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By *ut of my depth OP   Man  over a year ago

Warwick

Been on here a while now and something made me think ! Married people or people in relationships could be on here and be dishonest about their situation. Or am I being overly suspicious

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

No way. People wouldn’t do that!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

People don't need fab, to cheat. Cheating existed long before fab, and will do long after it's gone.

There's nothing we can do about that aspect of morality. We just need to use our discernment as they'll all be smiling.

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By *TG3Man  over a year ago

Dorchester


"Been on here a while now and something made me think ! Married people or people in relationships could be on here and be dishonest about their situation. Or am I being overly suspicious "
you hide your face thats quite suspicious to me, everything is available here and its best to try and avoid judging others

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By *atnip make me purrWoman  over a year ago

Reading

They also could be nothing like their photos etc. Some people will do and say anything to get that shag. There are usually clues though if you pay attention.

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By *orn-in-69Couple  over a year ago

Shipley

Virtually every single guy we have been interested in has said (sometimes after an enquiry) that they were actually attached. (Mr)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been on here a while now and something made me think ! Married people or people in relationships could be on here and be dishonest about their situation. Or am I being overly suspicious "

Goodness, whatever next!

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By *elix SightedMan  over a year ago

Cloud 8


"Been on here a while now and something made me think ! Married people or people in relationships could be on here and be dishonest about their situation. Or am I being overly suspicious "

Hang on a minute - people cheat? On each other?! Blimey….

Surely fab do thorough vetting though?

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"Been on here a while now and something made me think ! Married people or people in relationships could be on here and be dishonest about their situation. Or am I being overly suspicious "

No you're not. There are a lot of people on here that are dishonest about things that might be important to other people. All I can say is, keep your wits about you

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By *riar BelisseWoman  over a year ago

Bliss

More realistic than suspicious. Some times they tell you before the rumpy pumpy, sometimes its after rumpy pumpy, once it was during

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You think people would use this website to cheat?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple  over a year ago

Leeds

There's probably more dishonest than honest on here.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This is an outrage.

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By *agicfingers1Man  over a year ago

near Brighton

Saying I'm married is the first thing on my profile. It probably ruins my chances but I'd rather be honest from the outset than lie about it

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple  over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Oh OP. That is a lovely but also slightly worrying level of innocence/naivety to be on here over a year and only just realise.

J

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By *ealMissShadyWoman  over a year ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders


"Been on here a while now and something made me think ! Married people or people in relationships could be on here and be dishonest about their situation. Or am I being overly suspicious "

Oh no! Ya think?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" No way. People wouldn’t do that! "

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman  over a year ago

Carlisle usually

People are terrible and lie everywhere

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By *olfandtazCouple  over a year ago

Bristol

There are people on here who are married or in a relationship. It's not our place to judge them, if they want to throw it away on a shag then it's their call. We only draw a line when we get bought into it.

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By *heGateKeeperMan  over a year ago

Stratford

OP are you married and this is your way of throwing others off the scent?

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By *aizyWoman  over a year ago

west midlands


"OP are you married and this is your way of throwing others off the scent? "

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By *ruceyyMan  over a year ago

London

By Jove I think he might be something!

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple  over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun

I'm married, husband knows and is happy for me to play solo

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By *moothshaftMan  over a year ago

Coventry

I also state it on the first line of my profile. I'm a bad person, and because of my age, have virtually no chance on here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

90%+

Of "single" guys I've been approached by on here are married/attached.

I don't want to be involved in the drama.

On the flip side..

Nothing hotter than a married guy playing with enthusiastic encouragement from the wife

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By *eroLondonMan  over a year ago

Mayfair


"Been on here a while now and something made me think ! Married people or people in relationships could be on here and be dishonest about their situation. Or am I being overly suspicious "

You're being "overly suspicious".

Don't let it concern you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been on here a while now and something made me think ! Married people or people in relationships could be on here and be dishonest about their situation. Or am I being overly suspicious "

Whatever your opinion, they've made their choice and you do not know their reasons. You can choose bit to meet but it won't stop them meeting others anyway.

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By *ut of my depth OP   Man  over a year ago

Warwick

Thanks for all of your comments. I think one or two of you have made some cheeky comments but it seems some people on here may tell fibs. Anyway I'm going to try and ignore those married ones as they may be trouble. Next thing you lot will be telling me is some people have unprotected sex lol !! Wishing you well!!

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By *issmorganWoman  over a year ago

Calderdale innit

There are lots of men and women on here without their partners knowledge op.

Some are honest, some aren't sadly.

There are often signs that someone who says they're single,isn't though.

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By *ut of my depth OP   Man  over a year ago

Warwick

Thanks missM. I think I need to find someone like you. You have made it very easy to understand

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By *ut of my depth OP   Man 12 weeks ago

Warwick

Just wondering if this is still the same ?

