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By *ustylover98 OP   Man 44 weeks ago

Warwickshire

What's your personal limit when it comes to age gaps?

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By *agnar73Man 44 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

I so want to answer 18-99.

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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago

I've yet to determine mine

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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago

Older 40 years maybe. Those are my current feelings.

Younger I currently would not be with someone less than 5 years younger than me.

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By *elix SightedMan 44 weeks ago

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I think my profile says about 10-15 years either way. Very much depends on the person of course.

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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago

No age gap limit here. Consenting adults

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By *icecouple561Couple 44 weeks ago
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East Sussex

17 years younger probably 5 or 6 years older for casual sex.

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By *arlot o scaraWoman 44 weeks ago

Hell

Nobody under 30. Upper age limit maybe 50?

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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago


"Nobody under 30. Upper age limit maybe 50? "

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By *ougarsilkWoman 44 weeks ago

Pleasure heaven

Younger the rule of thumb normally is half your age plus 7 = lowest age limit 36. Upper set at 51

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By *elix SightedMan 44 weeks ago

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"17 years younger probably 5 or 6 years older for casual sex."

*just* sneaks into the younger bracket

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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago

It was 10 years either side of my age but someone older had me

I do like older but starting to go the other way as I'm not into the 'looks like my grandad' look or mid life crisis.

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By *icecouple561Couple 44 weeks ago
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East Sussex


"17 years younger probably 5 or 6 years older for casual sex.

*just* sneaks into the younger bracket "

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By *arlot o scaraWoman 44 weeks ago

Hell


"Nobody under 30. Upper age limit maybe 50?

"

CHRIS WHAT ARE YAS LAUGHIN FOR

AM BEIN SEEEEEEEERIOUS

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By *eroLondonMan 44 weeks ago

Covent Garden


"Nobody under 30. Upper age limit maybe 50? "

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By *olfandtazCouple 44 weeks ago

Bristol

We have gone for 10 years older and 15 younger...we were getting messages from people younger than our kids

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman 44 weeks ago

little house on the praire

On here my age range was 36 to 50 when I was 56.

Yet in real life my partner was 22years older than me

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By *he_13th_ghostWoman 44 weeks ago

Swindon

No one under 30. I don't have a higher bracket? Still have own teeth though.

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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago

It all depends on if they share a similar level of maturity, sensitivity, desire and humour. Compatibility shouldn't be confined by a number.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple 44 weeks ago

Leeds

5 years either side.

The mr

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By *undance_KidMan 44 weeks ago

London

23 to 63.

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By *undance_KidMan 44 weeks ago

London

22 at a push.

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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago


"Nobody under 30. Upper age limit maybe 50?

CHRIS WHAT ARE YAS LAUGHIN FOR

AM BEIN SEEEEEEEERIOUS "

You do absolute right?

Like if your aunt had balls she’d be your uncle, but she doesn’t, so she’s not?

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By *eliWoman 44 weeks ago

.

Older? Maybe twenty five years?

Younger? It's under review. I've realised that going solely for significantly older means I've potentially been missing out on a lot of fun. So yeah, I'll answer this later.

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By *ermite12ukMan 44 weeks ago

Solihull and Brentwood

About 5. Otherwise, I might have competition from a mortician.

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By *arkus1812Man 44 weeks ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Older Zero - Have you seen my age?

Younger 35 - Negotiable

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By *atnip make me purrWoman 44 weeks ago

Reading

normally over 30.but some people are worth breaking this rule. #youknowwhoyouare #annoyinghashtags

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple 44 weeks ago

Southampton


"Younger the rule of thumb normally is half your age plus 7 = lowest age limit 36. Upper set at 51 "

By that rule of thumb 30 should be the lowest I'd go... but I say it all depends on the person ....

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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago


"normally over 30.but some people are worth breaking this rule. #youknowwhoyouare #annoyinghashtags

"

I don’t know why I found these hashtags so funny

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By *TG3Man 44 weeks ago

Dorchester

Youngest 40 and oldest 65

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By *ora the explorerWoman 44 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

39 to 50 I think. Can’t remember

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By *imply DeeWoman 44 weeks ago

Wherever

Lower limit is currently 25 but I could make an exception, depends on the person and their personality but I don’t think it’s ever going to be lower than 23. As for upper limit, I’m not attracted to men in my age or older, never been.

Interesting thing, this is completely different for women. I’m only bi playful but I like women around my age or older.

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By *aseylee324Couple 44 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

20 years younger (at a push) for men and he would have to be more mature than the average, older about 5 years. I tend not to engage with anyone admitting to being over 60 here, as it appears most are shaving at least 5 years off their real age.

Couples we tend to stay within 10 years of our own age.

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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago

Don’t have limits but have had someone 29 years younger and 22 years older

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By *angerouslemaisonsMan 44 weeks ago

Peterborough

Purely for sex 21-59 for relationships I’d say 28-40

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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago

Don't think I would want to fuck anyone who has just left school or a grandad with a zimmer frame, but I'm not over strict on ages. It's the person's attitude and personality that matters, unless in a club, then it can be more physical attraction.

