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By *hrimper36Couple 40 weeks ago
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"Is it for swinging or is it a dating app or is it a lifeline for lonely people, does it get you sex?For many i imagine not  "
To be fair this site can be used for many different reasons but I’d say the clue is in the name.
For example the name is not fabphonewankers or is it.
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"Is it for swinging or is it a dating app or is it a lifeline for lonely people, does it get you sex?For many i imagine not
To be fair this site can be used for many different reasons but I’d say the clue is in the name.
For example the name is not fabphonewankers or is it.
T"
Well you say swinging but how many of us swing we meet, we get on or not, we shag but are the majority of us swingers i think not |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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It’s a what ever you want it to be
Sometimes I am looking to just chat
Sometimes I am looking for dates as the real me
Sometimes I am looking for friendship with extras
Sometimes I am just looking to show off pics
Sometimes I am looking for mindless sex
Sometimes I am looking for just friendship without the extras
See what ever you want it to be |
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I'd say that if you classified the site based on what the highest number of users do it would be a masturbatory fantasy site.
Swinging couples use it for swinging
Singles use it for hook ups and other flavours of liaison
People use it for exhibitionism in the galleries
People use it see free amateur porn
It's used as a cam site
It's a forum with many users that never meet anyone.
It's a social network, particularly for regular club attendees and visitors to overseas resorts and clubs.
It's also a business with the intention of making profits.
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"I'd say that if you classified the site based on what the highest number of users do it would be a masturbatory fantasy site.
Swinging couples use it for swinging
Singles use it for hook ups and other flavours of liaison
People use it for exhibitionism in the galleries
People use it see free amateur porn
It's used as a cam site
It's a forum with many users that never meet anyone.
It's a social network, particularly for regular club attendees and visitors to overseas resorts and clubs.
It's also a business with the intention of making profits.
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I very much tend to agree with this, so minimal swinging is achieved i guess |
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"I'd say that if you classified the site based on what the highest number of users do it would be a masturbatory fantasy site.
Swinging couples use it for swinging
Singles use it for hook ups and other flavours of liaison
People use it for exhibitionism in the galleries
People use it see free amateur porn
It's used as a cam site
It's a forum with many users that never meet anyone.
It's a social network, particularly for regular club attendees and visitors to overseas resorts and clubs.
It's also a business with the intention of making profits.
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What fab also is, in my opinion, is a missed opportunity.
ENM and Poly lifestyles are entering mainstream culture now more than ever. The success of Feeld and it's capturing of the under 30's demographic is a good example of this.
Fab is is a major communication hub in the swinging scene. It could be so much more.
I believe fab and swinging in general is getting left behind and slowly being replaced with modern concepts of ethically non monogamous relationships and other approaches like relationship anarchy. |
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I don't believe non monogamous relationships are on the increase and i don't believe this site could be used to further it, if you think about life and the 'family unit' man, woman, children and a life long partnership thats certainly a rarity these days but people still aspire to it. Swinging is as a result of the failures in life although the younger people entering into it are changing it but only until they get a partner. |
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"Is it for swinging or is it a dating app or is it a lifeline for lonely people, does it get you sex?For many i imagine not "
It's a bit like eBay, except you auction your dick, fanny, tits, thighs and arse, and hope you get an offer. No money is offered or exchanged, though, just pics, bodily fluids and maybe a bit of excitable moaning, if you're successful  |
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Based on all the sage advice given by the fab experts it's like a pub.
Full of random characters some of who like to be loud and proud and snigger at those who aren't, some who sit at the bar on their own striking up the odd conversation now and again and the rest huddled in the corner quietly discussing the loud and the lonely. |
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I’ve had sex with people o. fab, but I’ve also had sex with someone from the pub.
A lifeline? Maybe it’s my social outlet, but so are the people in work.
A dating app? I’d date someone from here if I liked them enough, but I’m also on tinder and I’ve asked someone in real life too.
