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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've never gone down on a woman before, I found it a massive put off as a youth, but do women enjoy it as much as men enjoy a blowjob, is it really that important, your thoughts would be important as I am eager to explore |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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not that bothered about it but i met a man the other day who was good at it and i liked it, also he liked it too
which made it more enjoyable.
if you dont like it dont do it.
do other things instead maybe.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i prefer teasing/kissing her body all over,, rather than just oral alone,, make it an occasion than something that has to be done, love watching her beg!  |
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I love it, love licking teasing a lady building up then slowing down. Made so many squirt doing this even new squirters. maybe just luck maybe im bloody good at it like i hav ebeen told. Everyone may not like it though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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to be blunt if I met a guy who didn't give oral I would leave
Im not a free escort and im not here to service men by just dishing out blow jobs and shags, it always astounds me how many men refuse to give oral but expect it, very selfish in my opinion
you ask if its important, stop getting blow jobs and see how much difference it makes to you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never gone down on a woman before, I found it a massive put off as a youth, but do women enjoy it as much as men enjoy a blowjob, is it really that important, your thoughts would be important as I am eager to explore"
I think if your with someone you really like and are both turned on, it may just happen without any stress attached.
Dont force the situation though..
Just enjoy what you do.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well I was a youth very immature and it used to be frowned upon growing up and hanging out with mates, nobody would dare admit going down when I was a little younger, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone being turned on and enjoying what they are doing is as much a turn on as receiving ... to me its all about mutual fun and enjoyment. If someone isn't enjoying either way. . Giving or receiving then move onto something else. I love giving oral.. you can tell when its enjoyed both ways and so much more fun too...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I was a youth very immature and it used to be frowned upon growing up and hanging out with mates, nobody would dare admit going down when I was a little younger, "
but your an adult now, don't see what how your mates felt about it as a youth has to do with what you do now??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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him loves giving oral to women , he can do it for hours , and he is damn good too lol ,
i cant take anymore than about 30 mins but he could go on for hours , his tongue is waisted on me lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I guess the question is important as some women here say they don't like, some say 2 minutes is enough and others love it, thank you guys so much, now I need some good tongue techniques x |
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I enjoy it if the person doing it is good at it, if not then I'd rather give it a miss.
I think I do actually have some hang ups about it due to my first boyfriend hating it and making me feel bad about it all the years we were together. I always having a sneaking suspicion that men that say they love it are just saying so to impress a woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I enjoy it if the person doing it is good at it, if not then I'd rather give it a miss."
same here, to be honest I don't mind if a guys not very good at it, so long as he makes the effort, in swinging you cant know what all your meets enjoy so I don't expect every guy to be mind blowing but I do expect them to at least try
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Very good point, never thought about that, but I actually want to and have thought about it, but with work and suites over the years I never bagged myself gf to even try to experience it, hence why I'm on here to build relations |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Two mins enough for me, it does nothing for me...never had an orgasm from oral and if the guy is down there forever...trying to give me one....i get bored  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with the girls who say that it's an essential part of sex and swinging.
I can't be doing with guys who want a blowie but won't return the fun.
I'm not in it just for the guys pleasure, but for a mutual experience. I love facesitting. No oral means... I probably would get fed up and leave "/.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"to be blunt if I met a guy who didn't give oral I would leave
Im not a free escort and im not here to service men by just dishing out blow jobs and shags, it always astounds me how many men refuse to give oral but expect it, very selfish in my opinion
you ask if its important, stop getting blow jobs and see how much difference it makes to you
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THIS!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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TIP- lick with the flat of your tongue like licking an ice cream over her clit.. the firm tip of your tongue against it/on it is too much..like someone poking your bell end with their finger.
I like it nice and wet too,like the female equivalent of a sloppy bj |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love oral, its my fave sexual act, I prefer receiving than giving, but I do enjoy giving too.
My OH has really great oral skills so I know I'm always gonna have a great time. When we meet a guy who also has a good technique its fantastic.
So on my meets the emphasis is on oral and I'm not impressed by long stayers or heavy cummers, in fact both of those types put me off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the thing I would take away from all the responses above, OP, is that with a little discussion and some good communication you can easily discover how important it is to your play partner.
We are all different, and sometimes its the assumption that is the mother of all fuck-ups. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"to be blunt if I met a guy who didn't give oral I would leave
Im not a free escort and im not here to service men by just dishing out blow jobs and shags, it always astounds me how many men refuse to give oral but expect it, very selfish in my opinion
you ask if its important, stop getting blow jobs and see how much difference it makes to you
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I actually prefer lubed-up handjobs to blowjobs any day of the week.
However, I love to eat pussy, so it's not a problem either way. |
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"I think the thing I would take away from all the responses above, OP, is that with a little discussion and some good communication you can easily discover how important it is to your play partner.
