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By *bi HaiveMan 43 weeks ago
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"So do you lot wanna see lots of veris obviously showing you’re the real deal or do a lot of veris put you off ?"
I've never decided who I'd like to engage with based on the number of veris.
The content however....... |
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By *bi HaiveMan 43 weeks ago
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The issue with veris is that you'll never please everyone.
Too many and you'll put some off. Too few and they'll think you're not serious. None showing at all and they'll think you're a fantasist. Have some from a certain demographic and they'll often make incorrect assumptions (as often happens with me, due to loads from men from when this was a couples profile and two from TV/TS from group socials), as if you've shagged everyone on your list. Just have social ones displayed and they think nobody actually wants to sleep with you. Have one from someone they dislike and you're blacklisted. Have one from someone they want to meet and they'll message, not because they're interested in you but because they want an intro. Have one from someone outside of your age preferences and they assume you'll meet them too.
It's hilarious. Just make your own decisions as to what you show and what you don't. Trying to please everyone is pointless. |
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"The issue with veris is that you'll never please everyone.
Too many and you'll put some off. Too few and they'll think you're not serious. None showing at all and they'll think you're a fantasist. Have some from a certain demographic and they'll often make incorrect assumptions (as often happens with me, due to loads from men from when this was a couples profile and two from TV/TS from group socials), as if you've shagged everyone on your list. Just have social ones displayed and they think nobody actually wants to sleep with you. Have one from someone they dislike and you're blacklisted. Have one from someone they want to meet and they'll message, not because they're interested in you but because they want an intro. Have one from someone outside of your age preferences and they assume you'll meet them too.
It's hilarious. Just make your own decisions as to what you show and what you don't. Trying to please everyone is pointless. "
This is true. I’ve got quite a few. If someone thinks I’m fake because I don’t show them I don’t really care. I’ve met a few people who had no veris and never had any issues. |
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"The issue with veris is that you'll never please everyone.
Too many and you'll put some off. Too few and they'll think you're not serious. None showing at all and they'll think you're a fantasist. Have some from a certain demographic and they'll often make incorrect assumptions (as often happens with me, due to loads from men from when this was a couples profile and two from TV/TS from group socials), as if you've shagged everyone on your list. Just have social ones displayed and they think nobody actually wants to sleep with you. Have one from someone they dislike and you're blacklisted. Have one from someone they want to meet and they'll message, not because they're interested in you but because they want an intro. Have one from someone outside of your age preferences and they assume you'll meet them too.
It's hilarious. Just make your own decisions as to what you show and what you don't. Trying to please everyone is pointless. "
1000000000000% this!
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I love reading other peoples because I’m nosy and many are entertaining. But they mostly mean not very much at all. I have 42 verifications and only knobbed one of them. I’m clearly an absolute catfish. Or am I… |
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"The issue with veris is that you'll never please everyone.
Too many and you'll put some off. Too few and they'll think you're not serious. None showing at all and they'll think you're a fantasist. Have some from a certain demographic and they'll often make incorrect assumptions (as often happens with me, due to loads from men from when this was a couples profile and two from TV/TS from group socials), as if you've shagged everyone on your list. Just have social ones displayed and they think nobody actually wants to sleep with you. Have one from someone they dislike and you're blacklisted. Have one from someone they want to meet and they'll message, not because they're interested in you but because they want an intro. Have one from someone outside of your age preferences and they assume you'll meet them too.
It's hilarious. Just make your own decisions as to what you show and what you don't. Trying to please everyone is pointless. "
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The quantity doesn’t bother us, unless there are zero after a period of time as a member.
We use it to get an idea of the couple and what they may be like. It gives some insight whether we will be compatible and an initial filter. Any mention of things we don’t like, we block and move on.
We hope people use ours as a small insight to us. |
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"I'm not a fan of veries and when on cam anyone can verify you 
I’m not going to verify you on camera, Fred.
People are just going to have to take us on… faith *rimshot*"
lol no way I'm doing a rimshot |
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"Don't care how many they have but the content of some puts me right off
Some things don't need to be said.
Exactly. Think some see it as pornadvisor 
Now there's an idea......
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Register that domain before I do and I’ll sue…
Maybe |
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"I'm not a fan of veries and when on cam anyone can verify you
I’m not going to verify you on camera, Fred.
