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Now as someone who has a great face for radio I wouldn't normally comment on others... But what's the dealio now with so many young women having the suction lips and fucking huge glue on eye lashes.? Is it a fashion thing? |
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Yes it's fashion.
In the seventies we used to pluck our eyebrows to a very thin line, looking back it was horrible but we loved it. What with that and the 'feather cut' I thought I was the bee's knees  |
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"Now as someone who has a great face for radio I wouldn't normally comment on others... But what's the dealio now with so many young women having the suction lips and fucking huge glue on eye lashes.? Is it a fashion thing?"
Its a good red flag atleast  |
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"I’d have the lashes if they didn’t irritate me, I love them, and saves faffing with mascara. Not the lips though. I like my lips as they are. "
I bought magnetic false lashes. They do work but I just can't get them right and ended up looking very odd (er) so I gave up |
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"I’d have the lashes if they didn’t irritate me, I love them, and saves faffing with mascara. Not the lips though. I like my lips as they are.
I bought magnetic false lashes. They do work but I just can't get them right and ended up looking very odd (er) so I gave up "
My daughter has the individual ones. They look great! I just can’t get on with them  |
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"I’d have the lashes if they didn’t irritate me, I love them, and saves faffing with mascara. Not the lips though. I like my lips as they are.
I bought magnetic false lashes. They do work but I just can't get them right and ended up looking very odd (er) so I gave up
My daughter has the individual ones. They look great! I just can’t get on with them "
I've had too many surgeries on my eyes now to want anything other than normal make up near them but I'd have them like a shot otherwise |
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"I really prefer natural beauty on a lady.
But I'm old-fashioned I suppose. 
I don’t have the natural beauty thing though chunks  . I look and feel much better with make up on. "
For you - I'd make an exception.
When are we going shopping for the blue undies?, |
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"Now as someone who has a great face for radio I wouldn't normally comment on others... But what's the dealio now with so many young women having the suction lips and fucking huge glue on eye lashes.? Is it a fashion thing?"
If every man told women what he really thinks about them without worrying about her "feelings" or not getting laid, we wouldn't be in this mess lol |
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"Now as someone who has a great face for radio I wouldn't normally comment on others... But what's the dealio now with so many young women having the suction lips and fucking huge glue on eye lashes.? Is it a fashion thing?
If every man told women what he really thinks about them without worrying about her "feelings" or not getting laid, we wouldn't be in this mess lol"
Are these women doing it because they think men like it? |
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I've kissed ladies with normal lips and had there lips done definitely normal lips for me and love ladies with full lips but if it makes them feel good why not my niece has hers done and they do look good on her |
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"I really prefer natural beauty on a lady.
But I'm old-fashioned I suppose.
What's natural beauty? That's not meant in a snarky way. "
I wasn't trying to be rude or nasty.
By natural I mean without makeup. So many ladies look lovely even without makeup. |
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"Now as someone who has a great face for radio I wouldn't normally comment on others... But what's the dealio now with so many young women having the suction lips and fucking huge glue on eye lashes.? Is it a fashion thing?
If every man told women what he really thinks about them without worrying about her "feelings" or not getting laid, we wouldn't be in this mess lol
Are these women doing it because they think men like it? "
No, they do it in their privacy at home to enjoy the view in the mirror and take them out in public. |
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"Now as someone who has a great face for radio I wouldn't normally comment on others... But what's the dealio now with so many young women having the suction lips and fucking huge glue on eye lashes.? Is it a fashion thing?
If every man told women what he really thinks about them without worrying about her "feelings" or not getting laid, we wouldn't be in this mess lol
Are these women doing it because they think men like it?
No, they do it in their privacy at home to enjoy the view in the mirror and take them out in public. "
I see...
I would have thought that if they're doing it in the hopes of attracting men and it's not working they'd stop
If they're doing it because all their mates are (which in fairness is why I used to pluck my eyebrows and got a feather cut) then they've achieved their goal
If they're doing it just because they like the look they've achieved their goal also. |
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By *eliWoman 42 weeks ago
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"I really prefer natural beauty on a lady.
But I'm old-fashioned I suppose.
What's natural beauty? That's not meant in a snarky way.
I wasn't trying to be rude or nasty.
By natural I mean without makeup. So many ladies look lovely even without makeup. "
Ah I see. I don't wear makeup most of the time but I don't think I look more lovely without it. I also think sometimes there's a discrepancy between what people think is "natural" and what isn't it.
I don't think you're rude or nasty, I just found it interesting. |
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"I really prefer natural beauty on a lady.
But I'm old-fashioned I suppose.
What's natural beauty? That's not meant in a snarky way.
I wasn't trying to be rude or nasty.
By natural I mean without makeup. So many ladies look lovely even without makeup.
Ah I see. I don't wear makeup most of the time but I don't think I look more lovely without it. I also think sometimes there's a discrepancy between what people think is "natural" and what isn't it.
I don't think you're rude or nasty, I just found it interesting. "
Take it this way: If I were made to choose between 2 women to shag, one had saggy boobs and the other had a perfect pair made of silicone, I'd choose the all natural saggy boobs. |
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By *eliWoman 42 weeks ago
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"By natural I mean without makeup. So many ladies look lovely even without makeup.
Ah I see. I don't wear makeup most of the time but I don't think I look more lovely without it. I also think sometimes there's a discrepancy between what people think is "natural" and what isn't it.
I don't think you're rude or nasty, I just found it interesting.
Take it this way: If I were made to choose between 2 women to shag, one had saggy boobs and the other had a perfect pair made of silicone, I'd choose the all natural saggy boobs. "
Ha! That's a good way of putting it. I wish more men on the fora (I'm assuming you're the male half but could be wrong) would be comfortable/happy with stating what it is they like without worrying about offending others nor putting others down.
I get why they don't, the nonsense that can occur when they do.  But I like when people say actually, I like this. Or that. |
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"By natural I mean without makeup. So many ladies look lovely even without makeup.
Ah I see. I don't wear makeup most of the time but I don't think I look more lovely without it. I also think sometimes there's a discrepancy between what people think is "natural" and what isn't it.
I don't think you're rude or nasty, I just found it interesting.
Take it this way: If I were made to choose between 2 women to shag, one had saggy boobs and the other had a perfect pair made of silicone, I'd choose the all natural saggy boobs.
Ha! That's a good way of putting it. I wish more men on the fora (I'm assuming you're the male half but could be wrong) would be comfortable/happy with stating what it is they like without worrying about offending others nor putting others down.
I get why they don't, the nonsense that can occur when they do. But I like when people say actually, I like this. Or that. "
I do too. It’s a shame some feel they can’t. I’ve more respect for the men that do though. |
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"By natural I mean without makeup. So many ladies look lovely even without makeup.
Ah I see. I don't wear makeup most of the time but I don't think I look more lovely without it. I also think sometimes there's a discrepancy between what people think is "natural" and what isn't it.
I don't think you're rude or nasty, I just found it interesting.
Take it this way: If I were made to choose between 2 women to shag, one had saggy boobs and the other had a perfect pair made of silicone, I'd choose the all natural saggy boobs.
Ha! That's a good way of putting it. I wish more men on the fora (I'm assuming you're the male half but could be wrong) would be comfortable/happy with stating what it is they like without worrying about offending others nor putting others down.
I get why they don't, the nonsense that can occur when they do. But I like when people say actually, I like this. Or that.
I do too. It’s a shame some feel they can’t. I’ve more respect for the men that do though. "
Respect for men on Fab????
It will never catch on.   |
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By *eliWoman 42 weeks ago
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"I thought loads of men state quite clearly what they want women to look like. "
No, I don't think so. With the greatest respect and all that seeing as you're a mod.
There are a few who openly state oh I like this, a few who don't really have a preference and a few more who openly say what they don't like. Loads though? No. I've not seen loads, far from it.
