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A woman who's equally attracted to us both, 90% of the time they like one or the other it's very rare for them to fancy us both & I've done the social/chat where it's clear they are only interested in him and it kinda does make you feel a little used 
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"A woman who's equally attracted to us both, 90% of the time they like one or the other it's very rare for them to fancy us both & I've done the social/chat where it's clear they are only interested in him and it kinda does make you feel a little used
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Good question xx
Someone (gender irrelevant) that I can really be myself around, Someone who gets me so I can really be myself without holding parts back... Someone who pays attention to the little things that turn me on and can communicate openly.. |
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For us, it’s a female who’s willing to play with both of us equally so nobody feels left out.
We are currently on the lookout for one on our couples profile  |
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By *eli OP Woman 42 weeks ago
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"A woman who's equally attracted to us both, 90% of the time they like one or the other it's very rare for them to fancy us both & I've done the social/chat where it's clear they are only interested in him and it kinda does make you feel a little used
Mrs "
Oh Mrs K.
I don't think it's the case they're using you, I think it's hard to find couples where you're equally attracted to both. That chemistry can't be predicted can it? If it's very clear that they're using you to get to your husband? That's crappy. I have a couple who are close friends of mine - I'm always disappointed when I hear that things move to the bedroom and it's very obvious that's the case.  |
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We were lucky enough to have a FWB for a year who completely fitted our dynamic and us theirs and we completed a lot of fantasies - he got himself a GF recently so that’s ended now.
We’ve also currently got a female FWB who completely fits with everything we want.
But we’d love a couple of locals FWB…singles, couples so we can go out with and also have play sessions with, without the need to plan too far in advance and for when we want an third person sooner
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"We were lucky enough to have a FWB for a year who completely fitted our dynamic and us theirs and we completed a lot of fantasies - he got himself a GF recently so that’s ended now.
We’ve also currently got a female FWB who completely fits with everything we want.
But we’d love a couple of locals FWB…singles, couples so we can go out with and also have play sessions with, without the need to plan too far in advance and for when we want an third person sooner
K"
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On this profile, when I'm meeting it would be a single male, over 35 who I'm attracted to and connect with (not as easy as it sounds).
On our couple profile a couple who are looking for partner swapping, soft or full. Where there's 4 way 4 way attraction which is so hard to get. |
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For me it would be a hot husband who could meet with no planning, on a spontaneous whim, who lived no more than 15 mins away, who gave me everything i needed and invested in me emotionally and mentally, without crossing any lines...and was also on my wavelength in terms of life... He'd also love photos +video sessions and occasionally do sleep overs |
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By *eli OP Woman 42 weeks ago
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"Good question xx
Someone (gender irrelevant) that I can really be myself around, Someone who gets me so I can really be myself without holding parts back... Someone who pays attention to the little things that turn me on and can communicate openly.. "
Oh that sounds dreamy. I like that. Yes, when people allow you that space to be your authentic self, that's something truly special. Deserving of unicorn status. |
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Local friends with benefits is my personal unicorn on fab.
I enjoy hanging out with the person I'm sleeping with. A movie or a walk or a meal and over night stays.
I've found it more likely to make those connections on apps' as fab is quiet in my region. |
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A female fwb who enjoys being with me no matter how I'm dressed, who has no reservations about being seen in public with me while I'm female, who is happy to introduce me to their friends and family the same as any normal female friend. Someone who doesn't really care whether sex with me fits any particular gender norm, doesn't expect me to act one way or another, just is interested in us learning the best routes towards our mutual pleasure. Someone where there will be no expectations of exclusivity either way, no jealousy about either person maybe having other FWBs or partners, but there can still be genuine affection or even love (* for some particular interpretation of love). Any physical attributes of a fwb for me will always be a secondary consideration, less important than emotional and intellectual connection. |
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"A woman who's equally attracted to us both, 90% of the time they like one or the other it's very rare for them to fancy us both & I've done the social/chat where it's clear they are only interested in him and it kinda does make you feel a little used
Mrs "
It might not be that they're less into you.
I struggle to flirt with women, I get very stuck in my head and tongue tied if I like them. With boys it's simple. I'm probably guilty of seeming more into the male half simply because I can run on autopilot to flirt with a man, and I feel like less of an idiot if I can express interest at all rather than just stuttering and being nervous at both  |
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"A woman who's equally attracted to us both, 90% of the time they like one or the other it's very rare for them to fancy us both & I've done the social/chat where it's clear they are only interested in him and it kinda does make you feel a little used
Mrs
It might not be that they're less into you.
I struggle to flirt with women, I get very stuck in my head and tongue tied if I like them. With boys it's simple. I'm probably guilty of seeming more into the male half simply because I can run on autopilot to flirt with a man, and I feel like less of an idiot if I can express interest at all rather than just stuttering and being nervous at both "
Flirting with women is much harder and because women are used to complimenting each other, hard to tell if they are flirting!
MrAbz has had to inform me I am being flirted with before now.
Him "she literally had a hand on your boob"
Me "oh, she wanted to feel how silky my top was!"
