Honestly the site takes effort and the more effort you put in the more you get out of the site. Also having you bio as will fill in later just screams can't be bothered so why should we bother kinda thing |
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Read your profile, then read the profiles of 20 other blokes. What have they got that you haven't? What are they saying that you aren't? Why are they getting meets and you're not..?
As with all of these posts, you're the problem I'm afraid. A lazy, dull profile is never going to interest anyone. You won't appeal to everyone, that's impossible, but at the moment you probably don't appeal to anyone.
Effort gets rewarded.
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1573139
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1568244
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1572120
Use the search function for profile advice |
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"Genuine nice guy not havin much luck , any tips "
There's no way for anyone to know anything about you.
You might not realise that people will look at your profile before they read your message. Right now your profile looks just like a few thousand others with no pics and no info.
Messaging is the least efficient way to make connections. You are basically howling through a storm of rabid penis's.
The scene in Ireland is very relaxed and very welcoming. If you make the effort and travel to organised social events then you will vastly increase your chances of making a good connection.
Have a look at the profiles of guys who verified the people you fancy. Those will be good examples of how to attract attention from the people you are interested in. |
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Single men must use the site wisely, invest heavily their time and effort and have realistic expectations. No 1 priority is always to have a profile that sells you. It's the only way anyone could possibly be able to pick you, instead of 1 of the many other single men. If they look and are left with no clue if they'd be able to stomach even 1 second of your body and mind around them, they move on. It's mostly only 1 chance each bloke gets with each woman. They need to make it count.
2. Give good message. Communicate well.
3. Use socials and clubs to increase your circle. It's a swinging site, so engage in the lifestyle. |
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If you read your profile/looked at pics would you meet you?
Your profile is your shop window I can't advise because you haven't asked but if someone winks/messages us & haven't put any effort into their profile I won't reply.
Lazy profile = lazy meet.
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By *rispyDuckMan 46 weeks ago
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"Genuine nice guy not havin much luck , any tips "
Being a nice guy doesn’t mean fudge all when trying to meet & get laid my good fella 
Good well composed profile, good variety of pics, charm & charisma in your chat & bit of assertiveness gets you keys to the castle 
Just a few hints |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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I would say reads ok but maybe elaborate on some of the things you enjoy. A few more pics wouldn't go amiss. Main thing is to be patient, start chatting to people via the forums, pay compliments to pictures and even respond to people's statuses that aren't necessarily about fun |
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