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By *arlot o scaraWoman 44 weeks ago

Hell


"Nobody under 30. Upper age limit maybe 50?

CHRIS WHAT ARE YAS LAUGHIN FOR

AM BEIN SEEEEEEEERIOUS

You do absolute right?

Like if your aunt had balls she’d be your uncle, but she doesn’t, so she’s not?"

Do you know what I’m trying to say?

Not really but I’m loving the way you’re saying it

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By *lan157Man 44 weeks ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

Someone's age is not my first consideration when looking at potential . I accept it's very important for others

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By *bi HaiveMan 44 weeks ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset


"What's your personal limit when it comes to age gaps? "

It's on my profile.

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By *onningtonplumberMan 44 weeks ago

Donnington


"Younger the rule of thumb normally is half your age plus 7 = lowest age limit 36. Upper set at 51 "

Didn't know there were rules lol

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman 44 weeks ago

Worcester

Down to about 30ish.

I used to sleep with men in their early twenties and then read a study about how the parts of the brain that help us with understanding long-term decision making, consequences, and critical thinking don’t finish developing until the mid-twenties. That, and reflecting on my own experiences of being a young person, made me quite uncomfortable.

Upper age? Probably about fifty.

I’m open to outliers, but they have to have something exceptionally interesting going on.

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By *onningtonplumberMan 44 weeks ago

Donnington

I'd be overly cautious of anyone under 30 upper limit I really don't know. In the past I have gone 20 years older and younger. Take it as it comes

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By *imi_RougeWoman 44 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Biggest age gap has been 21 years younger, but it really depends on their maturity at that age.

Not really keen on anyone older than me.

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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago


"Nobody under 30. Upper age limit maybe 50?

CHRIS WHAT ARE YAS LAUGHIN FOR

AM BEIN SEEEEEEEERIOUS

You do absolute right?

Like if your aunt had balls she’d be your uncle, but she doesn’t, so she’s not?

Do you know what I’m trying to say?

Not really but I’m loving the way you’re saying it "

A great example of things being old but still funny. Like you

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By *heGateKeeperMan 44 weeks ago

Stratford

30 - 66

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By *umbriaman1962Man 44 weeks ago

outside of penrith

I think the half your age plus 7 good guide. I hate to go with a lady then find out was friend of my kids or younger than them . There all early 30s. So half my plus 7 means 37 upwards.

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By *agnar73Man 44 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"I think the half your age plus 7 good guide. I hate to go with a lady then find out was friend of my kids or younger than them . There all early 30s. So half my plus 7 means 37 upwards. "

33 upwards for me then

Have mine at 29-69 and think that’s fair enough

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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago

There are always exceptions but for me never anyone younger than me.Always felt off the times that ended up happening but there was an awkward time where I had to explain to someone older what a VHS was.Put me right off for some reason

Older I’d say up to 45 even though.

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By *stellaWoman 44 weeks ago

London

Max for me is 20years difference.

21 and over no go.

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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago


"I think the half your age plus 7 good guide. I hate to go with a lady then find out was friend of my kids or younger than them . There all early 30s. So half my plus 7 means 37 upwards. "

Who invented that I wonder? Why 7?

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By *aseylee324Couple 44 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows


"I think the half your age plus 7 good guide. I hate to go with a lady then find out was friend of my kids or younger than them . There all early 30s. So half my plus 7 means 37 upwards. "

But should I round up or down when my age is an odd number?

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By *essiCouple 44 weeks ago

suffolk

40 - 70

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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago


"Max for me is 20years difference.

21 and over no go.

"

I know this ain’t who I think it is

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By *ockslutt28Man 44 weeks ago

Greenock

For me:-

25-65

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS 44 weeks ago

chichester

18+ and as long as physical attraction to want to fuck it’s fine with me

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By *anno278Man 44 weeks ago

chester

20 years younger and older . Why not?

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman 44 weeks ago

Markfield

Current local fwb is 31

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By *tsJustKateWoman 44 weeks ago

London


"Younger the rule of thumb normally is half your age plus 7 = lowest age limit 36. Upper set at 51 "

Who's rule of thumb?

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By *ntrigued888Woman 44 weeks ago

Beds

My age preference is 35-45

Got the bear in mind some people aren't truthful about their age

Definitely won't entertain anyone younger than my children

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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago


"My age preference is 35-45

Got the bear in mind some people aren't truthful about their age

Definitely won't entertain anyone younger than my children "

Does the bear attack the liars?

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By *ntrigued888Woman 44 weeks ago

Beds

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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago

To infinity and beyond!!!!….,

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By *ntrigued888Woman 44 weeks ago

Beds


"My age preference is 35-45

Got the bear in mind some people aren't truthful about their age

Definitely won't entertain anyone younger than my children

Does the bear attack the liars?"

Liars is a bit strong...just bending the truth

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman 44 weeks ago

Markfield

Please keep it in the forum.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman 44 weeks ago

Worcester


"Younger the rule of thumb normally is half your age plus 7 = lowest age limit 36. Upper set at 51

Who's rule of thumb?"