People are just going to have to take us on… faith *rimshot*lol no way I'm doing a rimshot "
Not “rimjob” Fred.
The drums thing.
I would never ask you to do a rimjob. |
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"I'm not a fan of veries and when on cam anyone can verify you
I’m not going to verify you on camera, Fred.
People are just going to have to take us on… faith *rimshot*lol no way I'm doing a rimshot
Not “rimjob” Fred.
The drums thing.
I would never ask you to do a rimjob."
lol oh god I'm picturing....... I'm not saying what I'm picturing  |
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"I'm not a fan of veries and when on cam anyone can verify you
I’m not going to verify you on camera, Fred.
People are just going to have to take us on… faith *rimshot*lol no way I'm doing a rimshot
Not “rimjob” Fred.
The drums thing.
I would never ask you to do a rimjob.lol oh god I'm picturing....... I'm not saying what I'm picturing "
I don’t care Fred, we’re not putting the sticks there. |
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"I'm not a fan of veries and when on cam anyone can verify you
I’m not going to verify you on camera, Fred.
People are just going to have to take us on… faith *rimshot*lol no way I'm doing a rimshot
Not “rimjob” Fred.
The drums thing.
I would never ask you to do a rimjob.lol oh god I'm picturing....... I'm not saying what I'm picturing
I don’t care Fred, we’re not putting the sticks there. "
sticks we having a bonfire omg |
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"The issue with veris is that you'll never please everyone.
Too many and you'll put some off. Too few and they'll think you're not serious. None showing at all and they'll think you're a fantasist. Have some from a certain demographic and they'll often make incorrect assumptions (as often happens with me, due to loads from men from when this was a couples profile and two from TV/TS from group socials), as if you've shagged everyone on your list. Just have social ones displayed and they think nobody actually wants to sleep with you. Have one from someone they dislike and you're blacklisted. Have one from someone they want to meet and they'll message, not because they're interested in you but because they want an intro. Have one from someone outside of your age preferences and they assume you'll meet them too.
It's hilarious. Just make your own decisions as to what you show and what you don't. Trying to please everyone is pointless. "
Exactly.
Which is why it makes me laugh when people say that too many veris puts them off…
I personally like receiving them and giving them. Mine aren’t overly graphic but there’s a few explicit ones. I don’t mind. People can make their mind up from looking at my profile as a whole and by chatting to me. At the end of the day the decision of wanting to meet or not will always lie with me… |
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If someone isn't here to meet their life partner then does it matter so much what their Verification status might be. A lot of folks are either committed singletons, committed partnership or not looking yet for a relationship which leaves only the " here for mutual fun" category.
I have zero Veri's here but if I took into account encounters on dating sites or other adult orientated sites then that would be many verifications more. You just can't go on Fabs as a true reflection of peoples experiences |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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"Don't care how many they have but the content of some puts me right off
Some things don't need to be said. "
It is purely to say who they are not a long winded description of a fuck |
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I like to see some as a support for my own sense of a person - I remember one of the first people I met, there were lots of "nice guy, respectful" comments which I took to supplement my own sense that he probably wasn't an axe murderer.
I don't judge people who've been verified on the written choices of those who do the verifying, though. If person A writes a bunch of stuff that makes me cringe about person B I'm thinking about meeting, it's person A making me cringe, not person B.
In the past I have published all of my verifications - I also like to out drama mongers so I can avoid them. Verifications tend to make people go slightly crazy... and in a way I'd like to identify and avoid. |
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"Don't care how many they have but the content of some puts me right off
Some things don't need to be said. "
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I didn't realise there was stepping stones / badges until over on fabguys I was scrolling through the "Local updates" which - if you have never bothered to - denotes things like X has joined........Y became a silver supporter.......... Z has published a new photo
And there caught my eye about a profile
....... has been verified 50 times
Now I am wondering how high the stepping stones go. |
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"Don't care how many they have but the content of some puts me right off
Some things don't need to be said.
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I didn't realise there was stepping stones / badges until over on fabguys I was scrolling through the "Local updates" which - if you have never bothered to - denotes things like X has joined........Y became a silver supporter.......... Z has published a new photo
And there caught my eye about a profile
....... has been verified 50 times
Now I am wondering how high the stepping stones go. "
I've seen 1000 |
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I'm quite insouciant about verifications on the whole. I read them, I receive them and I like to write them in garrulous prose. There will never be the perfect or correct answer on how others view verifications. The devil is in the detail and the content, and how well they are received or perceived by others. |
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"Don't care how many they have but the content of some puts me right off
Some things don't need to be said.
