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"Nope they personalty is the most important thing so looks aren’t important"
Yes and no but ultimately in the grand scheme of things no
I no plenty off 10s that wouldn’t see meet or date for the simple fact they not nice people at all
Or they shown me something I don’t like like lie to me when I know the truth
The minute a flag is rased they hit the no box and never come out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 40 weeks ago
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"Nope they personalty is the most important thing so looks aren’t important
Yes and no but ultimately in the grand scheme of things no
I no plenty off 10s that wouldn’t see meet or date for the simple fact they not nice people at all
Or they shown me something I don’t like like lie to me when I know the truth
The minute a flag is rased they hit the no box and never come out "
I get you. But I think there has to be a physical attraction of some sort |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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In terms of on here, initial physical attraction is what’s going to start any conversation so I’d say it’s pretty important
When in person it’s a different story, a conversation will happen regardless of appearance, and a persons personality can bring them from a 5 to 10 (imo) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 40 weeks ago
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"Yes. All about the face.
J
Interesting
My idea of a good face isn't necessarily someone else's. Just that for me facial attraction is huge.
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Yeah I get you  |
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By *eliWoman 40 weeks ago
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The attractiveness of the face isn't the most important thing to me but I like faces that I find desirable.
Fuck that's such crap even for me.
Look, I like looking at the face of someone I want to kiss. I like thinking yeah, sure, I wouldn't mind watching that face in the mirror as they fuck me. I want a face that makes me want to kiss it and taste myself off of it.
They might not be the most conventionally attractive (I love a good seat of a nose) but I have to want it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 40 weeks ago
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"In terms of on here, initial physical attraction is what’s going to start any conversation so I’d say it’s pretty important
When in person it’s a different story, a conversation will happen regardless of appearance, and a persons personality can bring them from a 5 to 10 (imo)"
From a 5 to a 10? Personality doing a lot of lifting there |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"Nope they personalty is the most important thing so looks aren’t important
Yes and no but ultimately in the grand scheme of things no
I no plenty off 10s that wouldn’t see meet or date for the simple fact they not nice people at all
Or they shown me something I don’t like like lie to me when I know the truth
The minute a flag is rased they hit the no box and never come out
I get you. But I think there has to be a physical attraction of some sort"
Yes but it’s not the be all and end all personalty can make a 5-6 a 10
And it can make a 10 a 2-3 ultimately personalty is everything |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 40 weeks ago
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"The attractiveness of the face isn't the most important thing to me but I like faces that I find desirable.
Fuck that's such crap even for me.
Look, I like looking at the face of someone I want to kiss. I like thinking yeah, sure, I wouldn't mind watching that face in the mirror as they fuck me. I want a face that makes me want to kiss it and taste myself off of it.
They might not be the most conventionally attractive (I love a good seat of a nose) but I have to want it."
I think it’s important to find the face attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 40 weeks ago
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"Nope they personalty is the most important thing so looks aren’t important
Yes and no but ultimately in the grand scheme of things no
I no plenty off 10s that wouldn’t see meet or date for the simple fact they not nice people at all
Or they shown me something I don’t like like lie to me when I know the truth
The minute a flag is rased they hit the no box and never come out
I get you. But I think there has to be a physical attraction of some sort
Yes but it’s not the be all and end all personalty can make a 5-6 a 10
And it can make a 10 a 2-3 ultimately personalty is everything "
I think an ugly personality makes someone undesirable. It doesn’t make them ugly. If they’re a 10 in looks, they’re always gonna be a 10 in looks whether I like their personality or not |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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There’s are physical stunning people with shit personalities that will not seem physically stunning after they show their shit personality.
There are also attractive people with beautiful insides who become aesthetically more beautiful because they have beautiful insides.
Physical appearance alone isn’t everything for me. For example, one of my partners has a beard. Any other man with a beard isn’t attractive to me. He, to me, is very sexy! It was because of his personality that I feel for him. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 40 weeks ago
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"There’s are physical stunning people with shit personalities that will not seem physically stunning after they show their shit personality.
There are also attractive people with beautiful insides who become aesthetically more beautiful because they have beautiful insides.
Physical appearance alone isn’t everything for me. For example, one of my partners has a beard. Any other man with a beard isn’t attractive to me. He, to me, is very sexy! It was because of his personality that I feel for him. "
So not any other man with a beard isn’t attractive because technically, you could fall for someone else with a beard. |
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Facial attraction is very important. I’m attracted to people with all different body types without really having a preference but facial attraction is the one thing I can’t overlook if it’s not there (in terms of physical appearance. I know I know personality is key but I just assume that’s a given) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 40 weeks ago
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"Facial attraction is very important. I’m attracted to people with all different body types without really having a preference but facial attraction is the one thing I can’t overlook if it’s not there (in terms of physical appearance. I know I know personality is key but I just assume that’s a given)"
Interesting thank you |
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"Facial attraction is very important. I’m attracted to people with all different body types without really having a preference but facial attraction is the one thing I can’t overlook if it’s not there (in terms of physical appearance. I know I know personality is key but I just assume that’s a given)"
Or a mirror in the right position  
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There has to be some aesthetic attraction. You could just be drawn to the eyes, teeth, mouth and find them attractive.
