"'Kin hell no, I cum at the drop of a hat. If it's a sexy hat.
You struggle to cum, even if you're properly turned on?"
yes I get worn out before I get to blow my load but even when I do it's very watery |
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"'Kin hell no, I cum at the drop of a hat. If it's a sexy hat.
You struggle to cum, even if you're properly turned on? yes I get worn out before I get to blow my load but even when I do it's very watery"
At your age, I’d look into the possibility of low testosterone.
It can present as inability to concentrate, insomnia, weaker errctions, difficulty orgasming, excessive tiredness, changes in metabolism, low libido, and more. |
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"'Kin hell no, I cum at the drop of a hat. If it's a sexy hat.
You struggle to cum, even if you're properly turned on? yes I get worn out before I get to blow my load but even when I do it's very watery
At your age, I’d look into the possibility of low testosterone.
It can present as inability to concentrate, insomnia, weaker errctions, difficulty orgasming, excessive tiredness, changes in metabolism, low libido, and more. "
oh thanks for that,I'm not that old thanks! |
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You might not be old but testosterone levels peak at age 18/19 and decline throughout the rest of adulthood, with a sharp drop in the mid forties. You profile puts you at mid/late 40s so it might be something that's worth looking into |
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"'Kin hell no, I cum at the drop of a hat. If it's a sexy hat.
You struggle to cum, even if you're properly turned on? yes I get worn out before I get to blow my load but even when I do it's very watery
At your age, I’d look into the possibility of low testosterone.
It can present as inability to concentrate, insomnia, weaker errctions, difficulty orgasming, excessive tiredness, changes in metabolism, low libido, and more. oh thanks for that,I'm not that old thanks!"
Sorry not calling you old. Testosterone can decrease as early as in the 30s. |
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If you are staying hard the testosterone probably is the only issue. Maybe it's slightly low, most men have low T when they get past 30.
I started taking things to help a few years ago and the difference it's made to everything is staggering.. Not just sexually either, mentally, physically, emotionally.
Feel fitter stronger, more switched on and focused. I sleep better, feel more confident, and much happier.
Make sure you're properly hydrated but I think it's more to do with you thinking about it too much. I'd say its more phycological than physical.
It happens to me sometimes, if I'm thinking about it too much I just can't cum. Relax, focus on enjoying what you're doing rather than the end result. Tell your partner to do something for you that you really get turned on by. |
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It depends, I get to a point where I probs wont cum in the session, unless I do it myself, normally that is when there is lots of stop start for foreplay etc
If it's a quick with little chat then I can cum fairly quick! |
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By *orny PTMan 45 weeks ago
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"My ex. I was convinced it was all the jerking off to porn"
Yes and no. If he's wanking. What is he using as a lube?
1 nothing
2 water based lube
3 oil based lube
4 a condom
5 pussy juice
6 saliva
I don't think ever women realise how much TOO MUCH lube can reduce the friction, between hand and penis. Penises with foreskins need more friction than vaginas.
I can't vouch for the other type: no thanks.
This lack of basic male biomechanics, is poorly documented.
Let me explain how this feels:
imagine you are on the beach sunbathing, you have an itch, you scratch it and the nerves are satisfied and it goes away. Now slap on some sun tan lotion and try that scratch again. Does it work? No, well there's your answer.
I am speaking from experience. Low T-levels also have a lot to answer. |
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Hi OP, if it isn’t related to medication and you fail to ejaculate even solo watching porn etc, maybe get checked over by GP as can be a sign of undiagnosed diabetes in men |
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By *orny PTMan 45 weeks ago
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"I think porn has a lot to answer for. I wonder if the widespread use of porn is desensitising the thrill of real experiences?"
Men are visual creatures and sex in the sun is a lot more potent for me. In the dark my eyes which are erogenous zones don't get enough visual stimulation and I like to see my partner, all senses working together is much better.
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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I’ve been struggling lately but not all the time, but I’ve also noticed one of my balls seems to be sliding up inside me during sex and it kills the sensation pretty much |
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"If you are staying hard the testosterone probably is the only issue. Maybe it's slightly low, most men have low T when they get past 30.
I started taking things to help a few years ago and the difference it's made to everything is staggering.. Not just sexually either, mentally, physically, emotionally.
Feel fitter stronger, more switched on and focused. I sleep better, feel more confident, and much happier.
Make sure you're properly hydrated but I think it's more to do with you thinking about it too much. I'd say its more phycological than physical.
It happens to me sometimes, if I'm thinking about it too much I just can't cum. Relax, focus on enjoying what you're doing rather than the end result. Tell your partner to do something for you that you really get turned on by. "
Best answer right here |
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