Swinging…. It’s called FabSwingers so I’m here for that!  |
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Ive met some wonderful fwbs, club buddies and the odd Dom. I have explored my bi side. Indulged in 3 somes and moresomes. Total debauchery. So thats what this site is about. Debauchery and ticking things off the fuckit list. |
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By *AYENCouple 40 weeks ago
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"I don't believe non monogamous relationships are on the increase and i don't believe this site could be used to further it, if you think about life and the 'family unit' man, woman, children and a life long partnership thats certainly a rarity these days but people still aspire to it. Swinging is as a result of the failures in life although the younger people entering into it are changing it but only until they get a partner. "
We have no children, my wife is my partner not my possession, we work and live together 24/7 - and whilst we don't class ourselves as swingers we also don't class ourselves as failures just because we're on here.
We don't need anybody else to join us but it's bloody good fun when it happens, which is exactly twice in 7-8 years.
If you have such a negative view of FS, and those that are on here, maybe think about moving on. |
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"I don't believe non monogamous relationships are on the increase and i don't believe this site could be used to further it, if you think about life and the 'family unit' man, woman, children and a life long partnership thats certainly a rarity these days but people still aspire to it. Swinging is as a result of the failures in life although the younger people entering into it are changing it but only until they get a partner.
We have no children, my wife is my partner not my possession, we work and live together 24/7 - and whilst we don't class ourselves as swingers we also don't class ourselves as failures just because we're on here.
We don't need anybody else to join us but it's bloody good fun when it happens, which is exactly twice in 7-8 years.
If you have such a negative view of FS, and those that are on here, maybe think about moving on."
I don't have a negative view of FAB what makes you think that? My answer that you quoted was in answer to somebody elses answer but i never quoted them |
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"Is it for swinging or is it a dating app or is it a lifeline for lonely people, does it get you sex?For many i imagine not "
I had hoped it would be both a lifeline (as I am very lonely!) but, I had also hoped it would get me sex.
Sadly, it hasn't helped with either of these things! |
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"Is it for swinging or is it a dating app or is it a lifeline for lonely people, does it get you sex?For many i imagine not
I had hoped it would be both a lifeline (as I am very lonely!) but, I had also hoped it would get me sex.
Sadly, it hasn't helped with either of these things! "
damn hey its a lottery this place have you tried clubs? |
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"Is it for swinging or is it a dating app or is it a lifeline for lonely people, does it get you sex?For many i imagine not
I had hoped it would be both a lifeline (as I am very lonely!) but, I had also hoped it would get me sex.
Sadly, it hasn't helped with either of these things! damn hey its a lottery this place have you tried clubs? "
I'm not sure clubs would be my scene. I'm not good around groups of people I don't know, one or two I'm fine but, I'm quite socially awkward. (This is obviously a problem in several areas of my life!) |
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"Is it for swinging or is it a dating app or is it a lifeline for lonely people, does it get you sex?For many i imagine not
I had hoped it would be both a lifeline (as I am very lonely!) but, I had also hoped it would get me sex.
Sadly, it hasn't helped with either of these things! damn hey its a lottery this place have you tried clubs?
I'm not sure clubs would be my scene. I'm not good around groups of people I don't know, one or two I'm fine but, I'm quite socially awkward. (This is obviously a problem in several areas of my life!) "
ahhh yes could be a problem clubs require a bit of bravado I'm not sure then but good luck |
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"Is it for swinging or is it a dating app or is it a lifeline for lonely people, does it get you sex?For many i imagine not
I had hoped it would be both a lifeline (as I am very lonely!) but, I had also hoped it would get me sex.
Sadly, it hasn't helped with either of these things! damn hey its a lottery this place have you tried clubs?
