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"210 messages in 3 hours, we will try our best to get through them but it will take a minute  "
I had my profile visible for two hours and received over 300 messages. Swiftly hid my profile again. |
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I don't envy you with your herculean task to separate the wheat from the chaff from your ever-increasing InBoxes. Thankfully the gentlemen on here are on the receiving end of quality as opposed to quantity when it comes to inbox 'encroachment'. |
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"Filters people, filters.
We have been on for 210 hours and have received 3 messages  "
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1½ of those ^ messages was from me. The second message was a half-hearted attempt to woo her one more time, the unforgiving vixen! |
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"210 messages in 3 hours, we will try our best to get through them but it will take a minute
I had my profile visible for two hours and received over 300 messages. Swiftly hid my profile again. "
Wow, wouldn’t mind a look of your profile  |
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"210 messages in 3 hours, we will try our best to get through them but it will take a minute "
Hmmm - you do say ‘send us a message, happy to chat’ so folks are simply obliging!
Personally not for me |
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"I hate it when people message who:-
a) havent read my profile. Not even the first paragraph
b) dont accept the word No
Those are my biggest bug bears with messages. Filters cant fix that. "
THANK YOU
99% of my messages are “I’m not what you’re looking for, but…”
Well why bother me then  |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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If you're finding it overwhelming, perhaps use the filters and change your wording as to what you're looking for.
I wonder how many of your messages are quality and how many are one worded  |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"I hate it when people message who:-
a) havent read my profile. Not even the first paragraph
b) dont accept the word No
Those are my biggest bug bears with messages. Filters cant fix that. "
Amen to that, and guys that message me with blank profiles too. What do they expect to achieve? |
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Please note OP is not complaining about the volume, just overwhelmed possibly but will try their best to get through the mail eventually. Maybe best to put a status on the profile as most likely people who sent messages don’t use forum as much. |
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"Please note OP is not complaining about the volume, just overwhelmed possibly but will try their best to get through the mail eventually. Maybe best to put a status on the profile as most likely people who sent messages don’t use forum as much."
We are definitely not complaining, we love the messages. We try and reply to most of them.
That’s great advice, thank you x |
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"I hate it when people message who:-
a) havent read my profile. Not even the first paragraph
b) dont accept the word No
Those are my biggest bug bears with messages. Filters cant fix that.
THANK YOU
99% of my messages are “I’m not what you’re looking for, but…”
Well why bother me then "
Innit.... I know you don't like beards, but thought I'd shoot my shot. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"210 messages in 3 hours, we will try our best to get through them but it will take a minute
I had my profile visible for two hours and received over 300 messages. Swiftly hid my profile again.
Wow, wouldn’t mind a look of your profile "
Fear not, you aren’t missing much not seeing it x |
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"Filters people, filters.
We have been on for 210 hours and have received 3 messages
Same, haha
I kinda miss those days of inbox explosion. Sometimes I am tempted to take filters down…
Nah…  "
I'm a fan of filters. Only people aged 99 can message me. Weirdly though my inbox isn't empty. I've never seen a 99 Yr old on here. I'm obviously misinformed |
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Rather they message me so at least I know it’s potentially genuine. 