I'm well aware it may be my confirmation bias and try to stay open to the fact I could be wrong...
I don't think I am though. |
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"By natural I mean without makeup. So many ladies look lovely even without makeup.
Ah I see. I don't wear makeup most of the time but I don't think I look more lovely without it. I also think sometimes there's a discrepancy between what people think is "natural" and what isn't it.
I don't think you're rude or nasty, I just found it interesting.
Take it this way: If I were made to choose between 2 women to shag, one had saggy boobs and the other had a perfect pair made of silicone, I'd choose the all natural saggy boobs.
Ha! That's a good way of putting it. I wish more men on the fora (I'm assuming you're the male half but could be wrong) would be comfortable/happy with stating what it is they like without worrying about offending others nor putting others down.
I get why they don't, the nonsense that can occur when they do. But I like when people say actually, I like this. Or that.
I do too. It’s a shame some feel they can’t. I’ve more respect for the men that do though. "
Thank you! You'd think that you don't need to tell people that you prefer organic food over aesthetic food but we live in a strange world |
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"I thought loads of men state quite clearly what they want women to look like.
No, I don't think so. With the greatest respect and all that seeing as you're a mod.
There are a few who openly state oh I like this, a few who don't really have a preference and a few more who openly say what they don't like. Loads though? No. I've not seen loads, far from it.
I'm well aware it may be my confirmation bias and try to stay open to the fact I could be wrong...
I don't think I am though."
There's no rule against disagreeing with my opinion
I'm thinking of if all the bbw threads. |
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By *eliWoman 42 weeks ago
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"I thought loads of men state quite clearly what they want women to look like.
No, I don't think so. With the greatest respect and all that seeing as you're a mod.
There are a few who openly state oh I like this, a few who don't really have a preference and a few more who openly say what they don't like. Loads though? No. I've not seen loads, far from it.
I'm well aware it may be my confirmation bias and try to stay open to the fact I could be wrong...
I don't think I am though.
There's no rule against disagreeing with my opinion
I'm thinking of if all the bbw threads. "
I know, I'm being a cheeky twat
The bbw threads - a lot of them are just the same people saying hi to each other. Circle jerking over the same people. Actually I'll do a thread about it. Not about bbws. |
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By *emidemiWoman 42 weeks ago
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"Just sat here watching this thread, as a makeup artist with lip filler  private notes are filling up
Any tips for winged eyeliner? "
Start from the end of the wing and bring the eyeliner inwards to your eye! Instead of doing the lid first and flicking out |
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"Now as someone who has a great face for radio I wouldn't normally comment on others... But what's the dealio now with so many young women having the suction lips and fucking huge glue on eye lashes.? Is it a fashion thing?"
Like others have said on this thread, I like the natural look. I would never begrudge any woman applying make up to enhance her features as she sees fit. Personally I like none/next to no makeup. But I’m particularly not keen on more permanent enhancements (ie things that don’t wipe off at the end of the day). I believe there are a great many women out there who don’t appreciate how naturally pretty they are.
Of course everyone should do what makes them happy, but I wonder if make up is now seen as the norm and none makes a woman feel plain/naked?
I spend a lot of time looking for love on normal dating apps and I avoid the lip-fillered duck pouters. Sorry if that comes across as insensitive, it’s not meant to be. I prefer a natural smile.
But that’s just me and I’m hardly vogue cover material |
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Are these women doing it because they think men like it? "
I don't know any women that do things because they think men like it.
They do it because they like it.
Honestly, who gives a shit if a man approves of the way you style your eyebrows? |
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"Just sat here watching this thread, as a makeup artist with lip filler private notes are filling up
Any tips for winged eyeliner?
Start from the end of the wing and bring the eyeliner inwards to your eye! Instead of doing the lid first and flicking out "
Ok, thank you. I'll give it a go |
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Are these women doing it because they think men like it?
I don't know any women that do things because they think men like it.
They do it because they like it.
Honestly, who gives a shit if a man approves of the way you style your eyebrows?"
My opinion is that a lot of women do things because they think other women will like it. |
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Eyelashes- I have one word… demodex.
The filler situ is getting ridiculous now. Some truly beautiful young women getting their faces disfigured in their 20s.
Would never use either but of course I am ancient.
I do rock the winged eyeliner though |
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Are these women doing it because they think men like it?
I don't know any women that do things because they think men like it.
They do it because they like it.
Honestly, who gives a shit if a man approves of the way you style your eyebrows?
My opinion is that a lot of women do things because they think other women will like it. "
My opinion is a lot of women do it because they think: If a lot of women are doing it, it must be working. A lot of women also do it because celebrities are doing it. |
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"Eyelashes- I have one word… demodex.
The filler situ is getting ridiculous now. Some truly beautiful young women getting their faces disfigured in their 20s.
Would never use either but of course I am ancient.
I do rock the winged eyeliner though "
I think the overuse of filler is going to result in some women having some odd horizontal wrinkles around their mouths when they're older |
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"Just sat here watching this thread, as a makeup artist with lip filler private notes are filling up
Any tips for winged eyeliner?
Start from the end of the wing and bring the eyeliner inwards to your eye! Instead of doing the lid first and flicking out
Ok, thank you. I'll give it a go "
That's a great tip about the winged eyeliner! I love the look but can't get it right and wonder if it'll look comical with my oriental eyes?
A tip for false eye-lases, cos I use them a lot... Break the back of a fresh pair into the shape of your lash line. That way, it should just sit perfectly on your lash line and not have to make any adjustments. |
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I like a strip lash but not the big fluffy hide your eyes kind. I'm also not a fan of the big over filled lips, but each to their own.
My friends lips are bit she can't drink through a straw anymore  |
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"Just sat here watching this thread, as a makeup artist with lip filler private notes are filling up
Any tips for winged eyeliner?
Start from the end of the wing and bring the eyeliner inwards to your eye! Instead of doing the lid first and flicking out
Ok, thank you. I'll give it a go
That's a great tip about the winged eyeliner! I love the look but can't get it right and wonder if it'll look comical with my oriental eyes?
A tip for false eye-lases, cos I use them a lot... Break the back of a fresh pair into the shape of your lash line. That way, it should just sit perfectly on your lash line and not have to make any adjustments."
I've completely given up on false lashes but that's a good tip |
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"I like a strip lash but not the big fluffy hide your eyes kind. I'm also not a fan of the big over filled lips, but each to their own.
My friends lips are bit she can't drink through a straw anymore "
Whoa! Really |
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"Eyelashes- I have one word… demodex.
The filler situ is getting ridiculous now. Some truly beautiful young women getting their faces disfigured in their 20s.
Would never use either but of course I am ancient.
I do rock the winged eyeliner though "
That I suppose was the thought of the op. Some look lovely as is and some look disfigured with the Vast quantity of make up and lips. I was watching one such trying to take a swig from an evian bottle and she didn't seem to be able to find the hole between her lips so pumped up were they. Her choice of course but... |
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"Eyelashes- I have one word… demodex.
The filler situ is getting ridiculous now. Some truly beautiful young women getting their faces disfigured in their 20s.
Would never use either but of course I am ancient.
I do rock the winged eyeliner though
That I suppose was the thought of the op. Some look lovely as is and some look disfigured with the Vast quantity of make up and lips. I was watching one such trying to take a swig from an evian bottle and she didn't seem to be able to find the hole between her lips so pumped up were they. Her choice of course but... "
Any cosmetic enhancement that makes day to day activities difficult seems a bit counter productive to me. I saw a picture of a Kardashian the other day with nails so long that she wouldn't have been able to perform tasks such as preparing food, washing up etc but that's probably the point. It's saying 'look, my status and wealth is such that I don't have to perform mundane tasks'.