I'm not sure clubs would be my scene. I'm not good around groups of people I don't know, one or two I'm fine but, I'm quite socially awkward. (This is obviously a problem in several areas of my life!) ahhh yes could be a problem clubs require a bit of bravado I'm not sure then but good luck "
Yeah... bravado and supreme masculinity have never been my strong point! You'd think being and actor and musician would give me some confidence and bravado but, nope! |
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"Is it for swinging or is it a dating app or is it a lifeline for lonely people, does it get you sex?For many i imagine not
I had hoped it would be both a lifeline (as I am very lonely!) but, I had also hoped it would get me sex.
Sadly, it hasn't helped with either of these things! damn hey its a lottery this place have you tried clubs?
I'm not sure clubs would be my scene. I'm not good around groups of people I don't know, one or two I'm fine but, I'm quite socially awkward. (This is obviously a problem in several areas of my life!) ahhh yes could be a problem clubs require a bit of bravado I'm not sure then but good luck
Yeah... bravado and supreme masculinity have never been my strong point! You'd think being and actor and musician would give me some confidence and bravado but, nope! "
Its odd that you're an actor though but i guess you reenact words from a page, i used to know a young girl exactly the same very shy shes now a successful actress |
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Well I was hoping to find friends. Like minded people who share similar opinions and experiences. I never expected sex but some people think that is all we want. I was hoping to find my tribe but have never felt more isolated.
I was hoping for acceptance and instead found the largest collection of bigots I have ever seen.
I was hoping for a better view on life but all I see is hate. |
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"Well I was hoping to find friends. Like minded people who share similar opinions and experiences. I never expected sex but some people think that is all we want. I was hoping to find my tribe but have never felt more isolated.
I was hoping for acceptance and instead found the largest collection of bigots I have ever seen.
I was hoping for a better view on life but all I see is hate."
That's interesting and a little sad but maybe some away might help if it's making you feel worse. I tend to agree with some of it though probably not as strongly worded. Good luck mate. |
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"Is it for swinging or is it a dating app or is it a lifeline for lonely people, does it get you sex?For many i imagine not
I had hoped it would be both a lifeline (as I am very lonely!) but, I had also hoped it would get me sex.
Sadly, it hasn't helped with either of these things! damn hey its a lottery this place have you tried clubs?
I'm not sure clubs would be my scene. I'm not good around groups of people I don't know, one or two I'm fine but, I'm quite socially awkward. (This is obviously a problem in several areas of my life!) ahhh yes could be a problem clubs require a bit of bravado I'm not sure then but good luck
Yeah... bravado and supreme masculinity have never been my strong point! You'd think being and actor and musician would give me some confidence and bravado but, nope! Its odd that you're an actor though but i guess you reenact words from a page, i used to know a young girl exactly the same very shy shes now a successful actress "
Yeah, without a script and a director I'm kinda lost! |
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"I don't believe non monogamous relationships are on the increase and i don't believe this site could be used to further it, if you think about life and the 'family unit' man, woman, children and a life long partnership thats certainly a rarity these days but people still aspire to it. Swinging is as a result of the failures in life although the younger people entering into it are changing it but only until they get a partner.
We have no children, my wife is my partner not my possession, we work and live together 24/7 - and whilst we don't class ourselves as swingers we also don't class ourselves as failures just because we're on here.
We don't need anybody else to join us but it's bloody good fun when it happens, which is exactly twice in 7-8 years.
If you have such a negative view of FS, and those that are on here, maybe think about moving on.I don't have a negative view of FAB what makes you think that? My answer that you quoted was in answer to somebody elses answer but i never quoted them "
In fairness you did say swinging is a result of failures in life.
I imagine some of the swingers on fab sold interpret that statement as a negative one. |
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Fab is what it is and what you make it be. Personally for me it is a great way to meet single ladies and couples that I wouldn’t otherwise get to meet. I am not looking for a long term relationship but it is nice to become friendly with people you get on with. I don’t take it too seriously and life outside it happily moves on. |
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"I don't believe non monogamous relationships are on the increase and i don't believe this site could be used to further it, if you think about life and the 'family unit' man, woman, children and a life long partnership thats certainly a rarity these days but people still aspire to it. Swinging is as a result of the failures in life although the younger people entering into it are changing it but only until they get a partner.
