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Is there a reason the two are relevant to each other?"
I can understand people who are already in a committed relationship for years then they decided they want to bring others into their sex life and be secure enough to that. However it's very unusual to find a person wanting to share or be shared as a criteria in their future life partner. |
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Is there a reason the two are relevant to each other?
I can understand people who are already in a committed relationship for years then they decided they want to bring others into their sex life and be secure enough to that. However it's very unusual to find a person wanting to share or be shared as a criteria in their future life partner. "
Why does being bisexual mean they want to be shared? |
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Is there a reason the two are relevant to each other?
I can understand people who are already in a committed relationship for years then they decided they want to bring others into their sex life and be secure enough to that. However it's very unusual to find a person wanting to share or be shared as a criteria in their future life partner. "
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And what does bisexual have to do with non monogamy? |
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"I’m bi OP and have had relationships with men and women. Not at the same time. It means this  "
So you oppress your sexual attraction to gender A while you're in a relationship with gender B. While waiting for the next relationship?  |
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"I’m bi OP and have had relationships with men and women. Not at the same time. It means this
So you oppress your sexual attraction to gender A while you're in a relationship with gender B. While waiting for the next relationship? "
I don’t “oppress” anything. I’m attracted to men and women. So if I fall in love with a man I’m in that relationship for keeps. Or a woman. Do you not understand the concept of being bisexual OP? |
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"I’m bi OP and have had relationships with men and women. Not at the same time. It means this
So you oppress your sexual attraction to gender A while you're in a relationship with gender B. While waiting for the next relationship?
I don’t “oppress” anything. I’m attracted to men and women. So if I fall in love with a man I’m in that relationship for keeps. Or a woman. Do you not understand the concept of being bisexual OP? "
I am not bisexual so may be I don't understand the concept. But I assume someone attracted to both sexes. Not someone who switches his sexual desires between relations. A committed relationship is not a temporary measure and so is your sexuality. Me thinking |
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"I’m bi OP and have had relationships with men and women. Not at the same time. It means this
So you oppress your sexual attraction to gender A while you're in a relationship with gender B. While waiting for the next relationship?
I don’t “oppress” anything. I’m attracted to men and women. So if I fall in love with a man I’m in that relationship for keeps. Or a woman. Do you not understand the concept of being bisexual OP?
I am not bisexual so may be I don't understand the concept. But I assume someone attracted to both sexes. Not someone who switches his sexual desires between relations. A committed relationship is not a temporary measure and so is your sexuality. Me thinking "
Everyone switched sexual desires between relationships- from the person they *were* with to the person they are *now* with. The genitalia is irrelevant. |
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"I’m bi OP and have had relationships with men and women. Not at the same time. It means this
So you oppress your sexual attraction to gender A while you're in a relationship with gender B. While waiting for the next relationship? "
I'm pansexual. This does not mean that I need a relationship with at least one of each of men, women, transmasc, transfem, hermaphrodites, and non binary to feel fulfilled.
Do straight people suddenly cease to be attracted to other members of the relevant sex entirely on entering a monogamous relationship? |
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"I’m bi OP and have had relationships with men and women. Not at the same time. It means this
So you oppress your sexual attraction to gender A while you're in a relationship with gender B. While waiting for the next relationship?
I don’t “oppress” anything. I’m attracted to men and women. So if I fall in love with a man I’m in that relationship for keeps. Or a woman. Do you not understand the concept of being bisexual OP?
I am not bisexual so may be I don't understand the concept. But I assume someone attracted to both sexes. Not someone who switches his sexual desires between relations. A committed relationship is not a temporary measure and so is your sexuality. Me thinking
Everyone switched sexual desires between relationships- from the person they *were* with to the person they are *now* with. The genitalia is irrelevant."
Not sure what you mean. I am talking about sexual orientation. If I am attracted to different people sexually and I commit myself to one person, I guess I am oppressing my desires. What am I missing here? |
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Ok so I'm in a relationship with a man, I don't oppress my attraction to women I'm still attracted to them however I'm an adult and I wouldn't act on my attraction (not without the Mr joining anyway)
That's like saying straight people looking for a long term relationship oppress their sexual attraction to others of the opposite sex they are destined to be cheats too?