I wonder if a lot of these enhancements are about more than just looks |
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That I suppose was the thought of the op. Some look lovely as is and some look disfigured with the Vast quantity of make up and lips. I was watching one such trying to take a swig from an evian bottle and she didn't seem to be able to find the hole between her lips so pumped up were they. Her choice of course but... "
If I had a pound for every man who told me I had disfigured myself with my tattoos, that I was too muscular, that I had too much make up on, or not enough make up on… well… I’d have an awful lot more tattoos, some fillers, permanent makeup, and a nicer gym membership.
So many men seem to think the way a woman looks is anything to do with them.
And it’s remarkable that there are so many judgemental people on a site like this where I’m sure we’ve all faced or feared being judged for our lifestyle. |
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"Eyelashes- I have one word… demodex.
The filler situ is getting ridiculous now. Some truly beautiful young women getting their faces disfigured in their 20s.
Would never use either but of course I am ancient.
I do rock the winged eyeliner though
That I suppose was the thought of the op. Some look lovely as is and some look disfigured with the Vast quantity of make up and lips. I was watching one such trying to take a swig from an evian bottle and she didn't seem to be able to find the hole between her lips so pumped up were they. Her choice of course but...
Any cosmetic enhancement that makes day to day activities difficult seems a bit counter productive to me. I saw a picture of a Kardashian the other day with nails so long that she wouldn't have been able to perform tasks such as preparing food, washing up etc but that's probably the point. It's saying 'look, my status and wealth is such that I don't have to perform mundane tasks'.
I wonder if a lot of these enhancements are about more than just looks"
Sponsorship? Lip filler sponsored by... |
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"Eyelashes- I have one word… demodex.
The filler situ is getting ridiculous now. Some truly beautiful young women getting their faces disfigured in their 20s.
Would never use either but of course I am ancient.
I do rock the winged eyeliner though
That I suppose was the thought of the op. Some look lovely as is and some look disfigured with the Vast quantity of make up and lips. I was watching one such trying to take a swig from an evian bottle and she didn't seem to be able to find the hole between her lips so pumped up were they. Her choice of course but...
Any cosmetic enhancement that makes day to day activities difficult seems a bit counter productive to me. I saw a picture of a Kardashian the other day with nails so long that she wouldn't have been able to perform tasks such as preparing food, washing up etc but that's probably the point. It's saying 'look, my status and wealth is such that I don't have to perform mundane tasks'.
I wonder if a lot of these enhancements are about more than just looks
Sponsorship? Lip filler sponsored by... "
Probably 'I belong to this group/lifestyle/economic group' |
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That I suppose was the thought of the op. Some look lovely as is and some look disfigured with the Vast quantity of make up and lips. I was watching one such trying to take a swig from an evian bottle and she didn't seem to be able to find the hole between her lips so pumped up were they. Her choice of course but...
If I had a pound for every man who told me I had disfigured myself with my tattoos, that I was too muscular, that I had too much make up on, or not enough make up on… well… I’d have an awful lot more tattoos, some fillers, permanent makeup, and a nicer gym membership.
So many men seem to think the way a woman looks is anything to do with them.
And it’s remarkable that there are so many judgemental people on a site like this where I’m sure we’ve all faced or feared being judged for our lifestyle."
I was on a professional course once when a guy took me to one side and kindly advised me that I should wear more make up . |
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That I suppose was the thought of the op. Some look lovely as is and some look disfigured with the Vast quantity of make up and lips. I was watching one such trying to take a swig from an evian bottle and she didn't seem to be able to find the hole between her lips so pumped up were they. Her choice of course but...
If I had a pound for every man who told me I had disfigured myself with my tattoos, that I was too muscular, that I had too much make up on, or not enough make up on… well… I’d have an awful lot more tattoos, some fillers, permanent makeup, and a nicer gym membership.
So many men seem to think the way a woman looks is anything to do with them.
And it’s remarkable that there are so many judgemental people on a site like this where I’m sure we’ve all faced or feared being judged for our lifestyle."
I think it’s fine to generally say “I don’t like tattoos/fake boobs/big women etc etc but to actually personally tell you what to do or what not to do with your body isn’t ok. |
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So many men seem to think the way a woman looks is anything to do with them.
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Don't worry. most men realise that it is mainly to do with how women want to appear to each other.
For the record, I cant abide false eyelashes or even mascara.
Same goes for false nails or nails any longer than sensible women would be happy to see on men.
If I see anything of that nature on dating site profiles, I move swiftly on.
Luckily I manage to find female friends who are naturally attractive.
Sadly, One of the drawbacks of sucropaternalism is the realisation that, sometimes, men find themselves financing these fads. |
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That I suppose was the thought of the op. Some look lovely as is and some look disfigured with the Vast quantity of make up and lips. I was watching one such trying to take a swig from an evian bottle and she didn't seem to be able to find the hole between her lips so pumped up were they. Her choice of course but...
If I had a pound for every man who told me I had disfigured myself with my tattoos, that I was too muscular, that I had too much make up on, or not enough make up on… well… I’d have an awful lot more tattoos, some fillers, permanent makeup, and a nicer gym membership.
So many men seem to think the way a woman looks is anything to do with them.
And it’s remarkable that there are so many judgemental people on a site like this where I’m sure we’ve all faced or feared being judged for our lifestyle."
You're free to do whatever you want with your body. Equally they're free to move their lips in whatever fashion to express their thoughts, likes and dislikes |
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That I suppose was the thought of the op. Some look lovely as is and some look disfigured with the Vast quantity of make up and lips. I was watching one such trying to take a swig from an evian bottle and she didn't seem to be able to find the hole between her lips so pumped up were they. Her choice of course but...
If I had a pound for every man who told me I had disfigured myself with my tattoos, that I was too muscular, that I had too much make up on, or not enough make up on… well… I’d have an awful lot more tattoos, some fillers, permanent makeup, and a nicer gym membership.
So many men seem to think the way a woman looks is anything to do with them.
And it’s remarkable that there are so many judgemental people on a site like this where I’m sure we’ve all faced or feared being judged for our lifestyle.
You're free to do whatever you want with your body. Equally they're free to move their lips in whatever fashion to express their thoughts, likes and dislikes"
They are but it’s not nice is it? I don’t particularly like tattoos, moreso on women but it’s not ok to say you’ve disfigured your body with those tattoos or they look awful.
Not in my world it isn’t anyway. |
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You're free to do whatever you want with your body. Equally they're free to move their lips in whatever fashion to express their thoughts, likes and dislikes"
The thing is, you’re not just expressing your likes and dislikes.
If I say “I don’t find tattooed men sexually attractive” then that is expressing my sexual preference in a polite way.
If I start a forum thread saying “I don’t understand why men disfigure themselves with tattoos to impress women, they should leave themselves natural because natural is better” then that has gone beyond expressing a sexual preferences and is instead being nasty and judgmental. |
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That I suppose was the thought of the op. Some look lovely as is and some look disfigured with the Vast quantity of make up and lips. I was watching one such trying to take a swig from an evian bottle and she didn't seem to be able to find the hole between her lips so pumped up were they. Her choice of course but...
If I had a pound for every man who told me I had disfigured myself with my tattoos, that I was too muscular, that I had too much make up on, or not enough make up on… well… I’d have an awful lot more tattoos, some fillers, permanent makeup, and a nicer gym membership.
So many men seem to think the way a woman looks is anything to do with them.
And it’s remarkable that there are so many judgemental people on a site like this where I’m sure we’ve all faced or feared being judged for our lifestyle.
You're free to do whatever you want with your body. Equally they're free to move their lips in whatever fashion to express their thoughts, likes and dislikes
They are but it’s not nice is it? I don’t particularly like tattoos, moreso on women but it’s not ok to say you’ve disfigured your body with those tattoos or they look awful.