We have no children, my wife is my partner not my possession, we work and live together 24/7 - and whilst we don't class ourselves as swingers we also don't class ourselves as failures just because we're on here.
We don't need anybody else to join us but it's bloody good fun when it happens, which is exactly twice in 7-8 years.
If you have such a negative view of FS, and those that are on here, maybe think about moving on.I don't have a negative view of FAB what makes you think that? My answer that you quoted was in answer to somebody elses answer but i never quoted them
In fairness you did say swinging is a result of failures in life.
I imagine some of the swingers on fab sold interpret that statement as a negative one."
Well for many and you can read it in many profiles they've come here after relationship breakdowns, divorce etc i didn't mean it to sound like a criticism just a fact of life |
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"Is it for swinging or is it a dating app or is it a lifeline for lonely people, does it get you sex?For many i imagine not "
It's for like minded people to chat and hopefully meet as per the swinger's lifestyle
And for dick heads to cause problems while just looking for wank material
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"I don't believe non monogamous relationships are on the increase and i don't believe this site could be used to further it, if you think about life and the 'family unit' man, woman, children and a life long partnership thats certainly a rarity these days but people still aspire to it. Swinging is as a result of the failures in life although the younger people entering into it are changing it but only until they get a partner.
We have no children, my wife is my partner not my possession, we work and live together 24/7 - and whilst we don't class ourselves as swingers we also don't class ourselves as failures just because we're on here.
We don't need anybody else to join us but it's bloody good fun when it happens, which is exactly twice in 7-8 years.
If you have such a negative view of FS, and those that are on here, maybe think about moving on.I don't have a negative view of FAB what makes you think that? My answer that you quoted was in answer to somebody elses answer but i never quoted them
In fairness you did say swinging is a result of failures in life.
I imagine some of the swingers on fab sold interpret that statement as a negative one.Well for many and you can read it in many profiles they've come here after relationship breakdowns, divorce etc i didn't mean it to sound like a criticism just a fact of life "
I should have said 'swinging is for many ' |
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"I don't believe non monogamous relationships are on the increase and i don't believe this site could be used to further it, if you think about life and the 'family unit' man, woman, children and a life long partnership thats certainly a rarity these days but people still aspire to it. Swinging is as a result of the failures in life although the younger people entering into it are changing it but only until they get a partner.
We have no children, my wife is my partner not my possession, we work and live together 24/7 - and whilst we don't class ourselves as swingers we also don't class ourselves as failures just because we're on here.
We don't need anybody else to join us but it's bloody good fun when it happens, which is exactly twice in 7-8 years.
If you have such a negative view of FS, and those that are on here, maybe think about moving on.I don't have a negative view of FAB what makes you think that? My answer that you quoted was in answer to somebody elses answer but i never quoted them
In fairness you did say swinging is a result of failures in life.
I imagine some of the swingers on fab sold interpret that statement as a negative one.Well for many and you can read it in many profiles they've come here after relationship breakdowns, divorce etc i didn't mean it to sound like a criticism just a fact of life "
Just part of the hierarchy of needs. |
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"I don't believe non monogamous relationships are on the increase and i don't believe this site could be used to further it, if you think about life and the 'family unit' man, woman, children and a life long partnership thats certainly a rarity these days but people still aspire to it. Swinging is as a result of the failures in life although the younger people entering into it are changing it but only until they get a partner.
We have no children, my wife is my partner not my possession, we work and live together 24/7 - and whilst we don't class ourselves as swingers we also don't class ourselves as failures just because we're on here.
We don't need anybody else to join us but it's bloody good fun when it happens, which is exactly twice in 7-8 years.
If you have such a negative view of FS, and those that are on here, maybe think about moving on.I don't have a negative view of FAB what makes you think that? My answer that you quoted was in answer to somebody elses answer but i never quoted them
In fairness you did say swinging is a result of failures in life.