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By *ansoffateMan 12 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Some are on here with their partner's awareness and still manage to breach their trust.

Some people are just drawn to cheating I think. Maybe that's how they get their kicks, the risk, beating them to it, how do you like it - or some other relational drama game.

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By *icecouple561Couple 12 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"Just wondering if this is still the same ?"

Has anything lead you to believe it's changed?

The best course of action is to keep your wits about you and not worry too much about what other people are doing

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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago

Does it matter?

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By *rettCoolMan 12 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"Does it matter?"

Am with u dose it matter

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By *icecouple561Couple 12 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

It does matter to a lot of people who like to have a choice in these matters

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By *erlicanMan 12 weeks ago

Newbury

I'm married. Totally honest about it.

Patently does me no favours, despite my reasons being entirely genuine.

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By *nnandElleCouple 12 weeks ago

Brackley

We will meet and fuck with married people who are playing behind their partners back - but on the understanding that their situation doesn't ever come to our door. We won't shield anyone from an angry spouse, that's up to them to deal with.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 12 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

People lie to get laid?

Who'd have thunk of it 💜

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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago


"It does matter to a lot of people who like to have a choice in these matters"

If you're gonna meet strangers online, it's a risk you take. Ask the question and all but, people lie.

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By *icecouple561Couple 12 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"It does matter to a lot of people who like to have a choice in these matters

If you're gonna meet strangers online, it's a risk you take. Ask the question and all but, people lie.

"

Yep, they sure do.

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By *AYENCouple 12 weeks ago

Lincolnshire


"I'm married. Totally honest about it.

Patently does me no favours, despite my reasons being entirely genuine."

I'm not sure who you're being totally honest with - your wife, your prospective meets or both?

Being totally honest is just a base principle - it won't in itself get you laid. K.

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By *oodmessMan 12 weeks ago

yumsville


"Been on here a while now and something made me think ! Married people or people in relationships could be on here and be dishonest about their situation. Or am I being overly suspicious "

That people aren't swingers? That people meet? That people describe themselves accurately in profiles? That people are fab straight? That they have been here before on new profiles? They can accom but can't? Are after couples but really want big cock or woman love? Want fwb's but get jealous? They don't do bareback but do?

I think everyone is a little dishonest about their situation on here.

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By *ansoffateMan 12 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"It does matter to a lot of people who like to have a choice in these matters

If you're gonna meet strangers online, it's a risk you take. Ask the question and all but, people lie.

Yep, they sure do."

It's true and I'd be quite happy to accept I was a fool to trust such a person. Some would rather tell you that their shit don't stink than own up to it though. That I do not respect.

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By *oodmessMan 12 weeks ago

yumsville

Just realised the age of this thread, apologies.

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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago


"Just realised the age of this thread, apologies. "

Don't worry, threads get necro'd all the time. We've had some good ones lol.

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By *oodmessMan 12 weeks ago

yumsville


"Just realised the age of this thread, apologies.

Don't worry, threads get necro'd all the time. We've had some good ones lol."

pmsl. Yeah, and I usually see my 'funny' comment and me wondering wft was I writing

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By *entlemanrogueMan 12 weeks ago

Motherwell


"Been on here a while now and something made me think ! Married people or people in relationships could be on here and be dishonest about their situation. Or am I being overly suspicious "

hahaha is this a parody post?

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple 12 weeks ago

kent


"Just realised the age of this thread, apologies.

Don't worry, threads get necro'd all the time. We've had some good ones lol."

Necro’d! 😆 love it.

Night Of The Living Thread!

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By *oonbath89Man 12 weeks ago

radstock

That’s an accusation and a half , surely not ? Wow that’s some claim you’re making there

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By *helroyCouple 12 weeks ago

Skegness


"There are people on here who are married or in a relationship. It's not our place to judge them, if they want to throw it away on a shag then it's their call. We only draw a line when we get bought into it. "

we the same we dont judge yes dont bring us in to it we not here for that sort of play

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By *icecouple561Couple 12 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"It does matter to a lot of people who like to have a choice in these matters

If you're gonna meet strangers online, it's a risk you take. Ask the question and all but, people lie.

Yep, they sure do.

It's true and I'd be quite happy to accept I was a fool to trust such a person. Some would rather tell you that their shit don't stink than own up to it though. That I do not respect. "

It's not always easy to tell. We've met a couple of men who on reflection were definitely married. One even entertained us in his home

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By *ansoffateMan 12 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"It does matter to a lot of people who like to have a choice in these matters

If you're gonna meet strangers online, it's a risk you take. Ask the question and all but, people lie.

Yep, they sure do.

It's true and I'd be quite happy to accept I was a fool to trust such a person. Some would rather tell you that their shit don't stink than own up to it though. That I do not respect.

It's not always easy to tell. We've met a couple of men who on reflection were definitely married. One even entertained us in his home "

Yeah those strangely picture shaped marks on the walls, where a wedding photo could take pride of place do tend to raise an eyebrow. When the skirting boards smell of zoflora it's a bit of a giveaway.