Straight/bi/pan/whatever it doesn't matter you are either monogamous or not.
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"I’m bi OP and have had relationships with men and women. Not at the same time. It means this
So you oppress your sexual attraction to gender A while you're in a relationship with gender B. While waiting for the next relationship?
I don’t “oppress” anything. I’m attracted to men and women. So if I fall in love with a man I’m in that relationship for keeps. Or a woman. Do you not understand the concept of being bisexual OP?
I am not bisexual so may be I don't understand the concept. But I assume someone attracted to both sexes. Not someone who switches his sexual desires between relations. A committed relationship is not a temporary measure and so is your sexuality. Me thinking
Everyone switched sexual desires between relationships- from the person they *were* with to the person they are *now* with. The genitalia is irrelevant."
This is true. 100%
And just to add I ended shitty relationships because the people who I was in a relationship were cunts. Not because they were a particular sex or not  |
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"I’m bi OP and have had relationships with men and women. Not at the same time. It means this
So you oppress your sexual attraction to gender A while you're in a relationship with gender B. While waiting for the next relationship? "
Do heterosexual people have to suppress their desire to fuck all other opposite gendered people when they're in a committed relationship? |
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"I’m bi OP and have had relationships with men and women. Not at the same time. It means this
So you oppress your sexual attraction to gender A while you're in a relationship with gender B. While waiting for the next relationship?
I'm pansexual. This does not mean that I need a relationship with at least one of each of men, women, transmasc, transfem, hermaphrodites, and non binary to feel fulfilled.
Do straight people suddenly cease to be attracted to other members of the relevant sex entirely on entering a monogamous relationship?"
Yes they are. If you like bananas and strawberries, then commit yourself to only eating Bananas, I guess you're suppressing your desire for strawberries |
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"I’m bi OP and have had relationships with men and women. Not at the same time. It means this
So you oppress your sexual attraction to gender A while you're in a relationship with gender B. While waiting for the next relationship?
Do heterosexual people have to suppress their desire to fuck all other opposite gendered people when they're in a committed relationship? "
They definitely do. Ask any man lol |
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"I’m bi OP and have had relationships with men and women. Not at the same time. It means this
So you oppress your sexual attraction to gender A while you're in a relationship with gender B. While waiting for the next relationship?
I'm pansexual. This does not mean that I need a relationship with at least one of each of men, women, transmasc, transfem, hermaphrodites, and non binary to feel fulfilled.
Do straight people suddenly cease to be attracted to other members of the relevant sex entirely on entering a monogamous relationship?
Yes they are. If you like bananas and strawberries, then commit yourself to only eating Bananas, I guess you're suppressing your desire for strawberries "
Or in other words committing yourself to a monogamous relationship? |
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"I’m bi OP and have had relationships with men and women. Not at the same time. It means this
So you oppress your sexual attraction to gender A while you're in a relationship with gender B. While waiting for the next relationship?
Do heterosexual people have to suppress their desire to fuck all other opposite gendered people when they're in a committed relationship?
They definitely do. Ask any man lol "
So there's no difference?
A monogamous relationship means suppresing desire for any other person, regardless of sex, gender, etc.?
That sounds kinda grim.
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"Do straight people suddenly cease to be attracted to other members of the relevant sex entirely on entering a monogamous relationship?
Yes they are. If you like bananas and strawberries, then commit yourself to only eating Bananas, I guess you're suppressing your desire for strawberries "
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But what about the other bananas? You're committing to a single banana. So you're suppressing your desire for both strawberries and other attractive bananas. |
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"Do heterosexual people have to suppress their desire to fuck all other opposite gendered people when they're in a committed relationship?