I imagine some of the swingers on fab sold interpret that statement as a negative one.Well for many and you can read it in many profiles they've come here after relationship breakdowns, divorce etc i didn't mean it to sound like a criticism just a fact of life
Just part of the hierarchy of needs. "
If you mean they need sex so come here, yes but achieving it is an altogether different thing |
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In fairness you did say swinging is a result of failures in life.
I imagine some of the swingers on fab sold interpret that statement as a negative one.Well for many and you can read it in many profiles they've come here after relationship breakdowns, divorce etc i didn't mean it to sound like a criticism just a fact of life I should have said 'swinging is for many '"
I'd say it's the opposite. Most swinging couple's I've come across appear to be in quite a strong place relationship wise and for them swinging is something that adds to their relationship as opposed to being some kind of response to a failure.
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In fairness you did say swinging is a result of failures in life.
I imagine some of the swingers on fab sold interpret that statement as a negative one.Well for many and you can read it in many profiles they've come here after relationship breakdowns, divorce etc i didn't mean it to sound like a criticism just a fact of life I should have said 'swinging is for many '
I'd say it's the opposite. Most swinging couple's I've come across appear to be in quite a strong place relationship wise and for them swinging is something that adds to their relationship as opposed to being some kind of response to a failure.
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Yes but i invisage many of these couples met doing the swinging thing don't you think, not all but most |
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In fairness you did say swinging is a result of failures in life.
I imagine some of the swingers on fab sold interpret that statement as a negative one.Well for many and you can read it in many profiles they've come here after relationship breakdowns, divorce etc i didn't mean it to sound like a criticism just a fact of life I should have said 'swinging is for many '
I'd say it's the opposite. Most swinging couple's I've come across appear to be in quite a strong place relationship wise and for them swinging is something that adds to their relationship as opposed to being some kind of response to a failure.
Yes but i invisage many of these couples met doing the swinging thing don't you think, not all but most "
That seems like a bit of a reach to me.
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In fairness you did say swinging is a result of failures in life.
I imagine some of the swingers on fab sold interpret that statement as a negative one.Well for many and you can read it in many profiles they've come here after relationship breakdowns, divorce etc i didn't mean it to sound like a criticism just a fact of life I should have said 'swinging is for many '
I'd say it's the opposite. Most swinging couple's I've come across appear to be in quite a strong place relationship wise and for them swinging is something that adds to their relationship as opposed to being some kind of response to a failure.
Yes but i invisage many of these couples met doing the swinging thing don't you think, not all but most
That seems like a bit of a reach to me.
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In what way? You say 'most swinging couples you've come across ' |
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In fairness you did say swinging is a result of failures in life.
I imagine some of the swingers on fab sold interpret that statement as a negative one.Well for many and you can read it in many profiles they've come here after relationship breakdowns, divorce etc i didn't mean it to sound like a criticism just a fact of life I should have said 'swinging is for many '
I'd say it's the opposite. Most swinging couple's I've come across appear to be in quite a strong place relationship wise and for them swinging is something that adds to their relationship as opposed to being some kind of response to a failure.
Yes but i invisage many of these couples met doing the swinging thing don't you think, not all but most
That seems like a bit of a reach to me.
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How many swinging couples have you come across? Who have been swingers before and after marriage? |
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In fairness you did say swinging is a result of failures in life.
I imagine some of the swingers on fab sold interpret that statement as a negative one.Well for many and you can read it in many profiles they've come here after relationship breakdowns, divorce etc i didn't mean it to sound like a criticism just a fact of life I should have said 'swinging is for many '
I'd say it's the opposite. Most swinging couple's I've come across appear to be in quite a strong place relationship wise and for them swinging is something that adds to their relationship as opposed to being some kind of response to a failure.
Yes but i invisage many of these couples met doing the swinging thing don't you think, not all but most
That seems like a bit of a reach to me.
