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Do you post pics of yourself you don't like? Or do you only post the ones you do?
I don't like any ATM after pilling on some weight but thought fuck it post them this is how I look now.
It's hard looking at pics of yourself when your body has changed a lot it's kinda alien.
On the upside I have good tits now  silver lining and all that.
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Yes! I hate pretty much all pictures of myself because I feel I’m not as in shape as I once was, but the Mr says I’m beautiful so I post them.
Can I just say I think you look lovely in your pictures
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"Do you post pics of yourself you don't like? Or do you only post the ones you do?
I don't like any ATM after pilling on some weight but thought fuck it post them this is how I look now.
It's hard looking at pics of yourself when your body has changed a lot it's kinda alien.
On the upside I have good tits now silver lining and all that.
Mrs "
Well I've just looked at your pix, and wow, stunning, love the sexy curves in the sexy outfits too, wouldnt say you've piled weight on either, still got a mint ass too |
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I never like any photo of me and the feeling is particularly bad during during my fat periods. So every pic on my profile is one where I've had to go 'fuck it I'll post it any way'. |
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"Yes! I hate pretty much all pictures of myself because I feel I’m not as in shape as I once was, but the Mr says I’m beautiful so I post them.
Can I just say I think you look lovely in your pictures
Kink (Mrs) "
I'm the same, the Mr is loving the bigger boobs I just feel a little alien.
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"Do you post pics of yourself you don't like? Or do you only post the ones you do?
I don't like any ATM after pilling on some weight but thought fuck it post them this is how I look now.
It's hard looking at pics of yourself when your body has changed a lot it's kinda alien.
On the upside I have good tits now silver lining and all that.
Mrs
Well I've just looked at your pix, and wow, stunning, love the sexy curves in the sexy outfits too, wouldnt say you've piled weight on either, still got a mint ass too"
Tha KS I've definitely put more than enough on size 8-14 so it's a big adjustment I guess.
I mean I could stop eating all the Percy pigs but there's no fun in that
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"I never like any photo of me and the feeling is particularly bad during during my fat periods. So every pic on my profile is one where I've had to go 'fuck it I'll post it any way'."
Good on you for posting regardless - it can be quite hard to do when you aren't feeling yourself.
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I will only post pictures that I like, and I barely like them.
I really should get into the fuck it mode. Like you said this is me, if people don’t like me we can you set another filter. 
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"Sort of. We have both changed quite a bit over the last couple of years, and finding the time and energy to get back into training is hard. We definitely looked better in our older pics. "
Absolutely stunning photos guys!!
We are our own worst critics aren't we!
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"Do you post pics of yourself you don't like? Or do you only post the ones you do?
I don't like any ATM after pilling on some weight but thought fuck it post them this is how I look now.
It's hard looking at pics of yourself when your body has changed a lot it's kinda alien.
On the upside I have good tits now silver lining and all that.
Mrs "
It gets a bit busy with a sub all tied up and obediently serving her owner so not all photos make it to Fab, but yesterday one did (more on my phone, of course) |
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"I will only post pictures that I like, and I barely like them.
I really should get into the fuck it mode. Like you said this is me, if people don’t like me we can you set another filter.
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Do it, fuck it - my last one  but the Mr's cock looks great so I was like fuck it
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Yup! Hate looking at pics taken of me most of the time. We’ve put ones up that I’m not gone on…some I’ve even hidden after a while. Other pics I’ll leave on my phone and will make myself grow to appreciate my body in them after a while
OP, yours are beautiful btw. Especially love the one with two different perspectives. It’s so real and absolutely stunning.
-Mrs xx |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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Oh definitely, I don't like any of my photos full stop. Once they are up I don't look at them other than the odd profile photo change but I'm getting quick at those too.
I have also learnt to dissociate with the photos on fab with my head not being in them so that helps |
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"Yup! Hate looking at pics taken of me most of the time. We’ve put ones up that I’m not gone on…some I’ve even hidden after a while. Other pics I’ll leave on my phone and will make myself grow to appreciate my body in them after a while
OP, yours are beautiful btw. Especially love the one with two different perspectives. It’s so real and absolutely stunning.
