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Do you usually meet in hotels?
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"My place. Their place.
Hotel prices in Ireland aren't really sustainable for regular meets."
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They're not sustainable in London either, but I always seem succumb to the needs of my phallus whist ignoring the wisdom of my wallet. |
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"Never, in a hotel. Had a really bad experience. Never again"
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Were there things missing from the hospitality tray? It's the KitKat™ wasn't it? She ate both bars and left me none, despoiling our pillow talk. The cow. |
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The Ex and I started with Clubs etc but very quickly found it better looking on Adult Sites for men. After chatting and vetting we would meet at either a hotel of their choice or for a coffee and go back to their place. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago
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"My place. Their place.
Hotel prices in Ireland aren't really sustainable for regular meets.
This! Most of the reason I don't meet people as much as I'd like to. It's daylight robbery over here. "
In London too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago
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My only question about hotel people, especially the safety thing, if you meet someone on a dating app, and after one or two dates you wanted to invite them back to yours or they wanted to go back to yours, does that mean like… you’d say we have to book a hotel?
(This only applies to poly people or single people so monogamish couples I don’t need your answers. Noah Fence.) |
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"My only question about hotel people, especially the safety thing, if you meet someone on a dating app, and after one or two dates you wanted to invite them back to yours or they wanted to go back to yours, does that mean like… you’d say we have to book a hotel?
(This only applies to poly people or single people so monogamish couples I don’t need your answers. Noah Fence.) "
Yeah, that's what it would mean in my case. |
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"My only question about hotel people, especially the safety thing, if you meet someone on a dating app, and after one or two dates you wanted to invite them back to yours or they wanted to go back to yours, does that mean like… you’d say we have to book a hotel?
(This only applies to poly people or single people so monogamish couples I don’t need your answers. Noah Fence.) "
I don't think it's more safe to meet in a hotel.
When I get the other person's address I set up an email to send it to a close friend a day later. When I get home I cancel it before it sends.
If I meet in a hotel that person could be anyone. You don't need to give a hotel your actual address. You don't need to give a hotel your card details. You literally have no paper trail to who that person is. |
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"My only question about hotel people, especially the safety thing, if you meet someone on a dating app, and after one or two dates you wanted to invite them back to yours or they wanted to go back to yours, does that mean like… you’d say we have to book a hotel?
(This only applies to poly people or single people so monogamish couples I don’t need your answers. Noah Fence.)
I don't think it's more safe to meet in a hotel.
When I get the other person's address I set up an email to send it to a close friend a day later. When I get home I cancel it before it sends.
If I meet in a hotel that person could be anyone. You don't need to give a hotel your actual address. You don't need to give a hotel your card details. You literally have no paper trail to who that person is."
You have to have photo ID for the hotels I've been to, and they have cctv cameras. Not saying a stupid person still wouldn't try something nefarious, but I think they're more likely to want to meet at the victims home.
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"My only question about hotel people, especially the safety thing, if you meet someone on a dating app, and after one or two dates you wanted to invite them back to yours or they wanted to go back to yours, does that mean like… you’d say we have to book a hotel?"
It can complicate things. If arranging a meet becomes complicated it can put me off, meets should feel fun and easy.
In my own experience most people have already booked a hotel before contacting me. “We have a hotel booked, would you like to join us…” |
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I prefer hotels no one's coming to my house - my kids live here & come 1st.
I've done at theirs but I feel there's more pressure, hotel bar and back to the room if all goes well works better for me.
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By *sWyldWoman 47 weeks ago
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"My only question about hotel people, especially the safety thing, if you meet someone on a dating app, and after one or two dates you wanted to invite them back to yours or they wanted to go back to yours, does that mean like… you’d say we have to book a hotel?
(This only applies to poly people or single people so monogamish couples I don’t need your answers. Noah Fence.) "
I absolutely would suggest a hotel even on dating apps. No one is coming to my house in the early stages of anything and I like hotels. Neutral ground etc. I feel much safer in a hotel to be honest.
When it comes to dating the Ideal is obviously someone with their own place because lots of hotel stays get expensive! |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"My only question about hotel people, especially the safety thing, if you meet someone on a dating app, and after one or two dates you wanted to invite them back to yours or they wanted to go back to yours, does that mean like… you’d say we have to book a hotel?
(This only applies to poly people or single people so monogamish couples I don’t need your answers. Noah Fence.) "
Yes, I don’t necessarily expect the other person to book the hotel, but I do let them know it would be a hotel we go back to if that’s the decision we make a few dates in. Even in the moment, it’s easy enough to book a hotel then and there. Rare are the times that I’d go to theirs or have them at mine so early on. I have a nesting partner and we are KTP. If we are more than a few dates in, or are partners coming to mine or going to theirs is an option. Occasionally, we could still do hotels too just for fun. |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Clubs with a follow-up at a hotel"
Is there more fun in the after-party hotel?
I’m aware of the party moving on to a nearby hotel, but since I don’t know what to expect, I never took that route.
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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I would never meet up at a hotel I value my safety to much.
I did go to a club last year didn't enjoy it as it was more social than playing.
I only met at my place. |
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"I would never meet up at a hotel I value my safety to much.
I did go to a club last year didn't enjoy it as it was more social than playing.
I only met at my place. "
I feel that’s more dangerous, not only are you not seen or somewhere public but they will forever know your address. They could be stalkers and you could never get rid of them. |
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By *izzy.Woman 47 weeks ago
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I meet at coffee shops or pubs. If fun is on the cards, I prefer clubs, as there are people nearby if there was a problem. I wouldn't feel safe using a hotel and have to know someone well to invite anyone back to my house.
I had a guy turn up months after meeting me, just as I was serving Sunday lunch to family. He explained he didn't have my number and couldn't find me on Fab anymore !
So club meets are my safe place now. |
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We meet at a club as it’s great way to meet new potential friends. Never done the hotel or another couples home but certainly wouldn’t say no and seems kinda naughty…I don’t think we would ever entertain in our house unless the other couple became fab friends. |
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