They definitely do. Ask any man lol "
So... if it applies to heterosexual people as well, why is it relevant that they're bisexual? |
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"I’m bi OP and have had relationships with men and women. Not at the same time. It means this
So you oppress your sexual attraction to gender A while you're in a relationship with gender B. While waiting for the next relationship?
I'm pansexual. This does not mean that I need a relationship with at least one of each of men, women, transmasc, transfem, hermaphrodites, and non binary to feel fulfilled.
Do straight people suddenly cease to be attracted to other members of the relevant sex entirely on entering a monogamous relationship?
Yes they are. If you like bananas and strawberries, then commit yourself to only eating Bananas, I guess you're suppressing your desire for strawberries
Or in other words committing yourself to a monogamous relationship? "
If I only like strawberries, but don't like bananas, and I commit myself to one strawberry that never ends. I am stopping myself from the temptation to eat other strawberries. But I can still enjoy my strawberry regularly.
However if I like both and I only eat strawberry. It's harder. I guess |
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"Do straight people suddenly cease to be attracted to other members of the relevant sex entirely on entering a monogamous relationship?
Yes they are. If you like bananas and strawberries, then commit yourself to only eating Bananas, I guess you're suppressing your desire for strawberries
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But what about the other bananas? You're committing to a single banana. So you're suppressing your desire for both strawberries and other attractive bananas."
Suppressing yourself from eating other bananas while you have access to your beloved banana is much easier than not having any bananas because you're committed to one strawberry.
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"I’m bi OP and have had relationships with men and women. Not at the same time. It means this
So you oppress your sexual attraction to gender A while you're in a relationship with gender B. While waiting for the next relationship? "
Crikey OP!
I’m straight. When I walk down the road or into a bar, I may see multiple women that meet my basic physical desires. In other words I fancy them. If I meet one and we get on, develop a relationship and stay together, then I form a strong bond with that woman. It doesn’t stop me from recognising there are still many other beautiful women out there. But I don’t act on that because I have a bond with and strong feelings for the woman I’m with.
Being straight doesn’t mean that every women is in permanent and immediate peril from me.
If I were bisexual, it’s the same. Yes, the pool of people to whom I’m attracted is bigger, but it doesn’t mean I run around with a permanently dripping lobb on, buggering anything that dares to look at me twice. I’m in a relationship!
It’s really not a tricky concept. |
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"Do straight people suddenly cease to be attracted to other members of the relevant sex entirely on entering a monogamous relationship?
Yes they are. If you like bananas and strawberries, then commit yourself to only eating Bananas, I guess you're suppressing your desire for strawberries
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But what about the other bananas? You're committing to a single banana. So you're suppressing your desire for both strawberries and other attractive bananas."
I've never read a better argument for non-monogamy! |
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"Do straight people suddenly cease to be attracted to other members of the relevant sex entirely on entering a monogamous relationship?
Yes they are. If you like bananas and strawberries, then commit yourself to only eating Bananas, I guess you're suppressing your desire for strawberries
....
But what about the other bananas? You're committing to a single banana. So you're suppressing your desire for both strawberries and other attractive bananas.
Suppressing yourself from eating other bananas while you have access to your beloved banana is much easier than not having any bananas because you're committed to one strawberry.
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I'm so Pan I'm thinking of mango now 
A commitment isn't a necessity. It's a choice, based on wants and needs.
People choose to be commited to that banana, no matter how much they like other bananas, or if they like strawberries, or like that one guy who fucked that watermelon.
That guy was me and is it a metaphor? I'll never tell.
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"Suppressing yourself from eating other bananas while you have access to your beloved banana is much easier than not having any bananas because you're committed to one strawberry.
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So... still suppressing sexual desire.
If you're having difficulty focusing on your monogamous partner, that's a personal issue. Nothing to do with whether you're attracted to one gender or more.
You can try and argue that that kind of person gives a completely different flavour. But it's all the same. Fruit is fruit. People are people. There's a lot of variety and a lot of excuses to try and justify cheating on a diet |
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"I’m bi OP and have had relationships with men and women. Not at the same time. It means this
So you oppress your sexual attraction to gender A while you're in a relationship with gender B. While waiting for the next relationship?
