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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"From another thread it was said that the fab etiquette is that men message first.
Is this something? I've never seen it written before"
That’s the standard everywhere
Men makes the move. Women receive |
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I didn't get that memo.
I haven't messaged anyone first in over 4 years and my best friend and fwb messaged me first.
Every conversation I've had since January 2020 has been started by a woman messaging first. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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In my mind it would be better if ladies did message first 
Afterall they know who/what they seek far better than the words/description they provide in their profile  |
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By *ddie1966Man 52 weeks ago
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I have no problems making first contact but, admittedly, it would be nice if a lady made first contact.
Some may think it might make them look desperate or,dare I say it, a raging nymphomaniac. But it doesn't.
This is the year of the fruitbat and anything goes now..
Saying that, fellas, it does help if you have an interesting portfolio presence on the site.
Everyone, men and women, need to raise their game a little (or a lot).
Just my opinion of course  |
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By *bi HaiveMan 52 weeks ago
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"From another thread it was said that the fab etiquette is that men message first.
Is this something? I've never seen it written before"
There's etiquette on Fab... 
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"From another thread it was said that the fab etiquette is that men message first.
Is this something? I've never seen it written before"
I used to message local randos first.
I don't do that now unless they have shown some interest in me.
I'll hit up a forumer first if I like their style  |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"Nearly all my meets have been after I've messaged first! *checks between legs for peen*"
It would disappoint me greatly if you had a penis. But not a dealbreaker. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"Nearly all my meets have been after I've messaged first! *checks between legs for peen*
It would disappoint me greatly if you had a penis. But not a dealbreaker. "
It's OK, Pickle. There isn't even a micro-peen. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"No, it's not. The best connections I've made have been where I've been more proactive. Said hey, I like you in more than a forum flirting only way, fancy a coffee?
I do have BDE though. "
This girl ^ read PPE at oxbridge. But the PPE isn’t Philosophy politics and economics. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"From another thread it was said that the fab etiquette is that men message first.
Is this something? I've never seen it written before"
Women do message first. But only men they’re attracted to. That’s why lots of men think women don’t message first. |
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"From another thread it was said that the fab etiquette is that men message first.
Is this something? I've never seen it written before
Women do message first. But only men they’re attracted to. That’s why lots of men think women don’t message first. "
Ouch! |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"From another thread it was said that the fab etiquette is that men message first.
Is this something? I've never seen it written before
Women do message first. But only men they’re attracted to. That’s why lots of men think women don’t message first.
Ouch! "
Did I lie though |
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From my limited experience who messaged first had limited impact on whether you click with someone or not. I'd rather that a chance with someone I fancy rather than wait and hope. Or god forbid, wink |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"From another thread it was said that the fab etiquette is that men message first.
Is this something? I've never seen it written before"
Not sure but this is what the wink is for it wink they wink then I message so maybe men do message first |
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"From another thread it was said that the fab etiquette is that men message first.
Is this something? I've never seen it written before
Women do message first. But only men they’re attracted to. That’s why lots of men think women don’t message first.
Ouch! "
He's right though.
J |
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By *bi HaiveMan 52 weeks ago
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"From another thread it was said that the fab etiquette is that men message first.
Is this something? I've never seen it written before
Women do message first. But only men they’re attracted to. That’s why lots of men think women don’t message first.
Ouch!
He's right though.
J"
I mean.....its not exactly rocket science is it?
Nobody messages people they're not attracted to surely?
Even men wouldn't do that.
Would they......?   |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"From another thread it was said that the fab etiquette is that men message first.
Is this something? I've never seen it written before
That’s the standard everywhere
Men makes the move. Women receive "
No.
Women make the first move. -
They post pretty pictures…,
We send a message.  |
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"From another thread it was said that the fab etiquette is that men message first.
Is this something? I've never seen it written before
Women do message first. But only men they’re attracted to. That’s why lots of men think women don’t message first.
Ouch!
He's right though.
J
I mean.....its not exactly rocket science is it?
Nobody messages people they're not attracted to surely?
Even men wouldn't do that.
Would they......? "
Oh my sweet summer child.
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I've rarely received a first message, but it has happened - in fact the first lady I met from Fab and who became a FWB for a while, messaged me out of the blue. I like it.
I have received the odd Wink which has led to a conversation too even if the first message was from me off the back of it. |
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