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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Question more for the gents.

Has the lack of responses, rejections on fab reduced your confidence ?

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Mayfair

No. Because that would infer that I send introductory messages to women/ladies.

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By *iasubTV/TS over a year ago

Ilkeston

Nope as i get enough messages from guys to keep me entertained. Granted 99.999% just get deleted

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope

I'm not here actively looking.

But also generally...I think relying on fab to meet people isn't ever gonna be the best way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No. Not really. But it has warped my view of others, and how people socialise nowadays.

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By *ade crossTV/TS over a year ago

chiselhurst

Nope you win some you loose some

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By *rispyDuckMan over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Nope, shit happens and we move on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A little bit but charge it to the game. Gotta get on with it.

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

Haven't sent an introductory message since January 2020 so I don't worry about not being replied to.

Even when I did I didn't have conversations that could lead to rejection so I've never experienced that either.

I've never relied on conversations with strangers to dictate my level of confidence and self esteem.

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By *TG3Man over a year ago

Dorchester

"Question more for the gents.

Has the lack of responses, rejections on fab reduced your confidence ?"
yes i can't go out the front door

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By *exymarvelMan over a year ago

cardiff

"Question more for the gents.

Has the lack of responses, rejections on fab reduced your confidence ?"

Not really, we cant all be compatible.

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By *ongandharderMan over a year ago

Rotherham

"Question more for the gents.

Has the lack of responses, rejections on fab reduced your confidence ?"

Didn't have much confidence before fab so this as actually boosted it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At first, years ago, yes

Then you learn about the ratio, the higher standards, and the fairly good success in dating apps/pulling at the pub and you realise fabs isn’t anything to go by

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By *ongandharderMan over a year ago

Rotherham

"Question more for the gents.

Has the lack of responses, rejections on fab reduced your confidence ?"

I mean prior to fab I'd never even sent a dick pic or any other pics of my body

So the fact that I have had the confidence to put myself out there has been a boost and the positive responses I have appreciated

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

It has at times. I don’t send many opening messages nowadays and I don’t expect a response but it’s always nice when there is one.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

Occasionally. Then I'll have a burst of being a dick on the forum again

LvM

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