Crikey OP!
I’m straight. When I walk down the road or into a bar, I may see multiple women that meet my basic physical desires. In other words I fancy them. If I meet one and we get on, develop a relationship and stay together, then I form a strong bond with that woman. It doesn’t stop me from recognising there are still many other beautiful women out there. But I don’t act on that because I have a bond with and strong feelings for the woman I’m with.
Being straight doesn’t mean that every women is in permanent and immediate peril from me.
If I were bisexual, it’s the same. Yes, the pool of people to whom I’m attracted is bigger, but it doesn’t mean I run around with a permanently dripping lobb on, buggering anything that dares to look at me twice. I’m in a relationship!
It’s really not a tricky concept."
This. I’m bi but if I’m in a committed relationship I’m in a committed relationship. No doubt I’m going to find both men and women I find attractive. Doesn’t mean I’m going to cheat. |
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"I’m bi OP and have had relationships with men and women. Not at the same time. It means this
So you oppress your sexual attraction to gender A while you're in a relationship with gender B. While waiting for the next relationship?
Crikey OP!
I’m straight. When I walk down the road or into a bar, I may see multiple women that meet my basic physical desires. In other words I fancy them. If I meet one and we get on, develop a relationship and stay together, then I form a strong bond with that woman. It doesn’t stop me from recognising there are still many other beautiful women out there. But I don’t act on that because I have a bond with and strong feelings for the woman I’m with.
Being straight doesn’t mean that every women is in permanent and immediate peril from me.
If I were bisexual, it’s the same. Yes, the pool of people to whom I’m attracted is bigger, but it doesn’t mean I run around with a permanently dripping lobb on, buggering anything that dares to look at me twice. I’m in a relationship!
It’s really not a tricky concept."
When you're heterosexual, you like pussies and you got one.
If you like both pussies and cocks, and you got one pussy. It's totally different. |
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"I’m bi OP and have had relationships with men and women. Not at the same time. It means this
So you oppress your sexual attraction to gender A while you're in a relationship with gender B. While waiting for the next relationship?
Crikey OP!
I’m straight. When I walk down the road or into a bar, I may see multiple women that meet my basic physical desires. In other words I fancy them. If I meet one and we get on, develop a relationship and stay together, then I form a strong bond with that woman. It doesn’t stop me from recognising there are still many other beautiful women out there. But I don’t act on that because I have a bond with and strong feelings for the woman I’m with.
Being straight doesn’t mean that every women is in permanent and immediate peril from me.
If I were bisexual, it’s the same. Yes, the pool of people to whom I’m attracted is bigger, but it doesn’t mean I run around with a permanently dripping lobb on, buggering anything that dares to look at me twice. I’m in a relationship!
It’s really not a tricky concept.
When you're heterosexual, you like pussies and you got one.
If you like both pussies and cocks, and you got one pussy. It's totally different. "
No, it really isn’t. And by the way that’s disturbingly reductive, people are more than just their reproductive organs.
It doesn’t matter what you like, if you commit to one person you commit to that person over all others. Gender, preferences and genitals have nothing to do with it. When I’m seeing someone, I don’t daydream about other women. I focus on my relationship. If I’m bi and seeing a woman, I just as equally wouldn’t daydream about any other men or women. I’m in a relationship.
If you like we can start with my advanced maths lesson involving three beans and another bean. |
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"Suppressing yourself from eating other bananas while you have access to your beloved banana is much easier than not having any bananas because you're committed to one strawberry.
So... still suppressing sexual desire.
If you're having difficulty focusing on your monogamous partner, that's a personal issue. Nothing to do with whether you're attracted to one gender or more.
You can try and argue that that kind of person gives a completely different flavour. But it's all the same. Fruit is fruit. People are people. There's a lot of variety and a lot of excuses to try and justify cheating on a diet "
Nobody is talking about cheating. When I see a woman on a dating websites stating she's bisexual I find her even more interesting and I'd let her indulge with another female. As long as I have her heart. |
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"When you're heterosexual, you like pussies and you got one.
