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I love sex toys & like using them with guys inserting a vibrator at the same time as a cock & using clit toys too.Wondering how many guys are comfortable in this situation? as have found some are reluctant.
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"Be great to hear what the guys think & if other women enjoy doing this too?"
Totally cool with women using toys when playing and I'd be up for using toys on myself during play too. |
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"Him fucking me while he has a vibrator in his ass so I can feel the vibrations.
X fabulous X"
T loves a vibrator in her ass one in her pussy and a cock too and a clit buzzing along a erotic concert lol |
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By *bxanfCouple 32 weeks ago
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I love using toys on the mrs. They are such a good addition to sex and our personal fave is anal while she has a vibrator in so we both get the benefit of the buzzing.
We take them to clubs too but some of the single guys get put off by the idea of joining in while I use toys on her. |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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Never been with a woman that used them...in my presence. My first thought is that they're intrusive, and leave me unmoved. That I'd much prefer a woman use her digits
But I suppose I'm persadable |
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"Never been with a woman that used them...in my presence. My first thought is that they're intrusive, and leave me unmoved. That I'd much prefer a woman use her digits
But I suppose I'm persadable "
What's the difference between using digits or a toy? |
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I wouldn't be a fan of a woman whipping out vibrators the first or first few times we get it on... Good for a partner to bring something new to the table.
A few months into a relationship we'd go shopping for vibrators, lingerie and a cock ring. That type of thing.
Whipping out a dildo or some toys I'd play and enjoy it but I wouldn't want that... I can please a woman without the help of toys. |
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"Most guys are comfortable with it. The ones that aren't are weirdly threatened by them and say you won't need a toy with me- which is an instant turn off.
Mrs "
Yes totally agree.Its so nice to have guys who have confidence & are happy to try out stuff. |
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"I wouldn't be a fan of a woman whipping out vibrators the first or first few times we get it on... Good for a partner to bring something new to the table.
A few months into a relationship we'd go shopping for vibrators, lingerie and a cock ring. That type of thing.
Whipping out a dildo or some toys I'd play and enjoy it but I wouldn't want that... I can please a woman without the help of toys."
I am old-school in the fact I like a woman to keep her lady like appearance especially if we are looking for a connection. Whipping out toys is too gung-ho !!
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"Never been with a woman that used them...in my presence. My first thought is that they're intrusive, and leave me unmoved. That I'd much prefer a woman use her digits
But I suppose I'm persadable "
Digits don't buzz & get tired |
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"I wouldn't be a fan of a woman whipping out vibrators the first or first few times we get it on... Good for a partner to bring something new to the table.
A few months into a relationship we'd go shopping for vibrators, lingerie and a cock ring. That type of thing.
Whipping out a dildo or some toys I'd play and enjoy it but I wouldn't want that... I can please a woman without the help of toys."
You don't please woman they cum & please themselves.That is the point guys thinking they make us cum. |
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"Most guys are comfortable with it. The ones that aren't are weirdly threatened by them and say you won't need a toy with me- which is an instant turn off.
Mrs "
That's your opinion. It isn't a case of being threatened by them for me... but in the beginning it is all new and fresh what do we need toys for?? You can use them in your own time! Maybe after a few months we spice things up... whip out a dildo from your handbag after dinner and I'd have my fun and call the next girl who acts lady like |
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"Never been with a woman that used them...in my presence. My first thought is that they're intrusive, and leave me unmoved. That I'd much prefer a woman use her digits
But I suppose I'm persadable "
I think you should give it a go…! I think it’s impossible to be left unmoved if you get to feel the impact together. It’s pretty amazing!
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"I wouldn't be a fan of a woman whipping out vibrators the first or first few times we get it on... Good for a partner to bring something new to the table.
A few months into a relationship we'd go shopping for vibrators, lingerie and a cock ring. That type of thing.
Whipping out a dildo or some toys I'd play and enjoy it but I wouldn't want that... I can please a woman without the help of toys.
I am old-school in the fact I like a woman to keep her lady like appearance especially if we are looking for a connection. Whipping out toys is too gung-ho !!
Lady lol you need to have more confidence & stop putting ladies in these old fashioned boxes
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You don't please woman they cum & please themselves.That is the point guys thinking they make us cum."
I've had plenty of experience pleasing a woman physically and mentally. 
Some men get their pleasure from pleasuring their partner. |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"Never been with a woman that used them...in my presence. My first thought is that they're intrusive, and leave me unmoved. That I'd much prefer a woman use her digits
But I suppose I'm persadable
What's the difference between using digits or a toy? "
For me? Sexual imagery.. watching a woman mastebate with their own fingers is arousing...basic, primitive and very horny for me |
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"I wouldn't be a fan of a woman whipping out vibrators the first or first few times we get it on... Good for a partner to bring something new to the table.
A few months into a relationship we'd go shopping for vibrators, lingerie and a cock ring. That type of thing.
Whipping out a dildo or some toys I'd play and enjoy it but I wouldn't want that... I can please a woman without the help of toys.
