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"We have spoke and she is going drs
But i am climbing the walls here
Perhaps you should also go to the dr's with her and get some compassion and understanding?
Evie "
This would be a good option, support for something which if it's a medical issue she will need..  |
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By *artin67 OP Man 46 weeks ago
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"Find out why.
Address situation if possible.
Decide on the way forward from there she needs hrt and we are going drs together
How do you know she needs HRT? "
a friend of ours is a dr and she spoke about this |
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"Find out why.
Address situation if possible.
Decide on the way forward from there she needs hrt and we are going drs together"
How do you know? Does she know you're on here? One thing that closed my legs was when my partner openly perved at other women (Mr K doesn't, that's why he gets to have all this fun because I feel secure and I know I'm number one)there could be a ton of reasons, usually men aren't getting any because they've pissed us off and we don't feel able to talk about it |
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"Find out why.
Address situation if possible.
Decide on the way forward from there she needs hrt and we are going drs together
How do you know she needs HRT? a friend of ours is a dr and she spoke about this "
I see, that's lucky. Well good luck to both of you |
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"Find out why.
Address situation if possible.
Decide on the way forward from there she needs hrt and we are going drs together
How do you know? Does she know you're on here? One thing that closed my legs was when my partner openly perved at other women (Mr K doesn't, that's why he gets to have all this fun because I feel secure and I know I'm number one)there could be a ton of reasons, usually men aren't getting any because they've pissed us off and we don't feel able to talk about it "
Nail. Head. |
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"she needs hrt and we are going drs together"
HTR is not some magical cure for when relationships fall apart.
Wife of the boil? (Whatever it means) Give her HTR!
Husband not happy? Wife needs HTR!
Address issues within your relationship first and either fix it, or let her go.
But if indeed, she’s going though peri menopause or menopause, it’s when she needs all the support, HTR included, but other things addressed first. |
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By *artin67 OP Man 46 weeks ago
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"she needs hrt and we are going drs together
HTR is not some magical cure for when relationships fall apart.
Wife of the boil? (Whatever it means) Give her HTR!
Husband not happy? Wife needs HTR!
Address issues within your relationship first and either fix it, or let her go.
But if indeed, she’s going though peri menopause or menopause, it’s when she needs all the support, HTR included, but other things addressed first."
what makes you think we have issues, we are very happy , just not in the bedroom |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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"Find out why.
Address situation if possible.
Decide on the way forward from there she needs hrt and we are going drs together
How do you know? Does she know you're on here? One thing that closed my legs was when my partner openly perved at other women (Mr K doesn't, that's why he gets to have all this fun because I feel secure and I know I'm number one)there could be a ton of reasons, usually men aren't getting any because they've pissed us off and we don't feel able to talk about it "
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"she needs hrt and we are going drs together
HTR is not some magical cure for when relationships fall apart.
Wife of the boil? (Whatever it means) Give her HTR!
Husband not happy? Wife needs HTR!
Address issues within your relationship first and either fix it, or let her go.
But if indeed, she’s going though peri menopause or menopause, it’s when she needs all the support, HTR included, but other things addressed first. what makes you think we have issues, we are very happy , just not in the bedroom"
That’s fantastic to hear OP. I wish you luck in resolving the bedroom issue meanwhile.
My comment was a general observation rather than aimed at you so I apologise if it came across like that. |
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By *artin67 OP Man 46 weeks ago
Canterbury |
"she needs hrt and we are going drs together
HTR is not some magical cure for when relationships fall apart.
Wife of the boil? (Whatever it means) Give her HTR!
Husband not happy? Wife needs HTR!
Address issues within your relationship first and either fix it, or let her go.
But if indeed, she’s going though peri menopause or menopause, it’s when she needs all the support, HTR included, but other things addressed first. what makes you think we have issues, we are very happy , just not in the bedroom
That’s fantastic to hear OP. I wish you luck in resolving the bedroom issue meanwhile.
My comment was a general observation rather than aimed at you so I apologise if it came across like that. "
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"she needs hrt and we are going drs together
HTR is not some magical cure for when relationships fall apart.
Wife of the boil? (Whatever it means) Give her HTR!
Husband not happy? Wife needs HTR!
Address issues within your relationship first and either fix it, or let her go.
But if indeed, she’s going though peri menopause or menopause, it’s when she needs all the support, HTR included, but other things addressed first."
Totally agree! I go through phases with my libido. I can go 2/3 months with absolutely no interest. HRT didn’t agree with me, the best thing was that hubby and I talked it through. He didn’t give me pressure, he didn’t meet off here either. He increased the affection he was already giving me and instead of sex we laid in bed snuggled up naked and talked about all our lovely memories of everyday things. The more you make her aware there’s a problem the more she’s feel pressured and the less she’ll want sex |
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HRT won't solve the issue if the issue is you though.
I started it approx 6 weeks ago. Definitely back on the boil. But folk can still annoy the fuck out of me. Wee bit of oestrogen doesn't mean we're all kicking about Aldi like a Disney princess and wanting boabie 24/7. |
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"Find out why.
Address situation if possible.
Decide on the way forward from there she needs hrt and we are going drs together
How do you know? Does she know you're on here? One thing that closed my legs was when my partner openly perved at other women (Mr K doesn't, that's why he gets to have all this fun because I feel secure and I know I'm number one)there could be a ton of reasons, usually men aren't getting any because they've pissed us off and we don't feel able to talk about it
Nail. Head. "
Yep this, all this!
We know when attention is elsewhere & it doesn't make us want to drop our knickers, quite the opposite, not just the sex but mentally destroying our confidence along the way.
Mrs |
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"Find out why.
Address situation if possible.
Decide on the way forward from there she needs hrt and we are going drs together
How do you know? Does she know you're on here? One thing that closed my legs was when my partner openly perved at other women (Mr K doesn't, that's why he gets to have all this fun because I feel secure and I know I'm number one)there could be a ton of reasons, usually men aren't getting any because they've pissed us off and we don't feel able to talk about it
Nail. Head.
Yep this, all this!
We know when attention is elsewhere & it doesn't make us want to drop our knickers, quite the opposite, not just the sex but mentally destroying our confidence along the way.
Mrs "
Absolutely, it's a slippery slope |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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Surprise your wife tell going out to dinner and if she doesn't , say good take away tell her you want to support her .
Oh if you can gi to Dr's with her
Wish you all the best to you both
Xx |
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