Not in my world it isn’t anyway. "
Oh it is very ok to look a spade a spade in my book. Even advisable. You can commit a suicide with your body. If I find it awful I am free to tell you so. You have no right to limit my freedom of expression especially what I see wrong and right so you can feel good about what you do. |
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That I suppose was the thought of the op. Some look lovely as is and some look disfigured with the Vast quantity of make up and lips. I was watching one such trying to take a swig from an evian bottle and she didn't seem to be able to find the hole between her lips so pumped up were they. Her choice of course but...
If I had a pound for every man who told me I had disfigured myself with my tattoos, that I was too muscular, that I had too much make up on, or not enough make up on… well… I’d have an awful lot more tattoos, some fillers, permanent makeup, and a nicer gym membership.
So many men seem to think the way a woman looks is anything to do with them.
And it’s remarkable that there are so many judgemental people on a site like this where I’m sure we’ve all faced or feared being judged for our lifestyle.
You're free to do whatever you want with your body. Equally they're free to move their lips in whatever fashion to express their thoughts, likes and dislikes
They are but it’s not nice is it? I don’t particularly like tattoos, moreso on women but it’s not ok to say you’ve disfigured your body with those tattoos or they look awful.
Not in my world it isn’t anyway.
Oh it is very ok to look a spade a spade in my book. Even advisable. You can commit a suicide with your body. If I find it awful I am free to tell you so. You have no right to limit my freedom of expression especially what I see wrong and right so you can feel good about what you do. "
Well that’s just extremely rude. But we can agree to disagree. |
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That I suppose was the thought of the op. Some look lovely as is and some look disfigured with the Vast quantity of make up and lips. I was watching one such trying to take a swig from an evian bottle and she didn't seem to be able to find the hole between her lips so pumped up were they. Her choice of course but...
If I had a pound for every man who told me I had disfigured myself with my tattoos, that I was too muscular, that I had too much make up on, or not enough make up on… well… I’d have an awful lot more tattoos, some fillers, permanent makeup, and a nicer gym membership.
So many men seem to think the way a woman looks is anything to do with them.
And it’s remarkable that there are so many judgemental people on a site like this where I’m sure we’ve all faced or feared being judged for our lifestyle.
You're free to do whatever you want with your body. Equally they're free to move their lips in whatever fashion to express their thoughts, likes and dislikes
They are but it’s not nice is it? I don’t particularly like tattoos, moreso on women but it’s not ok to say you’ve disfigured your body with those tattoos or they look awful.
Not in my world it isn’t anyway.
Oh it is very ok to look a spade a spade in my book. Even advisable. You can commit a suicide with your body. If I find it awful I am free to tell you so. You have no right to limit my freedom of expression especially what I see wrong and right so you can feel good about what you do.
Well that’s just extremely rude. But we can agree to disagree. "
It offends me that you find my freedom of word choice rude. Does that mean I have the right to infringe on your choice of words no.
So if you want to do what you want with your body, thoughts and words, don't ask others to accommodate them at the expense of their freedom.
If you buy a Picasso original and choose to vandalise it. Don't expect others not to say what they think about it. Your body is infinitely a better original than Picasso's |
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That I suppose was the thought of the op. Some look lovely as is and some look disfigured with the Vast quantity of make up and lips. I was watching one such trying to take a swig from an evian bottle and she didn't seem to be able to find the hole between her lips so pumped up were they. Her choice of course but...
If I had a pound for every man who told me I had disfigured myself with my tattoos, that I was too muscular, that I had too much make up on, or not enough make up on… well… I’d have an awful lot more tattoos, some fillers, permanent makeup, and a nicer gym membership.
So many men seem to think the way a woman looks is anything to do with them.
And it’s remarkable that there are so many judgemental people on a site like this where I’m sure we’ve all faced or feared being judged for our lifestyle.
I was on a professional course once when a guy took me to one side and kindly advised me that I should wear more make up . "
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If you buy a Picasso original and choose to vandalise it. Don't expect others not to say what they think about it. Your body is infinitely a better original than Picasso's"
A body isn’t an object to be owned and should not be compared to one.
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If you buy a Picasso original and choose to vandalise it. Don't expect others not to say what they think about it. Your body is infinitely a better original than Picasso's
A body isn’t an object to be owned and should not be compared to one.
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That I suppose was the thought of the op. Some look lovely as is and some look disfigured with the Vast quantity of make up and lips. I was watching one such trying to take a swig from an evian bottle and she didn't seem to be able to find the hole between her lips so pumped up were they. Her choice of course but...
If I had a pound for every man who told me I had disfigured myself with my tattoos, that I was too muscular, that I had too much make up on, or not enough make up on… well… I’d have an awful lot more tattoos, some fillers, permanent makeup, and a nicer gym membership.
So many men seem to think the way a woman looks is anything to do with them.
And it’s remarkable that there are so many judgemental people on a site like this where I’m sure we’ve all faced or feared being judged for our lifestyle.
You're free to do whatever you want with your body. Equally they're free to move their lips in whatever fashion to express their thoughts, likes and dislikes
They are but it’s not nice is it? I don’t particularly like tattoos, moreso on women but it’s not ok to say you’ve disfigured your body with those tattoos or they look awful.
Not in my world it isn’t anyway.
Oh it is very ok to look a spade a spade in my book. Even advisable. You can commit a suicide with your body. If I find it awful I am free to tell you so. You have no right to limit my freedom of expression especially what I see wrong and right so you can feel good about what you do.
Well that’s just extremely rude. But we can agree to disagree.
It offends me that you find my freedom of word choice rude. Does that mean I have the right to infringe on your choice of words no.
So if you want to do what you want with your body, thoughts and words, don't ask others to accommodate them at the expense of their freedom.
If you buy a Picasso original and choose to vandalise it. Don't expect others not to say what they think about it. Your body is infinitely a better original than Picasso's"
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That I suppose was the thought of the op. Some look lovely as is and some look disfigured with the Vast quantity of make up and lips. I was watching one such trying to take a swig from an evian bottle and she didn't seem to be able to find the hole between her lips so pumped up were they. Her choice of course but...
If I had a pound for every man who told me I had disfigured myself with my tattoos, that I was too muscular, that I had too much make up on, or not enough make up on… well… I’d have an awful lot more tattoos, some fillers, permanent makeup, and a nicer gym membership.
So many men seem to think the way a woman looks is anything to do with them.
And it’s remarkable that there are so many judgemental people on a site like this where I’m sure we’ve all faced or feared being judged for our lifestyle.
I was on a professional course once when a guy took me to one side and kindly advised me that I should wear more make up .
What did you say to him "
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If you buy a Picasso original and choose to vandalise it. Don't expect others not to say what they think about it. Your body is infinitely a better original than Picasso's
A body isn’t an object to be owned and should not be compared to one.
If a person think they can vandalise their own body, they definitely believe it's an object that they own"
Out of interest, where do you draw the line?
Is ear piercing vandalism?
How about mascara?
False nails?
Breast implants?
Hair implants?
Shaving? |
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Haha each to their own what they do with their bodies and presentation without judgement. Some people on here can't help but to judge... I guess they need to feel superior to compensate somehow ..."
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If you buy a Picasso original and choose to vandalise it. Don't expect others not to say what they think about it. Your body is infinitely a better original than Picasso's
A body isn’t an object to be owned and should not be compared to one.
If a person think they can vandalise their own body, they definitely believe it's an object that they own
Out of interest, where do you draw the line?
Is ear piercing vandalism?
How about mascara?
False nails?
Breast implants?
Hair implants?
Shaving?"
Seriously? You're comparing make up and shaving to permanent disfiguration and drawings and filling your body with plastic junk? |
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If you buy a Picasso original and choose to vandalise it. Don't expect others not to say what they think about it. Your body is infinitely a better original than Picasso's
A body isn’t an object to be owned and should not be compared to one.
If a person think they can vandalise their own body, they definitely believe it's an object that they own
Out of interest, where do you draw the line?
