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Have you ever had a one night stand?
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Yes. Met someone about 10 years older than me in a kink party just a few months before COVID hit. She had a hotel nearby where we went and had fun.
She never told her name. She doesn't even have a permanent profile on any of these sites. She said she worked in a public facing high profile job and hence has to keep her identity secret, which I tend to believe because the hotel she stayed was pretty expensive. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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"I've never had the sex so no.
Don’t you get bored of lying
I can't take certain threads seriously so I post to amuse myself. It works, I think I'm a riot."
I like riots. Which won’t surprise anyone |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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Enough that they are boring to me now
Far too risky, far too much work, for not nearly the amount of enjoyment I’d get out of someone I love in a commit relationship |
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Never - until this lifestyle I’d never had sex straight away with someone. I haven’t still now either as I chat to people and get to know a bit about them.
I’ve never ‘pulled’ on a night out either - I wouldn’t buy clothes in the dark so why would I choose women in that way
K |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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"If you mean gone for night out, met someone and had sex? Then no"
I’ve met people from dating apps, met, had sex and then messaged a bit before agreeing it wasn’t going to work out but I do not count it as a one night stand. I’d say a one night stand is what you describe yeah |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"Too many to remember in my youth. I'm not into the slag lifestyle now though. Fun then, undesirable now. "
"Slag lifestyle"? Mate you're on a swinger website where people often fuck once in clubs. |
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"If you mean gone for night out, met someone and had sex? Then no
Really? Thats some restraint you have shown!
MrsAbz (formerly unrestrained) lol, it wasn't restraint. "
Then you must have been out in the wrong places
MrsAbz |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"Too many to remember in my youth. I'm not into the slag lifestyle now though. Fun then, undesirable now.
"Slag lifestyle"? Mate you're on a swinger website where people often fuck once in clubs. "
I'm not your mate.
Yes, I was a slag. Dress it up any way you want, I know what I was. |
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"If you mean gone for night out, met someone and had sex? Then no
Really? Thats some restraint you have shown!
MrsAbz (formerly unrestrained) lol, it wasn't restraint.
Then you must have been out in the wrong places
MrsAbz "
Just a wall flower. They always had better options I guess. No one ever showed interest. Is what it is |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"Too many to remember in my youth. I'm not into the slag lifestyle now though. Fun then, undesirable now.
"Slag lifestyle"? Mate you're on a swinger website where people often fuck once in clubs.
I'm not your mate.
Yes, I was a slag. Dress it up any way you want, I know what I was. "
You do you, but referring to it that way implies others are slags if they indulge in one night stands. |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"Too many to remember in my youth. I'm not into the slag lifestyle now though. Fun then, undesirable now.
"Slag lifestyle"? Mate you're on a swinger website where people often fuck once in clubs.
I'm not your mate.
Yes, I was a slag. Dress it up any way you want, I know what I was.
You do you, but referring to it that way implies others are slags if they indulge in one night stands. "
Then others can use any label they please to describe what they do. I'm talking about myself, I know how I behaved, it's the correct label for me. |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"I have! It looks great next to my bed
Boooooooooooooooo!
*throws tomatoes*"
You loved it, really
But seriously, I haven't. I've always thought of them as always happening after a night out and considering I don't drink, the idea of trying to pull feel predatory as fuck. |
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We used to go out, meet someone, have a laugh, a chat, get along with each other, enjoy sex or sexual activity together then never see each other again. There was no social media, only landlines or if like me you were in rented accommodation only a phone box at the end of the road it wasn't easy to keep in contact. Nobody expected more, nobody analysed it, nobody (or very few) imagined it would lead to anything more. In that respect life was very much simpler. |
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It was pretty hard to avoid especially when working away from home, and on holidays. Working away from home was an eye opener because, travelling labour force are here today, gone tomorrow, which meant we would score with women, especially married woman. Like it or not local guys gossip among themselves, but men working away from home who scrubbed up quite well could give a woman all the attention and excitement that they were not getting at home, and we would move on with their reputations untainted. On holidays in Majorca and The Canary islands, providing you look decent arm candy, it's their for the taking. |
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My first time I had sex was a one-night stand I was state side on a trip across America I lived over there when I was a child it was the first time I’d been back in America again since I moved back to the Uk. I was just walking around the river walk in Downtown San Antonio, one of my favorite cities in Texas. I just happened to start chatting to this much older woman, and we ended up going to different bar’s for the whole night, and then she invited me to her hotel room, and when we were in the elevator up there to her room that’s when it started going to shit. She told me we had to fuck in her bathroom as her friends were staying in the room too I thought I was going to get a threesome lol . Absolutely awful sex and still regret it to this day as we were both totally wasted |
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