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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was 10 years either side of my age but someone older had me 
I do like older but starting to go the other way as I'm not into the 'looks like my grandad' look or mid life crisis. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nobody under 30. Upper age limit maybe 50?
 
CHRIS WHAT ARE YAS LAUGHIN FOR
AM BEIN SEEEEEEEERIOUS  "
You do absolute right?
Like if your aunt had balls she’d be your uncle, but she doesn’t, so she’s not? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Older? Maybe twenty five years?
Younger? It's under review. I've realised that going solely for significantly older means I've potentially been missing out on a lot of fun. So yeah, I'll answer this later. |
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"Younger the rule of thumb normally is half your age plus 7 = lowest age limit 36. Upper set at 51 "
By that rule of thumb 30 should be the lowest I'd go... but I say it all depends on the person .... |
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Lower limit is currently 25 but I could make an exception, depends on the person and their personality but I don’t think it’s ever going to be lower than 23. As for upper limit, I’m not attracted to men in my age or older, never been.
Interesting thing, this is completely different for women. I’m only bi playful but I like women around my age or older. |
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By *aseylee324Couple
over a year ago
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20 years younger (at a push) for men and he would have to be more mature than the average, older about 5 years. I tend not to engage with anyone admitting to being over 60 here, as it appears most are shaving at least 5 years off their real age.
Couples we tend to stay within 10 years of our own age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't think I would want to fuck anyone who has just left school or a grandad with a zimmer frame, but I'm not over strict on ages. It's the person's attitude and personality that matters, unless in a club, then it can be more physical attraction. |
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"Nobody under 30. Upper age limit maybe 50?
CHRIS WHAT ARE YAS LAUGHIN FOR
AM BEIN SEEEEEEEERIOUS
You do absolute right?
Like if your aunt had balls she’d be your uncle, but she doesn’t, so she’s not?"
Do you know what I’m trying to say?
Not really but I’m loving the way you’re saying it |
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Down to about 30ish.
I used to sleep with men in their early twenties and then read a study about how the parts of the brain that help us with understanding long-term decision making, consequences, and critical thinking don’t finish developing until the mid-twenties. That, and reflecting on my own experiences of being a young person, made me quite uncomfortable.
Upper age? Probably about fifty.
I’m open to outliers, but they have to have something exceptionally interesting going on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nobody under 30. Upper age limit maybe 50?
CHRIS WHAT ARE YAS LAUGHIN FOR
AM BEIN SEEEEEEEERIOUS
You do absolute right?
Like if your aunt had balls she’d be your uncle, but she doesn’t, so she’s not?
Do you know what I’m trying to say?
Not really but I’m loving the way you’re saying it "
A great example of things being old but still funny. Like you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the half your age plus 7 good guide. I hate to go with a lady then find out was friend of my kids or younger than them . There all early 30s. So half my plus 7 means 37 upwards. |
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By *ags73Man
over a year ago
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"I think the half your age plus 7 good guide. I hate to go with a lady then find out was friend of my kids or younger than them . There all early 30s. So half my plus 7 means 37 upwards. "
33 upwards for me then
Have mine at 29-69 and think that’s fair enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are always exceptions but for me never anyone younger than me.Always felt off the times that ended up happening but there was an awkward time where I had to explain to someone older what a VHS was.Put me right off for some reason
Older I’d say up to 45 even though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the half your age plus 7 good guide. I hate to go with a lady then find out was friend of my kids or younger than them . There all early 30s. So half my plus 7 means 37 upwards. "
Who invented that I wonder? Why 7? |
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By *aseylee324Couple
over a year ago
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"I think the half your age plus 7 good guide. I hate to go with a lady then find out was friend of my kids or younger than them . There all early 30s. So half my plus 7 means 37 upwards. "
But should I round up or down when my age is an odd number?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My age preference is 35-45
Got the bear in mind some people aren't truthful about their age
Definitely won't entertain anyone younger than my children "
Does the bear attack the liars? |
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"My age preference is 35-45
Got the bear in mind some people aren't truthful about their age
Definitely won't entertain anyone younger than my children
Does the bear attack the liars?"
Liars is a bit strong...just bending the truth |
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"Younger the rule of thumb normally is half your age plus 7 = lowest age limit 36. Upper set at 51
Who's rule of thumb?"
This rule was actually originated by English aristocracy in the Victorian period.
It was actually the MAXIMUM acceptable age of a wife. |
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"Younger the rule of thumb normally is half your age plus 7 = lowest age limit 36. Upper set at 51
Who's rule of thumb?
This rule was actually originated by English aristocracy in the Victorian period.
It was actually the MAXIMUM acceptable age of a wife."
Sounds about right  |
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"What's your personal limit when it comes to age gaps? "
Generally 20 years either way, but in clubs we've certainly had sex with people more than 20 years younger.
I'm not usually attracted to those old enough to be my parent or young enough to be my child.
Nita |
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By *ags73Man
over a year ago
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"Younger the rule of thumb normally is half your age plus 7 = lowest age limit 36. Upper set at 51
Who's rule of thumb?
This rule was actually originated by English aristocracy in the Victorian period.
It was actually the MAXIMUM acceptable age of a wife."
Oooooh, interesting.
Don’t want one of those though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wouldn't go for anyone younger, but that's probably cos I'm young myself. Don't really have a limit on older "
Yeah at 22 saying you’d date younger is a dangerous game |
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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago
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I don't really have a limit around age as it's down to the person.
As a teen I had a Mrs Robinson fantasy so had a few dalliances of varying lengths with women 20 and 30 years older.
In my 30s I had a thing with a girl during her time at uni.
Now, knocking on the door if 50 I'm genuinely okay with 18-80. It's all down to the person and how we connect. |
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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago
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"The age close to that of our children is our no go area. Seems just wrong to us. "
Given mine are still at school I'd concur, definitely a no-go for me too. |
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I reckon women don't physically fully mature till around 27, hence starting point. I do prefer younger women not so keen on older women, though a previous lady I saw was a bit older. I reckon 27 to 50ish... |
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