Is ear piercing vandalism?
How about mascara?
False nails?
Breast implants?
Hair implants?
Shaving?
Seriously? You're comparing make up and shaving to permanent disfiguration and drawings and filling your body with plastic junk? "
Just trying to nail down where you draw the line.
I’m assume you don’t have, and don’t sleep with people who have piercings? That is, after all, disfiguring your body with a puncture wound that never really quite heals. |
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...I don’t particularly like tattoos, moreso on women but it’s not ok to say you’ve disfigured your body with those tattoos or they look awful.
Not in my world it isn’t anyway. "
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...I don’t particularly like tattoos, moreso on women but it’s not ok to say you’ve disfigured your body with those tattoos or they look awful.
Not in my world it isn’t anyway.
What is nasty and judgemental about stating the obvious? "
no its stating a personal opinion |
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If you buy a Picasso original and choose to vandalise it. Don't expect others not to say what they think about it. Your body is infinitely a better original than Picasso's
A body isn’t an object to be owned and should not be compared to one.
If a person think they can vandalise their own body, they definitely believe it's an object that they own
Out of interest, where do you draw the line?
Is ear piercing vandalism?
How about mascara?
False nails?
Breast implants?
Hair implants?
Shaving?
Seriously? You're comparing make up and shaving to permanent disfiguration and drawings and filling your body with plastic junk? "
Would I fuck a tattooed woman or a woman with piercings alover her body? May be yes maybe not. It depends how bad it is and other criterias of attraction and how desperate I am at the moment. Would I marry her? Very unlikely, unless she's a rare gem. |
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If you buy a Picasso original and choose to vandalise it. Don't expect others not to say what they think about it. Your body is infinitely a better original than Picasso's
A body isn’t an object to be owned and should not be compared to one.
If a person think they can vandalise their own body, they definitely believe it's an object that they own
Out of interest, where do you draw the line?
Is ear piercing vandalism?
How about mascara?
False nails?
Breast implants?
Hair implants?
Shaving?
Seriously? You're comparing make up and shaving to permanent disfiguration and drawings and filling your body with plastic junk?
Would I fuck a tattooed woman or a woman with piercings alover her body? May be yes maybe not. It depends how bad it is and other criterias of attraction and how desperate I am at the moment. Would I marry her? Very unlikely, unless she's a rare gem. "
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I'm all for people doing as they wish to feel good about themselves but I don't understand why everyone wants to look the same, but then I've never understood fashion trends.
I'll stick to being a plain Jane with thin lips wouldn't mind a bit of Botox on my resting bitch face frown line though
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If you buy a Picasso original and choose to vandalise it. Don't expect others not to say what they think about it. Your body is infinitely a better original than Picasso's
A body isn’t an object to be owned and should not be compared to one.
If a person think they can vandalise their own body, they definitely believe it's an object that they own
Out of interest, where do you draw the line?
Is ear piercing vandalism?
How about mascara?
False nails?
Breast implants?
Hair implants?
Shaving?
Seriously? You're comparing make up and shaving to permanent disfiguration and drawings and filling your body with plastic junk?
Would I fuck a tattooed woman or a woman with piercings alover her body? May be yes maybe not. It depends how bad it is and other criterias of attraction and how desperate I am at the moment. Would I marry her? Very unlikely, unless she's a rare gem.
The forums are great filters "
Unfortunately for you you'd rarely find a man here who is courageous enough to show their true self without fear of missing out the 0.01% chance of getting laid. And when you find him you think you have plenty choice. And that you're the one doing the filtering. |
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"I'm all for people doing as they wish to feel good about themselves but I don't understand why everyone wants to look the same, but then I've never understood fashion trends.
I'll stick to being a plain Jane with thin lips wouldn't mind a bit of Botox on my resting bitch face frown line though
Mrs "
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If you buy a Picasso original and choose to vandalise it. Don't expect others not to say what they think about it. Your body is infinitely a better original than Picasso's
A body isn’t an object to be owned and should not be compared to one.
If a person think they can vandalise their own body, they definitely believe it's an object that they own
Out of interest, where do you draw the line?
Is ear piercing vandalism?
How about mascara?
False nails?
Breast implants?
Hair implants?
Shaving?
Seriously? You're comparing make up and shaving to permanent disfiguration and drawings and filling your body with plastic junk?
Would I fuck a tattooed woman or a woman with piercings alover her body? May be yes maybe not. It depends how bad it is and other criterias of attraction and how desperate I am at the moment. Would I marry her? Very unlikely, unless she's a rare gem. "
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"I’d have the lashes if they didn’t irritate me, I love them, and saves faffing with mascara. Not the lips though. I like my lips as they are.
I bought magnetic false lashes. They do work but I just can't get them right and ended up looking very odd (er) so I gave up "
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"Just sat here watching this thread, as a makeup artist with lip filler private notes are filling up
Any tips for winged eyeliner?
Start from the end of the wing and bring the eyeliner inwards to your eye! Instead of doing the lid first and flicking out "
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I'll stick to being a plain Jane with thin lips wouldn't mind a bit of Botox on my resting bitch face frown line though
Mrs "
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That I suppose was the thought of the op. Some look lovely as is and some look disfigured with the Vast quantity of make up and lips. I was watching one such trying to take a swig from an evian bottle and she didn't seem to be able to find the hole between her lips so pumped up were they. Her choice of course but...
If I had a pound for every man who told me I had disfigured myself with my tattoos, that I was too muscular, that I had too much make up on, or not enough make up on… well… I’d have an awful lot more tattoos, some fillers, permanent makeup, and a nicer gym membership.
So many men seem to think the way a woman looks is anything to do with them.
And it’s remarkable that there are so many judgemental people on a site like this where I’m sure we’ve all faced or feared being judged for our lifestyle.
You're free to do whatever you want with your body. Equally they're free to move their lips in whatever fashion to express their thoughts, likes and dislikes
They are but it’s not nice is it? I don’t particularly like tattoos, moreso on women but it’s not ok to say you’ve disfigured your body with those tattoos or they look awful.
Not in my world it isn’t anyway.
Oh it is very ok to look a spade a spade in my book. Even advisable. You can commit a suicide with your body. If I find it awful I am free to tell you so. You have no right to limit my freedom of expression especially what I see wrong and right so you can feel good about what you do.
Well that’s just extremely rude. But we can agree to disagree.
It offends me that you find my freedom of word choice rude. Does that mean I have the right to infringe on your choice of words no.
So if you want to do what you want with your body, thoughts and words, don't ask others to accommodate them at the expense of their freedom.
If you buy a Picasso original and choose to vandalise it. Don't expect others not to say what they think about it. Your body is infinitely a better original than Picasso's"
Do you get punched in the face a lot?
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I'll stick to being a plain Jane with thin lips wouldn't mind a bit of Botox on my resting bitch face frown line though
Mrs
Funny when they all advise men to standout when most of them look like they just got out the same production line "
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I'll stick to being a plain Jane with thin lips wouldn't mind a bit of Botox on my resting bitch face frown line though
Mrs
Funny when they all advise men to standout when most of them look like they just got out the same production line
Just wondering about your profile name, is that the number of times you’ve actually been to A&E?"
No Just the number of times I met your sister |
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...I don’t particularly like tattoos, moreso on women but it’s not ok to say you’ve disfigured your body with those tattoos or they look awful.
Not in my world it isn’t anyway.
What is nasty and judgemental about stating the obvious? "
If you look back to what I was referring to, it was the person who said men had told her she had disfigured her body. I didn’t say people
Can’t have personal opinions. I like people
Who speak up and don’t arse lick like a lot of the men do on here. To me that’s plain rude and unnecessary. |
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"Now as someone who has a great face for radio I wouldn't normally comment on others... But what's the dealio now with so many young women having the suction lips and fucking huge glue on eye lashes.? Is it a fashion thing?"
