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By * and f OP Couple 43 weeks ago
Salford |
Fairly new to this, have attended our first night at Cupids and absolutely loved it, at this stage only looking for couples or females due to the sheer number of messages from men.
Looking for more casual / friendly to start with predominantly F and F with M being invited back if all comfortable.
Any advice for us?
Also open to trying to new things if anyone has any fantasies or requests they would like to try nothing will shock us haha |
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Welcome!
I'd suggest being very clear between the two of you what your boundaries are - what you are willing to try, or might be willing to try, and if there's anything that's off limits. (People like to come across as open minded - but everyone has limits. And that's not only ok, it's probably to be expected)
If something feels off, listen to your gut. Meet in public or in a club first.
Swinging can be amazing, but as with everything, it can come with pitfalls. |
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By * and f OP Couple 43 weeks ago
Salford |
"My fantasies might not shock you, but they’ll make you feel weird.  
Go on?
Before I start, do you have access to a coffin, or Costa coffee uniforms? "
I’ve got a basement with chains and padlocks. Well kind of it’s not completed yet |
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"Fairly new to this, have attended our first night at Cupids and absolutely loved it, at this stage only looking for couples or females due to the sheer number of messages from men.
Looking for more casual / friendly to start with predominantly F and F with M being invited back if all comfortable.
Any advice for us?
Also open to trying to new things if anyone has any fantasies or requests they would like to try nothing will shock us haha "
I'm sure you'll enjoy whatever comes your way... Good luck. |
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By * and f OP Couple 43 weeks ago
Salford |
"Welcome!
I'd suggest being very clear between the two of you what your boundaries are - what you are willing to try, or might be willing to try, and if there's anything that's off limits. (People like to come across as open minded - but everyone has limits. And that's not only ok, it's probably to be expected)
If something feels off, listen to your gut. Meet in public or in a club first.
Swinging can be amazing, but as with everything, it can come with pitfalls."
Our first meet was in public, to be honest what got us talking about it was different things we would like to try and then decided why not try it in this environment, if we don’t like it no pressure and don’t have to see them again.
Also one of my best friends is pretty famous on the swinging scene so that dragged us this way too |
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"My fantasies might not shock you, but they’ll make you feel weird.
Go on?
Before I start, do you have access to a coffin, or Costa coffee uniforms? "
Can I have my Costa Coffee uniform back please you borrowed it over a month ago.  |
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If you're not interested in guys just yet, just block them in settings as it'll save your inbox getting filled and missing any messages from people you might like or click with. Saying nothing shocks is a bit rookie so take it easy.. things will shock you. If you want me to test your shock scale I can?? |
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By * and f OP Couple 42 weeks ago
Salford |
"If you're not interested in guys just yet, just block them in settings as it'll save your inbox getting filled and missing any messages from people you might like or click with. Saying nothing shocks is a bit rookie so take it easy.. things will shock you. If you want me to test your shock scale I can??"
We learnt that the hard way. 1027 messages in 12 hours to 27 after the block makes option was found.
It’s not that we aren’t interested in single males it’s that the majority of them on here wanna come round fuck and then go. We want more of the build up and social aspect too.
When I say nothing will shock us I mean in terms of what people are into - not necessarily something we would try ourself |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"My fantasies might not shock you, but they’ll make you feel weird.
Go on?
Before I start, do you have access to a coffin, or Costa coffee uniforms?
I’ve got a basement with chains and padlocks. Well kind of it’s not completed yet "
Living in Manchester. Does not suprise me locking everything up with chains and padlocks
Welcome to the forums op.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"My fantasies might not shock you, but they’ll make you feel weird.
Go on?
Before I start, do you have access to a coffin, or Costa coffee uniforms?
Can I have my Costa Coffee uniform back please you borrowed it over a month ago. "
You would definitely need to wash them if you did.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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We learnt that the hard way. 1027 messages in 12 hours to 27 after the block makes option was found.
I hope you sent a polite reply to all of those single men. You know it is rude not to!!! "
To me, It highlights that men are the only ones to send 1st messages …. 
*runs and hides |
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"If you're not interested in guys just yet, just block them in settings as it'll save your inbox getting filled and missing any messages from people you might like or click with. Saying nothing shocks is a bit rookie so take it easy.. things will shock you. If you want me to test your shock scale I can??
We learnt that the hard way. 1027 messages in 12 hours to 27 after the block makes option was found.
It’s not that we aren’t interested in single males it’s that the majority of them on here wanna come round fuck and then go. We want more of the build up and social aspect too.
When I say nothing will shock us I mean in terms of what people are into - not necessarily something we would try ourself "
You might have to kiss some frogs and you could get let down by a few if you want to find anything longstanding. Same goes for couples, as much as some male profiles can be too good to be true, the same stands for some couples. |
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By * and f OP Couple 42 weeks ago
Salford |
"Just to note as you say your looking for FF but the profile has you both as straight?
Mrs
I was gonna say this too, it's a little bit confusing as to what you want if the lady is straight. "
Thanks for the feedback it’s been updated
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By * and f OP Couple 42 weeks ago
Salford |
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We learnt that the hard way. 1027 messages in 12 hours to 27 after the block makes option was found.
I hope you sent a polite reply to all of those single men. You know it is rude not to!!! "
I did actually - one thing I hate is being left read and ignored |
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