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By *ee VianteWoman 42 weeks ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
No but they are by far the largest demographic and their success usually depends on how much effort they make and their attitude.
It's no easier being a single woman or a couple on here. Different challenges, certainly, but not any easier. |
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By *ee VianteWoman 42 weeks ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"No but they do out number the couples and single women and they do seem to think they should be fucking from the second they join.
Evie"
Right? Like all they need to do is turn up and wave their dick about and they expect to have an eager queue of women/couples.
Most don't seem to get that literally hundreds of men after offering exactly the same thing. |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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I don’t think so OP. There are a huge number of single blokes on this site; but those who have realistic expectations and bother their arse to present themselves well and put in a modicum of effort seem to do ok. |
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The swinging lifestyle revolves around women, whether they are in a couple or they are single.
This is a gold plated fact.
Yes, there is a healthy bi men community here, but even bi men want to fuck women so we come back to the fact swinging revolves around women.
I am fully aware that the fun, pleasure and acceptance I found in the swing community is mostly based on the fact I came to the scene with a winning ticket in my hand already. Many of the men we met who were part of couples would have struggled as single men on here but because of their wives they also had golden tickets and found meets and socials easier to navigate. But not always did they have success.
We interacted with quite a few single guys and they seemed to be doing well. They went to socials, made contacts, acted like normal people who enjoy sex and were pleasant to be around.
Then there were the guys who were frustrated with the site. These we didn't interact with. The site is a gateway to the lifestyle, not a guaranteed way to get your dick wet.
Go to local social events. Be a normal person. Talk to everyone. Don't expect to get laid. Just be additive to the atmosphere and I promise you, some woman who's looking for a guy to fulfil a need or desire, will reach out to you.
This might sound like I'm wearing a tin foil hat but a lot of these women talk to each other. They pass along information. Is he a good kisser? How was that last meet, what did he like to do ect. They are a community. You need to be part of the community too. |
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