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...I don’t particularly like tattoos, moreso on women but it’s not ok to say you’ve disfigured your body with those tattoos or they look awful.
Not in my world it isn’t anyway.
What is nasty and judgemental about stating the obvious?
If you look back to what I was referring to, it was the person who said men had told her she had disfigured her body. I didn’t say people
Can’t have personal opinions. I like people
Who speak up and don’t arse lick like a lot of the men do on here. To me that’s plain rude and unnecessary. "
Jullian Assange was accused of grape to kill his character. When that didn't turn people away from the facts he was stating, they found excuses to take away his freedom in order to silence him. But the one think they couldn't do is to make an actual argument against the facts he dared stating. |
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...I don’t particularly like tattoos, moreso on women but it’s not ok to say you’ve disfigured your body with those tattoos or they look awful.
Not in my world it isn’t anyway.
What is nasty and judgemental about stating the obvious?
If you look back to what I was referring to, it was the person who said men had told her she had disfigured her body. I didn’t say people
Can’t have personal opinions. I like people
Who speak up and don’t arse lick like a lot of the men do on here. To me that’s plain rude and unnecessary.
Jullian Assange was accused of grape to kill his character. When that didn't turn people away from the facts he was stating, they found excuses to take away his freedom in order to silence him. But the one think they couldn't do is to make an actual argument against the facts he dared stating. "
Ok. I’m really not that bothered. I think you’re extremely rude. You don’t. That’s it really, I’ve nothing else to add. |
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...I don’t particularly like tattoos, moreso on women but it’s not ok to say you’ve disfigured your body with those tattoos or they look awful.
Not in my world it isn’t anyway.
What is nasty and judgemental about stating the obvious?
If you look back to what I was referring to, it was the person who said men had told her she had disfigured her body. I didn’t say people
Can’t have personal opinions. I like people
Who speak up and don’t arse lick like a lot of the men do on here. To me that’s plain rude and unnecessary. "
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...I don’t particularly like tattoos, moreso on women but it’s not ok to say you’ve disfigured your body with those tattoos or they look awful.
Not in my world it isn’t anyway.
What is nasty and judgemental about stating the obvious?
If you look back to what I was referring to, it was the person who said men had told her she had disfigured her body. I didn’t say people
Can’t have personal opinions. I like people
Who speak up and don’t arse lick like a lot of the men do on here. To me that’s plain rude and unnecessary.
Jullian Assange was accused of grape to kill his character. When that didn't turn people away from the facts he was stating, they found excuses to take away his freedom in order to silence him. But the one think they couldn't do is to make an actual argument against the facts he dared stating.
Ok. I’m really not that bothered. I think you’re extremely rude. You don’t. That’s it really, I’ve nothing else to add. "
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...I don’t particularly like tattoos, moreso on women but it’s not ok to say you’ve disfigured your body with those tattoos or they look awful.
Not in my world it isn’t anyway.
What is nasty and judgemental about stating the obvious?
If you look back to what I was referring to, it was the person who said men had told her she had disfigured her body. I didn’t say people
Can’t have personal opinions. I like people
Who speak up and don’t arse lick like a lot of the men do on here. To me that’s plain rude and unnecessary.
Jullian Assange was accused of grape to kill his character. When that didn't turn people away from the facts he was stating, they found excuses to take away his freedom in order to silence him. But the one think they couldn't do is to make an actual argument against the facts he dared stating. "
You can not like something without being nasty though
I don’t like tattoos or lip filler or fakeness either
See? I just said I didn’t like it. I gave my preference without being nasty about it. It’s that easy
If people get upset about your preferences, that’s their problem
If they get upset because you expressed those preferences in a nasty way, that’s a you problem |
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Your judgement of me is irrelevant and insignificant. Either what I said was true or not. Is the only thing that matters. "
So, let’s get into this because this is actually interesting.
You say that these women are “disfiguring” their body.
A common definition of disfigure means to spoil something.
If something is spoilt or not is a personal opinion, therefore if something is disfigured or not is a personal opinion.
Therefore it is impossible to speak the “truth” on this subject, because if something is disfigured or not is completely down to person opinion.
Your opinion can be your own personal truth, but it cannot be objectively true or false. |
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Your judgement of me is irrelevant and insignificant. Either what I said was true or not. Is the only thing that matters.
So, let’s get into this because this is actually interesting.
You say that these women are “disfiguring” their body.
A common definition of disfigure means to spoil something.
If something is spoilt or not is a personal opinion, therefore if something is disfigured or not is a personal opinion.
Therefore it is impossible to speak the “truth” on this subject, because if something is disfigured or not is completely down to person opinion.
Your opinion can be your own personal truth, but it cannot be objectively true or false."
And actually the idea of a body being spoilt is even more interesting. Because spoilt means to reduce the value of something.
Can you reduce the value of a human? No, I don’t think so. Humans all have intrinsic value that can’t be taken away by someone’s personal opinion. |
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...I don’t particularly like tattoos, moreso on women but it’s not ok to say you’ve disfigured your body with those tattoos or they look awful.
Not in my world it isn’t anyway.
What is nasty and judgemental about stating the obvious?
If you look back to what I was referring to, it was the person who said men had told her she had disfigured her body. I didn’t say people
Can’t have personal opinions. I like people
Who speak up and don’t arse lick like a lot of the men do on here. To me that’s plain rude and unnecessary.
Jullian Assange was accused of grape to kill his character. When that didn't turn people away from the facts he was stating, they found excuses to take away his freedom in order to silence him. But the one think they couldn't do is to make an actual argument against the facts he dared stating.
You can not like something without being nasty though
I don’t like tattoos or lip filler or fakeness either
See? I just said I didn’t like it. I gave my preference without being nasty about it. It’s that easy
If people get upset about your preferences, that’s their problem
If they get upset because you expressed those preferences in a nasty way, that’s a you problem "
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...I don’t particularly like tattoos, moreso on women but it’s not ok to say you’ve disfigured your body with those tattoos or they look awful.
Not in my world it isn’t anyway.
What is nasty and judgemental about stating the obvious?
If you look back to what I was referring to, it was the person who said men had told her she had disfigured her body. I didn’t say people
Can’t have personal opinions. I like people
Who speak up and don’t arse lick like a lot of the men do on here. To me that’s plain rude and unnecessary.
Jullian Assange was accused of grape to kill his character. When that didn't turn people away from the facts he was stating, they found excuses to take away his freedom in order to silence him. But the one think they couldn't do is to make an actual argument against the facts he dared stating.
You can not like something without being nasty though
I don’t like tattoos or lip filler or fakeness either
See? I just said I didn’t like it. I gave my preference without being nasty about it. It’s that easy
If people get upset about your preferences, that’s their problem
If they get upset because you expressed those preferences in a nasty way, that’s a you problem "
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...I don’t particularly like tattoos, moreso on women but it’s not ok to say you’ve disfigured your body with those tattoos or they look awful.
Not in my world it isn’t anyway.
What is nasty and judgemental about stating the obvious?
If you look back to what I was referring to, it was the person who said men had told her she had disfigured her body. I didn’t say people
Can’t have personal opinions. I like people
Who speak up and don’t arse lick like a lot of the men do on here. To me that’s plain rude and unnecessary.
Jullian Assange was accused of grape to kill his character. When that didn't turn people away from the facts he was stating, they found excuses to take away his freedom in order to silence him. But the one think they couldn't do is to make an actual argument against the facts he dared stating.
You can not like something without being nasty though
I don’t like tattoos or lip filler or fakeness either
See? I just said I didn’t like it. I gave my preference without being nasty about it. It’s that easy
If people get upset about your preferences, that’s their problem
If they get upset because you expressed those preferences in a nasty way, that’s a you problem omg you've upset me I'm crying over here....... Wheres my bucket "
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...I don’t particularly like tattoos, moreso on women but it’s not ok to say you’ve disfigured your body with those tattoos or they look awful.