We are all different, and sometimes its the assumption that is the mother of all fuck-ups. "
Ain't THAT the truth. |
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"Mate once told me if once have to use your tongue, then your dick is failing you, this is NOT my opinion, just something that made me think"
They are both used for different things, so no thats not remotely true hun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mate once told me if once have to use your tongue, then your dick is failing you, this is NOT my opinion, just something that made me think"
And if your mate told you to jump in the canal cos it made your dick grow? |
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"Mate once told me if once have to use your tongue, then your dick is failing you, this is NOT my opinion, just something that made me think
And if your mate told you to jump in the canal cos it made your dick grow? "
He said it wasn't his opinion! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Mate once told me if once have to use your tongue, then your dick is failing you, this is NOT my opinion, just something that made me think"
Bless!
My FB manages to make me cum using his tongue and his cock, and he doesn't seem to struggle with either. Now I am aware that there are men on here whose definition of oral sex is all about BJs and not giving anything in return, and props to the OP for being honest and allowing us women who enjoy being satisfied orally to avoid meeting, but I would suggest that a good fulfilling nights sex includes multiple techniques. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love to give and receive. Sex is not a one way process...your not there just to please yourself.
...personally i love to give and get her wet and ready. Its so horny!
Women need a sensual touch more than us..it pleases me to see her enjoying herself.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mate once told me if once have to use your tongue, then your dick is failing you, this is NOT my opinion, just something that made me think
And if your mate told you to jump in the canal cos it made your dick grow?
He said it wasn't his opinion!"
Didn't say it was. But then if my mates suggested something that suited them and not me, I'd be wary of listening to them.
The idea is to find out for yourself. If the OP does, then fine, but if he wants to find arguements for getting oral whilst not giving it back so he can continue as he is, why bother asking at all!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On the topic, ladies...
When your with a meet/partner, do you prefer to receive oral sex and just enjoy it or do you prefer to please your meet/partner ie 69 at the same time?
Would 69 distract you from enjoying your oral sex too much or would this lead to a better experience? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never gone down on a woman before, I found it a massive put off as a youth, but do women enjoy it as much as men enjoy a blowjob, is it really that important, your thoughts would be important as I am eager to explore"
Many say its vastly overrated and if its an act you can't bring your self to do then don't as its all about fun. Why not just stick to doing the blowjobs if you are more comfortable with that. |
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"On the topic, ladies...
When your with a meet/partner, do you prefer to receive oral sex and just enjoy it or do you prefer to please your meet/partner ie 69 at the same time?
Would 69 distract you from enjoying your oral sex too much or would this lead to a better experience?"
I prefer to give or receive one at a time, I find I can't concentrate on giving when I'm receiving. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One should not equate giving and receiving oral as some sort of deal. I would never ask or expect a BJ from a woman, It should be her own choice, I would not enjoy the experience if it was done begrudgingly. I'm happy to give oral to see her pleasure and that in return does give me pleasure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hand on heart this is my favourite thing in the world!
No reciprocation ever expected and I could (and have) just do this on meets. My 'to do before I die' is to go to a club and see how much exercise my tongue can get.
Love it. Love it - and did I mention - love it!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hand on heart this is my favourite thing in the world!
No reciprocation ever expected and I could (and have) just do this on meets. My 'to do before I die' is to go to a club and see how much exercise my tongue can get.
Love it. Love it - and did I mention - love it!! "
Im sensing you may like it . . . 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hand on heart this is my favourite thing in the world!
No reciprocation ever expected and I could (and have) just do this on meets. My 'to do before I die' is to go to a club and see how much exercise my tongue can get.
Love it. Love it - and did I mention - love it!!
Im sensing you may like it . . .
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he's not the only one. i've often had sex with girls and never got my dick out. i've just fingered and gone down on them and they loved it.
personally i've never asked for a blowjob and the only times i've received is when the girl wants to and pretty much demands it. 
but i find that giving a girl oral is so much sexier. theres alot to explore down there (no pun intended)  and different techniques which women react to differently. one girl i know actually prefers analingus to cunnilingus and i would be more than happy to do it. i suppose generally it came down to pleasing the woman, which for me is better than pleasing myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I love it as much as I love giving oral. Id find it such a turn off if a guy wasn't enjoying himself whilst licking me out.. I would put a stop to it! Yes its about mutual enjoyment but you can't expect a woman to dish out the blowjobs if you're giving nothing back in return!?!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love oral, giving and receiving.
Get yourself out there and give it a try, and if you find its not you thing then there's plenty of other things you can do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"to be blunt if I met a guy who didn't give oral I would leave
Im not a free escort and im not here to service men by just dishing out blow jobs and shags, it always astounds me how many men refuse to give oral but expect it, very selfish in my opinion
you ask if its important, stop getting blow jobs and see how much difference it makes to you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP just wondering how immature your social group were when you listened to them? Generally once you start experiencing sexual relationships then most barriers are dropped pretty quickly in pursuit of giving and receiving pleasure. Ok. Some things don't work out for some people but you have to figure that out as you go along.
I fear that this site may be the wrong place for you at this stage of your life. Some degree of sexual maturity is required for swinging. Few on here want to teach. |
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