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By (user no longer on site) OP 44 weeks ago
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This term is completely new to me, but it basically means that you are always there to use for your partners sexual needs, whenever and wherever they want.
This is something I have been all my life, and would love to meet somebody simular, somebody who's always ready.
I never knew there was a term for this "kink"
Would anyone else consider themselves this?
I thought I was very rare being this way but apparently its becoming quite a big thing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 44 weeks ago
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"It sounds not far away from a controlling relationship tbh. It wouldn't be for me."
No, from what I've been told it's not something you try to coherce somebody into. It's like you defining yourself as a swinger, you're not being forced into it. It's something you enjoy.
I am always open to being sexual with my partner whenever they need, that's my thing, my partner isn't trying to control me to make me that way. |
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"It sounds not far away from a controlling relationship tbh. It wouldn't be for me.
No, from what I've been told it's not something you try to coherce somebody into. It's like you defining yourself as a swinger, you're not being forced into it. It's something you enjoy.
I am always open to being sexual with my partner whenever they need, that's my thing, my partner isn't trying to control me to make me that way."
I'm not saying it is controlling, I'm saying it sounds not far away from it.
Sometimes I'm exhausted, sometimes I have a migraine, sometimes I caught some horrific pukey bug, and no matter how much my (hypothetical) partner wants it, I am not going to be there for them. |
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I find it an odd one, and not something I'd agree to.
If my partner is in the mood and I'm not, and they want to rely on a free use agreement rather than actually excite me. I think I'd just leave  |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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There's also an "ignore" fetish as well. Where one partner, usually the female, shows no interest in, or reaction to the activity taking place. Sometimes even reading a book or playing a video game.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 44 weeks ago
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"I find it an odd one, and not something I'd agree to.
If my partner is in the mood and I'm not, and they want to rely on a free use agreement rather than actually excite me. I think I'd just leave "
Well I think its geared to a different type of person. I don't think it's an agreement people make as such, it's wether you are that way inclined or not.
So for me for instance..
I don't think I've ever turned any of my partners down for sex, on a single occasion, whether im tired, stressed, feeling rough, if I don't feel horny at the time, I'm still always open to sex.
I'm not implying that you should have a partner that makes zero effort to get you in the mood and just expects sex.
All im saying is whatever partner I have there's never a no from me, regardless of how I feel, because as soon as there's some physical contact, I'm in the mood.
I didn't know if anyone else associates with this?
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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Within the realm of kink, it can be fun
Obviously people tend to take things too literally on here and think a free use kink means you can start using them as they are driving on the motorway and cause an accident, or other weird examples
As with all kinks, there’s a level of nuance that many on this forum choose to ignore for the sake of disagreeing |
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"I find it an odd one, and not something I'd agree to.
If my partner is in the mood and I'm not, and they want to rely on a free use agreement rather than actually excite me. I think I'd just leave
Well I think its geared to a different type of person. I don't think it's an agreement people make as such, it's wether you are that way inclined or not.
So for me for instance..
I don't think I've ever turned any of my partners down for sex, on a single occasion, whether im tired, stressed, feeling rough, if I don't feel horny at the time, I'm still always open to sex.
I'm not implying that you should have a partner that makes zero effort to get you in the mood and just expects sex.
All im saying is whatever partner I have there's never a no from me, regardless of how I feel, because as soon as there's some physical contact, I'm in the mood.
I didn't know if anyone else associates with this?
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In terms of moods generally I'm pretty much never a no. But if I'm in a situation where I feel its inappropriate, or if I'm in the middle of processing something emotionally, I would not expect my partner to be trying it on with me to say no to.
At all appropriate times, I am available to my partners.
This is normal, not free use, no? |
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