Not in my world it isn’t anyway.
What is nasty and judgemental about stating the obvious?
If you look back to what I was referring to, it was the person who said men had told her she had disfigured her body. I didn’t say people
Can’t have personal opinions. I like people
Who speak up and don’t arse lick like a lot of the men do on here. To me that’s plain rude and unnecessary.
Jullian Assange was accused of grape to kill his character. When that didn't turn people away from the facts he was stating, they found excuses to take away his freedom in order to silence him. But the one think they couldn't do is to make an actual argument against the facts he dared stating.
You can not like something without being nasty though
I don’t like tattoos or lip filler or fakeness either
See? I just said I didn’t like it. I gave my preference without being nasty about it. It’s that easy
If people get upset about your preferences, that’s their problem
If they get upset because you expressed those preferences in a nasty way, that’s a you problem omg you've upset me I'm crying over here....... Wheres my bucket
I’ve got the weirdest boner "
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Your judgement of me is irrelevant and insignificant. Either what I said was true or not. Is the only thing that matters.
So, let’s get into this because this is actually interesting.
You say that these women are “disfiguring” their body.
A common definition of disfigure means to spoil something.
If something is spoilt or not is a personal opinion, therefore if something is disfigured or not is a personal opinion.
Therefore it is impossible to speak the “truth” on this subject, because if something is disfigured or not is completely down to person opinion.
Your opinion can be your own personal truth, but it cannot be objectively true or false."
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...I don’t particularly like tattoos, moreso on women but it’s not ok to say you’ve disfigured your body with those tattoos or they look awful.
Not in my world it isn’t anyway.
What is nasty and judgemental about stating the obvious?
If you look back to what I was referring to, it was the person who said men had told her she had disfigured her body. I didn’t say people
Can’t have personal opinions. I like people
Who speak up and don’t arse lick like a lot of the men do on here. To me that’s plain rude and unnecessary.
Jullian Assange was accused of grape to kill his character. When that didn't turn people away from the facts he was stating, they found excuses to take away his freedom in order to silence him. But the one think they couldn't do is to make an actual argument against the facts he dared stating.
You can not like something without being nasty though
I don’t like tattoos or lip filler or fakeness either
See? I just said I didn’t like it. I gave my preference without being nasty about it. It’s that easy
If people get upset about your preferences, that’s their problem
If they get upset because you expressed those preferences in a nasty way, that’s a you problem "
This is exactly why society has gone down the hill. Because men have become too soft, too nice and too feminine. Being ashamed of telling the harsh truths. |
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...I don’t particularly like tattoos, moreso on women but it’s not ok to say you’ve disfigured your body with those tattoos or they look awful.
Not in my world it isn’t anyway.
What is nasty and judgemental about stating the obvious?
If you look back to what I was referring to, it was the person who said men had told her she had disfigured her body. I didn’t say people
Can’t have personal opinions. I like people
Who speak up and don’t arse lick like a lot of the men do on here. To me that’s plain rude and unnecessary.
Jullian Assange was accused of grape to kill his character. When that didn't turn people away from the facts he was stating, they found excuses to take away his freedom in order to silence him. But the one think they couldn't do is to make an actual argument against the facts he dared stating.
You can not like something without being nasty though
I don’t like tattoos or lip filler or fakeness either
See? I just said I didn’t like it. I gave my preference without being nasty about it. It’s that easy
If people get upset about your preferences, that’s their problem
If they get upset because you expressed those preferences in a nasty way, that’s a you problem
This is exactly why society has gone down the hill. Because men have become too soft, too nice and too feminine. Being ashamed of telling the harsh truths. "
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...I don’t particularly like tattoos, moreso on women but it’s not ok to say you’ve disfigured your body with those tattoos or they look awful.
Not in my world it isn’t anyway.
What is nasty and judgemental about stating the obvious?
If you look back to what I was referring to, it was the person who said men had told her she had disfigured her body. I didn’t say people
Can’t have personal opinions. I like people
Who speak up and don’t arse lick like a lot of the men do on here. To me that’s plain rude and unnecessary.
Jullian Assange was accused of grape to kill his character. When that didn't turn people away from the facts he was stating, they found excuses to take away his freedom in order to silence him. But the one think they couldn't do is to make an actual argument against the facts he dared stating.
You can not like something without being nasty though
I don’t like tattoos or lip filler or fakeness either
See? I just said I didn’t like it. I gave my preference without being nasty about it. It’s that easy
If people get upset about your preferences, that’s their problem
If they get upset because you expressed those preferences in a nasty way, that’s a you problem
This is exactly why society has gone down the hill. Because men have become too soft, too nice and too feminine. Being ashamed of telling the harsh truths. "
But I told the truth?
I just didn’t needlessly be rude to a stranger |
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Your judgement of me is irrelevant and insignificant. Either what I said was true or not. Is the only thing that matters.
So, let’s get into this because this is actually interesting.
You say that these women are “disfiguring” their body.
A common definition of disfigure means to spoil something.
If something is spoilt or not is a personal opinion, therefore if something is disfigured or not is a personal opinion.
Therefore it is impossible to speak the “truth” on this subject, because if something is disfigured or not is completely down to person opinion.
Your opinion can be your own personal truth, but it cannot be objectively true or false.
And actually the idea of a body being spoilt is even more interesting. Because spoilt means to reduce the value of something.
Can you reduce the value of a human? No, I don’t think so. Humans all have intrinsic value that can’t be taken away by someone’s personal opinion."
What's your honest opinion about what Michael Jakson did with his body? Did he make himself look more beautiful by becoming a fake white or did he just display his self rejection to the world? |
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Your judgement of me is irrelevant and insignificant. Either what I said was true or not. Is the only thing that matters.
So, let’s get into this because this is actually interesting.
You say that these women are “disfiguring” their body.
A common definition of disfigure means to spoil something.
If something is spoilt or not is a personal opinion, therefore if something is disfigured or not is a personal opinion.
Therefore it is impossible to speak the “truth” on this subject, because if something is disfigured or not is completely down to person opinion.
Your opinion can be your own personal truth, but it cannot be objectively true or false.
And actually the idea of a body being spoilt is even more interesting. Because spoilt means to reduce the value of something.
Can you reduce the value of a human? No, I don’t think so. Humans all have intrinsic value that can’t be taken away by someone’s personal opinion.
What's your honest opinion about what Michael Jakson did with his body? Did he make himself look more beautiful by becoming a fake white or did he just display his self rejection to the world? "
I don’t have any problems with what michael Jackson did to his body. Any speculations on his mental health or psychological issues would be wildly inappropriate for me to make. |
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Your judgement of me is irrelevant and insignificant. Either what I said was true or not. Is the only thing that matters.
So, let’s get into this because this is actually interesting.
You say that these women are “disfiguring” their body.
A common definition of disfigure means to spoil something.
If something is spoilt or not is a personal opinion, therefore if something is disfigured or not is a personal opinion.
Therefore it is impossible to speak the “truth” on this subject, because if something is disfigured or not is completely down to person opinion.
Your opinion can be your own personal truth, but it cannot be objectively true or false.i am sorry I'm trying to read your point but your beautiful bum keeps pulling me away "
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"Each to their own,
It's not for me, but if they like it and it makes them feel good it doesn't bother me.
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2nd this It's not for me, However if it makes them feel good then it Makes me smile knowing someone is happy live and let live is my way of life  |
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Your judgement of me is irrelevant and insignificant. Either what I said was true or not. Is the only thing that matters.
So, let’s get into this because this is actually interesting.
You say that these women are “disfiguring” their body.
A common definition of disfigure means to spoil something.
If something is spoilt or not is a personal opinion, therefore if something is disfigured or not is a personal opinion.