-Mrs xx"
We do the same - or I should say, I do the same. Ailsa really does have the fuck it attitude. I’ve taken some lovely photos, and I’ve posted them briefly, but too self conscious to leave them up for long so they are now hidden Xx |
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By *sWyldWoman
over a year ago
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I'm not a fan of how I look ever and I'm struggling to lose weight and feel like a whale constantly.
Some of my photos are from my old profile and I wasn't happy then either.
When I take photos, I suck in my tummy, try to find a flattering angle and change the colour to try and make it look better but I'd never say I was happy with any of them, but I post them because I want the false flattery that fills my inbox to feel a bit better.
I do worry that people will be disappointed if they meet me as a result.
However it's life, it happens to us all.
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"Yup! Hate looking at pics taken of me most of the time. We’ve put ones up that I’m not gone on…some I’ve even hidden after a while. Other pics I’ll leave on my phone and will make myself grow to appreciate my body in them after a while
OP, yours are beautiful btw. Especially love the one with two different perspectives. It’s so real and absolutely stunning.
-Mrs xx
We do the same - or I should say, I do the same. Ailsa really does have the fuck it attitude. I’ve taken some lovely photos, and I’ve posted them briefly, but too self conscious to leave them up for long so they are now hidden Xx"
No!  I’m shocked. I remember your pics from noticing them in a forum post yesterday. They’re all so beautifully taken aswell as both of you in them. Wish I had the fuck it attitude like your Alisa. Maybe we need to start a movement lol…release the pics from hidden prison!! |
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No. If I don't like the photo, it gets deleted off my phone and never posted here. The whole point of taking the photos for me is to accept and like how I look.
I change my mind sometimes on what to make public depending on how slutty I feel though. |
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"Oh definitely, I don't like any of my photos full stop. Once they are up I don't look at them other than the odd profile photo change but I'm getting quick at those too.
I have also learnt to dissociate with the photos on fab with my head not being in them so that helps "
I do this too, I think not having my face in them helps, some I like but I don't think of it as me in them.
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"Do you post pics of yourself you don't like? Or do you only post the ones you do?
I don't like any ATM after pilling on some weight but thought fuck it post them this is how I look now.
It's hard looking at pics of yourself when your body has changed a lot it's kinda alien.
On the upside I have good tits now silver lining and all that.
Mrs "
Yer I have a belly on me now I thought I'd never have , needless to sat I don't take photos of it . |
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I only ever post pics that I like.
Luckily I don't post for fabs or I would be very disappointed.
The only time I can remember thinking fuck it and posting was the first time I shared a full frontal because it wasn't something I had ever done before.
Now I don't think about it and if it's a pic I'm not keen on I just don't post it. |
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"I'm not a fan of how I look ever and I'm struggling to lose weight and feel like a whale constantly.
Some of my photos are from my old profile and I wasn't happy then either.
When I take photos, I suck in my tummy, try to find a flattering angle and change the colour to try and make it look better but I'd never say I was happy with any of them, but I post them because I want the false flattery that fills my inbox to feel a bit better.
I do worry that people will be disappointed if they meet me as a result.
However it's life, it happens to us all.
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You will never be a disappointment, but I get that feeling too, the Mr is good at talking the pics so I worry the real life version won't match people's expectations.
You are a lovely beautiful human & as you know I love your pics too.
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"I never like any photo of me and the feeling is particularly bad during during my fat periods. So every pic on my profile is one where I've had to go 'fuck it I'll post it any way'."
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"Do you post pics of yourself you don't like? Or do you only post the ones you do?
I don't like any ATM after pilling on some weight but thought fuck it post them this is how I look now.
It's hard looking at pics of yourself when your body has changed a lot it's kinda alien.
On the upside I have good tits now silver lining and all that.
Mrs "
I'm not particularily keen on pics of myself but I post them sometimes. Losing weight again at the moment so I'm hoping this will give me some confidence back.
