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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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I’m not really bothered about being recognised considering I have a face pic on our public gallery. It’s just a bit ‘eww’ that they’ve seen me half naked and I’ll usually block them.
My friends and family probably wouldn’t be surprised and I highly doubt it would affect my job in any way. |
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"I’m not really bothered about being recognised considering I have a face pic on our public gallery. It’s just a bit ‘eww’ that they’ve seen me half naked and I’ll usually block them.
My friends and family probably wouldn’t be surprised and I highly doubt it would affect my job in any way. "
Why wouldn't they be surprised Mrs? |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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Denial, showing complete surprise, and asking "What on earth is that website then?", and feigning that you've recently been the victim of identity fraud, sounds like good advice Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"Lie. And say it isn’t me. 
Aahhh, shaggy was the real OG with this lol"
I would, I would completely deny it and try to make them look like an idiot and question their sanity.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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im recognised quite often.
for example, about 20 minutes ago, someone messaging me with my actual name as the subject line 
It is what it is.. if someone is recognising me, it's because they're indulging in the same lifestyle i am. and we're all grown up enough to be quiet about other people's business. Px  |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"I’m not really bothered about being recognised considering I have a face pic on our public gallery. It’s just a bit ‘eww’ that they’ve seen me half naked and I’ll usually block them.
My friends and family probably wouldn’t be surprised and I highly doubt it would affect my job in any way.
Why wouldn't they be surprised Mrs?"
They’ve joked about us being swingers in the past. God knows what gave them that idea. I must give off the vibes |
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The colleague that recognised me was very good at not being a creep about it and was a lot more embarrassed than I was when he brought it up in person. That was fine.
When people message me on here about seeing me at the bus stop and all the things they want to do to me, that's a skin crawl and instant block  |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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I think I'd have to front it out. I've got face pics on the profile after all. People who do recognise me will have explain their own presence on fab if try to embarrass or out me
..not sure what it would mean for work, if there'd be any fallout |
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By *sWyldWoman 41 weeks ago
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I was once outed by someone in my team at work, he was a complete dick about it by telling other people we worked with (particularly someone quite vulnerable)
I wasn't embarrassed at all I was just cross he could try and upset others about it.
Glad to say I no longer work there!
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By *AYENCouple 41 weeks ago
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"What do you do if someone recognises you? And what could the ramifications of that be? "
So what? We're adults, we like exciting sex! I'm pretty sure most people do, or would if they were honest and open to it. |
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This is something that worries me a lot. But specifically being recognised by certain people (I work in the education sector). One person has recognised me before, luckily he kept it to himself as I did about him being here. I can't help smiling to myself when I see him around town though  |
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If I’m recognised, I’m recognised. My friends know I’m on here. I send them pictures before I post them online to get hyped up. My friends are real hype girls.
My family wouldn’t care as my sex life isn’t their business and theirs isn’t mine
I don’t know any job that would fire me for being on here! |
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"The only issue I have with being recognised are the daft messages from faceless profiles telling me where they've just seen me.
What do they expect me to say?? Well done you!? 
It's creepy xx"
Yeah that's out of order! |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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If someone recognises you on here then they are swingers like you and hopefully they are open minded enough to accept any of your life choices.whst i would say is if you are worried about being recognised only put face pics as private or if you enjoy crossdressing or any kinds of kinks and worried someone could recognise you don't put picks on where someone could easily identify you |
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"If someone recognises you on here then they are swingers like you and hopefully they are open minded enough to accept any of your life choices.whst i would say is if you are worried about being recognised only put face pics as private or if you enjoy crossdressing or any kinds of kinks and worried someone could recognise you don't put picks on where someone could easily identify you "
This is all very sound advice. |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"I was messaging a couple, sent a face pic and then suddenly their profile was unavailable.
Maybe they just didn't like my mush  "
ha ha.you will find thats how a lit of people are on here.they either can't be bothered to reply as they have that many messages or are just rude people with no manners and think they are better than you. |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"I was once outed by someone in my team at work, he was a complete dick about it by telling other people we worked with (particularly someone quite vulnerable)
I wasn't embarrassed at all I was just cross he could try and upset others about it.
Glad to say I no longer work there!
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but surely that person would have been on this site too because how would they have known |
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