minded I am to trying different things depending on the partner I'm with to the point I think I even surprised them as well! |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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Yes it has in a lot off ways
Before fab I was a bit conventional looking back on life before fab it highlights a big mastke I made with someone that I never took in to account
After 10 years on fab I would like to think I am very opened up
As for trying new things yes a lot not go in to what |
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By *C79Man 40 weeks ago
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It has allowed me to try things I never had the bravery to do before. My very first social ended in a mmf which was great fun. After years of disliking my body, I gained the confidence to not care so much about what others thought & enjoyed naked strolls along the beach in PDI. That was probably one of the most peaceful moments I've ever had |
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By *eli OP Woman 39 weeks ago
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"Yes, it's changed perceptions on other people's views about things I would say I was closed off about.
Generally. I think I'm more tolerant these days. "
Oh that's really positive! Yes, I'm the same. There are certain views I held but once I learnt more about why others particularly enjoyed it, I found my "tolerance" increasing. |
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Turns out our age limits are a little more flexible in person Meli. That's all I'm saying. 
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