Absolutely hate the pic posted last night but MrAbz liked it so I let him choose
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"Yup! Hate looking at pics taken of me most of the time. We’ve put ones up that I’m not gone on…some I’ve even hidden after a while. Other pics I’ll leave on my phone and will make myself grow to appreciate my body in them after a while
OP, yours are beautiful btw. Especially love the one with two different perspectives. It’s so real and absolutely stunning.
-Mrs xx"
Thank you, I did that after an awful body shaming post & comments on here.
Your photos are beautiful you have an amazing figure 
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"Do you post pics of yourself you don't like? Or do you only post the ones you do?
I don't like any ATM after pilling on some weight but thought fuck it post them this is how I look now.
It's hard looking at pics of yourself when your body has changed a lot it's kinda alien.
On the upside I have good tits now silver lining and all that.
Mrs
I'm not particularily keen on pics of myself but I post them sometimes. Losing weight again at the moment so I'm hoping this will give me some confidence back.
Absolutely hate the pic posted last night but MrAbz liked it so I let him choose
MrsAbz "
I like your latest photo, amazing arse!
I'm holding out on losing weight after I've been through 3 wedding dresses 1 prior to pregnancy too small now, the next got too big & finally have one that fits, so trying to stay put for 3 more weeks!
Hope you get some confidence back, you look great.
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"Yup! Hate looking at pics taken of me most of the time. We’ve put ones up that I’m not gone on…some I’ve even hidden after a while. Other pics I’ll leave on my phone and will make myself grow to appreciate my body in them after a while
OP, yours are beautiful btw. Especially love the one with two different perspectives. It’s so real and absolutely stunning.
-Mrs xx
We do the same - or I should say, I do the same. Ailsa really does have the fuck it attitude. I’ve taken some lovely photos, and I’ve posted them briefly, but too self conscious to leave them up for long so they are now hidden Xx
No! I’m shocked. I remember your pics from noticing them in a forum post yesterday. They’re all so beautifully taken aswell as both of you in them. Wish I had the fuck it attitude like your Alisa. Maybe we need to start a movement lol…release the pics from hidden prison!!"
Hahaha… oh I like movements! But I may have to build up to that  I’ll share one with you if you share one with me  Xx |
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I've gained weight, mainly after quitting nicotine. And it's alien to me too. Taking pictures was difficult for a good while. But I have a handful on my profile I'm ok with.
Thing is, the powers that be (I don't mean the mods) don't seem to like me saying I'm body conscious now, it's unacceptable for me to post like that and I keep getting a backlash when I do. Even a simple comment about it gets met with a shitty comment from someone. So not only am I having to adjust to the weight gain and learn to love it I'm having to stay silent because of other people's crappy reactions to me saying anything about it. If I put in kilograms or stone how much I'd gained maybe people would understand. By why should I in order to have people understand?
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
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"Do you post pics of yourself you don't like? Or do you only post the ones you do?
I don't like any ATM after pilling on some weight but thought fuck it post them this is how I look now.
It's hard looking at pics of yourself when your body has changed a lot it's kinda alien.
On the upside I have good tits now silver lining and all that.
Mrs "
Ass & titties looking great 
Got distracted forget rest of thread question's lol |
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"I've gained weight, mainly after quitting nicotine. And it's alien to me too. Taking pictures was difficult for a good while. But I have a handful on my profile I'm ok with.
Thing is, the powers that be (I don't mean the mods) don't seem to like me saying I'm body conscious now, it's unacceptable for me to post like that and I keep getting a backlash when I do. Even a simple comment about it gets met with a shitty comment from someone. So not only am I having to adjust to the weight gain and learn to love it I'm having to stay silent because of other people's crappy reactions to me saying anything about it. If I put in kilograms or stone how much I'd gained maybe people would understand. By why should I in order to have people understand?
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I totally get you with this, as a very slim person previously when I started gaining the weight it was like I couldn't say I wasn't happy because I wasn't huge, like I should still be greatful, it's horrible when you look at yourself in the mirror and don't recognise what you see & dislike it, regardless of what size you are.
I do totally understand where you're coming from.
You look amazing though!
