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By *illy Idol OP   Man 45 weeks ago

Midlands

Is how you define success different today than it was when you were younger?

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By *hrowawaydevice1987Man 45 weeks ago

SW London/Surrey

Success now is being able to pay bills with some money left over.

Success before was being rich!

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago


"Success now is being able to pay bills with some money left over.

Success before was being rich!"

I like this

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By *obilebottomMan 45 weeks ago

All over

Absolutely. It used to be about the grafters, now is about quick wins, media personas, overpaid footballers and 4x4s

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago

I used to see success as having a good career, nice house, new car, 2 nice holidays a year, stuff like that.

Now I see success as having healthy relationships with those that matter, family, friends, lovers.

I’ve never succeeded at either though

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By *illy Idol OP   Man 45 weeks ago

Midlands


"Absolutely. It used to be about the grafters, now is about quick wins, media personas, overpaid footballers and 4x4s "

Is this how YOU define success though?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman 45 weeks ago

Reading

Success for me lies in my interactions with those around me.

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By *illy Idol OP   Man 45 weeks ago

Midlands


"I used to see success as having a good career, nice house, new car, 2 nice holidays a year, stuff like that.

Now I see success as having healthy relationships with those that matter, family, friends, lovers.

I’ve never succeeded at either though "

If it's any consolation, you have nice tattoos though

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago


"If it's any consolation, you have nice tattoos though"

I may die alone, but I’m gonna look sick af

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By *valanche1001Man 45 weeks ago

Leeds

I woke up, I’m still alive, everything works = success!

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By *TG3Man 45 weeks ago

Dorchester

What is success....... You can't define it neither can i...... If you're happy you've had a successful life if you're not you've failed

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By *illy Idol OP   Man 45 weeks ago

Midlands


"If it's any consolation, you have nice tattoos though

I may die alone, but I’m gonna look sick af "

Every cloud

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By *tlanshiaWoman 45 weeks ago

Chatham

Is not killing a coworker before 9am.

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By *ellhungvweMan 45 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I have always thought success was having the freedom to be able to dance to your own tune. I still think that. I also now think that knowing the kids have/are turning out well and that they are as well equipped as they can be to handle what life will throw at them is what matters most.

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago

When I was younger, success was so much more related to financial things but through necessity rather than choice. Now, I know that success is about being happy and knowing that our loved ones are happy. Other than that, nothing really matters.

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By *electableicecreamMan 45 weeks ago

The West

Success for me is my children growing up knowing they are loved, held, dressed, clean, learning.

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By *illy Idol OP   Man 45 weeks ago

Midlands

Seems like we're all on the same page.

Thank you for taking part in my thoughtful questions vol 1

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By *entleman JayMan 45 weeks ago

Wakefield

Success for me is being happy at whatever you are doing.

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago

I don't feel like i had any success when i was younger - i was lacking role models and meaningful, positive interaction

I genuinely think making it to 53 has been my greatest success

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By *illy Idol OP   Man 45 weeks ago

Midlands


"I don't feel like i had any success when i was younger - i was lacking role models and meaningful, positive interaction

I genuinely think making it to 53 has been my greatest success "

The big 54 could be your greatest achievement to come. Don't do anything silly in the meantime

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By *illy Idol OP   Man 45 weeks ago

Midlands


"Success for me is being happy at whatever you are doing. "

Absolutely, Jay

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By *otSoPoshWoman 45 weeks ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Happiness. That's the measure of success for me. Also every day I manage to keep the small dog dependants alive... success!

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago

Success has been forgiving many failings. Mine and others.

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By *illy Idol OP   Man 45 weeks ago

Midlands


"Success has been forgiving many failings. Mine and others. "

Very wise indeed, Glow

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago

Being young success was achieving my aspirations and being self supporting. So far I've got half that right. To achieve more ambitions is the next stage.

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By *illy Idol OP   Man 45 weeks ago

Midlands


"Being young success was achieving my aspirations and being self supporting. So far I've got half that right. To achieve more ambitions is the next stage. "

Doesn't sound simply perfect to me

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago


"Being young success was achieving my aspirations and being self supporting. So far I've got half that right. To achieve more ambitions is the next stage.

Doesn't sound simply perfect to me "

Yeah I know. But my user name was Simply average... I'd never get a shag would I?

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By *illy Idol OP   Man 45 weeks ago

Midlands


"Being young success was achieving my aspirations and being self supporting. So far I've got half that right. To achieve more ambitions is the next stage.

Doesn't sound simply perfect to me

Yeah I know. But my user name was Simply average... I'd never get a shag would I? "

I think you'd get more. Perfection can be intimidating

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago


"Being young success was achieving my aspirations and being self supporting. So far I've got half that right. To achieve more ambitions is the next stage.

Doesn't sound simply perfect to me

Yeah I know. But my user name was Simply average... I'd never get a shag would I?

I think you'd get more. Perfection can be intimidating "

....Mmmm, (navigates to account name page)

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By *illy Idol OP   Man 45 weeks ago

Midlands


"Being young success was achieving my aspirations and being self supporting. So far I've got half that right. To achieve more ambitions is the next stage.

Doesn't sound simply perfect to me

Yeah I know. But my user name was Simply average... I'd never get a shag would I?

I think you'd get more. Perfection can be intimidating

....Mmmm, (navigates to account name page) "

Knee deep I tell ya. Knee deep

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago

I’ve always wanted to be happy. So I dunno how different it is. But I guess my main difference is probably that success isn’t about making my family proud it’s almost entirely about my happiness. Not just a little bit about my happiness

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By *rHotNottsMan 45 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Knowing you give your best & stay true to your values. Doing work you believe benefits society, not worrying about money and having some good friends.

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago


"Being young success was achieving my aspirations and being self supporting. So far I've got half that right. To achieve more ambitions is the next stage.

Doesn't sound simply perfect to me

Yeah I know. But my user name was Simply average... I'd never get a shag would I?

I think you'd get more. Perfection can be intimidating

....Mmmm, (navigates to account name page)

Knee deep I tell ya. Knee deep "

(Or waist deep, for shorter readers)

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By *illy Idol OP   Man 45 weeks ago

Midlands


"I’ve always wanted to be happy. So I dunno how different it is. But I guess my main difference is probably that success isn’t about making my family proud it’s almost entirely about my happiness. Not just a little bit about my happiness "

Have you thought about supporting a different football club?

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By *illy Idol OP   Man 45 weeks ago

Midlands


"Being young success was achieving my aspirations and being self supporting. So far I've got half that right. To achieve more ambitions is the next stage.

Doesn't sound simply perfect to me

Yeah I know. But my user name was Simply average... I'd never get a shag would I?

I think you'd get more. Perfection can be intimidating

....Mmmm, (navigates to account name page)

Knee deep I tell ya. Knee deep

(Or waist deep, for shorter readers) "

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago


"I’ve always wanted to be happy. So I dunno how different it is. But I guess my main difference is probably that success isn’t about making my family proud it’s almost entirely about my happiness. Not just a little bit about my happiness

Have you thought about supporting a different football club?"

Yeah I actually did stop supporting Chelsea about 4/5 years ago

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By *illy Idol OP   Man 45 weeks ago

Midlands


"I’ve always wanted to be happy. So I dunno how different it is. But I guess my main difference is probably that success isn’t about making my family proud it’s almost entirely about my happiness. Not just a little bit about my happiness

Have you thought about supporting a different football club?

Yeah I actually did stop supporting Chelsea about 4/5 years ago "

Well that's a start

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