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By *ltr OP Man 42 weeks ago
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Iam in a bit of a pickle , I've been asked out by a carer who looks after my disabled son (quadriplegic long story) all good you would think but the issue is what if we get on at first then it goes sour then I could lose the best friend my sons got or do I just decline and keep looking . |
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"Iam in a bit of a pickle , I've been asked out by a carer who looks after my disabled son (quadriplegic long story) all good you would think but the issue is what if we get on at first then it goes sour then I could lose the best friend my sons got or do I just decline and keep looking ."
Don’t mix business and pleasure |
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It's got the potential to do alot of damage, always put your kids first before yourself. Politely decline.
If you are paying her to look after your son then this crosses professional boundaries as well. She should know better |
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"Your son should be your priority
He is that's why iam going to decline the invite.
Just need a second opinion  "
I think you're doing the right thing. It's a shame because in other circumstances you'd have no qualms about dating her.
Hopefully things can continue as they were. |
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By *ltr OP Man 42 weeks ago
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"Your son should be your priority
He is that's why iam going to decline the invite.
Just need a second opinion
I think you're doing the right thing. It's a shame because in other circumstances you'd have no qualms about dating her.
Hopefully things can continue as they were. "
I would date her in a heart beat but he's my primary concern. |
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"Your son should be your priority
He is that's why iam going to decline the invite.
Just need a second opinion
I think you're doing the right thing. It's a shame because in other circumstances you'd have no qualms about dating her.
Hopefully things can continue as they were.
I would date her in a heart beat but he's my primary concern. "
That's very clear  |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"Who would look after your son while you were out with her ?she does have days off I do have a good team of carer's but I've decide to decline the invite "
If she did date you she would lose her job. Dating clients and or family is a sackable offence. |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"Iam in a bit of a pickle , I've been asked out by a carer who looks after my disabled son (quadriplegic long story) all good you would think but the issue is what if we get on at first then it goes sour then I could lose the best friend my sons got or do I just decline and keep looking ."
Decline. Or, if you can handle it, go out for coffee, literally just coffee, have a chat and say no to any suggestion of dating. |
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"Iam in a bit of a pickle , I've been asked out by a carer who looks after my disabled son (quadriplegic long story) all good you would think but the issue is what if we get on at first then it goes sour then I could lose the best friend my sons got or do I just decline and keep looking ."
Don't cross the streams.... |
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By *mf123Man 42 weeks ago
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"Iam in a bit of a pickle , I've been asked out by a carer who looks after my disabled son (quadriplegic long story) all good you would think but the issue is what if we get on at first then it goes sour then I could lose the best friend my sons got or do I just decline and keep looking ."
does steve know your stuck in him hope he consented
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