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"I've gained weight, mainly after quitting nicotine. And it's alien to me too. Taking pictures was difficult for a good while. But I have a handful on my profile I'm ok with.
Thing is, the powers that be (I don't mean the mods) don't seem to like me saying I'm body conscious now, it's unacceptable for me to post like that and I keep getting a backlash when I do. Even a simple comment about it gets met with a shitty comment from someone. So not only am I having to adjust to the weight gain and learn to love it I'm having to stay silent because of other people's crappy reactions to me saying anything about it. If I put in kilograms or stone how much I'd gained maybe people would understand. By why should I in order to have people understand?
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Oh I whole heartedly get this! When I slack on my exercising and things get a bit looser I don’t feel so great….but I’m still “skinny” so it’s an abomination to say it - Mrs |
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"Yup! Hate looking at pics taken of me most of the time. We’ve put ones up that I’m not gone on…some I’ve even hidden after a while. Other pics I’ll leave on my phone and will make myself grow to appreciate my body in them after a while
OP, yours are beautiful btw. Especially love the one with two different perspectives. It’s so real and absolutely stunning.
-Mrs xx
We do the same - or I should say, I do the same. Ailsa really does have the fuck it attitude. I’ve taken some lovely photos, and I’ve posted them briefly, but too self conscious to leave them up for long so they are now hidden Xx
No! I’m shocked. I remember your pics from noticing them in a forum post yesterday. They’re all so beautifully taken aswell as both of you in them. Wish I had the fuck it attitude like your Alisa. Maybe we need to start a movement lol…release the pics from hidden prison!!
Hahaha… oh I like movements! But I may have to build up to that I’ll share one with you if you share one with me Xx"
lol sure! Yeah…after I posted it I slightly regretted it as then I’d have to post mine too hehe
Another sneaky tactic I find that helps is putting some as friends only instead of hidden cos not as many will see them then
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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I look at pics I took of me a decade ago and pics of me now.
Do I prefer how I physically looked back then? Sure.
But thats just an age thing.
Do I like how I look now? I've seen myself look worse. But it's how I look, so fuck it. No point in just sticking to the older photos because I looked a little more toned because these days that's just not me.
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"I hate most of the pics I post of myself anywhere but I think it’s better to post recent pictures. "
Yeah I agree which is why I've posted the ones I don't like, it's how I look, I wouldn't want to catfish anyone by only having pics of me 3 sizes smaller.
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By *neforutoMan
over a year ago
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I only post what I like others to see but limited to what I can post due to not having enough arms to get the angles right
Im not into body shaming, I love all shapes and sizes and know that in my 50's nature is def treating me unkindly for weight gain, or maybe its all the choc and lack of exercise
Im curious, how do folks manage to meet others if all the mental energy is used up worrying about body shape? |
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Thank you to the Fabbers who have replied to my earlier post with some very kind words. Sorry I haven't replied individually. I keep getting lost trying to find them in the thread. Doh. Thanks to GingerNNuts for fabbing one of my pics. |
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"Do you post pics of yourself you don't like? Or do you only post the ones you do?
I don't like any ATM after pilling on some weight but thought fuck it post them this is how I look now.
It's hard looking at pics of yourself when your body has changed a lot it's kinda alien.
On the upside I have good tits now silver lining and all that.
Mrs
I'm not particularily keen on pics of myself but I post them sometimes. Losing weight again at the moment so I'm hoping this will give me some confidence back.
Absolutely hate the pic posted last night but MrAbz liked it so I let him choose
MrsAbz
I like your latest photo, amazing arse!
I'm holding out on losing weight after I've been through 3 wedding dresses 1 prior to pregnancy too small now, the next got too big & finally have one that fits, so trying to stay put for 3 more weeks!
Hope you get some confidence back, you look great.
Mrs "
Deffo stay put for 3 wks! Its hard when your weight goes pootling about. Just sent my ball dress back for a smaller one as lost 6cm for my waist and it wasn't sitting right.
Always love your pics whatever size you happen to be, you look amazing
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm awful for only posting photos I'm comfortable with so I have a respect of sorts for those who upload those that are... rawer? More... full them. I can't explain it well.