It doesn't require a confessional life story. Just I'm with someone, they don't know. Let people make informed decisions. Not everyone has the same values, that's fine, but before you fuck someone maybe consider they wouldn't want to if you told them - their beliefs and values are important too.

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By *icecouple561Couple 12 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"It does matter to a lot of people who like to have a choice in these matters

If you're gonna meet strangers online, it's a risk you take. Ask the question and all but, people lie.

Yep, they sure do.

It's true and I'd be quite happy to accept I was a fool to trust such a person. Some would rather tell you that their shit don't stink than own up to it though. That I do not respect.

It's not always easy to tell. We've met a couple of men who on reflection were definitely married. One even entertained us in his home

Yeah those strangely picture shaped marks on the walls, where a wedding photo could take pride of place do tend to raise an eyebrow. When the skirting boards smell of zoflora it's a bit of a giveaway.

It doesn't require a confessional life story. Just I'm with someone, they don't know. Let people make informed decisions. Not everyone has the same values, that's fine, but before you fuck someone maybe consider they wouldn't want to if you told them - their beliefs and values are important too. "

There were no such clues but he kept on about not leaving 'evidence' around for his cleaning lady to find and was reluctant for us to go anywhere but the living room. Of course that could all have been quite genuine but you just get a hunch. Also he told me he'd got champagne in and it was cava . I actually prefer cava but don't treat me like a fool.

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By *ansoffateMan 12 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"It does matter to a lot of people who like to have a choice in these matters

If you're gonna meet strangers online, it's a risk you take. Ask the question and all but, people lie.

Yep, they sure do.

It's true and I'd be quite happy to accept I was a fool to trust such a person. Some would rather tell you that their shit don't stink than own up to it though. That I do not respect.

It's not always easy to tell. We've met a couple of men who on reflection were definitely married. One even entertained us in his home

Yeah those strangely picture shaped marks on the walls, where a wedding photo could take pride of place do tend to raise an eyebrow. When the skirting boards smell of zoflora it's a bit of a giveaway.

It doesn't require a confessional life story. Just I'm with someone, they don't know. Let people make informed decisions. Not everyone has the same values, that's fine, but before you fuck someone maybe consider they wouldn't want to if you told them - their beliefs and values are important too.

There were no such clues but he kept on about not leaving 'evidence' around for his cleaning lady to find and was reluctant for us to go anywhere but the living room. Of course that could all have been quite genuine but you just get a hunch. Also he told me he'd got champagne in and it was cava . I actually prefer cava but don't treat me like a fool. "

Would you care for some Creme de cassis in your champagne? [Reaches for the Ribena]

Well put though, that is the essence of it for me too. In my colloquial language: Have I got MUG written on my fod or something? I'd be happy with Lambrini and vimto just don't bs me.

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By *icecouple561Couple 12 weeks ago
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East Sussex

^^ exactly!

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By *ut of my depth OP   Man 12 weeks ago

Warwick

Has anyone seen my hat I may have left it in the room

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By *ildTimes.Man 12 weeks ago

Colchester/London

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By *ildTimes.Man 12 weeks ago

Colchester/London

It's no one's business but theirs 🤷🏻‍♂️ I personally don't have an issue with it, would I do it, no, but there's lots of stuff people on fab do I wouldn't 😂

Married ladies hit me up! 😂😂

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By *onrob2 30Man 12 weeks ago

glenrothes

I’m quite open to telling people I’m married, better to be honest from the start. I expect it to be the same the other way as well

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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago

The whole thing loses it's essence!!

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By *ackformore100Man 12 weeks ago

Tin town


"Been on here a while now and something made me think ! Married people or people in relationships could be on here and be dishonest about their situation. Or am I being overly suspicious "

Does that thought trouble you op? Does it exercise you.?

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By *ABflirtyWoman 12 weeks ago

Norwich

I am now single and i think more of the men and woman who are open about it..

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By *ullsfan77Man 12 weeks ago

Torquay

I am married and make it very clear in my profile. My wife also plays (not on here) but, at her request, it is separately. She sees 5 guys fairly regularly (not all at once), 3 of whom are married. None of their wives know. It doesn’t really bother her. There was a sixth-who was also married but he got his marching orders when he got too pushy. And none of the guys know about each other either-they all seem to think that they are the only ones. Apart from one, they are all 15-20 years older than her-she is into older men.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan 12 weeks ago

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I've heard more single Women openly talking about fucking married Men then the other way around, Maybe they are more open about it and don't really have nothing to lose, Its their life let them get on with it

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By *erlicanMan 9 weeks ago

Newbury

I'm entirely honest about it and about my situation.

Much good does it do me....

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple 9 weeks ago

Leeds

There's thousands of cheats here.

Mrs

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