How many swinging couples have you come across? Who have been swingers before and after marriage? "
Rather then cross examine me into some kind of corner to support your assertion that swinging is a result of failure, perhaps you might do a little research and see if it's true?
My experience tells me it isn't but I'm not invested enough to arguing this point with you any more than I already have. |
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In fairness you did say swinging is a result of failures in life.
I imagine some of the swingers on fab sold interpret that statement as a negative one.Well for many and you can read it in many profiles they've come here after relationship breakdowns, divorce etc i didn't mean it to sound like a criticism just a fact of life I should have said 'swinging is for many '
I'd say it's the opposite. Most swinging couple's I've come across appear to be in quite a strong place relationship wise and for them swinging is something that adds to their relationship as opposed to being some kind of response to a failure.
Yes but i invisage many of these couples met doing the swinging thing don't you think, not all but most
That seems like a bit of a reach to me.
How many swinging couples have you come across? Who have been swingers before and after marriage?
Rather then cross examine me into some kind of corner to support your assertion that swinging is a result of failure, perhaps you might do a little research and see if it's true?
My experience tells me it isn't but I'm not invested enough to arguing this point with you any more than I already have."
I have years of swinging experience to back me up surely thats all i need, my guess is as good as yours...... Where do you get accurate statistics on this? |
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In fairness you did say swinging is a result of failures in life.
I imagine some of the swingers on fab sold interpret that statement as a negative one.Well for many and you can read it in many profiles they've come here after relationship breakdowns, divorce etc i didn't mean it to sound like a criticism just a fact of life I should have said 'swinging is for many '
I'd say it's the opposite. Most swinging couple's I've come across appear to be in quite a strong place relationship wise and for them swinging is something that adds to their relationship as opposed to being some kind of response to a failure.
Yes but i invisage many of these couples met doing the swinging thing don't you think, not all but most
That seems like a bit of a reach to me.
How many swinging couples have you come across? Who have been swingers before and after marriage?
Rather then cross examine me into some kind of corner to support your assertion that swinging is a result of failure, perhaps you might do a little research and see if it's true?
My experience tells me it isn't but I'm not invested enough to arguing this point with you any more than I already have."
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In fairness you did say swinging is a result of failures in life.
I imagine some of the swingers on fab sold interpret that statement as a negative one.Well for many and you can read it in many profiles they've come here after relationship breakdowns, divorce etc i didn't mean it to sound like a criticism just a fact of life I should have said 'swinging is for many '
I'd say it's the opposite. Most swinging couple's I've come across appear to be in quite a strong place relationship wise and for them swinging is something that adds to their relationship as opposed to being some kind of response to a failure.
Yes but i invisage many of these couples met doing the swinging thing don't you think, not all but most
That seems like a bit of a reach to me.
How many swinging couples have you come across? Who have been swingers before and after marriage?
Rather then cross examine me into some kind of corner to support your assertion that swinging is a result of failure, perhaps you might do a little research and see if it's true?
My experience tells me it isn't but I'm not invested enough to arguing this point with you any more than I already have.I have years of swinging experience to back me up surely thats all i need, my guess is as good as yours...... Where do you get accurate statistics on this? "
Well you are in a forum asking questions already. You could just ask here.
As I said. I'm not invested enough to continue this back and forth with you. This kind of relentless questioning of details only ever goes in one direction.
So I'll just bow to your deep knowledge of the scene and the backgrounds of all the couple's you know. |
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In fairness you did say swinging is a result of failures in life.
I imagine some of the swingers on fab sold interpret that statement as a negative one.Well for many and you can read it in many profiles they've come here after relationship breakdowns, divorce etc i didn't mean it to sound like a criticism just a fact of life I should have said 'swinging is for many '
I'd say it's the opposite. Most swinging couple's I've come across appear to be in quite a strong place relationship wise and for them swinging is something that adds to their relationship as opposed to being some kind of response to a failure.
Yes but i invisage many of these couples met doing the swinging thing don't you think, not all but most
That seems like a bit of a reach to me.