I did upload one recently of me, nude, sitting down and I like it. I'm soft and squishy and it really shows that. But then I thought, nope. Other people don't want to see that. And other such thoughts. So, I'm keeping it private. |
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"I'm awful for only posting photos I'm comfortable with so I have a respect of sorts for those who upload those that are... rawer? More... full them. I can't explain it well.
I did upload one recently of me, nude, sitting down and I like it. I'm soft and squishy and it really shows that. But then I thought, nope. Other people don't want to see that. And other such thoughts. So, I'm keeping it private. "
I like to see soft and squishy. Most people are soft and warm, photos don't show that so much.
Although both me and MrAbz are losing weight ans getting fit again, I don't want to not have squish still.
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"I only post pics I like. I’ve put on a stone over Christmas so not took any for a while.
I’ll show you mine if you show me yours"
Honestly Steve. It’s not nice right now. I’m so pissed off but my own fault. I had a great December though  |
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"Do you post pics of yourself you don't like? Or do you only post the ones you do?
I don't like any ATM after pilling on some weight but thought fuck it post them this is how I look now.
It's hard looking at pics of yourself when your body has changed a lot it's kinda alien.
On the upside I have good tits now silver lining and all that.
Mrs "
You consistently post the best-taken photos I’ve ever seen on this site.
I’m sorry to read you’re not so happy with your appearance at the moment. It’s entirely relatable, though.
To answer your question: No, I don’t post pictures of myself I don’t like, which is why I haven’t posted any new ones in so long. Maybe this year if I can keep it up with the distance running.
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"Yup! Hate looking at pics taken of me most of the time. We’ve put ones up that I’m not gone on…some I’ve even hidden after a while. Other pics I’ll leave on my phone and will make myself grow to appreciate my body in them after a while
OP, yours are beautiful btw. Especially love the one with two different perspectives. It’s so real and absolutely stunning.
-Mrs xx
We do the same - or I should say, I do the same. Ailsa really does have the fuck it attitude. I’ve taken some lovely photos, and I’ve posted them briefly, but too self conscious to leave them up for long so they are now hidden Xx
No! I’m shocked. I remember your pics from noticing them in a forum post yesterday. They’re all so beautifully taken aswell as both of you in them. Wish I had the fuck it attitude like your Alisa. Maybe we need to start a movement lol…release the pics from hidden prison!!
Hahaha… oh I like movements! But I may have to build up to that I’ll share one with you if you share one with me Xx
lol sure! Yeah…after I posted it I slightly regretted it as then I’d have to post mine too hehe
Another sneaky tactic I find that helps is putting some as friends only instead of hidden cos not as many will see them then
- Mrs "
We only put our raunchy explicit pics in the private gallery  But it’s a good idea, reduced exposure… a good way to see how you feel about showing something you’re entirely comfortable with. |
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"I will only post pictures that I like, and I barely like them.
I really should get into the fuck it mode. Like you said this is me, if people don’t like me we can you set another filter.
Do it, fuck it - my last one but the Mr's cock looks great so I was like fuck it
Mrs"
I never saw his cock… |
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"Do you post pics of yourself you don't like? Or do you only post the ones you do?
I don't like any ATM after pilling on some weight but thought fuck it post them this is how I look now.
It's hard looking at pics of yourself when your body has changed a lot it's kinda alien.
On the upside I have good tits now silver lining and all that.
Mrs
You consistently post the best-taken photos I’ve ever seen on this site.
I’m sorry to read you’re not so happy with your appearance at the moment. It’s entirely relatable, though.
To answer your question: No, I don’t post pictures of myself I don’t like, which is why I haven’t posted any new ones in so long. Maybe this year if I can keep it up with the distance running.
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I agree with your comments about their pics. I’ve got them hotlisted purely for that as I don’t meet couples. They’re always tasteful and lovely. |
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"I only post pics I like. I’ve put on a stone over Christmas so not took any for a while.