It is purely to say who they are not a long winded description of a fuck "
Especially not every detail.  |
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"Don't care how many they have but the content of some puts me right off
Some things don't need to be said.
It is purely to say who they are not a long winded description of a fuck
Especially not every detail. "
Some people only write enough to facilitate part of a wank… so frustrating, I like to finish every time I read one *sobs* |
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"The ones you want to see are the ones never displayed! "
The ones I'd want to see are the ones after people go through falling out.
One because drama is entertaining, but two because it's important (for safety and all sorts) to find out what people are like when they're not on their best behaviour.
(Obviously this is and should remain a hypothetical situation, it'd be a shit show if it was enacted) |
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"Don't care how many they have but the content of some puts me right off
Some things don't need to be said.
It is purely to say who they are not a long winded description of a fuck
Especially not every detail.
Some people only write enough to facilitate part of a wank… so frustrating, I like to finish every time I read one *sobs*"
Now there's an idea. Taking the edging veris, changing a few details, and turning them into a wank length piece in the stories and fantasies section |
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"The ones you want to see are the ones never displayed!
The ones I'd want to see are the ones after people go through falling out.
One because drama is entertaining, but two because it's important (for safety and all sorts) to find out what people are like when they're not on their best behaviour.
(Obviously this is and should remain a hypothetical situation, it'd be a shit show if it was enacted)"
Sometimes that plays out in the forums too. |
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If they have been on over 12 months and not had any form of verification, probably going to give them a miss but if they are attending a party, weekend away or a swingers holiday all booked, who knows.
Sadly, the percentage of timewasters, dreamers and fantasists is increasing by the day but still a great site for socials, parties and holidays.
121 sometimes a different story. |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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"So do you lot wanna see lots of veris obviously showing you’re the real deal or do a lot of veris put you off ?"
Loads of verifications suggest they might be riddled with disease (especially if they say they do bareback or “love cum”). |
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"The ones you want to see are the ones never displayed!
The ones I'd want to see are the ones after people go through falling out.
One because drama is entertaining, but two because it's important (for safety and all sorts) to find out what people are like when they're not on their best behaviour.
(Obviously this is and should remain a hypothetical situation, it'd be a shit show if it was enacted)
Sometimes that plays out in the forums too."
Yes. Also shit show. |
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"Don't care how many they have but the content of some puts me right off
Some things don't need to be said.
It is purely to say who they are not a long winded description of a fuck
Especially not every detail.
Some people only write enough to facilitate part of a wank… so frustrating, I like to finish every time I read one *sobs*
Now there's an idea. Taking the edging veris, changing a few details, and turning them into a wank length piece in the stories and fantasies section"
If I’m doing that much work, I want to get paid by the word |
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"The ones you want to see are the ones never displayed!
The ones I'd want to see are the ones after people go through falling out.
One because drama is entertaining, but two because it's important (for safety and all sorts) to find out what people are like when they're not on their best behaviour.
(Obviously this is and should remain a hypothetical situation, it'd be a shit show if it was enacted)
Sometimes that plays out in the forums too.
Yes. Also shit show."
Punch and Judy |
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"The ones you want to see are the ones never displayed!
The ones I'd want to see are the ones after people go through falling out.
One because drama is entertaining, but two because it's important (for safety and all sorts) to find out what people are like when they're not on their best behaviour.
(Obviously this is and should remain a hypothetical situation, it'd be a shit show if it was enacted)
Sometimes that plays out in the forums too.
Yes. Also shit show.
Punch and Judy "
Oh yeah!! i also know a few people who got caught in the cross hairs of 'invisible' relationships |
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I've never met anyone based on how many verifications they had or what was written in any of them either.
I have personal experience of some that are complete thundercunts but are continuously verified as being lovely and decent so I never take anyone's else's words for it.
I only meet people I'm compatible with and that is usually those on a similar journey so someone with multiple play meets over a short period of time is here for different reasons and therefore we wouldn't be on the same page.
I've no problem chatting to someone with lots of verifications if we had something else in common and no issue about meeting them socially but it wouldn't go beyond that.
That's not a judgement on them either.