Therefore it is impossible to speak the “truth” on this subject, because if something is disfigured or not is completely down to person opinion.
Your opinion can be your own personal truth, but it cannot be objectively true or false.i am sorry I'm trying to read your point but your beautiful bum keeps pulling me away
Ffs. It’s a really good point tho! "
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I would be too afraid that fillers etc would go wrong, to use them.
Done well, I think it can enhance beautifully.
The line between what I consider a natural-look, and an over- inflated-look, is a fine one, and sadly some people don't know when to stop, or get addicted, or have a skewed idea of beauty, in my opinion.
I think its a shame because a lot of naturally beautiful women seem to feel the need to go too far in their quest for beauty, and it just looks fake. |
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To be honest, this thread is more about latent misogyny than anything else.
People (guys) stating what they think about women’s bodies and what the guys think the women can do with them. It’s none of anyone’s business, other than the woman’s.
Having an opinion or making unwelcome comments about someone else’s body, especially when they’re value based comments is objectifying and sexualising them. You don’t get to comment or judge what anyone else is doing with their body |
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"I would be too afraid that fillers etc would go wrong, to use them.
Done well, I think it can enhance beautifully.
The line between what I consider a natural-look, and an over- inflated-look, is a fine one, and sadly some people don't know when to stop, or get addicted, or have a skewed idea of beauty, in my opinion.
I think its a shame because a lot of naturally beautiful women seem to feel the need to go too far in their quest for beauty, and it just looks fake."
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"I’d have the lashes if they didn’t irritate me, I love them, and saves faffing with mascara. Not the lips though. I like my lips as they are.
I bought magnetic false lashes. They do work but I just can't get them right and ended up looking very odd (er) so I gave up
Do you need metal implants so the magnetic lashes stick? "
No you just use magnetic eyeliner
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"I would be too afraid that fillers etc would go wrong, to use them.
Done well, I think it can enhance beautifully.
The line between what I consider a natural-look, and an over- inflated-look, is a fine one, and sadly some people don't know when to stop, or get addicted, or have a skewed idea of beauty, in my opinion.
I think its a shame because a lot of naturally beautiful women seem to feel the need to go too far in their quest for beauty, and it just looks fake."
Fake boobs for example are just that. It doesn't matter how they look. A plastic bag is not sexy |
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"I would be too afraid that fillers etc would go wrong, to use them.
Done well, I think it can enhance beautifully.
The line between what I consider a natural-look, and an over- inflated-look, is a fine one, and sadly some people don't know when to stop, or get addicted, or have a skewed idea of beauty, in my opinion.
I think its a shame because a lot of naturally beautiful women seem to feel the need to go too far in their quest for beauty, and it just looks fake.
Fake boobs for example are just that. It doesn't matter how they look. A plastic bag is not sexy "
Of course, the irony is that you can't even tell that most breasts have been enhanced. They certainly don't feel like a 'plastic bag.'
You have roughly two options with breast implants. You get the ones that look obviously like they've been implanted, and you get the ones where you just can't tell - like the type they usually use for things like breast reconstruction after cancer.
Personally I'd get the ones that look fake. If I'm spending all that money, I want people to know I've spent it. |
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"I would be too afraid that fillers etc would go wrong, to use them.
Done well, I think it can enhance beautifully.
The line between what I consider a natural-look, and an over- inflated-look, is a fine one, and sadly some people don't know when to stop, or get addicted, or have a skewed idea of beauty, in my opinion.
I think its a shame because a lot of naturally beautiful women seem to feel the need to go too far in their quest for beauty, and it just looks fake.
Fake boobs for example are just that. It doesn't matter how they look. A plastic bag is not sexy
Of course, the irony is that you can't even tell that most breasts have been enhanced. They certainly don't feel like a 'plastic bag.'
You have roughly two options with breast implants. You get the ones that look obviously like they've been implanted, and you get the ones where you just can't tell - like the type they usually use for things like breast reconstruction after cancer.
Personally I'd get the ones that look fake. If I'm spending all that money, I want people to know I've spent it."
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"I would be too afraid that fillers etc would go wrong, to use them.
Done well, I think it can enhance beautifully.
The line between what I consider a natural-look, and an over- inflated-look, is a fine one, and sadly some people don't know when to stop, or get addicted, or have a skewed idea of beauty, in my opinion.
I think its a shame because a lot of naturally beautiful women seem to feel the need to go too far in their quest for beauty, and it just looks fake.
Fake boobs for example are just that. It doesn't matter how they look. A plastic bag is not sexy
Of course, the irony is that you can't even tell that most breasts have been enhanced. They certainly don't feel like a 'plastic bag.'
You have roughly two options with breast implants. You get the ones that look obviously like they've been implanted, and you get the ones where you just can't tell - like the type they usually use for things like breast reconstruction after cancer.
Personally I'd get the ones that look fake. If I'm spending all that money, I want people to know I've spent it."
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Of course, the irony is that you can't even tell that most breasts have been enhanced. They certainly don't feel like a 'plastic bag.'
You have roughly two options with breast implants. You get the ones that look obviously like they've been implanted, and you get the ones where you just can't tell - like the type they usually use for things like breast reconstruction after cancer.
Personally I'd get the ones that look fake. If I'm spending all that money, I want people to know I've spent it.
Haha"
So will you be heading over to the local cancer ward shortly to tell all the women with breast cancer that their tits will shortly feel like disfigured plastic bags? |
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Of course, the irony is that you can't even tell that most breasts have been enhanced. They certainly don't feel like a 'plastic bag.'
You have roughly two options with breast implants. You get the ones that look obviously like they've been implanted, and you get the ones where you just can't tell - like the type they usually use for things like breast reconstruction after cancer.
Personally I'd get the ones that look fake. If I'm spending all that money, I want people to know I've spent it.
Haha
So will you be heading over to the local cancer ward shortly to tell all the women with breast cancer that their tits will shortly feel like disfigured plastic bags?"
Of course not? Do you think I am Natanyahoo or something?
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"Now as someone who has a great face for radio I wouldn't normally comment on others... But what's the dealio now with so many young women having the suction lips and fucking huge glue on eye lashes.? Is it a fashion thing?
Like others have said on this thread, I like the natural look. I would never begrudge any woman applying make up to enhance her features as she sees fit. Personally I like none/next to no makeup. But I’m particularly not keen on more permanent enhancements (ie things that don’t wipe off at the end of the day). I believe there are a great many women out there who don’t appreciate how naturally pretty they are.
Of course everyone should do what makes them happy, but I wonder if make up is now seen as the norm and none makes a woman feel plain/naked?
I spend a lot of time looking for love on normal dating apps and I avoid the lip-fillered duck pouters. Sorry if that comes across as insensitive, it’s not meant to be. I prefer a natural smile.
But that’s just me and I’m hardly vogue cover material "
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Done well, I think it can enhance beautifully.
The line between what I consider a natural-look, and an over- inflated-look, is a fine one, and sadly some people don't know when to stop, or get addicted, or have a skewed idea of beauty, in my opinion.
I think its a shame because a lot of naturally beautiful women seem to feel the need to go too far in their quest for beauty, and it just looks fake.
Fake boobs for example are just that. It doesn't matter how they look. A plastic bag is not sexy "
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Yes it's a trend. Will be replaced by something else eventually. On that note apparently thin browse are coming back! Heh.. Some people need complying with trends to feel attractive. It's not a new thing.
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Done well, I think it can enhance beautifully.
The line between what I consider a natural-look, and an over- inflated-look, is a fine one, and sadly some people don't know when to stop, or get addicted, or have a skewed idea of beauty, in my opinion.
I think its a shame because a lot of naturally beautiful women seem to feel the need to go too far in their quest for beauty, and it just looks fake.
Fake boobs for example are just that. It doesn't matter how they look. A plastic bag is not sexy
My real boobs look like deflating balloons resting on my ribs. "
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