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Seeing someone on and off for couple years more on than anything. found out she was checking someone else that she’s only known for a week! She promised me the stars and the moon clearly it was bullshit!! |
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You're here over a year, nothing in your profile to say you're NOT actively looking to meet, soooo... *shrug*
Ok for you, but not for her?
As a poster above said, these things are often in the small print and perhaps you both had a different perception of the T&Cs
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"Seeing someone on and off for couple years more on than anything. found out she was checking someone else that she’s only known for a week! She promised me the stars and the moon clearly it was bullshit!!"
Perhaps you answered your own question there- seeing someone on and off? Suggests player to me, possibly both of you. Did you ever have an honest conversation about being monogomous? |
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"Seeing someone on and off for couple years more on than anything. found out she was checking someone else that she’s only known for a week! She promised me the stars and the moon clearly it was bullshit!!"
Get over it, get under it. |
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"Seeing someone on and off for couple years more on than anything. found out she was checking someone else that she’s only known for a week! She promised me the stars and the moon clearly it was bullshit!!"
Was it an open relationship?
I’m sure there’s a good explanation but it looks like you joined fab over a year ago maybe it was when you weren’t with her
Did she find out from a friend who saw your profile and thought if you can, so can I ?
Boobies of a new partner should ease your pain
Good luck time will heal |
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"I think this generation is fooked. People are always looking for a better offer or that the grass is greener. Phones and social media play a massive part."
Yea tell me about it!! Now I don’t know what to do |
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"Seeing someone on and off for couple years more on than anything. found out she was checking someone else that she’s only known for a week! She promised me the stars and the moon clearly it was bullshit!!
Was it an open relationship?
I’m sure there’s a good explanation but it looks like you joined fab over a year ago maybe it was when you weren’t with her
Did she find out from a friend who saw your profile and thought if you can, so can I ?
Boobies of a new partner should ease your pain
Good luck time will heal "
Ye so joined when I wasn’t with her but haven’t been actively really. No it wasn’t open I suggest swinging and an open relationship she didn’t want it |
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"Tbh I made the profile when we where on a break but I haven’t been on it actively just recently to be honest "
Every time I’ve started dating someone (monogamously) I have deleted my profile. If I found out the person I was seeing had kept their profile either just in case or to keep their verifications in case we split up, I would log in and delete it for him and then dump his ass  |
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"Seeing someone on and off for couple years more on than anything. found out she was checking someone else that she’s only known for a week! She promised me the stars and the moon clearly it was bullshit!!
Was it an open relationship?
I’m sure there’s a good explanation but it looks like you joined fab over a year ago maybe it was when you weren’t with her
Did she find out from a friend who saw your profile and thought if you can, so can I ?
Boobies of a new partner should ease your pain
Good luck time will heal
Ye so joined when I wasn’t with her but haven’t been actively really. No it wasn’t open I suggest swinging and an open relationship she didn’t want it"
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"Tbh I made the profile when we where on a break but I haven’t been on it actively just recently to be honest
Every time I’ve started dating someone (monogamously) I have deleted my profile. If I found out the person I was seeing had kept their profile either just in case or to keep their verifications in case we split up, I would log in and delete it for him and then dump his ass "
Yea maybe I suppose that’s true but in true. Fashion your a bad b haha |
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"Seeing someone on and off for couple years more on than anything. found out she was checking someone else that she’s only known for a week! She promised me the stars and the moon clearly it was bullshit!!"
I mean it’s not like you’re on a swingers site saying that you do have standards and won’t just fuck anyone, so you’ve definitely got a right to feel aggrieved. |
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I'm going with, either you both didn't have any clear boundaries as to how you both would behave, within whatever type of relationship you had?
Or, she was sadly doing the whole...the grass is always greener thing!
Sorry its happened. You're not on your own, it's happened to most of us.
Get back out there, the next person helps to soften the hurt from the previous person! |
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"Seeing someone on and off for couple years more on than anything. found out she was checking someone else that she’s only known for a week! She promised me the stars and the moon clearly it was bullshit!!