It's more about the fact that I'm just not attracted to people with much more experience than me. |
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It doesn't really bother me, we have a lot & only two are actual sexual meets, we get a lot from organised socials, people can see we are real, are as we look like in our pics and turn up, that's all I'm fussed about.
Overly graphic sexual ones do put me off though, sexual trip advisor isn't my thing.
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By *sWyldWoman 43 weeks ago
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I was going to say I don't give them much thought but that's wrong.
I don't really focus on what's said, more often it's who is saying it. If they are meeting gorgeous model type women, I'd be put off initially as my own insecurity would convince me they would be disappointed by me.
That being said, I liked the ones I had, they made me smile and so when I left them for others, I hoped it would do the same for them.
I think it's a very personal thing so you should only do what makes you happy |
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I do find it a bit of a turn off when people are very explicit in their veris.
What I want to know about a man is:
1. Is he who he says he is?
2. Does he have more personality than a pot noodle?
I don’t need to know that he has a nice penis, that he’s great at oral, and that he made you squirt. Nor do I need to be told not to pass him up or that I have to treat him with respect. Those kinds of comments come across as a bit possessive. |
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"So do you lot wanna see lots of veris obviously showing you’re the real deal or do a lot of veris put you off ?
Loads of verifications suggest they might be riddled with disease (especially if they say they do bareback or “love cum”). "
I love cum and have over 500 on my singles profile... but never do bare sex, condoms are a must( although not for oral)... just bukkake sessions...
Oh and never caught anything. Most greedy girls I know are extremely proactive about their sexual health.
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Doesn't bother us in the slightest if they have lots of veris.
They could be over a long period of time, attend lots of events/ parties etc.
It's a swinging site, so who are we to judge someone's sex life.
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"So do you lot wanna see lots of veris obviously showing you’re the real deal or do a lot of veris put you off ?
Loads of verifications suggest they might be riddled with disease (especially if they say they do bareback or “love cum”).
I love cum and have over 500 on my singles profile... but never do bare sex, condoms are a must( although not for oral)... just bukkake sessions...
Oh and never caught anything. Most greedy girls I know are extremely proactive about their sexual health.
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You must be very careful then. The more often the exposure to a gentleman’s juices then the higher the risks.
I know beggers (single men) can’t be choosers but I’d rather not run the risk of going with someone who’s had the jizz of 500 men.
No matter how careful or disease free they say they are. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 43 weeks ago
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"So do you lot wanna see lots of veris obviously showing you’re the real deal or do a lot of veris put you off ?
Loads of verifications suggest they might be riddled with disease (especially if they say they do bareback or “love cum”).
I love cum and have over 500 on my singles profile... but never do bare sex, condoms are a must( although not for oral)... just bukkake sessions...
Oh and never caught anything. Most greedy girls I know are extremely proactive about their sexual health.
You must be very careful then. The more often the exposure to a gentleman’s juices then the higher the risks.
I know beggers (single men) can’t be choosers but I’d rather not run the risk of going with someone who’s had the jizz of 500 men.
No matter how careful or disease free they say they are."
You really think someone's entire back catalogue of sexual activity will be shown in their veris? That they don't have sex outside of Fab?
Bless...... |
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"So do you lot wanna see lots of veris obviously showing you’re the real deal or do a lot of veris put you off ?
Loads of verifications suggest they might be riddled with disease (especially if they say they do bareback or “love cum”).
I love cum and have over 500 on my singles profile... but never do bare sex, condoms are a must( although not for oral)... just bukkake sessions...
Oh and never caught anything. Most greedy girls I know are extremely proactive about their sexual health.
You must be very careful then. The more often the exposure to a gentleman’s juices then the higher the risks.
I know beggers (single men) can’t be choosers but I’d rather not run the risk of going with someone who’s had the jizz of 500 men.
No matter how careful or disease free they say they are."
But the rub is that the majority of people don't show or even get sexual veris... So you'd have no idea who they've met or who their fuck has met....... |
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"So do you lot wanna see lots of veris obviously showing you’re the real deal or do a lot of veris put you off ?
Loads of verifications suggest they might be riddled with disease (especially if they say they do bareback or “love cum”).
I love cum and have over 500 on my singles profile... but never do bare sex, condoms are a must( although not for oral)... just bukkake sessions...
Oh and never caught anything. Most greedy girls I know are extremely proactive about their sexual health.
