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Whats your chat game like?
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By (user no longer on site) OP 41 weeks ago
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I find when talking to someone I keep it pretty innocent just banter and friendly chat.
If they push it in a flirty direction I normally play to their level.
But I don't normally instigate as I don't wanna come across as innopropes
How do you guys get down? Keep it friendly untill the other ups the levels?
Or are you in pretty early with the "let me insert myself inside you"  |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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There’s a time and place for sexy chat.
The time is this afternoon - at my place.
* looks towards camera, takes a bow. #theyknowho
Add agree with you okay I kind of match at the moment. A bit like if you were sat on the sofa together, and you can feel the tension in the air, one of you has to lean in to see if the other is going to respond. And when you see them close their eyes and open their selves to the first kiss. Within minutes, your every button on each other’s clothing and sticking your tongue into every hole, you can find. |
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I keep it non sexual for as long as possible. I don’t like endless sexual message I like to build chemistry in person. After we’ve had sex then it’s completely different and I quite like a filthy message but I find if sex chat happens before we meet, that’s all the conversation is going to be and I find it tedious |
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By *eliWoman 41 weeks ago
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If I've not met them I try to not be too sexual.
The chemistry might not be there in person. I like getting to know a person and find it difficult if we're constantly talking about sex.
Plus, I'm well aware I have a very high libido. Too high. The majority of the time I try and repress it because I don't want to give off the impression that I'm a bit of a harlot. I like when the conversation organically builds up to that sort of chat but I don't really start it. |
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I'm like you in that I don't instigate the flirtatious messages in a chat. I take my cue from the other party although often it can be difficult to judge the intent through the basic text function on here.
I'd hate to misconstrue a message and bring the chat to a crashing halt.
Saying that, I'm chatting to a couple of lovely folk on here where the chat has taken a turn into the suggestive. My inability to believe that anyone thinks of being naughty with me always makes it tricky.
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By *sWyldWoman 41 weeks ago
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I try to keep it fairly innocent and non sexual until I meet someone. Don't want any awkwardness if we don't hit it off in person.
Once I've met them and there's clearly some chemistry I'm much more receptive to it |
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I can talk shite for England I can talk on any subject .I can talk knowable about sex. I can be funny
I can be serious . I pretty good all round but very few here actually want to engage in conversation . |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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I try and avoid starting any sexual chats. I find if we haven’t already met and the chat jumps straight into that it usually dies a slow death.
I don’t mind a little flirting back and forth but if I’m intending on meeting them I want to get to know them a little and that’s difficult when the conversation is purely sexual. |
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Chatting online, to me, is easy.
I can flirt, be serious, have a laugh and when the heat needs turning up, slowly ease it in to chat until it’s at max (get round here now) filth.
Simple rule is just stay at the level the other person is. Too many guys are just wanting to get to sex chat or show their cock, when the conversation didn’t warrant it. Teasing is so much more sexier and gets the mind working than graphic.
After a lot of chats on here, I’ve realised it’s an art, as you need to understand the other person(s) and where they are at to know where the conversation needs to go or just let it flow.
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I hate people who start with sexy chat, especially during the day, I'm working or parenting or anything but thinking about some randomer.
Time and place for that, I need to get to know someone on a normal basis before any sexy chat and then it's when the time is right.
I've done the whole yeah I'm so turned on wearing my lingerie while I'm reality washing the pots, it's just not hot.
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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There has to be some sort of attraction beforehand, it could be something that I have read within their bio that stands out or it could be someone here on the forums that I have a secret ‘crush’ on for example.
That is when lust takes over and I don’t tend to hold back either
In general though I tend to be well behaved  |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"Message 1)
Hey bb wuu2
Message 2)
I wanna fuck your fucking fanny off you twat
Message 3)
Why?"
