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"What would you tell your 18 year old self to do and why?"
I would tell her she was stunning and to never give in to any thought that says otherwise.
Having self esteem would have made a huge difference in my life
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I would need an A4 pad…..probs something like
Calm down don’t be so hot-headed.
Be patient , the things that are most important take time and investment
Get sine better role models to inspire you
Build everything on solid foundations, relationships, finances, health
Learn to listen, really listen & understand before you speak
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Things are gonna get a bit bumpy these next few years, but it'll be worth it and you'll come out the other side of it.
Also don't drink Absinthe because you'll spend the next decade trying to remember who that women was with the purple hair. |
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"Absolutely nothing. 18 year old me wouldn’t have been listening anyway 
I would go on a night out with me though, just to be a spectator"
Haha im not sure id want to see my old nights out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 44 weeks ago
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"What would you tell your 18 year old self to do and why?
I would tell her she was stunning and to never give in to any thought that says otherwise.
Having self esteem would have made a huge difference in my life
MrsAbz"
Thats sweet i hope you have that self esteem. I wish I had more confidence when I was younger |
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"Stop wasting money on shite and buy houses. There’s a fortune to be made and then you can buy all the shite in the world."
Exactly what I was just about to write! I would tell 18 year old me to invest all my time, money and effort into buying cheap properties.
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If I was going to go back in time then i would go back to age 16 not 18!
And I would be telling myself never doubt your instincts there always right!
(I had moved out in with someone at this age and working full time very grown up and felt this was when my adult life started!)
Although,I don't think I would actually change anything in my past as it has taught me alot! Although it's a shame I didn't learn from it haha
Only thing I wish I could actually go back in time for is to spend more time with my dad before he passed !
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"You're going to lose everyone you love. You'll never really feel that you fit in. You're going to be worried and anxious and frightened and uncomfortable about sex all your life. You don't know who you want to be, and when you find out it will be too late. But you will be relatively comfortable and things could be worse. Just try to hold together." |
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The bad news is that people are every bit as shit as you already believe.
The good news is that you get to choose who you spend time with now, and can slam the door in their faces. And not everyone is that shit - just most of them.
And you are not, and have never been that shit. Be nicer to yourself, for the love of God. |
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