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When you look at me, what do you see?
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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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Do you ever think about how others see you? Not because you care but you just wonder about it? How do you think they see you? Like, what are their first impressions when they see you? |
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By *sWyldWoman 42 weeks ago
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I do wonder about this. I'm incredibly hard on myself so it's natural to assume others judge me as harshly.
However, a wise man once told me opinions are only valid if you ask for them.
So I guess what I don't know can't hurt me
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"Do you ever think about how others see you? Not because you care but you just wonder about it? How do you think they see you? Like, what are their first impressions when they see you?"
As a white middle aged bloke I don’t think people do see you or particularly care. Outside of my crossdressing I think most people will pass me by and not give me a second thought.
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I actually see a vulnerable human. Who’s got great charm and wit; yet maybe feels a void deep within himself of something missing, as he chases &!seeking validation of who he is and the values he stand for. Do they see me, do the hear me, do they respect me, if I don’t stand in the light, will they forget about me?
Be comfortable with however people view you. They will any and you cannot change that. Be present and be the person you want to really be. Let that be what they see. A man who lived as he chose.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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"I see pride! I see power! I see a bad-ass mother who don't take no crap off of nobody!"
This was on my mind when I typed it so I’m glad you and Willy got it |
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By *hrimper36Couple 42 weeks ago
Central France dept 36 |
"I do wonder sometimes because people will say things about me and I think 'how in god's name did you come that conclusion? '"
I’d hazard a guess it’s from your forum presence but as I said that’s just a wild guess.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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"The worst. I can't stand on second of uncomfortable silence when sb see me for the first time (I'm sure he going to run away) so I start to talk non stop. I have been working on that x "
If I meet you I bet I wouldn’t run away  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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"I honestly dont know. I am not sure i have ever asked that question. What did you think OP?"
I think you seen confident, intelligent and approachable. And obviously attractive but the other things too I’m not just talking with my dick 
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"I honestly dont know. I am not sure i have ever asked that question. What did you think OP?
I think you seen confident, intelligent and approachable. And obviously attractive but the other things too I’m not just talking with my dick
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I think my first impression of you were that you were just easy to be with. Undoubtedly intelligent and someone i enjoyed spending time with right from the start. I am easily bored but never have been with you and I cant say that about many people. Plus you are very hugable and kissable.
On the forums you come across as earnest and empassioned but im not sure your sense of humour comes across as much as it does irl. |
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I skate across the surface of life leaving barely a ripple in my wake. For those few who happen to glance my way, I simply couldn’t guess what they see. It’s different for people who already know me. I hope these people consider me favourably, but I’m well aware this isn’t always the case Xx |
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By *ooBulMan 42 weeks ago
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Some men usually gulp.... so, it's an intimidation response?
I find that odd cos I'm not like that! A total opposite. Prefer the love not war route. I'm a happy easy going individual & yes I do come over like that.
Women I notice don't behave like that with me? Some will stare right back into your soul... I chuckle, cos that's real balls.
Your question Op reminded me of the Bruce Lee quote:
“It's like a finger pointing away to the moon. Don't concentrate on the finger or you will miss all that heavenly glory.”
It's deep Yep.
Life really is far too short to worry. In fact much shorter than we all realise... I don't Pidgeon hole people on 1st meet - its not a friggin' interview.
I feel if you treat people like you find them & how you want to be treated then you really don't have to worry! oh, and I try not to judge. but, we are all human... it's hard not to?
I don't go by what others say or do either. I use my common sense & form my own opinions. The rest is luck? Kismet? The universe?  |
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