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By *stella OP Woman 43 weeks ago
London |
Would you wash your partner’s hair? Bathe them? Make them a little packed lunch for work?
What caring intimate acts aside from sex do you do for a partner? What are ones they do/have done for you that stand out? What do you wish someone would do, if they haven’t already? |
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"Would you wash your partner’s hair? Bathe them? Make them a little packed lunch for work?
What caring intimate acts aside from sex do you do for a partner? What are ones they do/have done for you that stand out? What do you wish someone would do, if they haven’t already? "
I have a ladyfriend who stays for long weekends now and again.
Often give her a soaky bath. Always make her a food parcel for the journey home.
Head massage, back rubs, the little things.
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By *stella OP Woman 43 weeks ago
London |
"Would you wash your partner’s hair? Bathe them? Make them a little packed lunch for work?
What caring intimate acts aside from sex do you do for a partner? What are ones they do/have done for you that stand out? What do you wish someone would do, if they haven’t already?
I have a ladyfriend who stays for long weekends now and again.
Often give her a soaky bath. Always make her a food parcel for the journey home.
Head massage, back rubs, the little things.
#theresmoretolifethansex
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Ummmm, can I come and stay? This sounds like my bliss. |
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By *stella OP Woman 43 weeks ago
London |
"We quite often shower together and wash each other.
Give her a massage everyone and then
Sunday's I make a late bed breakfast or a bed picnic "
I adore that people rate these things. People are awesome. |
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I am very caring, soft, gentle person, constantly looking for a little touch, and will give you massages regularly, play with your hair, etc. Cook, clean, keep a comfortable home. I'll be your rock when you need someone to support you. I'll help you solve problems. I will listen without judgement.
I will do all the things to show you I appreciate you.
But I don’t have a partner, and probably never will, by a conscious decision.
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I suck his cock when he's having a shit day (obviously not every shit day or hed never have a good one).
I kitchen dance with him.
I cuddle lots.
I buy his favourite treats.
Even when he's a prick I make his coffee with his favourite spoon.
Every night before we sleep we cuddle and say I love you.
Mrs
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By *stella OP Woman 43 weeks ago
London |
"I am very caring, soft, gentle person, constantly looking for a little touch, and will give you massages regularly, play with your hair, etc. Cook, clean, keep a comfortable home. I'll be your rock when you need someone to support you. I'll help you solve problems. I will listen without judgement.
I will do all the things to show you I appreciate you.
But I don’t have a partner, and probably never will, by a conscious decision.
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My heart hurt a bit reading that.  |
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"Blimey we do loads of stuff like that, we always have. We don't do the bathing and hair washing thing specifically though.
Couple goals. That’s you two. "
It's not so much the physical stuff more the practical caring.
I was telling a friend once about something Mr N had done for me. She was taken back and said "you don't know how lucky you are".
He's making me a cup of coffee just how I like it as I type  |
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By *stella OP Woman 43 weeks ago
London |
"I suck his cock when he's having a shit day (obviously not every shit day or hed never have a good one).
I kitchen dance with him.
I cuddle lots.
I buy his favourite treats.
Even when he's a prick I make his coffee with his favourite spoon.
Every night before we sleep we cuddle and say I love you.
Mrs
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Beautiful!
A favourite spoon tho? Say what?! |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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Run them a candlelit bath
Massages
Buy them things you kmow they like.
Hide stuff in the house with clues on how to find them.
Cook them new things they've never tried.
Support and finance new things they want to try. |
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"I suck his cock when he's having a shit day (obviously not every shit day or hed never have a good one).
I kitchen dance with him.
I cuddle lots.
I buy his favourite treats.
Even when he's a prick I make his coffee with his favourite spoon.
Every night before we sleep we cuddle and say I love you.
Mrs
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That's lovely, I hope I can find that one day, he's a lucky MR |
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By *stella OP Woman 43 weeks ago
London |
"Blimey we do loads of stuff like that, we always have. We don't do the bathing and hair washing thing specifically though.
Couple goals. That’s you two.
It's not so much the physical stuff more the practical caring.
I was telling a friend once about something Mr N had done for me. She was taken back and said "you don't know how lucky you are".