How many swinging couples have you come across? Who have been swingers before and after marriage?
Rather then cross examine me into some kind of corner to support your assertion that swinging is a result of failure, perhaps you might do a little research and see if it's true?
My experience tells me it isn't but I'm not invested enough to arguing this point with you any more than I already have.I have years of swinging experience to back me up surely thats all i need, my guess is as good as yours...... Where do you get accurate statistics on this?
Well you are in a forum asking questions already. You could just ask here.
As I said. I'm not invested enough to continue this back and forth with you. This kind of relentless questioning of details only ever goes in one direction.
So I'll just bow to your deep knowledge of the scene and the backgrounds of all the couple's you know."
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"I don't believe non monogamous relationships are on the increase and i don't believe this site could be used to further it, if you think about life and the 'family unit' man, woman, children and a life long partnership thats certainly a rarity these days but people still aspire to it. Swinging is as a result of the failures in life although the younger people entering into it are changing it but only until they get a partner.
We have no children, my wife is my partner not my possession, we work and live together 24/7 - and whilst we don't class ourselves as swingers we also don't class ourselves as failures just because we're on here.
We don't need anybody else to join us but it's bloody good fun when it happens, which is exactly twice in 7-8 years.
If you have such a negative view of FS, and those that are on here, maybe think about moving on.I don't have a negative view of FAB what makes you think that? My answer that you quoted was in answer to somebody elses answer but i never quoted them
In fairness you did say swinging is a result of failures in life.
I imagine some of the swingers on fab sold interpret that statement as a negative one.Well for many and you can read it in many profiles they've come here after relationship breakdowns, divorce etc i didn't mean it to sound like a criticism just a fact of life
Just part of the hierarchy of needs. If you mean they need sex so come here, yes but achieving it is an altogether different thing "
Well I was thinking more belonging, connections, self esteem, friendship and yes intimacy |
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"Is it for swinging or is it a dating app or is it a lifeline for lonely people, does it get you sex?For many i imagine not "
Isn't it all three? I certainly fit into two of those categories and there are others in each of them.
And I have found enough sex here to keep me busy and happy, so I'm very pleased with Fab myself. |
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For me, I guess it's just somewhere to go when I am lonely, as I am a Single parent with 2 boys with SEN. I would love to meet up, but unfortunately, I have yet to find that connection with anyone.. so I come in the forums for entertainment, and upload some pictures sometimes to see if anyone finds me attractive, because in the real world, I feel invisible... woah!  |
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"Casual sex with randoms do you go to clubs? Or do you get what you need from private messaging? "
I get a few women casual sex meets every few months from messages. Clubs are easy though yes and I use other sites |
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"Is it for swinging or is it a dating app or is it a lifeline for lonely people, does it get you sex?For many i imagine not "
Friends
Shagging
More shagging
Say on whole as well a lot of Masturbating going on as well
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By *essaMayWoman 40 weeks ago
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"Certainly in early days the popularity was being free and cams in the chat roomsFree in what way? "
Because it doesn't cost anything to join, and you can go into chat and watch people who want to be watched on cam. supporter fee is optional
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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When we joined it was because we wanted to swing, with people who were swingers. That is still the reason I'm here with my husband.
However, people seem to use this site for all sorts of different reasons and I guess that is ok too, but it can make it a little more trickier to find the genuine swingers, but we still manage so all is good.
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"Is it for swinging or is it a dating app or is it a lifeline for lonely people, does it get you sex?For many i imagine not "
Yes, yes, yes and yes.
The degree of positivity for each of those yesses (is that even a word?) depends on the day of the week/time of the month/phase of the moon...  |
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"Is it for swinging or is it a dating app or is it a lifeline for lonely people, does it get you sex?For many i imagine not
Yes, yes, yes and yes.
The degree of positivity for each of those yesses (is that even a word?) depends on the day of the week/time of the month/phase of the moon... "
I knew it |
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