If you like both pussies and cocks, and you got one pussy. It's totally different. "
...yeah, I'm out.
People who like both pussies and cocks are telling you it's not different at all.
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"This thread is utterly baffling.
I mean we’re on a swinging site. Surely the vast majority of people are non-monogamous anyway so there’s no need to commit yourself to a fucking pineapple."
Fucking pineapples is ill-advised due to it's meat-tenderising properties.... |
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"This thread is utterly baffling.
I mean we’re on a swinging site. Surely the vast majority of people are non-monogamous anyway so there’s no need to commit yourself to a fucking pineapple.
Fucking pineapples is ill-advised due to it's meat-tenderising properties...."
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"Nobody is talking about cheating. When I see a woman on a dating websites stating she's bisexual I find her even more interesting and I'd let her indulge with another female. As long as I have her heart. "
Let her indulge 
The point has been made a hundred times over by people of various sexualities.
Bisexual does not mean incapable of a happy and monogamous relationship, or that they're even interested in anything else |
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"Nobody is talking about cheating. When I see a woman on a dating websites stating she's bisexual I find her even more interesting and I'd let her indulge with another female. As long as I have her heart.
Let her indulge
The point has been made a hundred times over by people of various sexualities.
Bisexual does not mean incapable of a happy and monogamous relationship, or that they're even interested in anything else "
As if monogamy exist anymore. 10% of top men society are taking turns to 80% of women while the rest of men are wanking. We are probably the most polygamous society in the world in history. |
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Is there a reason the two are relevant to each other?
I can understand people who are already in a committed relationship for years then they decided they want to bring others into their sex life and be secure enough to that. However it's very unusual to find a person wanting to share or be shared as a criteria in their future life partner.
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And what does bisexual have to do with non monogamy?"
I thought the same too |
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"What do you make of a profile that you like on a dating website where they state:
1- They're looking for a serious relationship
2- They're Bisexual
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For what it’s worth…
I make of it as…
1 ~ They’re looking for a serious relationship
2 ~ They’re bisexual
That’s it for me, plain and simple |
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"As if monogamy exist anymore. 10% of top men society are taking turns to 80% of women while the rest of men are wanking. We are probably the most polygamous society in the world in history. "
Again. If this is apparently the case, why does it matter if they're bisexual?
I'm happily both poly and bi. It's not pokemon though. The fact that everyone I'm involved with currently has a penis doesn't mean I feel like I'm missing out on vagina or that I have some pressing need to be with a woman |
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Many people prefer to be honest and open and find that they are better sharing some things from the start, especially when they have perhaps had issues with something beforehand. I'd like someone for their honesty |
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"As if monogamy exist anymore. 10% of top men society are taking turns to 80% of women while the rest of men are wanking. We are probably the most polygamous society in the world in history.
Again. If this is apparently the case, why does it matter if they're bisexual?
I'm happily both poly and bi. It's not pokemon though. The fact that everyone I'm involved with currently has a penis doesn't mean I feel like I'm missing out on vagina or that I have some pressing need to be with a woman "
Do you have pressing needs for a cock? Cause I can't be happy without a vagina |
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"Many people prefer to be honest and open and find that they are better sharing some things from the start, especially when they have perhaps had issues with something beforehand. I'd like someone for their honesty "
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"It’s common knowledge that bi sexual people are very greedy, so I don’t think I could. Sharing is a big part of being in a relationship for me
Don't you just love a sweeping generalisation. "
The person who posted that is bi-sexual. |
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"It’s common knowledge that bi sexual people are very greedy, so I don’t think I could. Sharing is a big part of being in a relationship for me
Don't you just love a sweeping generalisation.
The person who posted that is bi-sexual. "
... And does not represent the opinions or dating habits of all bisexuals |
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"It’s common knowledge that bi sexual people are very greedy, so I don’t think I could. Sharing is a big part of being in a relationship for me
Don't you just love a sweeping generalisation.