I am old-school in the fact I like a woman to keep her lady like appearance especially if we are looking for a connection. Whipping out toys is too gung-ho !!
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Why is it unlady like to whip out a toy? Also it's a swingers site and not tinder- so I don't get it? |
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"Never been with a woman that used them...in my presence. My first thought is that they're intrusive, and leave me unmoved. That I'd much prefer a woman use her digits
But I suppose I'm persadable
What's the difference between using digits or a toy?
For me? Sexual imagery.. watching a woman mastebate with their own fingers is arousing...basic, primitive and very horny for me"
See, I don't get as turned in with my fingers as I do a toy. |
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Lady lol you need to have more confidence & stop putting ladies in these old fashioned boxes
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Pot calling the kettle black?
You need to start putting men into these old fashioned boxes.
I'm not here for an argument.
I stated my case, I'm being perfectly reasonable.
If I'm old school thats on me ill find the lady who suits me thank you. |
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"Most guys are comfortable with it. The ones that aren't are weirdly threatened by them and say you won't need a toy with me- which is an instant turn off.
Mrs
That's your opinion. It isn't a case of being threatened by them for me... but in the beginning it is all new and fresh what do we need toys for?? You can use them in your own time! Maybe after a few months we spice things up... whip out a dildo from your handbag after dinner and I'd have my fun and call the next girl who acts lady like"
Hahaha! Killing me... especially when on a swinging site. |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"Never been with a woman that used them...in my presence. My first thought is that they're intrusive, and leave me unmoved. That I'd much prefer a woman use her digits
But I suppose I'm persadable
Digits don't buzz & get tired "
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Why is it unlady like to whip out a toy? Also it's a swingers site and not tinder- so I don't get it? "
You're very right miss it is just my opinion and how I see it. I'm not saying it's fact or gospel because a lot of men on here will think different to me...
Sorry if I come across as a know-it-all or chauvinist because I'm definitely not. I'm just stating my case of it not being a confidence issue or an insecurity thing... it isn't that deep its just how i myself see that situation |
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Why is it unlady like to whip out a toy? Also it's a swingers site and not tinder- so I don't get it?
You're very right miss it is just my opinion and how I see it. I'm not saying it's fact or gospel because a lot of men on here will think different to me...
Sorry if I come across as a know-it-all or chauvinist because I'm definitely not. I'm just stating my case of it not being a confidence issue or an insecurity thing... it isn't that deep its just how i myself see that situation "
Nothing wrong having your own opinion but I think saying it's unlady like and saying you are old school can appear chauvinistic especially when you say you would look for a new girl if she done that.
Anyway whatever makes you happy - it would be boring if we were all the same
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"I don't mean to ruffle anyone's feathers. I can be a swinger without the use of tools..."
I think it was the insinuation that those of us who enjoy toys aren't ladylike. You keep moving along to that next lady and we'll keep having our fabulous orgasms
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"I don't mean to ruffle anyone's feathers. I can be a swinger without the use of tools..."
Sorry I don't mean it that way- sounds like more relationship based then swinging ( shopping for toys, dinner etc)
I dont see singles as swingers. |
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Nothing wrong having your own opinion but I think saying it's unlady like and saying you are old school can appear chauvinistic especially when you say you would look for a new girl if she done that.
Anyway whatever makes you happy - it would be boring if we were all the same
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You're right it wasn't right to phrase that, poor choice of words.
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"I love sex toys & like using them with guys inserting a vibrator at the same time as a cock & using clit toys too.Wondering how many guys are comfortable in this situation? as have found some are reluctant.
Toyah here "
Very comfortable with this. Ailsa enjoys toys at the same time Xx |
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"I love sex toys & like using them with guys inserting a vibrator at the same time as a cock & using clit toys too.Wondering how many guys are comfortable in this situation? as have found some are reluctant.
Toyah here "
If it makes it more fun then bring it on, what is there to be reluctant about?
Mr DD |
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"Most guys are comfortable with it. The ones that aren't are weirdly threatened by them and say you won't need a toy with me- which is an instant turn off.
Mrs "
Cant have much self confidence if they feel their masculinity is threatened by a piece of plastic or rubber and 2 AA batteries |
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"Most guys are comfortable with it. The ones that aren't are weirdly threatened by them and say you won't need a toy with me- which is an instant turn off.
Mrs
Cant have much self confidence if they feel their masculinity is threatened by a piece of plastic or rubber and 2 AA batteries "
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I had a partner who loved to use a small powerful one on her clit as she laid on top of me, allowing me to push a dildo inside her, lick her arse and taste the juices on the dildo as I slid it in and out.
When she came she would gush and I was in the ideal position underneath to catch that too.
So yes toys can be great, it's all part of enjoying the sex and making sure all parties get the most from it |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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Bring on the toys….. why not use them to enhance the experience
They’re just an addition to, what is already hopefully a very enjoyable and satisfying meet…. Embrace them as your team
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"Bring on the toys….. why not use them to enhance the experience
They’re just an addition to, what is already hopefully a very enjoyable and satisfying meet…. Embrace them as your team
Player "
Love this totally agree |
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"I also haven't found a man who likes a vibrating cock ring yet "
Mmmm you've just given me some new research material...