You must be very careful then. The more often the exposure to a gentleman’s juices then the higher the risks.
I know beggers (single men) can’t be choosers but I’d rather not run the risk of going with someone who’s had the jizz of 500 men.
No matter how careful or disease free they say they are.
You really think someone's entire back catalogue of sexual activity will be shown in their veris? That they don't have sex outside of Fab?
Bless...... "
I think a better test is your general sense of their responsibility as a person, rather than a body count (which probably isn't accurate given the limitations of the verification system - can be hidden, sexual versus social, etc) |
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The only veris that would put us off is overly graphic ones.
Flags might be raised for other things which suggests they don’t keep account up to date, or not meeting for over a year or anomalies that maybe don’t add up.
We don’t display all our veri’s but a lot of them we do - if the number of them or people we’ve met make you judge us then you wouldn’t be the type of person we’d be looking for anyway.
I enjoy reading others veri’s as it gives me a flavour of someone and also what they write in a veri is important to, to further confirm compatibility.
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"So do you lot wanna see lots of veris obviously showing you’re the real deal or do a lot of veris put you off ?
Loads of verifications suggest they might be riddled with disease (especially if they say they do bareback or “love cum”).
I love cum and have over 500 on my singles profile... but never do bare sex, condoms are a must( although not for oral)... just bukkake sessions...
Oh and never caught anything. Most greedy girls I know are extremely proactive about their sexual health.
You must be very careful then. The more often the exposure to a gentleman’s juices then the higher the risks.
I know beggers (single men) can’t be choosers but I’d rather not run the risk of going with someone who’s had the jizz of 500 men.
No matter how careful or disease free they say they are."
There is a lot of discussion on here about degrees of success and what women find attractive in men.
Most women will find a "chooser" much more attractive than a "beggar" so it therefore stands to reason that men who are choosey and comfortable saying no to women they aren't attracted to, will always be more successful and respected than those who are grateful for the attention and happy to take any opportunity. |
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"Hi all
We’re looking for someone to verify us, as we are struggling to to get anyone to meet us unless we’re verified first.
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Get in the chatrooms! Both on cam and you can get a verification that way |
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"So do you lot wanna see lots of veris obviously showing you’re the real deal or do a lot of veris put you off ?
Loads of verifications suggest they might be riddled with disease (especially if they say they do bareback or “love cum”).
I love cum and have over 500 on my singles profile... but never do bare sex, condoms are a must( although not for oral)... just bukkake sessions...
Oh and never caught anything. Most greedy girls I know are extremely proactive about their sexual health.
You must be very careful then. The more often the exposure to a gentleman’s juices then the higher the risks.
I know beggers (single men) can’t be choosers but I’d rather not run the risk of going with someone who’s had the jizz of 500 men.
No matter how careful or disease free they say they are.
But the rub is that the majority of people don't show or even get sexual veris... So you'd have no idea who they've met or who their fuck has met....... "
That is true and you’ve always got to make a judgement and decide for yourself.
However, if someone on Fab says they’ve had 500 blokes through her then that’s a red flag. |
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By *archelCouple 43 weeks ago
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It's not the amount, it's the content of them. If you're a regular club visitor your veris may only be for having socials, which is exactly that in our case barring a couple which are from actually playing.
So no for us, amount isn't the issue...it's content. |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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However, if someone on Fab says they’ve had 500 blokes through her then that’s a red flag.
If you’re my age that’s less than two men a month.
Doesn’t seem excessive really."
If it was a man it would be bragging rights |
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By *bi HaiveMan 43 weeks ago
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However, if someone on Fab says they’ve had 500 blokes through her then that’s a red flag.
If you’re my age that’s less than two men a month.
Doesn’t seem excessive really."
And I suspect most men would consider any guy who slept with two women a month to be living a life of luxury....  |
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However, if someone on Fab says they’ve had 500 blokes through her then that’s a red flag.
If you’re my age that’s less than two men a month.
Doesn’t seem excessive really.
And I suspect most men would consider any guy who slept with two women a month to be living a life of luxury.... "
True. But us women don’t get to have that luxury
Well at least we don’t according to some on this thread… which has been an awesome filter by the way |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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However, if someone on Fab says they’ve had 500 blokes through her then that’s a red flag.
If you’re my age that’s less than two men a month.
Doesn’t seem excessive really.
And I suspect most men would consider any guy who slept with two women a month to be living a life of luxury....
