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If I take the money can I never have sex again? If I don’t take the money can I have sex with whoever I want whenever I want? I can imagine the power going to my head. I’d never get a parking ticket again |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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"Some shallow folk on here.. couldn't imagine a sexless marriage with hannah.. way more important things in life than money.. health for one. Don't need money to make great memories!!"
How is it shallow to want enough money to live comfortably for the rest of one's life? There are way more important things in life than sex such as eating, having a home and travelling. Don't need sex for a happy marriage. |
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"Some shallow folk on here.. couldn't imagine a sexless marriage with hannah.. way more important things in life than money.. health for one. Don't need money to make great memories!!
How is it shallow to want enough money to live comfortably for the rest of one's life? There are way more important things in life than sex such as eating, having a home and travelling. Don't need sex for a happy marriage. "
I would have to respectfully disagree. Evidently you can afford to eat and have a roof over your head otherwise it would unlikely you would have the ability to post on here.
Whilst travelling may be important to you, many people are more than happy within their own comfort zones for one reason or another. I do love to travel so I fully understand your point however I have friends that have no interest whatsoever.
The main part of your comment though in that you ‘don’t need sex for a happy marriage’ is what I disagree with the most. Have you ever been in a relationship where there is either no sex or it’s a just not compatible to your needs?
It is absolutely hell, you are caught in a situation of wanting to do what is right yet the frustration is driving you to the point that you can’t concentrate and that’s all you want to do is fuck relentlessly until the frustration is gone.
But you can’t do that because a you’re in a ‘happy marriage’.
The fact that Fab has so many members, most of who I encounter are either married or in a relationship speaks volumes.
Speaking now as someone who has been in such a situation and whilst I didn’t cheat, I do understand why people do hence why I never judge. |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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"Some shallow folk on here.. couldn't imagine a sexless marriage with hannah.. way more important things in life than money.. health for one. Don't need money to make great memories!!
How is it shallow to want enough money to live comfortably for the rest of one's life? There are way more important things in life than sex such as eating, having a home and travelling. Don't need sex for a happy marriage.
I would have to respectfully disagree. Evidently you can afford to eat and have a roof over your head otherwise it would unlikely you would have the ability to post on here.
Whilst travelling may be important to you, many people are more than happy within their own comfort zones for one reason or another. I do love to travel so I fully understand your point however I have friends that have no interest whatsoever.
The main part of your comment though in that you ‘don’t need sex for a happy marriage’ is what I disagree with the most. Have you ever been in a relationship where there is either no sex or it’s a just not compatible to your needs?
It is absolutely hell, you are caught in a situation of wanting to do what is right yet the frustration is driving you to the point that you can’t concentrate and that’s all you want to do is fuck relentlessly until the frustration is gone.
But you can’t do that because a you’re in a ‘happy marriage’.
The fact that Fab has so many members, most of who I encounter are either married or in a relationship speaks volumes.
Speaking now as someone who has been in such a situation and whilst I didn’t cheat, I do understand why people do hence why I never judge."
I have been in relationships before yes, I went for about 3 years without sex in one, it meant nothing to me as sex to me is just a job in order to get cuddled/kissed at the end. To me sex is just 10 minutes of complete boredom and pain hoping the other person finishes quick so I can go back to doing stuff I enjoy. Sex is literally a job without any benefit. To me I'd rather have a job than have sex because the job actually gives me something.
To me the money would be infinitely better. With that money, I could live on the interest alone if I had that money in a decent easy access savings account. |
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I've sort of done this for real - well not the no sex for life bit. I got the million when younger but in the process completely fucked my relationship with my then wife (and mother of my kids) and destroyed my sex life at the time. It recovered but I regret deeply chasing money and some of my decisions at the time. |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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"Some shallow folk on here.. couldn't imagine a sexless marriage with hannah.. way more important things in life than money.. health for one. Don't need money to make great memories!!
How is it shallow to want enough money to live comfortably for the rest of one's life? There are way more important things in life than sex such as eating, having a home and travelling. Don't need sex for a happy marriage.
I would have to respectfully disagree. Evidently you can afford to eat and have a roof over your head otherwise it would unlikely you would have the ability to post on here.
Whilst travelling may be important to you, many people are more than happy within their own comfort zones for one reason or another. I do love to travel so I fully understand your point however I have friends that have no interest whatsoever.
The main part of your comment though in that you ‘don’t need sex for a happy marriage’ is what I disagree with the most. Have you ever been in a relationship where there is either no sex or it’s a just not compatible to your needs?
