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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it just me. Seem to spend time chatting to ladies then for them to just disappear, I pride myself on being a gent and having good conversation but to no avail. I have had some great meets off here but becoming a bit despondent with it all |
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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago
Central France dept 36 |
Nope it’s just you op.
Of course it’s not just you op and I’m sure lots of single horny guys will fill the thread up with stories of woe is me.
If you’re getting fed up just take a break .
Best of luck.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that you have to work out or ask what you are both looking for
Some like to keep messages to a minimum and meet, others want to chat or message for a time in advance to any meet.
No one stop rule for all.
There’s so many variations of how and what people do things.
Sometimes when it becomes message after message with no moving it forward or a discussion on what you’re both looking for can look like an intent not meet but to chat only.
It can be complicated |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stop chatting so much and ask for a social
If they want to they will. If they don’t, they won’t
Save yourself hours of wasted chatting, get to the point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is no different to people in clubs. It's far too easy to spend all night chatting shit without ever actually getting towards a point. Maybe set yourself targets such as by message 10 you have guided the conversation toward whether a social would be something they are open too or not. If it feels like a dead avenue then you won't be disappointed if the chat goes cold, you already knew it was coming. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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i wont chat for too long once i see a pic ill only continue if im interested and then if ive not clicked with them after a few daus then its bye bye .... im here to swing and have fun but some want your life story and more ... i find people fairly easy to read online i guess its down to how long ive been on this scene ...
if they stop responding they are no longer interested / or were being polite but were never interested / or you said something that sounded alarm bells / were fake and wanking
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Most people are not mutually compatible with most other people.
Realistic expectations take this into account.
It's going to happen that most initial chats come to nothing. They just stop.
No further reply meant that you have no need to chat any further. Unspoken goodbyes. |
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