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Sore bum after pegging

By *moothstaffspeeps OP Couple over a year ago

Stafford

As much as I love being pegged I sometimes have a sore bum the next day. I always use some lidocaine gel with the lube so that Mrs x has the chance to squirt, she nearly always does if she gets to really F me vigorously. But today I’m a bit tender

after pooping. Normal I guess ? X

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By *avexxMan over a year ago

cheshire

holy shit..

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By *TG3Man over a year ago

Dorchester

"As much as I love being pegged I sometimes have a sore bum the next day. I always use some lidocaine gel with the lube so that Mrs x has the chance to squirt, she nearly always does if she gets to really F me vigorously. But today I’m a bit tender

after pooping. Normal I guess ? X "
thankyou for sharing my foot long subway doesn't seem so appealing now

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By *imber wolfMan over a year ago

Aycliffe

If you’re using anaesthetic then you’re probably taking a fucking beyond the point where the pain would make you stop without it. So yes, you’re going to feel it when the lidocaine wears off

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By * and rCouple over a year ago

crewe

"holy shit.."
best comment ever

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By *ostindreamsMan over a year ago

London

I would personally avoid anaesthetic when it comes to Pegging or anal sex in general. Pain tells you when something isn't right.

As for the sore feeling, I have felt that. It normally goes away in a day.

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By *aughtycpl276927Couple over a year ago

PRESTON

We use a numbing cream and we have started on relatively small toys on the strap on so I’m not to bad. The Mrs loves it tho and it makes her cum as she’s doing it. Do any other ladies do this?

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

Try some anusol.

And please remember, you need to go gently with your arse really. You could tear something and introduce bacteria and end up with a swollen bum. Remember Kenny Everett and his Rod Stewart impression with the inflating arse?

Mmmmmmmm be careful!

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By *unx2019Couple over a year ago

Moray

Usually use just an anal lube on him, he feels it more and knows when to ease off if getting too vigorous with him, and yep cum many times while pegging him

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By *uzzy-LogicMan over a year ago

Fochabers

"I would personally avoid anaesthetic when it comes to Pegging or anal sex in general. Pain tells you when something isn't right."

This

If your are in pain stop something could be wrong, using an anaesthetic means you don't realise how wrong until it wares off. Safe, sane, and consensual the triangle of good fun

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman over a year ago

Worcester

If you use anesthetic you don’t know when your partner has gone too far.

I mean it’s common for it to be sore for a few days, but if it’s painful you should see a doctor.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try a real cock there’s no chafing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

She needs to be gentle with plenty of lube.

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

after pooping. Normal I guess ? X "

Ditch the anaesthetic.

Use more lube.

And maybe one of those donut cushions for a few days after.

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

I know we all like to make sure our partners have sex that really enjoy. But I'm sure your partner doesn't want you to be in pain afterwards either. If this is a regular occurrence following pegging, I suggest something has to change. Else you're going to tense knowing what happens afterwards and it's going to lead to even more damage to you. If it's only painful when you poo, it sounds like you have tears which means cuts and there is a risk of infection associated it.

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