No I wouldn't. When I was young a boyfriend I had made me feel so bad about the size of my breasts I got so far as seeing a surgeon with regard to reducing them. It was fear of surgery and scars that put me off but it should have been the fact that I was being manipulated into it. |
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i have changed the way i behave a lot to please my partner, if i am nice to him then he is nice to me.
when i was very young i lost a lot of weight so he would like me more.
it depends on how important it would be to him for me to want to change.
he isnt interested in cosmetic surgery or anything like that. |
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no...im me and if that's not enough for my partner or anyone else then that's really not my problem...he fell in love with me as I am...so why change.
Id only change for myself. |
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When I was younger, I was constantly changing myself to what a partner wanted me to be. Hair went blonde, short, grew back long. Weight yo-yo'd.
Now, I've grown older, I just try to be me. Even if it taking me a while to figure out who me is!! |
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"no...im me and if that's not enough for my partner or anyone else then that's really not my problem...he fell in love with me as I am...so why change.
Id only change for myself."
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"Would you change anything about yourself to please your partner ?
Hair, cosmetic surgery etc etc....
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Really?!!!!
Nothing, i am who i am! like it or not |
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I don't think little changes are too bad, I have my hair how I have it because the wife likes it, I'm ok with it, and I have stubble because Mrs like the way I look with it, where as she has really bright hair because I like the punk look, she never thought she'd like it bright colors but now can't see herself ever going back to blonde or dark colours, |
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Maybe only if they asked me very nicely to tie my hair back or wear pigtails...which i don't mind but they would have to like what they saw to get to that point so why change |
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