The person who posted that is bi-sexual.
... And does not represent the opinions or dating habits of all bisexuals "
I'd bet money it was a joke. Wokingham makes those kinds of comments all the time. |
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"It’s common knowledge that bi sexual people are very greedy, so I don’t think I could. Sharing is a big part of being in a relationship for me
Don't you just love a sweeping generalisation.
The person who posted that is bi-sexual.
... And does not represent the opinions or dating habits of all bisexuals
I'd bet money it was a joke. Wokingham makes those kinds of comments all the time. "
I stand corrected but as their profile was hidden I did not realise they were bi. My bad. |
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"It’s common knowledge that bi sexual people are very greedy, so I don’t think I could. Sharing is a big part of being in a relationship for me
Don't you just love a sweeping generalisation.
The person who posted that is bi-sexual.
... And does not represent the opinions or dating habits of all bisexuals
I'd bet money it was a joke. Wokingham makes those kinds of comments all the time.
I stand corrected but as their profile was hidden I did not realise they were bi. My bad. "
Why your bad? It was a sweeping generalisation after all  |
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"It’s common knowledge that bi sexual people are very greedy, so I don’t think I could. Sharing is a big part of being in a relationship for me
Don't you just love a sweeping generalisation.
The person who posted that is bi-sexual.
... And does not represent the opinions or dating habits of all bisexuals
I'd bet money it was a joke. Wokingham makes those kinds of comments all the time.
I stand corrected but as their profile was hidden I did not realise they were bi. My bad.
Why your bad? It was a sweeping generalisation after all "
But said in jest and I fell for it |
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"I'm not trying to be funny.
I literally, don't understand the question."
It's on a par with what to make of someone who says both that they like eggs, and that they enjoy music.
But with slightly more gross undertones |
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"I'm not trying to be funny.
I literally, don't understand the question.
It's on a par with what to make of someone who says both that they like eggs, and that they enjoy music.
But with slightly more gross undertones "
Just tiny tiny difference is you're not gonna break "The monogamy" oath to eggs if you listen to music |
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"I'm not trying to be funny.
I literally, don't understand the question.
It's on a par with what to make of someone who says both that they like eggs, and that they enjoy music.
But with slightly more gross undertones
Just tiny tiny difference is you're not gonna break "The monogamy" oath to eggs if you listen to music"
I know this is hard to understand, but everyone fancies other people.
Like if I am straight but fancy both redhead and blonde men, I’m not going to cheat on my redhead with a blonde man just because I like both.
But also, non-monogamy is a thing. You don’t have to be monogamous. I don’t understand why people forget that on a site that is literally about a non-monogamous lifestyle. |
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"I'm not trying to be funny.
I literally, don't understand the question.
It's on a par with what to make of someone who says both that they like eggs, and that they enjoy music.
But with slightly more gross undertones
Just tiny tiny difference is you're not gonna break "The monogamy" oath to eggs if you listen to music
I know this is hard to understand, but everyone fancies other people.
Like if I am straight but fancy both redhead and blonde men, I’m not going to cheat on my redhead with a blonde man just because I like both.
But also, non-monogamy is a thing. You don’t have to be monogamous. I don’t understand why people forget that on a site that is literally about a non-monogamous lifestyle."
That's why the assumption of "monogamy" in the responses surprised me. |
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"I'm not trying to be funny.
I literally, don't understand the question.
It's on a par with what to make of someone who says both that they like eggs, and that they enjoy music.
But with slightly more gross undertones
Just tiny tiny difference is you're not gonna break "The monogamy" oath to eggs if you listen to music
I know this is hard to understand, but everyone fancies other people.
Like if I am straight but fancy both redhead and blonde men, I’m not going to cheat on my redhead with a blonde man just because I like both.
But also, non-monogamy is a thing. You don’t have to be monogamous. I don’t understand why people forget that on a site that is literally about a non-monogamous lifestyle.