It is absolutely hell, you are caught in a situation of wanting to do what is right yet the frustration is driving you to the point that you can’t concentrate and that’s all you want to do is fuck relentlessly until the frustration is gone.
But you can’t do that because a you’re in a ‘happy marriage’.
The fact that Fab has so many members, most of who I encounter are either married or in a relationship speaks volumes.
Speaking now as someone who has been in such a situation and whilst I didn’t cheat, I do understand why people do hence why I never judge.
I have been in relationships before yes, I went for about 3 years without sex in one, it meant nothing to me as sex to me is just a job in order to get cuddled/kissed at the end. To me sex is just 10 minutes of complete boredom and pain hoping the other person finishes quick so I can go back to doing stuff I enjoy. Sex is literally a job without any benefit. To me I'd rather have a job than have sex because the job actually gives me something.
To me the money would be infinitely better. With that money, I could live on the interest alone if I had that money in a decent easy access savings account."
Three years to go without sex or any form of love and affection is not easy, I can relate to this so well.
I am genuinely curious what you are hoping to find on here if you have no interest sex?
The interest on a million pounds wouldn’t be enough to live off comfortably in the UK.
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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"I've sort of done this for real - well not the no sex for life bit. I got the million when younger but in the process completely fucked my relationship with my then wife (and mother of my kids) and destroyed my sex life at the time. It recovered but I regret deeply chasing money and some of my decisions at the time. "
It happens and you have learnt from it, it is all part of life experiences. |
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"I've sort of done this for real - well not the no sex for life bit. I got the million when younger but in the process completely fucked my relationship with my then wife (and mother of my kids) and destroyed my sex life at the time. It recovered but I regret deeply chasing money and some of my decisions at the time.
It happens and you have learnt from it, it is all part of life experiences. "
Indeed if only we could rewind the clock in our life at times. All sort of ok now but I'd take the great sex for life  |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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Indeed if only we could rewind the clock in our life at times. All sort of ok now but I'd take the great sex for life quote]
Accepting that you can’t rewind the clock and do things differently isn’t easy however it’s also a case of accepting what is done and you just have to make the best of it and crack on.
I would choose sex on my terms any day. |
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"Indeed if only we could rewind the clock in our life at times. All sort of ok now but I'd take the great sex for life quote]
Accepting that you can’t rewind the clock and do things differently isn’t easy however it’s also a case of accepting what is done and you just have to make the best of it and crack on.
I would choose sex on my terms any day."
I'm with you on that.
PS if any of you people taking the million are feeling generous can you lend us a few quid please |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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"Indeed if only we could rewind the clock in our life at times. All sort of ok now but I'd take the great sex for life quote]
Accepting that you can’t rewind the clock and do things differently isn’t easy however it’s also a case of accepting what is done and you just have to make the best of it and crack on.
I would choose sex on my terms any day.
I'm with you on that.
PS if any of you people taking the million are feeling generous can you lend us a few quid please "
Invested it  |
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By *ewcatWoman 44 weeks ago
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"I've sort of done this for real - well not the no sex for life bit. I got the million when younger but in the process completely fucked my relationship with my then wife (and mother of my kids) and destroyed my sex life at the time. It recovered but I regret deeply chasing money and some of my decisions at the time. "
Are you my ex husband? 
I will take the money.
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Bearing in mind this is (mainly) a site for introductions and interactions for the purposes of filling each other up and sex and sexytime and sexy shenanigans and many wonderful kinks, it’s interesting how would take the money. Especially considering how many people complain in the forums about how much trouble they’re having getting any kind of connection.
Anyway, money please!! |
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"If you take the money does it mean no sex at all? "
That is the way I took it or else not sure it makes much sense and the way I've seen this question asked before. (I'm taking this way too seriously) |
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"If you take the money does it mean no sex at all? that's what was understood from the op yes. It's one or the other. "
That will teach all those materialistic buggers who took the £1m. They are now sexless for life |
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"If you take the money does it mean no sex at all? that's what was understood from the op yes. It's one or the other.
That will teach all those materialistic buggers who took the £1m. They are now sexless for life "
I didn’t! Not a chance |
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I'd take the sex please though it's a little non specific as to whom it would be with so I'd probably end up with myself...
Making a million isn't really that difficult when you put your mind to it...
Just don't spend £2 million & end up with bugger all to show for it ?????
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"If you take the money does it mean no sex at all? that's what was understood from the op yes. It's one or the other.
That will teach all those materialistic buggers who took the £1m. They are now sexless for life "
indeed very materialistic!! |
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