Butt plugs are a great way to start, but the best advice is to make sure the person receiving is relaxed, lubed and its taken very slowly to start
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"Build up slowly from fingers to toys to cock maybe , relax and enjoy x
Thanks. Still not 100% "
Like people have said try a toy with lots of good quality lube first and see how you feel after a few times. |
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"Build up slowly from fingers to toys to cock maybe , relax and enjoy x
Thanks. Still not 100%
Like people have said try a toy with lots of good quality lube first and see how you feel after a few times. "
Couldn’t agree more. This is what I did so it wasn’t such a shock for the real thing |
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"Build up slowly from fingers to toys to cock maybe , relax and enjoy x
Thanks. Still not 100%
Like people have said try a toy with lots of good quality lube first and see how you feel after a few times.
Couldn’t agree more. This is what I did so it wasn’t such a shock for the real thing "
The main thing is you have got to learn to relax and enjoy it. Not tense up so it begins painful. |
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It took me a while to find a lube which worked for me......quite a lot to choose from. As others have said, use plenty of lube and if you are tight ( as I am ) make sure that the person fucking you takes it very gently to begin with....if they try to plunge right in it will hurt you and potentially put you off. |
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Use a slim toy to open yourself slightly. Douche, douche again. Use a small syringe and baby oil to get lube inside as well as out. Use a slightly bigger toy, gently.
Whoever is then going to fuck you needs to use more lube and then go slowly. And if it hurts too much, stop. Expect some discomfort at first though.
Even after many years of taking anal I still take time. |
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OP ignore all the nonsense above.
Anal is like going swimming, you gotta just jump in the deep end. You can’t be just dipping a toe in and wincing.
Grab that cock, suit him up and smash him in.
Then do lengths. |
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"OP ignore all the nonsense above.
Anal is like going swimming, you gotta just jump in the deep end. You can’t be just dipping a toe in and wincing.
Grab that cock, suit him up and smash him in.
Then do lengths."
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