However there is more to a person than a face  and that's where intrigue and connection kick in and the desire to find out |
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"Facial attraction is very important. I’m attracted to people with all different body types without really having a preference but facial attraction is the one thing I can’t overlook if it’s not there (in terms of physical appearance. I know I know personality is key but I just assume that’s a given)
Or a mirror in the right position
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Ah yes but that’s so I can watch myself  |
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By *edeWoman 40 weeks ago
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I may not find someone attractive at first glance but they become more attractive to me the more I interact and feel a connection.
If there's no connection, there's no real attraction |
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"Facial attraction is very important. I’m attracted to people with all different body types without really having a preference but facial attraction is the one thing I can’t overlook if it’s not there (in terms of physical appearance. I know I know personality is key but I just assume that’s a given)
Or a mirror in the right position
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Ah yes but that’s so I can watch myself "
Exactly. That was my point. Who cares about their face with a correctly positioned mirror? 
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By (user no longer on site) OP 40 weeks ago
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"There has to be some aesthetic attraction. You could just be drawn to the eyes, teeth, mouth and find them attractive.
However there is more to a person than a face and that's where intrigue and connection kick in and the desire to find out "
I get you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 40 weeks ago
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"I may not find someone attractive at first glance but they become more attractive to me the more I interact and feel a connection.
If there's no connection, there's no real attraction "
so does physical attraction not really matter to you then? I know it doesn’t for some people |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 40 weeks ago
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"A face that might be considered unfortunate can be very attractive in the right light and with the right person behind it  "
everyone is attractive to someone. But does a face matter to YOU. If you don’t find their face attractive when you meet or in a first message. Does that matter? |
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"A face that might be considered unfortunate can be very attractive in the right light and with the right person behind it "
Yes. Costs me a fortune paying this lighting crew to come with me everywhere but well worth it. |
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"A face that might be considered unfortunate can be very attractive in the right light and with the right person behind it everyone is attractive to someone. But does a face matter to YOU. If you don’t find their face attractive when you meet or in a first message. Does that matter?"
Sometimes I meet someone in person and there's something about them that makes it an absolute no. But if I'm just not immediately attracted to the aesthetics of a face it doesn't mean I'm not open to seeing if that changes when I know a little more of them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 40 weeks ago
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"A face that might be considered unfortunate can be very attractive in the right light and with the right person behind it everyone is attractive to someone. But does a face matter to YOU. If you don’t find their face attractive when you meet or in a first message. Does that matter?
Sometimes I meet someone in person and there's something about them that makes it an absolute no. But if I'm just not immediately attracted to the aesthetics of a face it doesn't mean I'm not open to seeing if that changes when I know a little more of them "
I see what you mean. Nice |
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In all honesty, yes there has to be an attraction, but personality is equally important.
On the flip side, I know and expect that I won't be for everyone based on the same standard. How boring would it be otherwise |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 40 weeks ago
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"In all honesty, yes there has to be an attraction, but personality is equally important.
On the flip side, I know and expect that I won't be for everyone based on the same standard. How boring would it be otherwise "
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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Yes, it does
Having a great personality is amazing but it’s not going to make me anymore attracted to them if I don’t like their face.
That came out more aggressive than it was meant but I don’t know how to word it any better |
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Yes it’s important that I find the face attractive, but it’s more of a whole package thing. If they have a shit personality I will quickly find them unattractive, and if they have a lovely personality then attraction can grow for me |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"Yes it’s important that I find the face attractive, but it’s more of a whole package thing. If they have a shit personality I will quickly find them unattractive, and if they have a lovely personality then attraction can grow for me"
yourself for example, are immediately attractive to me solely by your face pic so there's my 2 cents.
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"I may not find someone attractive at first glance but they become more attractive to me the more I interact and feel a connection.
If there's no connection, there's no real attraction "
When I read the first line, I thought it would go as follows:
I may not find someone attractive at first glance, but they become more attractive as I drink more wine.
There is a reason why guys like me take a lady out for dinner dates in a fancy restaurant. Low light and wine work in a man’s favour. |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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The face has to be attractive, and I have to be attracted to everything about them too though.
But the face isn’t everything or I’d be running after everyone I think is gorgeous wouldnt I?  |
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By *ndrew CareyMan 40 weeks ago
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"Does the attractiveness of the face matter the most ultimately? If the face isn’t the most attractive, does it bother you? "
Not really, going to sound like a shallow person here but if she's got "junk" in the trunk, exceptions can be made |
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