I mean it’s not like you’re on a swingers site saying that you do have standards and won’t just fuck anyone, so you’ve definitely got a right to feel aggrieved."
Well what can I do now! Shit happens life goes on but yes I’m livid. I appreciate the message |
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"I'm going with, either you both didn't have any clear boundaries as to how you both would behave, within whatever type of relationship you had?
Or, she was sadly doing the whole...the grass is always greener thing!
Sorry its happened. You're not on your own, it's happened to most of us.
Get back out there, the next person helps to soften the hurt from the previous person! "
It’s the grass is greener on the other side! But I do appreciate you taking time out to reply!! No more relationships for a while now! |
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By *bi HaiveMan 44 weeks ago
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"Tbh I made the profile when we where on a break but I haven’t been on it actively just recently to be honest "
You know if you tap that green arrow next to your username it'll show all your forum posts....... |
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"I think this generation is fooked. People are always looking for a better offer or that the grass is greener. Phones and social media play a massive part."
What an old person statement from a relatively young person? |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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Ahh, also we get only one side of the story. That’s why I’m always aware what I say here about private stuff I try to figure out, they only get read my side.
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Good job you kept your account on here open (without checking other women out of course) to come on and moan about your GF (that you don’t mention you have in your profile).
Welcome back to FAB after a year off…
*Columbo goes to leave but stops at the door
‘So tell me Mr Badboy….how did your 2 pics get put on your account, you’ve not used for over a year, in Aug and Oct 2023 then?
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"Tbh I made the profile when we where on a break but I haven’t been on it actively just recently to be honest
You know if you tap that green arrow next to your username it'll show all your forum posts......."
BOOM! |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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"Good job you kept your account on here open (without checking other women out of course) to come on and moan about your GF (that you don’t mention you have in your profile).
Welcome back to FAB after a year off…
*Columbo goes to leave but stops at the door
‘So tell me Mr Badboy….how did your 2 pics get put on your account, you’ve not used for over a year, in Aug and Oct 2023 then?
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hahaha. (I love Columbos ‘one more thing!’)
This is why I don’t need to read profiles op. People do it for me!!  
The truth always comes out.  |
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"Tbh I made the profile when we where on a break but I haven’t been on it actively just recently to be honest
You know if you tap that green arrow next to your username it'll show all your forum posts......."
My my my!! 19 weeks ago eh! Lol. Good ole green tick! |
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I'm sorry you've been hurt.
Like all things, trust and faith are about experience. You need to decide whether what you've had with this person is worth salvaging. Or, if not, go out and find some new experiences. And be someone that they find worthy of trust and faith as well. |
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"Tbh I made the profile when we where on a break but I haven’t been on it actively just recently to be honest
Every time I’ve started dating someone (monogamously) I have deleted my profile. If I found out the person I was seeing had kept their profile either just in case or to keep their verifications in case we split up, I would log in and delete it for him and then dump his ass "
Why would you do that? Thats controlling behaviour, if a man wrote that he would be crucified on here. |
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"Good job you kept your account on here open (without checking other women out of course) to come on and moan about your GF (that you don’t mention you have in your profile).
Welcome back to FAB after a year off…
*Columbo goes to leave but stops at the door
‘So tell me Mr Badboy….how did your 2 pics get put on your account, you’ve not used for over a year, in Aug and Oct 2023 then?
hahaha. (I love Columbos ‘one more thing!’)
This is why I don’t need to read profiles op. People do it for me!!
The truth always comes out. "
And the forum posts when you follow the all-telling green arrow... |
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Have you thought about joining a swingers site and just having fun OP?
Life's a lot more simple when not getting your heart broken by people promising you the moon and stars or whatever it was and while they're talking to people behind your back |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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"Not all women amirite
Yes, men know it's not all women, but they just have to see some evidence! In their inboxes!
I know this game  "
#yesallwomen actually |
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