That's why the assumption of "monogamy" in the responses surprised me. "
I mean it honestly depends what site/app you were using.
Most bisexual people are monogamous. They don’t feel like they’re giving anything up to be monogamous because they found their person.
Lots of bisexual people are non-monogamous - like me. If I was heterosexual I’d still be non-monogamous though.
Sexuality isn’t related to if you are monogamous or non-monogamous. |
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"What do you make of a profile that you like on a dating website where they state:
1- They're looking for a serious relationship
2- They're Bisexual
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I would contact them as they fit the criteria of the guys I'm seeking; open and honest by admitting that he's bi (which I adore) even though I'm straight. |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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"Ok so I'm in a relationship with a man, I don't oppress my attraction to women I'm still attracted to them however I'm an adult and I wouldn't act on my attraction (not without the Mr joining anyway)
That's like saying straight people looking for a long term relationship oppress their sexual attraction to others of the opposite sex they are destined to be cheats too?
Straight/bi/pan/whatever it doesn't matter you are either monogamous or not.
Mrs "
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"What do you make of a profile that you like on a dating website where they state:
1- They're looking for a serious relationship
2- They're Bisexual
I would contact them as they fit the criteria of the guys I'm seeking; open and honest by admitting that he's bi (which I adore) even though I'm straight."
They are females I was speaking of as it's Mr here and I am straight |
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Being bisexual doesn’t mean that I’m more likely to cheat.
Being bisexual doesn’t mean that I can’t be monogamous.
Being bisexual doesn’t mean that I fancy everyone.
Being a cheater makes someone more inclined to cheat. Their sexuality is irrelevant.
I hope I’ve cleared that up for you |
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"Being bisexual doesn’t mean that I’m more likely to cheat.
Being bisexual doesn’t mean that I can’t be monogamous.
Being bisexual doesn’t mean that I fancy everyone.
Being a cheater makes someone more inclined to cheat. Their sexuality is irrelevant.
I hope I’ve cleared that up for you "
Also - non-monogamous people can cheat too! Bisexual or not bisexual. |
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"Being bisexual doesn’t mean that I’m more likely to cheat.
Being bisexual doesn’t mean that I can’t be monogamous.
Being bisexual doesn’t mean that I fancy everyone.
Being a cheater makes someone more inclined to cheat. Their sexuality is irrelevant.
I hope I’ve cleared that up for you "
Cheating is not the subject nor the underlying idea of my post. |
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"Being bisexual doesn’t mean that I’m more likely to cheat.
Being bisexual doesn’t mean that I can’t be monogamous.
Being bisexual doesn’t mean that I fancy everyone.
Being a cheater makes someone more inclined to cheat. Their sexuality is irrelevant.
I hope I’ve cleared that up for you
Cheating is not the subject nor the underlying idea of my post. "
Please see my second sentence |
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"Being bisexual doesn’t mean that I’m more likely to cheat.
Being bisexual doesn’t mean that I can’t be monogamous.
Being bisexual doesn’t mean that I fancy everyone.
Being a cheater makes someone more inclined to cheat. Their sexuality is irrelevant.
I hope I’ve cleared that up for you
Also - non-monogamous people can cheat too! Bisexual or not bisexual. "
Oh yes, I’m more than aware of that! |
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I am bisexual, but definitely prefer monogamous relationship. Why do people still believe bisexual people are promiscuous. I can relate to both sexes, and wish I could have been open about it years ago, but for the social stigma that still exists for bisexual males.in the end better to be honest with yourself. Bi phobia is very much alive and well. |
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"I am bisexual, but definitely prefer monogamous relationship. Why do people still believe bisexual people are promiscuous. I can relate to both sexes, and wish I could have been open about it years ago, but for the social stigma that still exists for bisexual males.in the end better to be honest with yourself. Bi phobia is very much alive and well. "
I didn't mean any negativity in my post question. It's Mr here, and the profile I looked at were bisexual women. And I mentioned that Liked their profiles.
May be I should've been more specific. |
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