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I still think about her
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"I just saw her come up on feeld. Now I’m in my feels.
Do you have that person?
Yep, three of them. Although one is no longer with us so she won’t be popping up anywhere."
If she does that will be a miracle… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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God yes!!
And it’s annoying because I was over it and then bang….message sent and I’m behaving like a loved up school boy again to be taken for a fool once more!!
Why do we do this to ourselves |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No. I’ve often thought I found a person like that but they always disappoint me.
Now I have big walls so nobody can get in. "
I’m not with this person lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I miss and think about her every day. And she thinks about me. I know because sometimes I’ll get a d*unk message telling me she misses me and loves me.
But when she’s sober the next day, she apologises for ‘being emotional’ |
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I was 12 years old I fall in love. When ever I see her I feel like I’m going to have heart attack. I haven’t seen her maybe for 6-7 years but when ever I hear something about love she comes into my mind and I feel shit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've got an ex partner from like 20 years ago that crosses my mind, more so now because I was a dick in the way I ended us and I want to reach out and apologise.
But she looks happily married on fb with child, so I don't think me reaching out will resolve anything.
More my own selfish reasons really. |
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I used to have people like this... But then I realised they were mostly quite toxic and no good for me, so those thoughts and feelings weren't genuine.
I don't think there's anyone I feel like that about anymore, and it's actually quite nice. |
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By *rT25Man
over a year ago
Rotherham |
Yes, not from here though.
Ended up back at a good friend's house after a few drinks.
Now she won't speak to me even after we've tried to clear the air.
Always bump into her at the same class at the gym so very awkward |
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I don't just stop caring for people who were important to me once.
I can compartmentalise that off in general when someone is no longer a part of my life. But the care is still there. A little contact or reminder can spike it easily enough. |
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Took me many years to get over my first wife. Now the only connection is our children. I have ex's I see because they live close by. One ex for whom the feeling are are will always be negative but never think of her unless like this thread someone asks about ex's and one ex i often think about fondly, she's with a guy and they have a child so I am happy for her. It's fondness not live though. |
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I thought so, but I was sorely mistaken. The only other person that made me feel like that has now vanished from the face of the earth, not in a literal sense but more as I’m not able to find him anymore, not even sure which country he’s currently living at |
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"There is nothing louder and more invasive to the brain then seeing them online on WhatsApp and receiving no message. "
Don't I know that! ... he's blocked me now and I've deleted his number...less traumatic all round |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
London |
"There is nothing louder and more invasive to the brain then seeing them online on WhatsApp and receiving no message.
Don't I know that! ... he's blocked me now and I've deleted his number...less traumatic all round"
Mine is a good friend so there’s no escape! |
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"There is nothing louder and more invasive to the brain then seeing them online on WhatsApp and receiving no message.
Don't I know that! ... he's blocked me now and I've deleted his number...less traumatic all round
Mine is a good friend so there’s no escape! "
Ouch... we were friends but he met someone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Which girl are we talking about?
Everytime I hear the theme tune for 90210 I think of Shannon Docharty.
The last Women in my Dm I think of her
If I see a tattoo I have, she pops in my head
The last person I fell in love with
Or should I just check out one of the notches on my bed post?…
People pop in my head, and then they pop back out. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I sometimes think of my favourite boss who I had a crush on for years. It was purely innocent as he was happily married and openly adored her. I think that is why I liked him.
I like men who aren’t closed off from showing their feelings and emotions to the world, particularly romantic feelings. You’d catch him watching her as she walked about the office and he’d have that gooey soft eyed look in his eyes and it was heart warming to see.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can feel things about different people in different ways and be very fond of them or the memories.
There are one or two I could spend time with again in a heartbeat because I enjoyed them and even get into bed with again.
My head knows in some cases I'd need to be stood up against and wall and shot in the head for it. Another I wouldn't but he'd never ever try or ask. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I'd rather my spend time, on the people current in my life, who need me "
Someone once phrased - letting them live in your head rent free. Nobody lives in my head rent free, I evicted the ones I don’t need ages ago. I know I charge premium for the penthouse suite. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Not one person no. Much like Petite, different things can remind me of different people.
This morning I was dealing with one particular thing and it reminded me of someone - in a good way. I don't think it's a bad thing to remember people. Memories and feelings. I care quite deeply about people when I do care and I think they've all played a part in making me who I am today. |
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"Nah, I only think about my wonderful husband and he's not on feeld at the moment
K
He’d clean up "
Nah, I think he got bored of it (and so did I) because most women are either a couple looking for another woman for a threesome, or they just want BDSM.
K |
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