Do you use the feature or not?
When I first joined I didn't realise you could turn it off, so used to get alot more messages from people I looked at.
Only awkward part was if you wasn't interested in the first place  |
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I’m always in stealth mode. I never look at who’s looked at me because there’s no point. If they liked what they saw and wanted to interact, they’d have sent a message. If they didn’t, they weren’t. |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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Only awkward part was if you wasn't interested in the first place "
You make me look at you, op. And I don’t have mine switched off…..
It’s not awkward for you, you look hot, and now I’m interested
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By *reya73Woman 44 weeks ago
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I'm stealth.
I'm a curious cat and there's not always a black and white reason why I'm perusing profiles. Sometimes curiosity, sometimes perving pics, sometimes reading veris and generally just having a flow about the site and it's humans.
If I wasn't stealth, those people might all think I'm fancying them and give a wrong impression.
I never bother with who looked at me. I forget to hotlist and I almost never reply. I forget to invite friends.
I'm a very bad fabber
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By *ogk9Man 44 weeks ago
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"I'm stealth.
I'm a curious cat and there's not always a black and white reason why I'm perusing profiles. Sometimes curiosity, sometimes perving pics, sometimes reading veris and generally just having a flow about the site and it's humans.
If I wasn't stealth, those people might all think I'm fancying them and give a wrong impression.
I never bother with who looked at me. I forget to hotlist and I almost never reply. I forget to invite friends.
I'm a very bad fabber
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By *ogk9Man 44 weeks ago
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"I'm stealth.
I'm a curious cat and there's not always a black and white reason why I'm perusing profiles. Sometimes curiosity, sometimes perving pics, sometimes reading veris and generally just having a flow about the site and it's humans.
If I wasn't stealth, those people might all think I'm fancying them and give a wrong impression.
I never bother with who looked at me. I forget to hotlist and I almost never reply. I forget to invite friends.
I'm a very bad fabber
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I've turned it off, the amount of messages because you looked drove me crazy - if I looked and didn't message or wink then I wasn't interested.
I'm unsure why people think just because you look you are interested in them, obviously you wouldn't know if you was until looking.
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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Some days I get quite a few 'looked at me' and some days zero.
Doesnt really bother me tbh, if they look and are interested then they'll either wink or message.
I don't chase up 'looked at' as there's no point unless they follow it up. |
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By *ogk9Man 44 weeks ago
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"Some days I get quite a few 'looked at me' and some days zero.
Doesnt really bother me tbh, if they look and are interested then they'll either wink or message.
I don't chase up 'looked at' as there's no point unless they follow it up."
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By *ogk9Man 44 weeks ago
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"We get multiple messages a day of people saying that we have looked, we don’t even remember looking and obviously weren’t interested. It can get quite awkward  "
all personal choice. I’ve no problems. Used to rejection maybe  lol |
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By *ogk9Man 44 weeks ago
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"I’ve turned that off as sometimes I just like to have a nose but people take it as an invitation that I’m interested "
if interested they would message. I’m not in your preferences so I don’t Read profiles the thing
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"I’m always in stealth mode. I never look at who’s looked at me because there’s no point. If they liked what they saw and wanted to interact, they’d have sent a message. If they didn’t, they weren’t. "
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