He's making me a cup of coffee just how I like it as I type "
Mr N. Does he ever frequent the forum? Will we ever get to interact with the myth and legend himself? |
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Lots in my last rship. Used to trim his hair (everywhere!). I had a genital piercing i was never good at putting back in, he did that. That kind of stuff.
Plus he used to make me lunches for work (although he did draw little Hitler faces or the like on the boiled eggs) |
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By *stella OP Woman 43 weeks ago
London |
"Run them a candlelit bath
Massages
Buy them things you kmow they like.
Hide stuff in the house with clues on how to find them.
Cook them new things they've never tried.
Support and finance new things they want to try."
Oh I love the hiding/clues idea! |
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By *stella OP Woman 43 weeks ago
London |
"Lots in my last rship. Used to trim his hair (everywhere!). I had a genital piercing i was never good at putting back in, he did that. That kind of stuff.
Plus he used to make me lunches for work (although he did draw little Hitler faces or the like on the boiled eggs) "
Eggcellent!! |
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"Would you wash your partner’s hair? Bathe them? Make them a little packed lunch for work?
What caring intimate acts aside from sex do you do for a partner? What are ones they do/have done for you that stand out? What do you wish someone would do, if they haven’t already?
I have a ladyfriend who stays for long weekends now and again.
Often give her a soaky bath. Always make her a food parcel for the journey home.
Head massage, back rubs, the little things.
#theresmoretolifethansex
Ummmm, can I come and stay? This sounds like my bliss. "
Maybe, long as you dont starfish. 
Also, making sure her side of the leccie blanket is so it's toasties when she gets in. |
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"I am very caring, soft, gentle person, constantly looking for a little touch, and will give you massages regularly, play with your hair, etc. Cook, clean, keep a comfortable home. I'll be your rock when you need someone to support you. I'll help you solve problems. I will listen without judgement.
I will do all the things to show you I appreciate you.
But I don’t have a partner, and probably never will, by a conscious decision.
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this brought a tear to my eye, you deserve a good man who will appreciate all that you do, and repay it in kind |
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"Blimey we do loads of stuff like that, we always have. We don't do the bathing and hair washing thing specifically though.
Couple goals. That’s you two.
It's not so much the physical stuff more the practical caring.
I was telling a friend once about something Mr N had done for me. She was taken back and said "you don't know how lucky you are".
He's making me a cup of coffee just how I like it as I type
Mr N. Does he ever frequent the forum? Will we ever get to interact with the myth and legend himself? "
He reads them, tells me when to stfu and when I'm being daft but he prefers to be behind the scenes |
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I love having my hair washed and being bathed.
I am a little pampered though, I get coffee in bed every morning, tucked in with a hot drink each night. Cool foot spray before I go to sleep, coz well, I’m a menopausal woman.
My favourite thing that I do is shave his head, I always find that particularly intimate |
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By *stella OP Woman 43 weeks ago
London |
"Blimey we do loads of stuff like that, we always have. We don't do the bathing and hair washing thing specifically though.
Couple goals. That’s you two.
It's not so much the physical stuff more the practical caring.
I was telling a friend once about something Mr N had done for me. She was taken back and said "you don't know how lucky you are".
He's making me a cup of coffee just how I like it as I type
Mr N. Does he ever frequent the forum? Will we ever get to interact with the myth and legend himself?
He reads them, tells me when to stfu and when I'm being daft but he prefers to be behind the scenes "
*waves to Mr N. |
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Surely those kind of things are part of every relationship. I wouldn't hang around for long if these small intimate acts weren't present.
But, to answer your question, we both do them regularly. Perhaps one of my favourites is to bake while he's at work...he can usually smell it as he comes in, and he rushes into the kitchen like an excited kid to see what treats I've made. |
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"I suck his cock when he's having a shit day (obviously not every shit day or hed never have a good one).
I kitchen dance with him.
I cuddle lots.
I buy his favourite treats.
Even when he's a prick I make his coffee with his favourite spoon.
Every night before we sleep we cuddle and say I love you.
Mrs
Beautiful!
A favourite spoon tho? Say what?!"
Yep apparently said spoon makes the best coffees.