Him 
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"A woman who's equally attracted to us both, 90% of the time they like one or the other it's very rare for them to fancy us both & I've done the social/chat where it's clear they are only interested in him and it kinda does make you feel a little used
Mrs
It might not be that they're less into you.
I struggle to flirt with women, I get very stuck in my head and tongue tied if I like them. With boys it's simple. I'm probably guilty of seeming more into the male half simply because I can run on autopilot to flirt with a man, and I feel like less of an idiot if I can express interest at all rather than just stuttering and being nervous at both
Flirting with women is much harder and because women are used to complimenting each other, hard to tell if they are flirting!
MrAbz has had to inform me I am being flirted with before now.
Him "she literally had a hand on your boob"
Me "oh, she wanted to feel how silky my top was!"
Him
MrsAbz "
Haha ... Can relate.... "her hand was down your jeans - she was just agreeing how tight my jeans were"  |
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There are a couple of single Women who we both class as friends they're attracted to both of us (I think) Briefly played with both of them but not a proper MFF,
Being friends and attracted to both of is a must for it to work |
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"A woman who's equally attracted to us both, 90% of the time they like one or the other it's very rare for them to fancy us both & I've done the social/chat where it's clear they are only interested in him and it kinda does make you feel a little used
Mrs "
we seem to get the opposite where F is only interested in the Mrs |
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"On Fab, what's your personal unicorn?
That person/people you occasionally stumble across/wish you did and are very much what you're looking for."
There’s not really a set thing.
It just happens sometimes, you know?
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By *eli OP Woman 42 weeks ago
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"For us, it’s a female who’s willing to play with both of us equally so nobody feels left out.
We are currently on the lookout for one on our couples profile "
Fingers crossed you find one soon.  |
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"People who are easy to arrange meets with, reliable and open with their feelings.
I get why people aren't always open about their attraction but it’s nice to hear it nonetheless. "
We are always reliable, just limited on meet dates |
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"We were lucky enough to have a FWB for a year who completely fitted our dynamic and us theirs and we completed a lot of fantasies - he got himself a GF recently so that’s ended now.
We’ve also currently got a female FWB who completely fits with everything we want.
But we’d love a couple of locals FWB…singles, couples so we can go out with and also have play sessions with, without the need to plan too far in advance and for when we want an third person sooner
K
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Prefer the word opportunistic  |
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"A woman who's equally attracted to us both, 90% of the time they like one or the other it's very rare for them to fancy us both & I've done the social/chat where it's clear they are only interested in him and it kinda does make you feel a little used
Mrs
Oh Mrs K.
I don't think it's the case they're using you, I think it's hard to find couples where you're equally attracted to both. That chemistry can't be predicted can it? If it's very clear that they're using you to get to your husband? That's crappy. I have a couple who are close friends of mine - I'm always disappointed when I hear that things move to the bedroom and it's very obvious that's the case. "
Yeah there's been a couple of occasions it's been very clear & to be honest really put me off, we've had the same the other way too & it's just not a nice feeling - we've not made it to the bedroom on these occasions I couldn't, I wouldn't want to feel like a spare part.
Maybe part it what Prey says too, I'm also a useless flirt with anyone women moreso.
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"A woman who's equally attracted to us both, 90% of the time they like one or the other it's very rare for them to fancy us both & I've done the social/chat where it's clear they are only interested in him and it kinda does make you feel a little used
Mrs
Jx"
You are a sweetheart 
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Ooooh that’s a tough one…
Ummm, a best friend that I can fuck regularly as well as cuddle on the sofa with, go out for dinner with, watch bands with and generally just chill and giggle with
I think I just described a boyfriend but those feel like hard work |
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"Local friends with benefits is my personal unicorn on fab.
I enjoy hanging out with the person I'm sleeping with. A movie or a walk or a meal and over night stays.
I've found it more likely to make those connections on apps' as fab is quiet in my region."
I like cheese 
But you are faaaar away *sobs* |
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"A woman who's equally attracted to us both, 90% of the time they like one or the other it's very rare for them to fancy us both & I've done the social/chat where it's clear they are only interested in him and it kinda does make you feel a little used
Mrs
Jx
You are a sweetheart
Mrs "
I was trying to flirt with you both in an obvious manner. Not be a sweetheart. Doh. 
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"A woman who's equally attracted to us both, 90% of the time they like one or the other it's very rare for them to fancy us both & I've done the social/chat where it's clear they are only interested in him and it kinda does make you feel a little used
Mrs "
Same for us tbh
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By *eli OP Woman 42 weeks ago
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"We were lucky enough to have a FWB for a year who completely fitted our dynamic and us theirs and we completed a lot of fantasies - he got himself a GF recently so that’s ended now.
We’ve also currently got a female FWB who completely fits with everything we want.
But we’d love a couple of locals FWB…singles, couples so we can go out with and also have play sessions with, without the need to plan too far in advance and for when we want an third person sooner
K"
The audacity of your former fwb finding a gf. Shocking behaviour.
Yes localish can really work well, can't it? Fingers crossed you're able to find that soon K, I'm sure you will. x |
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