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Hey everyone,
we are looking for a female who’s willing to take the lead, can be a part of a couple or single. Ruby is looking to be blindfolded on the bed, naked, at the ladies mercy. I will only watch, and if the lady is a part of a couple he is welcome to watch too.
We are looking to do it in march, and are happy to travel and book a hotel. Feel free to drop me a message to talk more. Not sure if this is the right place to post but thought I’d give it a go.
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Thanks for the private messages but it’s definitely a female we are looking for to do this lol |
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"Thanks for the private messages but it’s definitely a female we are looking for to do this lol"
Very interested xx |
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Maybe post in the meets section OP? |
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"Maybe post in the meets section OP?"
Ohh didn’t even see that bit, I’ll post in there now. Thank you x |
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You’ll struggle I think. I wouldn’t rock up to a hotel to a couple I’ve never met before with the women tied to bed and the bloke sat in corner.
Would you do it? On your own? |
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What does the other lady get from this? It sounds like just to please the blindfolded Mrs?
If it was someone I had previous meets with the I'd maybe consider something along these lines but not with someone I've never met.
I think you may struggle op I'm afraid.
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"What does the other lady get from this? It sounds like just to please the blindfolded Mrs?
If it was someone I had previous meets with the I'd maybe consider something along these lines but not with someone I've never met.
I think you may struggle op I'm afraid.
Mrs "
we wouldn't be interested in this scenario what would we get from this ? Sounds like it's just for your Mrs and maybe to turn you on ! If all people are not involved in the fun what's the point ? |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
I'm bi and Dominant but there's no way I'd be interested in this. I'd feel like I was there as some kind of performing sex toy. There would be very little in it for me and my bisexuality isn't about titillating men.
And if he's there for her safety, who's there for mine?
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over a year ago
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As others have said, what would the lady joining you benefit from? Would Ruby then return the favour and swop positions? Would the man play with the lady joining?
Seems very one sided to me. |
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I'm not one for wanking in the corner......
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I only do High Class meets so if there are theatre binoculars involved do contact one on ones messages system |
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Slow down everyone slow down!
This is the sort of scenario we would like, im not expecting anyone to just knock my hotel door from this post. Don’t worry, there won’t be a script handed to you that you are expected to perform. I’ve purposely wrote about messaging me so we can discuss more, and talk about making everyone comfortable and make it enjoyable for everyone. All I’m stating is it would be female with female. I wouldn’t be joining in, if that’s not for you cool, keep fabbing as we will.
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I’ve arranged quite a few blindfold meets for C - varying from a single gent, a single woman and a single gent and woman (not a couple)
The single woman (which matches your scenario) was someone we had met previously and in another scenario involving another single woman, she knew the single gent and I spoke with her a lot before we met.
I’ve been involved with all the blindfold scenarios we’ve played out.
If I was arranging a scenario similar to yours, I’d plan to have C blindfolded and on the bed ready and then arrange to meet the woman to brief her and then leave them to it.
If you’re not getting involved OP then it does feel like the lady coming in to play is going to just be there for your entertainment.
K
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"Slow down everyone slow down!
This is the sort of scenario we would like, im not expecting anyone to just knock my hotel door from this post. Don’t worry, there won’t be a script handed to you that you are expected to perform. I’ve purposely wrote about messaging me so we can discuss more, and talk about making everyone comfortable and make it enjoyable for everyone. All I’m stating is it would be female with female. I wouldn’t be joining in, if that’s not for you cool, keep fabbing as we will.
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I am surprised at the negative messages.. as it does say couples welcome to, not just single guys.
I think there will definitely be people out there that will be interested.
Being blindfolded is definitely on my to do list for something similar ( in my case a couple with MrDj or a single guy joining us) but good luck with your quest.
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Maybe you might be better agreeing to a social, so you can all meet, and everyone is comfortable that play will be safe.
You can tie up your partner, then leave and wait outside. This will ensure that nobody unexpected enters the room.
The women can have fun without a guy being in the way.
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I am surprised at the negative messages.. as it does say couples welcome to, not just single guys.
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They want a couple or a single woman, not a guy.
It's the usual case of men expecting bisexual women to put on a performance for them.
Sure, they're open to a couple, but only for the man to join in with watching. |
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By *azzle99Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"I'm bi and Dominant but there's no way I'd be interested in this. I'd feel like I was there as some kind of performing sex toy. There would be very little in it for me and my bisexuality isn't about titillating men.
And if he's there for her safety, who's there for mine?
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THIS - 1000%
It’s what couples often forget when messaging a F |
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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago
Fairytale Wood |
I have taken the lead on more than one occasion, no way do i consider myself a dominatrix. Certainly would never agree to such a scenario. Very 9 1/2 weeks and that didn't work out  .
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
Forum Mod O o O oo |
This is a meet request. If you are not interested in the meet then please leave the thread alone. We all have our kinks, lets leave people to theirs.
To the OP, as this meet request was spoilt if you want to start another one in the meet section I will make sure it stays a meet thread
Hopefully you will find someone who wants the same as you. |
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