Mrs |
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By *emidemiWoman 43 weeks ago
basingstoke |
My partner popped into my work the other day about 10 minutes before I finished, and said he would go and bring the car around from the car park so I wouldn’t have to walk in the rain
It was such a little thing but really meant a lot |
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By *sWyldWoman 43 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
There's been lots of little things for people over the years. Cards, mirror notes, silly gifts, planning adventures, and even some hair washing too.
I'm yet to find someone who wants to do these things for me
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By *unx2019Couple 43 weeks ago
Edinburgh for few days |
Love it when he runs a bath for me, washes my hair, dries me with warm towel then gives me wine while he gives me me a long slow massage. Very sensual and sexy without any sexual intentions from him |
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Mr brings me tea and breakfast when I’m getting ready, regularly buys me flowers, de ices my car for me, makes my packed lunch. Many many things. Trying to think what I do for him…..I did give him a blow job before work the other day. May need to up my game |
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When I was at my lowest, I was waiting to die, and he took me into his home.
He gave me the time and space I needed to grieve for my loss, and he just loved me. Some days I couldn't stand up, some days all I could do was lie on the sofa. I remember this one day, when I was curled up on the settee, I awoke at one point to find myself covered in a blanket, and there was a delicious smell. He brought me a plate of home made scones, fresh out of the oven, with butter melting into them.
It was then, dear readers, that I knew I would marry this man. And two years later, I did. |
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By *stella OP Woman 43 weeks ago
London |
"When I was at my lowest, I was waiting to die, and he took me into his home.
He gave me the time and space I needed to grieve for my loss, and he just loved me. Some days I couldn't stand up, some days all I could do was lie on the sofa. I remember this one day, when I was curled up on the settee, I awoke at one point to find myself covered in a blanket, and there was a delicious smell. He brought me a plate of home made scones, fresh out of the oven, with butter melting into them.
It was then, dear readers, that I knew I would marry this man. And two years later, I did. "
Gosh. This is heartwarming. |
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While I was in hospital having surgery on my spine Mr N arranged for a t.v. to be installed in the bedroom, an easy chair to be placed by the bed and ensured that everything I needed for my recovery was on hand.
He knew I love mango so when he visited me after the operation he hand fed me small, bite sized pieces (I wasn't allowed to sit up) |
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We used to do all the little romantic things but my favourite was clues before a birthday. We had to keep giving each other clues until we guessed it.
I had a long term gentlemen friend I used to bath, do his hair and dry him. Like a big fat baby Although he wasn't fat
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By *stella OP Woman 43 weeks ago
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"We used to do all the little romantic things but my favourite was clues before a birthday. We had to keep giving each other clues until we guessed it.
I had a long term gentlemen friend I used to bath, do his hair and dry him. Like a big fat baby Although he wasn't fat
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By *stella OP Woman 43 weeks ago
London |
"Estella you have made miss human contact  "
I’m sorry. I don’t have anyone doing this for me, I just wanted to live vicariously through others. I’m leaning into loving love rather than missing love. |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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We tend to do nice little things like that for eachother, differs from day to day.
Make a packed lunch for him, give him a massage.
Strokes my hair and back at nighttime, always brings me a drink up to bed.
Etc.
Miss S x |
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"When I was at my lowest, I was waiting to die, and he took me into his home.
He gave me the time and space I needed to grieve for my loss, and he just loved me. Some days I couldn't stand up, some days all I could do was lie on the sofa. I remember this one day, when I was curled up on the settee, I awoke at one point to find myself covered in a blanket, and there was a delicious smell. He brought me a plate of home made scones, fresh out of the oven, with butter melting into them.
It was then, dear readers, that I knew I would marry this man. And two years later, I did. "
There's a very simple, poignant beauty to this. I cannot it enough. |
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He does many things to show me he cares, there's one that still stands out in my mind as it only happened couple weeks ago.
I was having a stressful day at work and told L about it during the day. When he came to pick me up later, my fluffy sloth hot water bottle was strapped to a passenger seat waiting for me. It immediately made me smile and still does whenever I think about it
K |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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Sending little things on the post, sending stupid photos, stuff like that.