I’ll show you mine if you show me yours
Honestly Steve. It’s not nice right now. I’m so pissed off but my own fault. I had a great December though "
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"I've gained weight, mainly after quitting nicotine. And it's alien to me too. Taking pictures was difficult for a good while. But I have a handful on my profile I'm ok with.
Thing is, the powers that be (I don't mean the mods) don't seem to like me saying I'm body conscious now, it's unacceptable for me to post like that and I keep getting a backlash when I do. Even a simple comment about it gets met with a shitty comment from someone. So not only am I having to adjust to the weight gain and learn to love it I'm having to stay silent because of other people's crappy reactions to me saying anything about it. If I put in kilograms or stone how much I'd gained maybe people would understand. By why should I in order to have people understand?
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People don’t always understand that physical changes are relative. My weight hasn’t changed much, but I’m much softer than I used to be. Illness for a long time prevented me from exercise. Among my friends, I’m still the lightest - one of my friends is more than twice my weight - but I get laughed at if I mention health, exercise, the battle to regain some fitness and strength. Ailsa experiences the same. She had a child in her 40s, and her tummy is a lot softer than it used to be. But it’s hard for her to discuss among her friends, for the same reason. It’s about how much you’ve changed, not how you compare to someone else. Some people don’t always understand this Xx |
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I take pictures when I feel good about myself and only post the ones I like.
I like that you have a “fuck it” attitude towards posting them though. And for what it’s worth, I think you look great in the new pics as always |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Bless you OP. I checked out you're photo's gallery and honestly you look totally fine and great! I think we can all get too self immersed at moments, and get caught up with the little details.
To answer you're question though, I have a slim build and I'm somewhat toned so I really can't complain with what I have. So photo taking is fairly straightforward and not that frustrating, although may take me a few tries to get a decent shot ha.
But not trying to sound all eye rolly and 'urgh', but everyone is beautiful the way they are. And if people have a problem with the way you are, you don't need that childish energy in you're life. It's not you, it's them. Be you and give yourself a little compassion for the way you are cos that's the only body you've got.  |
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"I take pictures when I feel good about myself and only post the ones I like.
I like that you have a “fuck it” attitude towards posting them though. And for what it’s worth, I think you look great in the new pics as always "
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"Do you post pics of yourself you don't like? Or do you only post the ones you do?
I don't like any ATM after pilling on some weight but thought fuck it post them this is how I look now.
It's hard looking at pics of yourself when your body has changed a lot it's kinda alien.
On the upside I have good tits now silver lining and all that.
Mrs
You consistently post the best-taken photos I’ve ever seen on this site.
I’m sorry to read you’re not so happy with your appearance at the moment. It’s entirely relatable, though.
To answer your question: No, I don’t post pictures of myself I don’t like, which is why I haven’t posted any new ones in so long. Maybe this year if I can keep it up with the distance running.
I agree with your comments about their pics. I’ve got them hotlisted purely for that as I don’t meet couples. They’re always tasteful and lovely. "
Thank you both that's really kind to hear I'm pleased you like the pics.
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"Do you post pics of yourself you don't like? Or do you only post the ones you do?
I don't like any ATM after pilling on some weight but thought fuck it post them this is how I look now.
It's hard looking at pics of yourself when your body has changed a lot it's kinda alien.
On the upside I have good tits now silver lining and all that.
Mrs "
I'm in the same position - put on a little weight over the last year, don't feel very attractive. So I don't post many pictures. The difference between us is that you still look stunning in your recent pics. |
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"Do you post pics of yourself you don't like? Or do you only post the ones you do?
I don't like any ATM after pilling on some weight but thought fuck it post them this is how I look now.
It's hard looking at pics of yourself when your body has changed a lot it's kinda alien.
On the upside I have good tits now silver lining and all that.
Mrs
I'm in the same position - put on a little weight over the last year, don't feel very attractive. So I don't post many pictures. The difference between us is that you still look stunning in your recent pics."
Or the difference between us is that I fuck it posted and you've resisted so it's hard to say if you look good - I'm sure you do btw
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"I have a couple. They're the ones that show the reality of my tummy. It's usually hidden behind lingerie or angles.
J.
You look amazing Julie, in person as much as your pics!
