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By (user no longer on site) OP 44 weeks ago
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Do they count for much?
I have met a few women who refuse to verify me
The reason being that they would get guys pester them for meeting me and not them.
Is this generally true? Guys pestering womennthis way? |
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"Do they count for much?
I have met a few women who refuse to verify me
The reason being that they would get guys pester them for meeting me and not them.
Is this generally true? Guys pestering womennthis way?"
No. |
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"Do they count for much?
I have met a few women who refuse to verify me
The reason being that they would get guys pester them for meeting me and not them.
Is this generally true? Guys pestering womennthis way?"
A resounding yes. It’s happened to me quite a lot over the years to the point where I had all my verifications and verification summary hidden on previous profiles.
This was when I used to try and keep up with the messages in my inbox. I don’t care any more. Chaos probably ensues in my inbox, but I don’t check it that much. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 44 weeks ago
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"I've had the same from men, don't want their current fwb's to find out they met me. Needless to say I won't be going there again 
Lots of people use veris in wierd ways"
Lol.. yeah, unfortunately. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 44 weeks ago
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"Do they count for much?
I have met a few women who refuse to verify me
The reason being that they would get guys pester them for meeting me and not them.
Is this generally true? Guys pestering womennthis way?
A resounding yes. It’s happened to me quite a lot over the years to the point where I had all my verifications and verification summary hidden on previous profiles.
This was when I used to try and keep up with the messages in my inbox. I don’t care any more. Chaos probably ensues in my inbox, but I don’t check it that much. "
Sorry to hear that.. people are weird.. |
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"I’ve never had this issue either OP but then I don’t ever accept or give sexual veris. What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas  "
Dislike sex veris. Just tell me they're real and not an axe murderer. The sex bit is between the two or more participants |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 44 weeks ago
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"I’ve never had this issue either OP but then I don’t ever accept or give sexual veris. What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas "
Yeah I getchya.. but just to say I turned up, wasn't an axe murderer, respectful non pushy stuff would have been good.
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"Do they count for much?
I have met a few women who refuse to verify me
The reason being that they would get guys pester them for meeting me and not them.
Is this generally true? Guys pestering womennthis way?"
We don't show sexual veris and its best not to give a blow by blow account of your meet anyway.
We more or less just like tonsee that someone is well verified for our events |
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"Do they count for much?
I have met a few women who refuse to verify me
The reason being that they would get guys pester them for meeting me and not them.
Is this generally true? Guys pestering women this way?"
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No.
I've never experienced this.
I think you need to re-evaluate the type/calibre/variant of women that you are meeting. Verifications aren't an absolute to thrive on here but ·if· it's creating an impasse for you then change your approach accordingly. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 44 weeks ago
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Some people do message you off of the back of a verification you've left for someone else.
It's annoying when someone tries to argue you should meet them because you travelled to someone local to them  |
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"Do they count for much?
I have met a few women who refuse to verify me
The reason being that they would get guys pester them for meeting me and not them.
Is this generally true? Guys pestering womennthis way?"
Nah you were just a crap shag, they were trying to be nice  |
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I don't like meeting non verified guys. Veris give me a bit more confidence that the guy isn't a fantasist. Also the more Veris the more likely the guy understands what swinging is, and isn't going to bring vanilla attitudes into the dynamic.
But the fem reason for not leaving a veri is bollocks in my view! Yes I've had on many occasions in the past, guys commenting on the people I've met. And the simple solution is I don't display my Veris, just that I have them. So the only way you'd know I'd met someone would be to read any displayed on the guys profile. |
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