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Being Lady Like or Gentlemanly
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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To me being gentlemanly means respectfulness, honesty, gentleness but firm, assertive but not controlling, etc. Typical good masculine traits.
Being lady like is simply all the typical good feminine traits. |
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By *sWyld OP Woman 42 weeks ago
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"I find them both meaningless. Especially here where a bloke will call himself a gentleman and send me 3 increasingly revolting dick pics. "
Yup but equally they might berate a woman for some of her photo choices |
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"I find them both meaningless. Especially here where a bloke will call himself a gentleman and send me 3 increasingly revolting dick pics.
Yup but equally they might berate a woman for some of her photo choices "
Exactly, i’ve been sent some pretty disgusting and unwanted gaping pics from both genders. I’m no saint though, I have sent cock pics too |
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"I find them both meaningless. Especially here where a bloke will call himself a gentleman and send me 3 increasingly revolting dick pics.
Yup but equally they might berate a woman for some of her photo choices
Exactly, i’ve been sent some pretty disgusting and unwanted gaping pics from both genders. I’m no saint though, I have sent cock pics too"
I'm shocked by this as your profile pics are so demure!
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"I find them both meaningless. Especially here where a bloke will call himself a gentleman and send me 3 increasingly revolting dick pics.
Yup but equally they might berate a woman for some of her photo choices "
Equally a woman might call herself a lady and send a video of herself with a butternut squash shoved somewhere it probably ought not to venture. So I guess I can define that as not ladylike? |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"For me there's much in common between the two: being kind, considerate, respectful.
Qualities I like in all humans.
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Isn't that just being a nice human then - rather than gentlemanly or ladylike? |
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"I find them both meaningless. Especially here where a bloke will call himself a gentleman and send me 3 increasingly revolting dick pics.
Yup but equally they might berate a woman for some of her photo choices
Exactly, i’ve been sent some pretty disgusting and unwanted gaping pics from both genders. I’m no saint though, I have sent cock pics too
I'm shocked by this as your profile pics are so demure!
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Why, thank you kind sir! |
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"For me there's much in common between the two: being kind, considerate, respectful.
Qualities I like in all humans.
Isn't that just being a nice human then - rather than gentlemanly or ladylike? "
Yeah, I think so. |
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They have a whole different meaning in the great big world than they do on fab.
Within these walls many refer to themselves as ladies or gentlemen but their actions project a totally different image and I don't mean that usual mantra about being a lady in the street etc.
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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I have no idea anymore. Aren't they rather archaic terms? If a man tells me he's gentlemanly I assume he wants to mollycoddle me, as he would a fond pet or his favourite teddy. And the ladylike response would be to gratefully accept his attentions with yearning admiration in my eyes. |
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"They have a whole different meaning in the great big world than they do on fab.
Within these walls many refer to themselves as ladies or gentlemen but their actions project a totally different image and I don't mean that usual mantra about being a lady in the street etc.
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I agree. I know what my definitions are. Hard to explain really and not sure I even want to.
I like a gentleman though, or what I think is one  |
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I proceed very cautiously whenever I'm called a gentleman.
Sometimes it's simply people using a word without thinking it through, and that's OK. Sometimes it's a whole unspoken volume of expectations of medieval chivalry and anachronistic behaviour, drilled into their psyche over decades (either by themselves or social pressures).
I'm not fond of anachronisms, so I watch that person closely for other signs of incompatibility.
I can't use the term "lady-like" because it runs parallel to "gentlemanly". |
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By that standard I'm as unladylike as they come!
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