This rule was actually originated by English aristocracy in the Victorian period.

It was actually the MAXIMUM acceptable age of a wife.

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By *ongandharderMan 44 weeks ago

Rotherham

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By *ongandharderMan 44 weeks ago

Rotherham

Well I'm 28 up to 55-56 is max

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By *imi_RougeWoman 44 weeks ago

Portsmouth


"Younger the rule of thumb normally is half your age plus 7 = lowest age limit 36. Upper set at 51

Who's rule of thumb?

This rule was actually originated by English aristocracy in the Victorian period.

It was actually the MAXIMUM acceptable age of a wife."

Sounds about right

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By *alandNitaCouple 44 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"What's your personal limit when it comes to age gaps? "

Generally 20 years either way, but in clubs we've certainly had sex with people more than 20 years younger.

I'm not usually attracted to those old enough to be my parent or young enough to be my child.

Nita

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By *agnar73Man 44 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"Younger the rule of thumb normally is half your age plus 7 = lowest age limit 36. Upper set at 51

Who's rule of thumb?

This rule was actually originated by English aristocracy in the Victorian period.

It was actually the MAXIMUM acceptable age of a wife."

Oooooh, interesting.

Don’t want one of those though

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By *andynecklaceWoman 44 weeks ago

West Brom

Wouldn't go for anyone younger, but that's probably cos I'm young myself. Don't really have a limit on older

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By *amantha_JadeWoman 44 weeks ago

Newcastle

Wouldn’t go for anyone younger but would consider someone up to 15 years older

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By *stellaWoman 44 weeks ago

London


"Max for me is 20years difference.

21 and over no go.

I know this ain’t who I think it is"

Ha!

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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago


"Wouldn't go for anyone younger, but that's probably cos I'm young myself. Don't really have a limit on older "

Yeah at 22 saying you’d date younger is a dangerous game

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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago

My rule is anyone over 18 but no one older than 99

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple 44 weeks ago

Southampton


"My rule is anyone over 18 but no one older than 99"

..about in the middle lol

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By *lueDressWoman 44 weeks ago

Bath

If it's a friendship, then no age gaps are an issue.

But with romance I prefer them to be older...but younger for casual fun.

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By *nnex888Man 20 weeks ago

east sussex

50-85 don’t judge just my preference

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By *ongandharderMan 20 weeks ago

Rotherham

Women around my age to 55

Men would have to be around my age

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan 20 weeks ago

cambridge

Entirely depends on the person and their outlook. I've met girls in their 20s going on 60s and ladies in their 60s going on 20

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By *ealitybitesMan 20 weeks ago

Belfast

The smaller the better

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By *r_WeimaranerMan 20 weeks ago

Swaythling, Southampton


"What's your personal limit when it comes to age gaps? "

No real limits, per se...

But my record is

+22 years

-13 years

Can't see me going that much older again.

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By *eorgesdad69Man 20 weeks ago

nottingham

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By *eorgesdad69Man 20 weeks ago

nottingham

I had a 2 year sexual affair with a guy 45 years younger than me. We both enjoyed it for gaining and giving experience

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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago

I don't really have a limit around age as it's down to the person.

As a teen I had a Mrs Robinson fantasy so had a few dalliances of varying lengths with women 20 and 30 years older.

In my 30s I had a thing with a girl during her time at uni.

Now, knocking on the door if 50 I'm genuinely okay with 18-80. It's all down to the person and how we connect.

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By *wlmanMan 15 weeks ago

Rugby

I had,an age gap of 23 years, she was 17 I was 40

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By *orace99Man 15 weeks ago

York


"It's all down to the person and how we connect."

Definitely this.

Last was 24yrs younger than me.

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By *ornywife20Couple 15 weeks ago

North Cork

The age close to that of our children is our no go area. Seems just wrong to us.

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan 15 weeks ago

Ends


"Max for me is 20years difference.

21 and over no go.

I know this ain’t who I think it is

Ha!

"

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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago


"The age close to that of our children is our no go area. Seems just wrong to us. "

Given mine are still at school I'd concur, definitely a no-go for me too.

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan 15 weeks ago

Ends


"The age close to that of our children is our no go area. Seems just wrong to us.

Given mine are still at school I'd concur, definitely a no-go for me too. "

LOOOOOOOOOOL

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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago

No teenagers and no one older than my Mum

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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago


"No teenagers and no one older than my Mum"

I should probably clarify that I mean 18/19

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By *heGateKeeperMan 15 weeks ago

Stratford

No one under 30 or older than 49

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By *hilledExplorerMan 15 weeks ago

Colchester

No one under 30, not that any would be interested anyway

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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago


"No teenagers and no one older than my Mum

I should probably clarify that I mean 18/19 "

Your first post covered that Joe

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By *cLovin2Man 15 weeks ago

Reading

I reckon women don't physically fully mature till around 27, hence starting point. I do prefer younger women not so keen on older women, though a previous lady I saw was a bit older. I reckon 27 to 50ish...

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan 15 weeks ago

cambridge

Depends entirely on the lady....

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