I just do not even respond to such messages, txt talk is an absolute ‘no’ for me, it is awful and a big turn off straight away. |
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Only sexual messages gets old really fast. It only works well if you've both taken the trouble to build and an organic connection, so you can talk about all kinds of things as well. It works best if you know and fancy each other in real life. I used to enjoy messaging, but these days it's rare I take the trouble to keep conversations alive. That isn't to say that I don't want to talk to people - I do - or that there aren't any people I'd like to get to know better - there are - I just don't have... whatever it is you need to fully engage with people at the moment. Xx |
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By *a LunaWoman 41 weeks ago
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Mmmm. Well, I’m pretty uncouth so chat can get a bit sexual at any given moment. But in a tongue in cheek “ooooh matron” kind of way.
That said. I don’t like sleazy messages or long winded “I’m going to do this that and the other” messages.
I like earthy men. Matter of fact. Rude but not sleazy.
Probably makes no sense but I know what I mean
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By (user no longer on site) OP 41 weeks ago
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"Message 1)
Hey bb wuu2
Message 2)
I wanna fuck your fucking fanny off you twat
Message 3)
Why?
I just do not even respond to such messages, txt talk is an absolute ‘no’ for me, it is awful and a big turn off straight away. "
Don't listen to her mate, you had me at "hey bb wuu2" |
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I'm fucking useless at it. I do have a few friends I've made through fab where a bit of sexual innuendo* can slide into** the conversation - often along the lines of "dogging spot!" when in a car with them*** - but only because I've got decidedly non-sexual relationships with them. Normally though I have no idea how to move past normal conversation into sex chat.
* Why is it that "innuendo" sounds like some kind of Italian kinkiness?
** See, you can't even mention innuendos without making one!
*** No, when driving to places with them. It is possible to be in a car with someone without parking up and shagging. Not everything is an innuendo. |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"If I've not met them I try to not be too sexual.
The chemistry might not be there in person. I like getting to know a person and find it difficult if we're constantly talking about sex.
Plus, I'm well aware I have a very high libido. Too high. The majority of the time I try and repress it because I don't want to give off the impression that I'm a bit of a harlot. I like when the conversation organically builds up to that sort of chat but I don't really start it."
How do you gauge chemistry from a text? |
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"There’s a time and place for sexy chat.
The time is this afternoon - at my place.
* looks towards camera, takes a bow. #theyknowho
Add agree with you okay I kind of match at the moment. A bit like if you were sat on the sofa together, and you can feel the tension in the air, one of you has to lean in to see if the other is going to respond. And when you see them close their eyes and open their selves to the first kiss. Within minutes, your every button on each other’s clothing and sticking your tongue into every hole, you can find. "
#theyknowho has done me in, Woody 
Mrs TMN x |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Mmmm. Well, I’m pretty uncouth so chat can get a bit sexual at any given moment. But in a tongue in cheek “ooooh matron” kind of way.
That said. I don’t like sleazy messages or long winded “I’m going to do this that and the other” messages.
I like earthy men. Matter of fact. Rude but not sleazy.
Probably makes no sense but I know what I mean
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No-that doesn’t make any sense
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Ive attempted to start
chats, tried many approaches with mixed results. Ive decided not to bother to try and initiate a conversation. Most couples dont appreciate it. I think waiting for a couple to message me is the way to go. With that unlikely eventuality in mind im looking at forums more where I can at least get some form of interaction and a laugh.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"I can talk shite for England I can talk on any subject .I can talk knowable about sex. I can be funny
I can be serious . I pretty good all round but very few here actually want to engage in conversation ."
It’s a miracle anyone is ever born! |
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"I find when talking to someone I keep it pretty innocent just banter and friendly chat.
If they push it in a flirty direction I normally play to their level.
But I don't normally instigate as I don't wanna come across as innopropes
How do you guys get down? Keep it friendly untill the other ups the levels?
Or are you in pretty early with the "let me insert myself inside you" "
I'm not very good at chatting to be honest and my one or two word replies puts some people off.
I'm more of an doer than a talker! |
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I tend to keep it friendly at first with the odd suggestive flirt. Keeping filth for those who I've met or built a bit of a connection with.
My chat game is pretty dire though, if rather my actions do the talking |
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