Mrs "
Thank you. Earlier I typed and deleted an essay. About how I lost a lot of weight a couple of years ago through emotional stress. I lost it in the unhealthiest, saddest of ways. But everyone I know commented on it positively. It's weird how much of our self-worth is tied to what we see in the mirror, in our photos and through external validation. I have no idea how to solve that. You do look beautiful in your current pics if my external validation means anything. And probably more so in person with your gorgeous eyes and smile
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"I have a couple. They're the ones that show the reality of my tummy. It's usually hidden behind lingerie or angles.
J.
You look amazing Julie, in person as much as your pics!
Mrs
Thank you. Earlier I typed and deleted an essay. About how I lost a lot of weight a couple of years ago through emotional stress. I lost it in the unhealthiest, saddest of ways. But everyone I know commented on it positively. It's weird how much of our self-worth is tied to what we see in the mirror, in our photos and through external validation. I have no idea how to solve that. You do look beautiful in your current pics if my external validation means anything. And probably more so in person with your gorgeous eyes and smile
J"
Ah thank you that's really kind, I know what you mean though - if one more person says "you look healthy" I'll poke them in the eye, I mean it's just a polite way to say your not a skinny cow anymore.
We are judged so much on our appearance especially here.
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"I have a couple. They're the ones that show the reality of my tummy. It's usually hidden behind lingerie or angles.
J.
You look amazing Julie, in person as much as your pics!
Mrs
Thank you. Earlier I typed and deleted an essay. About how I lost a lot of weight a couple of years ago through emotional stress. I lost it in the unhealthiest, saddest of ways. But everyone I know commented on it positively. It's weird how much of our self-worth is tied to what we see in the mirror, in our photos and through external validation. I have no idea how to solve that. You do look beautiful in your current pics if my external validation means anything. And probably more so in person with your gorgeous eyes and smile
J"
I was trying to say something like this but you've expressed it beautifully. |
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I do admit I feel your pain, but I’ll put it down to winter and is welcome to put on weight for me, especially I need to stay warm somehow
I just think it’s pretty much normal, we always gonna fluctuate |
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I post a mix. My private pics are more bare so tend to see more of my chub and that. It is what it is though.
I don’t need 1000’s of men wanking furiously over my pics. I’d be happy with 3
And to be honest, if you look at Reddit or porn sites, there are categories for everything appearance wise, so whether we like it or not, someone will like what we have to offer. |
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"I post a mix. My private pics are more bare so tend to see more of my chub and that. It is what it is though.
I don’t need 1000’s of men wanking furiously over my pics. I’d be happy with 3
And to be honest, if you look at Reddit or porn sites, there are categories for everything appearance wise, so whether we like it or not, someone will like what we have to offer. "
I mean...I got to see some of those 'bare' pics when I was on here on my previous profile and I was definitely a fan
But you're absolutely right - there isn't a type of body that doesn't have admirers, as the Internet makes very clear. We're all the pinnacle of hot-ness to someone. And hallelujah for that. |
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I don’t filter my photos whatsoever (wouldn’t even know how to filter a body shot, and face filters look silly on me).
Most of my photos show my face. And I rarely wear makeup - when I do, it’s the tiniest bit of eye makeup and lipstick.
I’m a firm believer in the tenet of, if you can’t replicate it in real life you don’t do it in the studio. When I sing, I don’t let the producer or engineer add effects to my voice. I’ll do comps for days but I’ll allow no extra reverb to hide behind. I guess I’m a purist that way. For myself. Anyone else can and should do what makes them comfortable.
I work out hard and only skip workouts when I’m unwell.
So, if I post a photo, yes I’ll make sure I like the pose, and the lighting, and my facial expression. But what you see is what you get |
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I'll post photos and focus on the composition rather than my body - my current profile pic is a great example of making my toes curl when i look at my untoned, aging body... Yet fabbers seem love it 
.. Conversely photos that i like, fabbers rarely do probs because i don't post enough action shots /nekedness
I think we all have things we'd like to change - i keep telling myself just to embrace how i look as I'll never look this good again  |
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