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Do you ever take breaks from here?
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In 8 years I've deleted 3 previous profiles and come back again. The last one I hid the profile and didn't log in for a year.
When I did come back I deleted that profile within a couple of weeks and a month or so later started this one.
I have never once asked someone I've met on a previous profile to reverify me because I always wanted a completely fresh start.
Each time I've left I've come back with a different attitude towards how I was going to approach the site so while I can't say I was reenergised I was always more confident than the previous time. |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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Yeah used to delete my profile when Id had enough, but nowadays i either hide it or write on it im not looking, had a break for about a year just there but now im making up for it |
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Did leave this site a year last Christmas because nothing was happening and it seemed shit, but for some reason, it’s kind of addictive, came back more or less of the same but still have to look every day |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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Cor yeah.. End of this month off for 16 days. I may just hide myself away.
Oh yes, left and comd back like a boomerang. Time outs are needed or my head hurts.
I first here a decade ago. Wow. Fab party me thinks on my own though. Got me toys  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 41 weeks ago
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I'm just not particularly finding this place that enjoyable right now.
The forums are the only reason I've stuck around. The majority of you are cool af, have a good bit of banter and seem like nice people, you lot are the only reason I've hung around this long.
Outside of the forum I don't know what I'm doing here, it feels like a time waste.
And then every now and then this little glimmer of hope pops up, reinvigorats you, and then just completely dissappears and makes your enjoyment level sink a bit lower than it was before it appeared.
Sorry for the moan, I know its not a unique take. |
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"I'm just not particularly finding this place that enjoyable right now.
The forums are the only reason I've stuck around. The majority of you are cool af, have a good bit of banter and seem like nice people, you lot are the only reason I've hung around this long.
Outside of the forum I don't know what I'm doing here, it feels like a time waste.
And then every now and then this little glimmer of hope pops up, reinvigorats you, and then just completely dissappears and makes your enjoyment level sink a bit lower than it was before it appeared.
Sorry for the moan, I know its not a unique take."
Use it for just that and have no other expectations. Anything else would be a bonus then  |
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"Did you feel like it helped? Did you come back feeling refreshed, re-energised and ready for action again?
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I regularly take a break … it can be overwhelming for me sometimes and I need to just have a break. I love the thrill but I’m not ?? swinger …. |
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I took six months off last year and it’s the best thing I did.
IMHO, when you’re feeling good and riding high, fab will compound that and you’ll find people are drawn in.
Conversely, when you’re tired, frustrated, battling, that can come across and repel people.
Sometimes it’s best to have a break and come back more chilled. |
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Not consciously but it just gets boring sometimes and then I log in less.
Then I’ll log in one time and there’s some good stuff with nice people on the forum and I’ll be back in.
After a bit they will go quiet and if there’s not much totty around I’ll get bored again and stop logging in.
Then I’ll log in and there’s a funny guy or a guy that posts dark sarcastic comments and I’ll be back.
Then I’ll get bored and not log in for a while.
Then I’ll log on and there’s this chick that is really blunt but you can see she’s just shooting ducks and I’ll keep coming back to quack.
Then I’ll get bored and not log in for a while.
Then I’ll just fancy a wank and log in to look at bellaseas. |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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I deleted and came back a few times in the past but I've been away for 6 years this time. Definitely a different mindset as I'm not really interested in meeting anyone....yet  |
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I had about a 5 or 6 year break with my profile hidden...when I came back it was like starting again as all my old friends had gone and all but about 3 verifications had disappeared! So I decided to park that profile and start again from scratch..however, I don't think Fab has fundementally changed in all that time...you can just add videos now |
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"Did you feel like it helped? Did you come back feeling refreshed, re-energised and ready for action again?
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Took a two year break. Not too sure we can be bothered to put the effort in when it’s not reciprocated
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By (user no longer on site) OP 41 weeks ago
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"I'm just not particularly finding this place that enjoyable right now.
The forums are the only reason I've stuck around. The majority of you are cool af, have a good bit of banter and seem like nice people, you lot are the only reason I've hung around this long.
Outside of the forum I don't know what I'm doing here, it feels like a time waste.
And then every now and then this little glimmer of hope pops up, reinvigorats you, and then just completely dissappears and makes your enjoyment level sink a bit lower than it was before it appeared.
Sorry for the moan, I know its not a unique take.
Use it for just that and have no other expectations. Anything else would be a bonus then "
Tbh Mr Idol, that's how I have been treating it, I just had a bit of a shit day on fab yesterday and was being a miserable fuck. |
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By *essaMayWoman 41 weeks ago
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I go in phase, hang around in the chat rooms until i get bored. Different people same old lines, empty complements and watch me wank. Occasionally get to actully have a conversation until it turns to sex talk.
Forums i dabble in maybe comment if i feel can contribute. When it reverts to mostly, rate my cock, who's hot and your not and ultimately jackanory threads i take my leave, how long is dependent on my moods. |
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We hide our account and log out from time to time, recharge and come back. We've stopped using fab as anything more than to look for events and keep in touch with people we've met along the way so haven't needed to do it for awhile now though |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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Fab works when it works. I’m not always in the same frame of mind or playfulness. Life is ever changing and my focus quite rightly shifts with life. I recently switched from granola to porridge because granola was getting boring, but I might switch back or maybe I’ll try wheetabix, or maybe I’ll skip breakfast because I’m getting too fat? |
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"Did you feel like it helped? Did you come back feeling refreshed, re-energised and ready for action again?
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Four years because of the pandemic, dealing with an abusive relationship, and buying a house.
Finally back.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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Yeah, this is my 3rd profile in 6 years (always say I’m not coming back- but like a moth to a flame!) Now I just hide profile like others have said and still come online to look at forums, hot vids when I need a break |
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