Going to visit them for 5 mins just because that's all the time we have or alternatively leaving the house at stupid o'clock to sit for a few hours just letting them talk/vent and bring shit snacks 
That's some of the things that I've done for the ones I that have been/are important to me
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"When I was at my lowest, I was waiting to die, and he took me into his home.
He gave me the time and space I needed to grieve for my loss, and he just loved me. Some days I couldn't stand up, some days all I could do was lie on the sofa. I remember this one day, when I was curled up on the settee, I awoke at one point to find myself covered in a blanket, and there was a delicious smell. He brought me a plate of home made scones, fresh out of the oven, with butter melting into them.
It was then, dear readers, that I knew I would marry this man. And two years later, I did.
There's a very simple, poignant beauty to this. I cannot it enough."
He's a good man. I love him dearly. |
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"I suck his cock when he's having a shit day (obviously not every shit day or hed never have a good one).
I kitchen dance with him.
I cuddle lots.
I buy his favourite treats.
Even when he's a prick I make his coffee with his favourite spoon.
Every night before we sleep we cuddle and say I love you.
Mrs
Beautiful!
A favourite spoon tho? Say what?!"
My husband has a favourite spoon, and a favourite fork  |
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Most days I make C a cup of tea and breakfast in bed.
We both work from home but C’s work is more intense and longer hours so I will make lunch, drinks through the day and then dinner.
If she needs a massage I do it.
I love doing the little things to make her day easier - that way when she’s finished work we have quality time for each other then.
K |
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"I am actually very soft, caring and loving believe it or not. Fucked if I’m washing someone’s hair or bathing them though. "
Yeah I did enough of that raising a child, I'll be damned if I'm washing a grown man.
I'm a gift giver, and by that I mean silly little things. The last guy I was seeing, his skin was suffering due to the hard water down here and maybe the dust at work, so I got him some oat face wash/moisturiser. But he can wash his own face  |
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"When I was at my lowest, I was waiting to die, and he took me into his home.
He gave me the time and space I needed to grieve for my loss, and he just loved me. Some days I couldn't stand up, some days all I could do was lie on the sofa. I remember this one day, when I was curled up on the settee, I awoke at one point to find myself covered in a blanket, and there was a delicious smell. He brought me a plate of home made scones, fresh out of the oven, with butter melting into them.
It was then, dear readers, that I knew I would marry this man. And two years later, I did. "
I've got something in my eye  |
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"Would you wash your partner’s hair? Bathe them? Make them a little packed lunch for work?
What caring intimate acts aside from sex do you do for a partner? What are ones they do/have done for you that stand out? What do you wish someone would do, if they haven’t already? "
Washing hair, bathing, washing their back under shower... sexy as hell |
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By *eavilMan 42 weeks ago
Stalybridge |
My ex partner used to love me sand the hard skin off her feet. Then bathe them and follow up with foot massage. I wasn't too keen at first but she loved it so much that I kept it up for over 10 years. |
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"Blimey we do loads of stuff like that, we always have. We don't do the bathing and hair washing thing specifically though.
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We do too. We sometimes shower together and wash each other. Sometimes, he washes my hair too.
He does shitloads of things to make my life easier. He packs the car with my bag & Child Bs bags of a morning. He puts together lunch stuff and makes me a brew in a travel mug. He sometimes has to help me with personal care.
I try to help him stay on an even keel. I know when he's struggling with sounds or feelings and I pick him up.
I feel like he does so much more for me, than I do for him these days. |
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I work away from home and when I get back I'm knackered and usually filthy!! Jack is so kind he sometimes cooks me dinner, brings it round to me and leaves without even coming in because he knows I'll never eat before climbing into bed |
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I take wife cup of tea in bed every day,cook meals at least 5 times a week,share the shopping,trim and shave her pussy,if I home first ,a tea and snack waiting on table,don’t get much back but I don’t mind love to please |
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By *lueLotusWoman 42 weeks ago
the wilderness |
"Lots in my last rship. Used to trim his hair (everywhere!). I had a genital piercing i was never good at putting back in, he did that. That kind of stuff.
Plus he used to make me lunches for work (although he did draw little Hitler faces or the like on the boiled eggs) "
This is the best haha like here's true love but watch out the world can end any minute |
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