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By *929Man 42 weeks ago
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Haha yes it’s nearly always the other party fault. I accept full responsibility for my last break up, she came into my life the day the ex confirmed she was never coming back, had an amazing few months then she saved my life by taking me to hospital when I was unknowingly having a heart attack visited me every single day in hospital and when I got out I wasn’t mentally myself and neglected her she stuck it out for ten months still before she finally said enough and I don’t blame her I deserved it, once I felt well in the head again realised what I’d lost still miss her now if honest
It’s easy to blame others and to not take responsibility but then the real issue never gets addressed we all have faults and if never learn from them we repeat the same mistakes |
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By *mf123Man 42 weeks ago
with one foot out the door |
Hmm them are never my enemy the universe father time and that owner of that butchers shop in china who contributed to by insanity as well as myself for letting myself get in that state is who i blame for lost friendships |
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"Did you see they've scrapped the Breakaway biscuit, GC? That was definitely them.
Tell me you are just being cruel ...... and lying ...."
Jesus Mary Joseph and the little donkey ! I just checked.....
It's true...
Life is over for me ..... and it was definitely th....... ME cos im vegan innit |
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By *essaMayWoman 42 weeks ago
Fairytale Wood |
"Why is it always 'them' ...... ?its so you can make up "
Good point but is it a valid one. Commented in another thread, i ended what i would say was one of the happiest times in my life, for purely selfish reasons i tried to justify it by apportioning blame but i just couldn't.
I think about trying to make up, but then again am i just being completely selfish trying to get back what i so easily threw away. |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"Did you see they've scrapped the Breakaway biscuit, GC? That was definitely them.
Tell me you are just being cruel ...... and lying ....
Jesus Mary Joseph and the little donkey ! I just checked.....
It's true...
Life is over for me ..... and it was definitely th....... ME cos im vegan innit"
I'm sorry for your loss. Or their loss. Someone's loss anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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Because its much easier to blame the other person... And people suck at accountability and admitting they are wrong... It also a protection mechanism to seek support from the pack rather than be ostracised.
Although I wonder if half the people who cry narcissist are perhaps themselves on the scale.... Controversial
... Not as much as a greggs vegan sausage roll tho |
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I've have only ever blamed 1 person for our relationship breakdown (he was very abusive/violent)
The rest all just seemed to end naturally with no-one at fault. Apart from the dickhead mentioned above, I am still friends with the other ex's x |
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"Why is it always 'them' ...... ?its so you can make up
Good point but is it a valid one. Commented in another thread, i ended what i would say was one of the happiest times in my life, for purely selfish reasons i tried to justify it by apportioning blame but i just couldn't.
I think about trying to make up, but then again am i just being completely selfish trying to get back what i so easily threw away." Yes but you through it away for a reason, i know exactly what you mean mind I've done a similar thing with a long term relationship |
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"Why is it always 'them' ...... ?its so you can make up
Good point but is it a valid one. Commented in another thread, i ended what i would say was one of the happiest times in my life, for purely selfish reasons i tried to justify it by apportioning blame but i just couldn't.
I think about trying to make up, but then again am i just being completely selfish trying to get back what i so easily threw away."
Dear Tessa, this kind of self awareness is rare and inspiring. Something for the rest of us to reach for Xx |
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