True. But us women don’t get to have that luxury
Well at least we don’t according to some on this thread… which has been an awesome filter by the way "
I forget that people filter that way too
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I like veris, the more the merrier! It shows the bloke is probably easy going, a proper swinger who isn't uptight and judgemental like some on here! Any man on here who gives so much as a wiff of insecurity, jealousy or judgement on women who have had a few partners can fuck right off in my opinion! |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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I use veris to figure out if we are likely to be a match. Someone who has only veris from couples & is looking for fun - not a match.
And I like the stories they tell! |
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"So do you lot wanna see lots of veris obviously showing you’re the real deal or do a lot of veris put you off ?
Loads of verifications suggest they might be riddled with disease (especially if they say they do bareback or “love cum”).
I love cum and have over 500 on my singles profile... but never do bare sex, condoms are a must( although not for oral)... just bukkake sessions...
Oh and never caught anything. Most greedy girls I know are extremely proactive about their sexual health.
You must be very careful then. The more often the exposure to a gentleman’s juices then the higher the risks.
I know beggers (single men) can’t be choosers but I’d rather not run the risk of going with someone who’s had the jizz of 500 men.
No matter how careful or disease free they say they are."
it would be way more than 500 guys..probably more in the 3 to 4k mark... but the thing ia. I'm checked and actually women are more at risk from.guys than guys from girls. But we are not going to meet as I only meet guys at greedy girl events lol
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Verifications are a funny thing.
Obviously their primary purpose is to verify to others that individual/couple is genuine ie they look like their pictures and conduct themselves in a safe, respectful manner. It’s a system designed to reassure other members they can be confident when getting involved.
But here’s the thing - it’s like a car MoT, only valid on the day it was issued. If I get a verification saying “Looks just like his pictures and is a nice guy” I could immediately change all my pictures and behaviour. It’s a snapshot in time for a very particular circumstance between two people.
And of course people change over the months and years, with experience and life. And I suspect we all interact in subtly different ways with different people, I know I do.
No verification can ever truly rule out poor behaviour or deceitful conduct. But it’s a good indicator as to a person’s veracity.
Personally, verifications mean something else to me. As a writer, they’re a nice way of saying to the person I met “I enjoyed my time with you” and to my fellow Fabbers “I have met this person and I found her to be (fill in blanks as necessary)” ie worth writing something nice about.
As a recipient it reminds me what a fun time I had and grateful to think she enjoyed herself enough to write something positive about me.
No reviews can ever tell you anything but what one person thought. And unless you know that person, it’s of limited value. But it aids my overall judgement process. |
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"So do you lot wanna see lots of veris obviously showing you’re the real deal or do a lot of veris put you off ?
I've never decided who I'd like to engage with based on the number of veris.
The content however....... "
Totally agree with this |
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Ask a dozen people and they'll all give different answers. Some don't want lots. Some do want lots. Some want recent ones, in case you've stopped being you and turned into someone else in the last 6 months. Some don't mind lots if their social. Some won't care what kind of meet it was and will judge purely on the number. Some will read each one, analyse it and judge on the content. It's Fab. There's no right answer... |
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"So do you lot wanna see lots of veris obviously showing you’re the real deal or do a lot of veris put you off ?"
I need to read something in your profile that convinces me you are real and you’ll follow through with what you say you will to me. That’s all. Sometimes I don’t find that In verifications no matter how many. |
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"So do you lot wanna see lots of veris obviously showing you’re the real deal or do a lot of veris put you off ?
Loads of verifications suggest they might be riddled with disease (especially if they say they do bareback or “love cum”).
I love cum and have over 500 on my singles profile... but never do bare sex, condoms are a must( although not for oral)... just bukkake sessions...
Oh and never caught anything. Most greedy girls I know are extremely proactive about their sexual health.
You must be very careful then. The more often the exposure to a gentleman’s juices then the higher the risks.
I know beggers (single men) can’t be choosers but I’d rather not run the risk of going with someone who’s had the jizz of 500 men.
No matter how careful or disease free they say they are. it would be way more than 500 guys..probably more in the 3 to 4k mark... but the thing ia. I'm checked and actually women are more at risk from.guys than guys from girls. But we are not going to meet as I only meet guys at greedy girl events lol
Cali"
3-4k? Like, logistically, how’s that even possible? |
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