My favourite is inserting a vibrating egg followed by his cock... Then pump up the volume! Wowza! |
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An past gf had a big box of toys, I never felt put off by them though. Used to love the feeling of being inside her whilst she was wearing her plug. Felt so tight. We used to dvp too with my cock and her dildo of choice. That was fun. |
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By *elloWoman 16 weeks ago
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Want to bump this thread instead of making my own.
Really interested in how toy usage goes down with male partners, because I really enjoy my clit sucker toy and yes I MIGHT cum just from foreplay and sex with a partner it wouldn't be anywhere as intense and would take along time without the toy. But also with just the toy and no partner it would feel nice but nut as fulfilling as someone elses touch, caresses and knob |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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"I love a woman using toys (and have one myself too). Surely anything that makes the orgasm better is a good thing so if toy play with a partner does that then bring it on  "
Oh what toy do you have?
I'm being nosey.
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"I love a woman using toys (and have one myself too). Surely anything that makes the orgasm better is a good thing so if toy play with a partner does that then bring it on
Oh what toy do you have?
I'm being nosey.
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A fleshlight. A gift from a former fwb when she moved away some time ago |
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I often bring a bag of toys and accessories to meets and I’ve been told many times that a lot of men the women have met have felt intimidated or insecure as a result of using toys during play - they believe that their cock should be enough  |
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"I love sex toys & like using them with guys inserting a vibrator at the same time as a cock & using clit toys too.Wondering how many guys are comfortable in this situation? as have found some are reluctant.
Toyah here "
Protect at all costs |
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I think my profile pic says it all.
Wish i could stay in that ecstatic state women can.
But love the endless ways to make women cum.
Just imagine cumming then cumming again from a touch on the back of your neck!!
I’d love to experience being that heightened in sensitivity. It must be awesome. |
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"I love sex toys & like using them with guys inserting a vibrator at the same time as a cock & using clit toys too.Wondering how many guys are comfortable in this situation? as have found some are reluctant.
Toyah here "
Sign me up…. Teamwork …. At the end of the day it’s about enjoyable pleasure right? So why not involve all that brings it  |
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By *FNMLMCMan 16 weeks ago
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"My fun friend was house sitting for me whilst I was away this week and sent me videos of himself wanking and using some of my toys! I think he's quite comfortable with toy use  "
Wow!! Love that |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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"I love sex toys & like using them with guys inserting a vibrator at the same time as a cock & using clit toys too.Wondering how many guys are comfortable in this situation? as have found some are reluctant.
Toyah here "
Absolutely love it. I really get off on seeing a womans face as she's pleasuring herself whilst I'm inside her too. |
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Using a wand while fucking is absolutely orgasmic!!
I feel the vibrations too and I am lost for words at the sensation for both of us.
Using a vibrator while giving oral is also amazing, the reaction from G spot and clit stimulation is something else.
I have heard some guys don’t like the idea of using toys maybe a male ego thing but I love adding a bit of variety |
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"Using a wand while fucking is absolutely orgasmic!!
I feel the vibrations too and I am lost for words at the sensation for both of us.
Using a vibrator while giving oral is also amazing, the reaction from G spot and clit stimulation is something else.
I have heard some guys don’t like the idea of using toys maybe a male ego thing but I love adding a bit of variety "
As is a vibrator on your prostate whilst getting a long slow blowjob |
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"Using a wand while fucking is absolutely orgasmic!!
I feel the vibrations too and I am lost for words at the sensation for both of us.
Using a vibrator while giving oral is also amazing, the reaction from G spot and clit stimulation is something else.
I have heard some guys don’t like the idea of using toys maybe a male ego thing but I love adding a bit of variety
As is a vibrator on your prostate whilst getting a long slow blowjob "
A little back door buzzer is awesome too but only on special occasions with the right person |
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By *abbit48Man 12 weeks ago
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"I love sex toys & like using them with guys inserting a vibrator at the same time as a cock & using clit toys too.Wondering how many guys are comfortable in this situation? as have found some are reluctant.
Toyah here "
I wlways use a bullet on the clit with my mistress as it's what Mistress loves. We've used dildos instead of a third as it's easier that way.
Also using my tongue and a vibrater on Mistress to bring her pleasure
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"Using a wand while fucking is absolutely orgasmic!!
I feel the vibrations too and I am lost for words at the sensation for both of us.
Using a vibrator while giving oral is also amazing, the reaction from G spot and clit stimulation is something else.
I have heard some guys don’t like the idea of using toys maybe a male ego thing but I love adding a bit of variety "
I agree … a wand can be used on both, and if used in the right places on a man is a wonderful feeling … ie … the underside of the cock, moved slowly around the anus, or pressed against the perineum!! mmm - excites me just thinking about it! Xxx
R xx |
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