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By (user no longer on site) OP 44 weeks ago
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Hi folks, iv been on this site for about a year and I have not a one meet up or attention from any lovely woman or couples.
Is there a chance I could get advice on how to improve my profile and chances to meet up with some amazing people on here, thank you xx   |
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By *bi HaiveMan 44 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Hi folks, iv been on this site for about a year and I have not a one meet up or attention from any lovely woman or couples.
Is there a chance I could get advice on how to improve my profile and chances to meet up with some amazing people on here, thank you xx "
OK. As I've a few minutes to kill....
There's more showing of someone else in the bulk of your photos than you and you've literally typed more in your post here than in your profile bio.
If you were a woman and looked at your profile vs other guys in your area who would you message?  |
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Your profile pic is so dark it’s hard to tell what it’s a pic of.
The other pics with other people in it - some folk might assume you don’t have consent to put pics of someone else up on your public pics. And I’m not a fan of seeing action pics with other people.
Your profile has less than a sentence written. Why would someone make the effort of replying/messaging you when you’ve not put on any effort to your page?
I’d suggest not copying but having a look at single guys profiles who do well on here and see the level they have got their profile at.
When writing your profile you have to think of it like a shop window, why should someone want to meet you? What can you offer them?
Or otherwise you could also search the forum posts for the 1000s of other threads that ask this same question 
Good luck op! |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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As many have said. Action shots with ladies who are unlikely to even be aware that their photos are on a swing site, let alone have given consent is a huge turn off.
Mainly well done, you’ve had a few BJs in your life, but tells us little about you.
Then there’s the profile text - that says even less.
Handy hint OP. If it looks like you put minimal effort into your online presence, many will assume you will put similar limited effort into conversing let alone anything more physical.
I don’t think this site is what you (and many before you) have assumed. Stick the the lefty righty swipey one. |
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"Surely just click bait.
And as for the pics jeez OP I think two of those pics are against Fab rules as whole face must be obscured. If that was my sister I would recognise her. "
Oh... Yeah, that's just grim. We don't need to see who you've been up. |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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"You literally now have only 1 photo & it's the poorly lit one  "
Nope he has put dick pics on…..this one learns fast.
I bet he is getting messages already!! |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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This is just my opinion, op. And everyone is going to give subjective opinion.
Welcome to Fab, and if you know how to make a profile that gets you attention, come back and poster thread and let all of us men know!!!
You don’t have enough photos on there, if you were a woman you do not have enough photos for me to form an opinion if I was just looking at your profile to know who you are.
In your text, good luck. You will put too much or too little. Not enough, humour are not serious enough. You will never write the perfect text, just put what you think people need to know, or don’t put anything at all, that seems to work for some women.
Or, search for the many many many many threads that I’ve asked the same question as you.
Good luck |
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"Hi folks, iv been on this site for about a year and I have not a one meet up or attention from any lovely woman or couples.
Is there a chance I could get advice on how to improve my profile and chances to meet up with some amazing people on here, thank you xx "
Just put something like:
I'm in the process of updating my profile. The police have confiscated my laptop, but when I get it back, I'll upload some new pics.
I'm very picky who I message, so if you receive a message from me, it's because I really like you or the police have arrested me, and I couldn't remember anyone's number.
I may not be your best shag but I'll be the most grateful you've had.
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By *ascaIMan 44 weeks ago
Cheshire Liverpool Manchester |
"Take a photo with a light on.
You not know of power cut in Ireland  "
He joined over a year ago. Has the power been out for that long?! They really ought to sort that out. |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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"Hi folks, iv been on this site for about a year and I have not a one meet up or attention from any lovely woman or couples.
Is there a chance I could get advice on how to improve my profile and chances to meet up with some amazing people on here, thank you xx "
Buy some electricity! |
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Go to a club and get the staff to verify you
Along with others in the club.
Work on your profile what is it you are offering / looking for
Eg single male can accomadate,looking for couples or single lady's willing to try pegging (or other kink) I bet that would bring your profile more attention |
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By *ascaIMan 44 weeks ago
Cheshire Liverpool Manchester |
Take your time when you’re writing your bio. There’s a couple of sentences there missing words or not quite making sense. Not sure if English is your first language but read over it. |
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